October 15, 2024 • 41 mins
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Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed by the end of a meaningful relationship, despite your best efforts to stay grounded? Blair Stanislao opens up about her own journey through heartbreak and discomfort, revealing how she found unexpected clarity and compassion by surrendering to her feelings and seeking guidance from Spirit. Tune in as Blaire Stanislao and her friend Jeremy Doemel unpack profound insights gained during this transformative process, including how returning items from a past relationship can be an act of shared abundance and love, rather than loss.
Together, we traverse the paradoxical terrain of uncertainty and certainty, drawing wisdom from thinkers like Alan Watts and Bashar. Blair and Jeremy discuss the significant role of gratitude and acceptance in overcoming life's challenges, such as breakups. They explore how restructuring our energy and embracing our inherent wholeness can lead to profound personal growth. Through relatable anecdotes, our hosts illuminate how maintaining a “clean wound” and aligning with our true nature supports our innate ability to heal and thrive.
Lastly, we guide you through powerful self-inquiry practices with questions like, "Who do I want to be and why?" and "What do I want to say and why?" Discover the transformative power of deep, belly breathing and mindful reflection to calm your mind and body. Blair and Jeremy share how every experience, pleasant or unpleasant, serves as a catalyst for personal evolution. They emphasize the importance of intention behind our actions, whether baking a cake or creating music, and how this awareness can elevate our spiritual journey. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to embrace discomfort, transform it into growth, and navigate your daily life with intention and awareness.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hello, this is Blair Stanislao with the Happy Lion
Center.
Welcome to our podcast,Mystical and Infamous, where we
have playful and easyconversations about anything
mystical, getting to the heartof all things, strange and weird
.
Join us in a bit of magicaltomfoolery, spreading the
alchemy of love and light, andnow we invite you to enjoy the
(00:24):
show.
Okay, so you were saying thatyou um?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
did some dream.
You had some dream analysisdone recently, right?
Yes, so, uh, real, briefly,it's like I'm going through, um
the dissolvement of, of a dearfriendship and partnership in a
romantic sense and andfriendship sense and all these
things.
And yesterday I found myself,um, literally I'll just give a
little backstory of sitting indiscomfort.
Sitting in discomfort, um,something, an experience had
(00:58):
happened where it brought upfeelings of sadness, energy and
motion, emotion and emotion.
And even though yesterday Itried to intentionally do
spiritual hygiene work andgrounding and letting go and
breathing and breathing and soon, and did some, I just
couldn't find the discomfort.
It was almost as if my I waslike spirit, help me, come on,
(01:20):
like just take this from me, andspirit was saying no, no, no,
we will not with love, and justbe okay in the feeling of it, of
the unpleasantness, and in thatI found some grace.
In that experience I kind ofset an intention what I am, who
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I am now in this moment, but notwho I will always be, and that
tomorrow is a new day and that Isurrender into it and just sit
in the unpleasantness and thesadness and the feeling and the
emphasis and just let the energybe that energy.
And I went to bed last nightand then boom goes, the dynamite
spirit is working with me inthe dream state and they're
saying and I remember vividlywhat was being shown to me the
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last night and that was that aswe go through process that and
go through the experience ofreturning items and things like
that, or clothes or property,and we're doing that, we can
experience a great deal ofsuffering because we have
identified with it so much.
And what Spear was saying lastnight was it is not your former
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partner's stuff, it is all God'sstuff and it is available for
all and there's a great benefitthrough these items that are
there and create potential forall to benefit.
So Spirit was saying let'sreframe this, let's look at this
with love, let's look at thislike, not as an attachment to
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the identity of your partner,and this could be for any of us.
This could be absolutely adisillusionment or dissolvement
of a relationship or coworker,business partner or anything.
And we have this otherconnected energy between self
and other, of the of theintegral pieces that are
involved and associated withthat person, and spirits like we
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don't have to suffer that torealize that all of that is the
energy of creation and it isavailable for all of us to find
pleasure and comfort in knowingthat what we do when we return
items to others is an act ofcompassion, is an act of sharing
abundance or something that wemay not be able to see in our
lives, how it may benefit orenrich the lives of another or
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assist another, but it's biggerthan the one person, it's bigger
than the item, it's bigger.
It's so much bigger than thatand we can find grace in that.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Yeah, you know, I have to say I know I've known
you for a little bit and I stillwant to call to the attention
of the listeners because maybethey don't know you, but to be
able to sit in discomfort islike a superpower.
Most people don't do that.
Usually we'll get up, we'llmove or talk, we'll read on the
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internet or whatever we do, justto not have to experience that.
And first off, I want to saythat's amazing that you have
that ability and the awarenessand ability to talk about it,
because most people are not able.
Right, but when can you tell meanother time Because I know
you've done this a lot, you'revery good at it when have you
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experienced something similar tothat where you were
experiencing discomfort but youallowed yourself to be there?
So I guess let me ask thisquestion first, do you feel like
the energy shifted once you gotthat message, once you
understood it?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Once I understood that there was, it felt and I
acknowledged the feeling thatthis was, this was not something
I could just move throughenergetically quickly through
prayer or meditation or anyalchemy in that regard, and I
surrendered, just honestly, itfeels like it started to improve
the energy and the structuringof the energy around me in that,
(05:16):
by just acknowledging it andsaying, okay, this is where we
are right now and, yes, we haveexperienced this.
I say your brother, for youguys that don't know me, jeremy
says we a lot, because, jeremy,when jeremy talks he's not in
psychosis, just a littlebackground.
Um, it's just me listening to adifferent aspect of, of of me,
or spiritual, or my heart, or myetheric heart, or something
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bigger than me, more morebeautiful.
So, yes, we have foundourselves sitting in discomfort
many times when we go.
You know, I play in music, inmusic groups and bands, and I
just want to acknowledge we wantto acknowledge this right now
that there's always a paradox inthe suffering.
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So, on one hand, there's alwaysa goes with, as Alan Watts
would say.
So we could sit here and say Iam so scared, I'm so frustrated,
I don't know how this breakupor how this returning property
is going to be this discomfort?
I don't know, and it'suncertain.
But here's the thing in theparadox we are actually certain
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that we are choosing to sit inthe uncertainty.
Yes, so it's a paradoxicalsituation that we bring into
ourselves through fear andunderstanding, because there's
imprints and impressions.
We've had many experienceswhere, oh, your throat was tight
.
Our anxiety was was oh my god,and maybe you have a panic
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attack.
Yes, all these things, we couldhave all these things, but but,
but again there's.
So the another goes with, andthat is the gratitude that
you've had the opportunity toexperience and know something
beyond yourself people, placesand things that you had an
experience and were somethingbeyond yourself people, places
and things that you had anexperience and were afforded the
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gift of being here in physicaland to to experience this self
and other perspective through somany variations and vibrations,
whether or not that's people,places and things.
And so we have a bit ofgratitude in that it starts to
reduce and restructure ourenergy and our thoughts and our
perceptions, in that yeah, well,I just I actually, just
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yesterday, bashar was talking onmy television.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Yes and um, he said something very similar to you,
which which was you said you'recertain that this is uneasy
right Like and he said.
He said.
One of his phrases was I don'tknow what to trust.
Yes, you do.
You're trusting that.
You don't trust, you'retrusting an uncertainty.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, I saw the same thing, and here's another thing
about that Sometimes we feellike, oh my goodness, we should
say this or that.
Where did this information comefrom?
I love Prince and I just wantall the viewers and listeners to
know that it's okay, becausePrince said this.
When they asked the artistformerly known as Prince, prince
, they said you have such abeautiful body of work and he's
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like who what?
I've never worked a day in mylife.
I've come.
We are here for recreation.
We are here, this is recreation, and that, what Bashar said, is
wisdom, divine wisdom, andconcepts that come through an
individual, and so it's okay forus all to to share that which
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has been shared, or whether ornot that's generated from you as
the, as the being, or or you'veheard it from somebody.
Yes, sister, I, I heard you say.
That's exactly who we'retalking about, because and
here's the thing how theuniverse supports us, that is a
direct alignment with the lineartimeline that we are currently
experiencing.
That supports us.
And how do we discover suchwisdom and knowledge or
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experiences in our life?
By really choosing to be in ourhearts, by choosing to sit with
our discomfort in a beautifulway, in a non-resisting way, by
choosing to choose to what somestill call healing, when
realistically it's restructuring, what some still call healing,
when realistically it'srestructuring.
Because we're in the deepestsense that we can go deep in
this conversation.
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We are already healed.
We are already what humanscalled healed and restructured.
Only we're not aware the energyhasn't moved into alignment of
that.
So the more we say to ourselvesoh my gosh, I have to call this
person, I need to do thistherapy, I need to do this
holistic care, I need to havethat the more we're actually
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creating more resistance to that.
Because our divine nature is thehealthiest structure mentally,
emotionally, physically,energetically, astrally.
It is always because and how dowe know that?
So how do we know that?
So how do we know that?
Because we cut ourselves and wehave a cut on our hand and
there's a design in the cellsthat innately knows how to
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restructure, to give thehealthiest form to exist and
experience.
So all we need to do in thatregard is keep the wound clean.
And even still, if it's dirtyin the wound, it's still going
to want to try to regrow and getpussy and try to let go of what
is causing resistance.
So I like literally we've beenlooking at this the wrong way
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and saying, my goodness, I needall this healing.
I like again now, we're now.
Like bashar would say you're,you're, you're now, you're,
you're, you're on.
You're structuring your energyin a way that's going to support
that belief that I need healing.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Yeah, it's funny because I just went to the
chiropractor yesterday because Idid something and I knew I
strained a muscle.
And it's funny because I findit's like we do know that, a lot
of us know that and if youdon't know it, I hope you hear
it in this conversation but weknow that we are the ones
creating everything and we knowthat.
We know what it feels like tonot be in alignment, because
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when we're first born, we don'tknow what not being in alignment
is.
But then we get cold and westart to use our body and we put
out noise Right, or we havethat cut and we're like, oh,
there's a different sensation,something's not right, gosh.
(11:32):
So I know that you're early intothis, since the dream happened
last night, but I want to pullit back to this how do things
shift for you when you've had anexperience?
You're having an emotionalexperience, whether it be right,
I mean, it's not happeningright now.
You're okay right now, but afew hours ago wasn't so great.
So my question is how does itgo for you when you you have
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that opening and thatrealization or that realignment,
and then how do you shift intothis?
How would you describe theshift into it?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Great question.
Thank you for asking.
So if we look at life throughpotential and then there is
applied potential, so appliedpotential, let's slow that down
and break that down.
What is applied potential?
So we have potential, which isenergy that can move and form or
become formless in any way itchooses that could affect how we
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see things emotionally or feelthings emotionally, how we, our
thought process, ourperspectives, our bodies, all
sorts of ways.
It's just the potential energy.
And what applied potential isor and, and this is this is.
This is not jeremy saying this,this is like an intuitive
guidance meditation that hasbrought these concepts to your
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brother, what we call Jeremy.
And so applied potential is aconfluence.
When you spoke of polarities,we're babies, we're born into
the earth plane.
We experience polarity throughtemperature and it's one of the
same thing.
It's the same thing.
Hot and cold is the same thingwith that which is known as
temperature.
So consciously, we can chooseto create and see a reality of
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the nature of reality, how wechoose.
So this morning, when I went togo get my former partner and her
property and her clothes, I didthis with an understanding that
, hey, there's potential, that'senergy.
And then there's appliedpotential and part of my old
applied potential is suffering,lack, fear, insecurity.
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That's how, because of myexperiences through my
unconscious nature on myprevious timeline, in this now
moment where everything ishappening and currently being
experienced, I can just remain abit more aware in that
situation.
And now I'm grabbing theclothes, putting them in a bag,
kindly, not resentful, knowingthat they can serve and will
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bring so many other people joy,and it's bigger than just that
individual's property.
So now we're applying appliedpotential in the healthiest way
through the physicality and theenergy and what we're
experiencing, because we becomemore conscious, more aware and
less fearful.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
so so you are still pulling the because you
referenced it, but you're stillpulling the belief structures
that you hold.
You just mentioned I'veforgotten what they were, but
not good feeling ones.
Yeah, was it with that specificrelationship or with all
relationships?
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Well again.
So we have psychology.
Now we're talking psychology.
So if we look at childhoodtrauma, imprints and impressions
, stored memory in the mind,body, spirit, all these things
so many sisters and brothers aresaying, look, this is from an
insecurity where you didn't feelnurtured, seen, supported.
It could have been your parentsor your guardian structure, it
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could have been previousrelationships where others
walked away and you and you justsat in your suffering.
All these things and and youknow we can do, we can, we can
try to heal or or what peoplethink is healing, or restructure
, reframe, reshape those beliefsand do that.
But, thank goodness, at thesame time it seems exhausting.
(15:15):
It seems like there's a wholesystem that's built inside and
I'm not saying it's bad,everything serves a purpose,
we're not saying that.
But but in psychology andpsychiatrists and
pharmaceuticals or things toalleviate phil things beyond us,
a whole system of this thatsays that when you experience
this now, you will have arrived,when what we're saying is the
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potential to realize you'vealready arrived and are already
can have the inability innatewithin you through the breath
and what is known as spirit andrelaxing and surrendering and
just allowing the energy toadjust and the wound to what we
call a wound to heal or thatunhealthy structure to
restructure in a healthy way so,would you say, as you're going
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through.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
you're summarizing this really well, but would you
say, in the moment when somebodyis experiencing whatever
they're experiencing, whether itbe a relationship or whatever
that's causing them discomfort,how are there, what is it that
you do that allows you to pullyourself back from that
experience, to be able to bemore aware, so that you get to
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these conclusions more easily,or not get to the conclusions,
to allow yourself to experiencethe situation from more than one
perspective?
Speaker 2 (16:33):
So we have been shown a series of questions,
self-inquiries or declarationsto that one and any individual
can slow down and they come in ablock of three.
The first thing one individualcan do we can always.
We, you know.
Psychology would say just takea breath, make sure it's from
the belly and not the chest, soyou're not in survival mode.
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Just slow down and breathe.
Right, are you safe?
Am I safe right now, you know,physically, is my physical
vessel threatened right now?
You know, like maslow'shierarchy needs food, shelter,
code.
You know, but we want to godeeper.
Spirit wanted to go deeper andso spirit said this ask yourself
three beautiful questions.
Slow down, just relax andbreathe.
Number one who do I want to beand why do I want to be it?
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Oh, wow, the mind can goanywhere, the body can feel any
way.
Right, those are.
Just create some sacred spaceand just allow yourself
permission, as a witness, to askyourself those questions who do
I want to be and why do I wantto be it?
That's the first inquiry.
Now, in that context we couldsee ourselves in comparisons,
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the self and other.
Oh, I want to be rich, I wantto be beautiful, I want to be
abundant, I want to be, I wantto manifest things.
What are we talking about?
Manifestation?
Listen, we're already in thegreatest.
I hate to tell you this, butwe're already in the greatest
physical manifestation thereever could be.
You could smell, taste, touch,feel all these things.
What part of the mind wants youto experience more than it's
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already here?
So so, who do I want to be andwhy do I want to be?
At second, second nature, right, because it's like, oh, I will
arrive when I have that lover.
I will have arrived when I havemy neighbor's vehicle, or their
abundance, or their holiday pay, or what I turned in, arnold
Schwarzenegger.
But so that's the first set ofquestions.
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Who do I want to be and why doI want to be?
Next thing, okay, deeper.
Okay, what is it I want toexperience and how do I want to
experience it?
What is it I want to experienceand how do I want to?
How do I wish to experience it?
Is it I want to experience andhow do I want to?
How do I wish to experience it?
That's deeper and, moreimportantly, it starts to
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separate the identified self inasking those questions, because
I'm a being of energy that hasperceptions, multitude of
perceptions and they're all willinvigorate me or cause
suffering and all that.
So, so slow down.
Who do I want to be, what Iwant to be at, what is it I want
to experience, how do I want to, or what is it I wish to
experience and how do I wish toexperience it?
Then we go even deeper inspirits, like always going.
(19:13):
Let's go deeper Now.
What is it I want to say andwhy do I want to say it?
If you can do those inquiries,you could slow down a little bit
.
You can reframe, reshape,restructure that and realize
what is actually spirit.
Loves this word futile, futile,wonderful, spiritual word with a
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lot of beautiful energy, theexhausting and energy trap and a
drain of our essence and ourprana and our life force.
My God, they have to hear me.
I have to explain myself Again.
We're creating that sufferingwithin our energy field because
we feel the need for self andother to communicate.
When, if we let go of all thatand communicate that within us,
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you know why most people arehave chosen the bodies of bipeds
in this life cycle as humans.
Because because god said, ifyou're a fish, creator was like
you wouldn't be able to reallydo this.
So you know it's it's neverbeen about this stuff out here.
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It's about how we're seeingthat stuff.
So who do we want to be?
Why do we want to be it?
What is it I want to experience?
Why do I want to experience it?
What is it I want to say andwhy do I want to say it?
And then now realize what is ityou're thinking and why are you
thinking it, and be honestabout it, how it causes
suffering and if that, then sickwith the suffering.
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If that's okay, that's okay too.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah Well, it's just another experience.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
I mean we you know we don't like the negative things,
but it's really just adifferent experience Polarity,
same thing, it's the same thing.
Us being joyful and blissful isno different in the importance
or the value than it is to feelless, than feel not worthy.
There's no trial that we sayHumans love to break it down and
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say this really sucked, thisreally did not good.
I have created some chaos in mylife with my family, friends,
co-worker, this is not going sowell again that that that that
that's a perspective of thephysical nature of things.
We don't know how that thislife or the next is actually
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going to.
Because we need, because what'sthe number one catalyst for
evolution?
Experience.
So, in the value of theexperience, the unpleasant what
we say in humanity is unpleasant, uncomfortable actually has
just as much value.
Because the more because atfirst it becomes preferred, then
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it becomes familiar or familiar, then it becomes preferred,
then it becomes automatic themore and more you a lot.
So let's, yeah, that's abeautiful thing, right?
So the okay, this is familiar,uncomfortable feelings, emotions
, sadness, lack, uh, anxiety,that's how that's familiar.
Okay, we've been here, weinvite you in, we love you, my
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friend.
Anxiety, my, my friend,whatever that is.
And now and then it becomespreferred, but little by little
you're okay, sitting with it inthe unpleasantness and that,
then you move through it.
Then now that's what we callintegration.
So you've had this integratedexperience of moving through and
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alchemizing the unpleasantnessand converting it in to
potential, greater appliedpotential, beauty, renewance.
Okay, we understand it.
We got the life code crack, wecrack the system, we know how to
move through this and this iswonderful.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, so just share with people.
If they don't know, you justshare with them a little bit
about how you became this.
You are so adept at talkingabout this.
A lot of people struggle withthat.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
So there, so OK, so my, my background comes from.
I was born really, reallybriefly.
I was born with cerebral palsy,molested by a man when I was a
child.
Healthcare, dual diagnosis,psychologist, psychiatrist, you
name it all sorts of suffering,all sorts of identified Then I
and I was an IV drug user, deepin addiction for decades and
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prescribed incredible amounts ofopiates to on two different
types of fentanyl patches At onepoint in my life hydrocodone,
botox, cortisone injectionsalways thought I would be that
way.
Something started to shift in meOne day, during COVID is when I
started to really let go andpurge and reshape, reform,
restructure and I decided acouple of mantras would help.
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I would not allow others' fearsto become my limits.
Even though the doctor saidthat I would always need opiates
, things like that, musclerelaxers, healthcare, in order
to have any quality of life, Isaid I will not allow others to
tell me how my now looks, mytomorrow looks or the rest of my
days look, but me.
And I did that with love andeverything started to reshape,
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restructure, purge and reshapeand restructure.
And everything started toreshape, restructure, purge and
reshape and restructure.
And I knew when I went torecovery my first time I went a
couple times but that's okay toan inpatient recovery facility.
I remember having a feeling Iwas like man, what about the
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empath?
It just doesn't feel liketalking about this logically.
This is deeper than that.
So I had an epiphany.
I was like, if I'm truly tostart to restructure what humans
call heal, I had to look at itthat it was not who I was,
identify itself, but what I wasa multi-dimensional being being
human, game changer, gamechanger.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
So yeah, so because you don't have to identify with
all of that as readily.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
Yes, under understanding that we are, we
perceive, can feel, sense andknow a multitude of energy in
whatever form or formlessvariety.
That comes to Right.
So, and I love what you saidlike we should talk about that,
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blair, when you were saying weshould talk about sitting with
discomfort we don't talk about.
We could, we could benefit fromtalking about that more.
We could benefit from sayinglet's break the box down, let's
talk about multidimensionality,let's talk about how we feel,
sense and know different thingsor what energy fields are.
Let's talk about that stuffBecause why Now we're creating
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greater applied potential forhealthy change?
Speaker 1 (25:54):
yeah, I have two.
I have two other questions foryou.
I do want to touch on those andthen we can go back to the um,
what you just talked about.
Okay, I don't want to lose whatI have in my head.
So one question I have for youis I would like you to address
I'm going to write down notes,I'm going to I would like you to
address the role that music hasplayed in your life,
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specifically from an energystandpoint of, like, what shifts
in your energy.
You participate in those thingsbecause I think the experiences
that you probably have had canbe applied to somebody else's
another form maybe not music,maybe art, maybe who knows what,
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whatever, the library, bike,whatever.
So my first is because I knowyou love music and you have that
group that you do stuff with.
So tell us a little bit abouthow that came to your life and
what it's done for you.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
So the universe let's look at it through the realm of
possibility that the universereally isn't concerned with what
we do, what we create, what wegenerate.
What it does concern itselfwith is the intention behind it.
What it does concern itselfwith is what it doesn't, is not
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whether or not we are aware ofit more omniscient, more fully
aware of what we're doing andwhy we're doing it, and there's
a cause and effect.
These are universal laws, andso whatever is created let's say
it this way whatever is createdout of frustration will
continue to generate frustration.
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Whatever is created out of deepreverence will continue to
generate deep reference.
Whatever is so right we can sayit along the logic that this
absolutely makes sense jeremy'sgonna bake a cake for blair
going over to blair's house fora beautiful hot luck thing.
(27:55):
Jeremy, no, I'm gonna bake acake.
I come home, I'm here to buildthis content.
I'm throwing stuff in a pan.
I'm like and I've got to showup at the house, and now I'm
like that's it, that's all Ihave here.
You go, it looks like crap, I'mnot worthy.
And everybody in the everybodyin the vicinity is like oh, and
it's like an instanttransmutation of energy.
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And everyone's like oh no, no,no, maybe I'll have a piece
later, and but but Jeremy comeshome and he's in a beautiful,
balanced state, energetically,all my slicing of my bananas go
into the pie.
Whatever we're doing,everything is made with love.
It's so beautiful, no matterwhat, even if it doesn't look
pretty, it's still made withlove.
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And everyone's like oh, you'reso kind, you're so beautiful,
you did so, you tried, youcreated so.
Thank you so much.
And now they'll, they'll,they'll have a piece, no matter
what, even if, uh, even, nomatter what it looks like,
because it's out of love,because it was made with love
yeah and it generates love.
So to circle back around, inmusic it's the same thing if
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we're listening to.
You know, I love all styles ofmusic, but I I've chosen.
It's really helped me on mypath to restructure by choosing
what kind of artists I listen to, because whatever artist that
artist was in the state of whenthey created it, that will
transfer that energy, willcontinue to vibrate out and and
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there's a, there's a it'sbecause it was constructed and
structured through the intention, whether or not they knew it or
not.
So when we listen to aggressivemetal music I'm not trying to
pick on metal, it doesn't matter, because you can listen to
spiritual music too, and you, ifyou really listen to the
subtleties, you can go man this,they were really hurting.
And now what?
What happens when you listen tospiritual music in this man,
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I'm hurting because that's avibrational match, because it's
going to say to everything inthe suffering or the, or the
unhealthy structure within youhey, this too needs to get
processed, this too needs to getreleased.
You see what we're saying.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
So music is, it's huge in that because it's
intention and it's frequenciesand that's what was created, or
structured well, I think what Ithink, the thing about music and
other I mean you could sayvisual arts is similar.
You see, anything is similar.
Like you said, food, right, itcan be, but for music seems like
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it might be a little bitstronger, because we understand
the frequencies of music.
And it's it's funny that yousay that, because when I was
younger because I do love alldifferent kinds of music, okay,
but when I was younger andsomebody would ask me, what kind
of music do you like, theeasiest thing for me to say and
it's probably the same thing Iwould say now is I don't like
angry music.
That's it like if the lyricsare off or they're, they present
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this negative vibe or the musicsounds very angry.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
I don't like it yes, aggression, dominance, you know
and and and.
For some and let's say this inall fairness, for some they go
through a spiritual awakening,they want to be a spiritual
warrior, but but that that'skind of a phase of an awakening
spiritually.
Yeah, but we also then couldget empowered.
(31:09):
So something that may, may helpyou get through something.
Yeah, I'm breaking up with her,yeah, I'm listening to this.
I can take back my power.
Listen to god singing my heartright now.
Yeah, angel numbers.
We know what that middle fingerlooks like and all you know.
Burn it down, go ahead, enjoyyour destiny.
This music makes me feelempowered.
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That may help you to makemovement in your life.
But here's the thing thespiritual warrior can be
ignorant and attached to what wecall the fool archetype, which,
in its most ignorant state, isnot understanding what,
karmically, we're doing orcausing.
So that, what that, what thatlooks like, is that when we
empower ourselves at the expenseof another, it's not not very
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healthy for us energetically,emotionally, mentally,
physically, all sorts on allsystems.
So so, though.
So though it may, absolutely.
There's a great deal of thecollective that's listening to
music about breakups and thingslike, and that that helps them
get through that, but thatdoesn't make us more conscious,
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and that's the thing thatdoesn't make us more conscious.
And that's the thing thatdoesn't make us more conscious.
And that's the thing, and thatmight just upset some people.
What do you mean?
What are you talking about?
Well, you have to be honest andyou're choosing for yourself.
If you really want to becomemore conscious, which is to
understand the truer nature,cause and effect, purpose, part
of the design and everything,and seeing it from a beautiful,
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loving, unified view, then youwill choose to be honest with
yourself and say, yes, this,actually there may be truth to
these words that this Me Too,jeremy, is saying.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Yeah, okay.
So the next question I have foryou is just as big, but I think
you have probably some wordsthat will really help.
All of us struggleunderstanding what we oftentimes
call the mind.
Okay, and my question for youis do you have any words of
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enlightenment about how to dealwith the mind itself getting in
the way of this spiritual growth?
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Yes, Okay, yep, so we were just showing a vision of a
glass slipper.
Yes, okay, yep, so we were justshowing a vision of a glass
slipper.
I just saw, like in my heart,my mind and my, in my, I see a
glass slipper on a foot and, andyou know, glass is an insulator
.
Okay, so, as I'm workingthrough why, spirit showed me a
glass slipper, it's an insulator, right, so it kind of it stops
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the flow of energy in thatregard.
So Cinderella wore a glassslipper, beautiful, opulent, how
beautiful, how wonderful.
But yet in this story thank youspirit, right now in that story
it really didn't kind of endwell for her.
She was kind of disconnected,she, she, she Cinderella was, I
believe, right, she's the onewith the gas glass okay, so
(33:58):
cinderella imagined herself asbeing more cherry would turn
into a, the pumpkin turn it.
Prince charming would come, orwhatever that was, and and still
with the being stepsister orwhatever the heck.
The story was right.
But she's insulated.
Through the beauty or feelinglike, I will have arrived in my
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human experience, okay, where Ihope you understand, or speak,
jeremy's this is a language but,but but.
But.
In that cinderella there's soso many allegories in that.
She wanted opulence, she wanteda glass slipper.
Everything would have proved ifshe had that.
You're asking about the mind.
We acknowledge that it startswith our physical and beauty and
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grace and embodiment in thephysical, material realm.
So if cinderella would havetaken off the damn, what say
that would love the, the doggoneglass slipper never needed it
in the first place, just wentbarefoot, breathed, listened to
the birds, listened to the trees, embodied her human, physical
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experience with love.
That is the groundingconfluence of energy that starts
to adjust the systems, thatsays to the human being I'm
grateful to be here, and thatimproves our mental body.
Did you follow us on that?
Yes, it makes sense, doesn't it?
Speaker 1 (35:26):
Yes, so let me see if I can summarize and correct me
if I'm not saying it right.
Allow the mind to be what it isand experience life as it is,
even with the mind, but notattaching to it yes, and in the
body, in your grace and byembracing your human experience.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
now, we don't want to get too deep into earth, star
chakras, chakras and stuff likethat, but we don't have to
understand those things.
All we have to understand isthat for our human experience to
improve through the mental, theemotional and the energetic
states, it all happens throughthe body.
So if you're sitting therecreating resistance oh my God,
I'm not fit, I can't do a splitanymore, I can't get.
(36:09):
I tried yoga and it was like,like, whatever that is, there's
nothing to do with any of thatstuff your physical vessel will
improve.
The second that you say toacknowledge yourself I'm
grateful for my physical vessel.
I'm grateful for thephysicality, the life force, the
prana, the plants, the trees,the birds, nature, everything
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starts to improve Because now itsays that this vessel, this
spirit, this consciousness, hasthe operating system and is
signing into it, is signing intoit, is accepting and loving and
embracing it, because then ourphysical system starts to
restructure in a beautiful way.
Now we're not talking aboutbeing able to, you know, like,
(36:50):
climb a mountain or do something, or than that your health will
improve.
Physical, yeah, yeah, but sowill the mental, because that's
just.
It's like these are like Venndiagrams, that kind of blanch
off or or or concentric circles,and it all starts with our
physicality, the body, andsaying that my connection to
earth is divine and I'm grateful.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, okay, so now we can shift into the discomfort.
That's.
It was a good leeway, becauseyou're talking about being in
the body to help align orrecalibrate the mind, which then
recalibrates other things, soit's like a ripple effect when
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we're in discomfort.
What tactics maybe is the wordwould you suggest for people
listening?
Speaker 2 (37:51):
so speak to the cells of your body, we will say this,
communicate to them as if theyare intelligent, because they
are they that the elementsthemselves are the key keepers,
and what we mean by saying thatis earth, water, fire and air
that make up your physicalavatar and energetic in so many
(38:14):
other ways.
The elements are intelligent,they are the keepers of your
experience, what's known insanskrit language as
runanabandha, which means memory, and that could be pleasurable,
unpleasurable, pleasant orunpleasant, but it's memory
stored in in elements of thecells of the body.
So all imprints, impressions,not only through you.
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Runa and abunda means memory ofthe mind, the intellect,
because that's a deal-making,deflecting crazy, crazy bugger,
and then our physical bodies,right, and our spirit.
That's runa and abunda.
Now, the reason we didn't sayemotion is because that's a
byproduct of the memory.
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It just transmutes energy andmotion.
That's why we're not saying theemotional body, but when you're
so, speaking to the cells,saying I'm so grateful, thank
you so much.
Because Dr Emoto for you guysthat don't know, dr Emoto, from
the Japanese scientists whostudied consciousness of water,
has proven scientifically thatit restructures and reforms and
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beautiful geometric structureswhen spoken to love, when spoken
with grace, when encouraged orspoken to.
So the elements are the same way, so we can physically start to
feel better, restructure our DNA.
Dr Joe Dispenza does this work,talks about how the blood work
and everything, and approves andso on and so forth, by speaking
and saying so, basically likeif you're God yes, which you are
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right Part of the creator, partof Atman and Brahman, or the
soul and the collective soulthat you speak to, the cells of
your body, the blood, the tissue, the bones, the adrenal system,
nervous system, vaginal,everything, just the cells.
Your body, the blood, thetissue, the bones, the adrenal
system, nervous system, vaginal,everything, just the cells.
They don't have to be fancy.
And specifically to theelements, that you love it, that
you're so grateful for it, thatyou wish to be imbued with
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divinity and healthy structuringand to let go and dissolve all
impurities, all unhealthystructures and just breathe and
start there.
It's communicating with body,which is intelligence and the
first line that creates yourreality, your physical vessel.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
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show.
Okay, so you were saying thatyou um?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
did some dream.
You had some dream analysisdone recently, right?
Yes, so, uh, real, briefly,it's like I'm going through, um
the dissolvement of, of a dearfriendship and partnership in a
romantic sense and andfriendship sense and all these
things.
And yesterday I found myself,um, literally I'll just give a
little backstory of sitting indiscomfort.
Sitting in discomfort, um,something, an experience had
(00:58):
happened where it brought upfeelings of sadness, energy and
motion, emotion and emotion.
And even though yesterday Itried to intentionally do
spiritual hygiene work andgrounding and letting go and
breathing and breathing and soon, and did some, I just
couldn't find the discomfort.
It was almost as if my I waslike spirit, help me, come on,
(01:20):
like just take this from me, andspirit was saying no, no, no,
we will not with love, and justbe okay in the feeling of it, of
the unpleasantness, and in thatI found some grace.
In that experience I kind ofset an intention what I am, who
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I am now in this moment, but notwho I will always be, and that
tomorrow is a new day and that Isurrender into it and just sit
in the unpleasantness and thesadness and the feeling and the
emphasis and just let the energybe that energy.
And I went to bed last nightand then boom goes, the dynamite
spirit is working with me inthe dream state and they're
saying and I remember vividlywhat was being shown to me the
(02:10):
last night and that was that aswe go through process that and
go through the experience ofreturning items and things like
that, or clothes or property,and we're doing that, we can
experience a great deal ofsuffering because we have
identified with it so much.
And what Spear was saying lastnight was it is not your former
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partner's stuff, it is all God'sstuff and it is available for
all and there's a great benefitthrough these items that are
there and create potential forall to benefit.
So Spirit was saying let'sreframe this, let's look at this
with love, let's look at thislike, not as an attachment to
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the identity of your partner,and this could be for any of us.
This could be absolutely adisillusionment or dissolvement
of a relationship or coworker,business partner or anything.
And we have this otherconnected energy between self
and other, of the of theintegral pieces that are
involved and associated withthat person, and spirits like we
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don't have to suffer that torealize that all of that is the
energy of creation and it isavailable for all of us to find
pleasure and comfort in knowingthat what we do when we return
items to others is an act ofcompassion, is an act of sharing
abundance or something that wemay not be able to see in our
lives, how it may benefit orenrich the lives of another or
(03:39):
assist another, but it's biggerthan the one person, it's bigger
than the item, it's bigger.
It's so much bigger than thatand we can find grace in that.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Yeah, you know, I have to say I know I've known
you for a little bit and I stillwant to call to the attention
of the listeners because maybethey don't know you, but to be
able to sit in discomfort islike a superpower.
Most people don't do that.
Usually we'll get up, we'llmove or talk, we'll read on the
(04:14):
internet or whatever we do, justto not have to experience that.
And first off, I want to saythat's amazing that you have
that ability and the awarenessand ability to talk about it,
because most people are not able.
Right, but when can you tell meanother time Because I know
you've done this a lot, you'revery good at it when have you
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experienced something similar tothat where you were
experiencing discomfort but youallowed yourself to be there?
So I guess let me ask thisquestion first, do you feel like
the energy shifted once you gotthat message, once you
understood it?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Once I understood that there was, it felt and I
acknowledged the feeling thatthis was, this was not something
I could just move throughenergetically quickly through
prayer or meditation or anyalchemy in that regard, and I
surrendered, just honestly, itfeels like it started to improve
the energy and the structuringof the energy around me in that,
(05:16):
by just acknowledging it andsaying, okay, this is where we
are right now and, yes, we haveexperienced this.
I say your brother, for youguys that don't know me, jeremy
says we a lot, because, jeremy,when jeremy talks he's not in
psychosis, just a littlebackground.
Um, it's just me listening to adifferent aspect of, of of me,
or spiritual, or my heart, or myetheric heart, or something
(05:39):
bigger than me, more morebeautiful.
So, yes, we have foundourselves sitting in discomfort
many times when we go.
You know, I play in music, inmusic groups and bands, and I
just want to acknowledge we wantto acknowledge this right now
that there's always a paradox inthe suffering.
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So, on one hand, there's alwaysa goes with, as Alan Watts
would say.
So we could sit here and say Iam so scared, I'm so frustrated,
I don't know how this breakupor how this returning property
is going to be this discomfort?
I don't know, and it'suncertain.
But here's the thing in theparadox we are actually certain
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that we are choosing to sit inthe uncertainty.
Yes, so it's a paradoxicalsituation that we bring into
ourselves through fear andunderstanding, because there's
imprints and impressions.
We've had many experienceswhere, oh, your throat was tight
.
Our anxiety was was oh my god,and maybe you have a panic
(06:47):
attack.
Yes, all these things, we couldhave all these things, but but,
but again there's.
So the another goes with, andthat is the gratitude that
you've had the opportunity toexperience and know something
beyond yourself people, placesand things that you had an
experience and were somethingbeyond yourself people, places
and things that you had anexperience and were afforded the
(07:08):
gift of being here in physicaland to to experience this self
and other perspective through somany variations and vibrations,
whether or not that's people,places and things.
And so we have a bit ofgratitude in that it starts to
reduce and restructure ourenergy and our thoughts and our
perceptions, in that yeah, well,I just I actually, just
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yesterday, bashar was talking onmy television.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Yes and um, he said something very similar to you,
which which was you said you'recertain that this is uneasy
right Like and he said.
He said.
One of his phrases was I don'tknow what to trust.
Yes, you do.
You're trusting that.
You don't trust, you'retrusting an uncertainty.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, I saw the same thing, and here's another thing
about that Sometimes we feellike, oh my goodness, we should
say this or that.
Where did this information comefrom?
I love Prince and I just wantall the viewers and listeners to
know that it's okay, becausePrince said this.
When they asked the artistformerly known as Prince, prince
, they said you have such abeautiful body of work and he's
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like who what?
I've never worked a day in mylife.
I've come.
We are here for recreation.
We are here, this is recreation, and that, what Bashar said, is
wisdom, divine wisdom, andconcepts that come through an
individual, and so it's okay forus all to to share that which
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has been shared, or whether ornot that's generated from you as
the, as the being, or or you'veheard it from somebody.
Yes, sister, I, I heard you say.
That's exactly who we'retalking about, because and
here's the thing how theuniverse supports us, that is a
direct alignment with the lineartimeline that we are currently
experiencing.
That supports us.
And how do we discover suchwisdom and knowledge or
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experiences in our life?
By really choosing to be in ourhearts, by choosing to sit with
our discomfort in a beautifulway, in a non-resisting way, by
choosing to choose to what somestill call healing, when
realistically it's restructuring, what some still call healing,
when realistically it'srestructuring.
Because we're in the deepestsense that we can go deep in
this conversation.
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We are already healed.
We are already what humanscalled healed and restructured.
Only we're not aware the energyhasn't moved into alignment of
that.
So the more we say to ourselvesoh my gosh, I have to call this
person, I need to do thistherapy, I need to do this
holistic care, I need to havethat the more we're actually
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creating more resistance to that.
Because our divine nature is thehealthiest structure mentally,
emotionally, physically,energetically, astrally.
It is always because and how dowe know that?
So how do we know that?
So how do we know that?
Because we cut ourselves and wehave a cut on our hand and
there's a design in the cellsthat innately knows how to
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restructure, to give thehealthiest form to exist and
experience.
So all we need to do in thatregard is keep the wound clean.
And even still, if it's dirtyin the wound, it's still going
to want to try to regrow and getpussy and try to let go of what
is causing resistance.
So I like literally we've beenlooking at this the wrong way
(10:35):
and saying, my goodness, I needall this healing.
I like again now, we're now.
Like bashar would say you're,you're, you're now, you're,
you're, you're on.
You're structuring your energyin a way that's going to support
that belief that I need healing.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Yeah, it's funny because I just went to the
chiropractor yesterday because Idid something and I knew I
strained a muscle.
And it's funny because I findit's like we do know that, a lot
of us know that and if youdon't know it, I hope you hear
it in this conversation but weknow that we are the ones
creating everything and we knowthat.
We know what it feels like tonot be in alignment, because
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when we're first born, we don'tknow what not being in alignment
is.
But then we get cold and westart to use our body and we put
out noise Right, or we havethat cut and we're like, oh,
there's a different sensation,something's not right, gosh.
(11:32):
So I know that you're early intothis, since the dream happened
last night, but I want to pullit back to this how do things
shift for you when you've had anexperience?
You're having an emotionalexperience, whether it be right,
I mean, it's not happeningright now.
You're okay right now, but afew hours ago wasn't so great.
So my question is how does itgo for you when you you have
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that opening and thatrealization or that realignment,
and then how do you shift intothis?
How would you describe theshift into it?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Great question.
Thank you for asking.
So if we look at life throughpotential and then there is
applied potential, so appliedpotential, let's slow that down
and break that down.
What is applied potential?
So we have potential, which isenergy that can move and form or
become formless in any way itchooses that could affect how we
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see things emotionally or feelthings emotionally, how we, our
thought process, ourperspectives, our bodies, all
sorts of ways.
It's just the potential energy.
And what applied potential isor and, and this is this is.
This is not jeremy saying this,this is like an intuitive
guidance meditation that hasbrought these concepts to your
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brother, what we call Jeremy.
And so applied potential is aconfluence.
When you spoke of polarities,we're babies, we're born into
the earth plane.
We experience polarity throughtemperature and it's one of the
same thing.
It's the same thing.
Hot and cold is the same thingwith that which is known as
temperature.
So consciously, we can chooseto create and see a reality of
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the nature of reality, how wechoose.
So this morning, when I went togo get my former partner and her
property and her clothes, I didthis with an understanding that
, hey, there's potential, that'senergy.
And then there's appliedpotential and part of my old
applied potential is suffering,lack, fear, insecurity.
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That's how, because of myexperiences through my
unconscious nature on myprevious timeline, in this now
moment where everything ishappening and currently being
experienced, I can just remain abit more aware in that
situation.
And now I'm grabbing theclothes, putting them in a bag,
kindly, not resentful, knowingthat they can serve and will
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bring so many other people joy,and it's bigger than just that
individual's property.
So now we're applying appliedpotential in the healthiest way
through the physicality and theenergy and what we're
experiencing, because we becomemore conscious, more aware and
less fearful.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
so so you are still pulling the because you
referenced it, but you're stillpulling the belief structures
that you hold.
You just mentioned I'veforgotten what they were, but
not good feeling ones.
Yeah, was it with that specificrelationship or with all
relationships?
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Well again.
So we have psychology.
Now we're talking psychology.
So if we look at childhoodtrauma, imprints and impressions
, stored memory in the mind,body, spirit, all these things
so many sisters and brothers aresaying, look, this is from an
insecurity where you didn't feelnurtured, seen, supported.
It could have been your parentsor your guardian structure, it
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could have been previousrelationships where others
walked away and you and you justsat in your suffering.
All these things and and youknow we can do, we can, we can
try to heal or or what peoplethink is healing, or restructure
, reframe, reshape those beliefsand do that.
But, thank goodness, at thesame time it seems exhausting.
(15:15):
It seems like there's a wholesystem that's built inside and
I'm not saying it's bad,everything serves a purpose,
we're not saying that.
But but in psychology andpsychiatrists and
pharmaceuticals or things toalleviate phil things beyond us,
a whole system of this thatsays that when you experience
this now, you will have arrived,when what we're saying is the
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potential to realize you'vealready arrived and are already
can have the inability innatewithin you through the breath
and what is known as spirit andrelaxing and surrendering and
just allowing the energy toadjust and the wound to what we
call a wound to heal or thatunhealthy structure to
restructure in a healthy way so,would you say, as you're going
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through.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
you're summarizing this really well, but would you
say, in the moment when somebodyis experiencing whatever
they're experiencing, whether itbe a relationship or whatever
that's causing them discomfort,how are there, what is it that
you do that allows you to pullyourself back from that
experience, to be able to bemore aware, so that you get to
(16:23):
these conclusions more easily,or not get to the conclusions,
to allow yourself to experiencethe situation from more than one
perspective?
Speaker 2 (16:33):
So we have been shown a series of questions,
self-inquiries or declarationsto that one and any individual
can slow down and they come in ablock of three.
The first thing one individualcan do we can always.
We, you know.
Psychology would say just takea breath, make sure it's from
the belly and not the chest, soyou're not in survival mode.
(16:53):
Just slow down and breathe.
Right, are you safe?
Am I safe right now, you know,physically, is my physical
vessel threatened right now?
You know, like maslow'shierarchy needs food, shelter,
code.
You know, but we want to godeeper.
Spirit wanted to go deeper andso spirit said this ask yourself
three beautiful questions.
Slow down, just relax andbreathe.
Number one who do I want to beand why do I want to be it?
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Oh, wow, the mind can goanywhere, the body can feel any
way.
Right, those are.
Just create some sacred spaceand just allow yourself
permission, as a witness, to askyourself those questions who do
I want to be and why do I wantto be it?
That's the first inquiry.
Now, in that context we couldsee ourselves in comparisons,
(17:41):
the self and other.
Oh, I want to be rich, I wantto be beautiful, I want to be
abundant, I want to be, I wantto manifest things.
What are we talking about?
Manifestation?
Listen, we're already in thegreatest.
I hate to tell you this, butwe're already in the greatest
physical manifestation thereever could be.
You could smell, taste, touch,feel all these things.
What part of the mind wants youto experience more than it's
(18:04):
already here?
So so, who do I want to be andwhy do I want to be?
At second, second nature, right, because it's like, oh, I will
arrive when I have that lover.
I will have arrived when I havemy neighbor's vehicle, or their
abundance, or their holiday pay, or what I turned in, arnold
Schwarzenegger.
But so that's the first set ofquestions.
(18:26):
Who do I want to be and why doI want to be?
Next thing, okay, deeper.
Okay, what is it I want toexperience and how do I want to
experience it?
What is it I want to experienceand how do I want to?
How do I wish to experience it?
Is it I want to experience andhow do I want to?
How do I wish to experience it?
That's deeper and, moreimportantly, it starts to
(18:51):
separate the identified self inasking those questions, because
I'm a being of energy that hasperceptions, multitude of
perceptions and they're all willinvigorate me or cause
suffering and all that.
So, so slow down.
Who do I want to be, what Iwant to be at, what is it I want
to experience, how do I want to, or what is it I wish to
experience and how do I wish toexperience it?
Then we go even deeper inspirits, like always going.
(19:13):
Let's go deeper Now.
What is it I want to say andwhy do I want to say it?
If you can do those inquiries,you could slow down a little bit
.
You can reframe, reshape,restructure that and realize
what is actually spirit.
Loves this word futile, futile,wonderful, spiritual word with a
(19:38):
lot of beautiful energy, theexhausting and energy trap and a
drain of our essence and ourprana and our life force.
My God, they have to hear me.
I have to explain myself Again.
We're creating that sufferingwithin our energy field because
we feel the need for self andother to communicate.
When, if we let go of all thatand communicate that within us,
(20:02):
you know why most people arehave chosen the bodies of bipeds
in this life cycle as humans.
Because because god said, ifyou're a fish, creator was like
you wouldn't be able to reallydo this.
So you know it's it's neverbeen about this stuff out here.
(20:22):
It's about how we're seeingthat stuff.
So who do we want to be?
Why do we want to be it?
What is it I want to experience?
Why do I want to experience it?
What is it I want to say andwhy do I want to say it?
And then now realize what is ityou're thinking and why are you
thinking it, and be honestabout it, how it causes
suffering and if that, then sickwith the suffering.
(20:43):
If that's okay, that's okay too.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah Well, it's just another experience.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
I mean we you know we don't like the negative things,
but it's really just adifferent experience Polarity,
same thing, it's the same thing.
Us being joyful and blissful isno different in the importance
or the value than it is to feelless, than feel not worthy.
There's no trial that we sayHumans love to break it down and
(21:16):
say this really sucked, thisreally did not good.
I have created some chaos in mylife with my family, friends,
co-worker, this is not going sowell again that that that that
that's a perspective of thephysical nature of things.
We don't know how that thislife or the next is actually
(21:36):
going to.
Because we need, because what'sthe number one catalyst for
evolution?
Experience.
So, in the value of theexperience, the unpleasant what
we say in humanity is unpleasant, uncomfortable actually has
just as much value.
Because the more because atfirst it becomes preferred, then
(21:56):
it becomes familiar or familiar, then it becomes preferred,
then it becomes automatic themore and more you a lot.
So let's, yeah, that's abeautiful thing, right?
So the okay, this is familiar,uncomfortable feelings, emotions
, sadness, lack, uh, anxiety,that's how that's familiar.
Okay, we've been here, weinvite you in, we love you, my
(22:18):
friend.
Anxiety, my, my friend,whatever that is.
And now and then it becomespreferred, but little by little
you're okay, sitting with it inthe unpleasantness and that,
then you move through it.
Then now that's what we callintegration.
So you've had this integratedexperience of moving through and
(22:39):
alchemizing the unpleasantnessand converting it in to
potential, greater appliedpotential, beauty, renewance.
Okay, we understand it.
We got the life code crack, wecrack the system, we know how to
move through this and this iswonderful.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, so just share with people.
If they don't know, you justshare with them a little bit
about how you became this.
You are so adept at talkingabout this.
A lot of people struggle withthat.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
So there, so OK, so my, my background comes from.
I was born really, reallybriefly.
I was born with cerebral palsy,molested by a man when I was a
child.
Healthcare, dual diagnosis,psychologist, psychiatrist, you
name it all sorts of suffering,all sorts of identified Then I
and I was an IV drug user, deepin addiction for decades and
(23:35):
prescribed incredible amounts ofopiates to on two different
types of fentanyl patches At onepoint in my life hydrocodone,
botox, cortisone injectionsalways thought I would be that
way.
Something started to shift in meOne day, during COVID is when I
started to really let go andpurge and reshape, reform,
restructure and I decided acouple of mantras would help.
(23:58):
I would not allow others' fearsto become my limits.
Even though the doctor saidthat I would always need opiates
, things like that, musclerelaxers, healthcare, in order
to have any quality of life, Isaid I will not allow others to
tell me how my now looks, mytomorrow looks or the rest of my
days look, but me.
And I did that with love andeverything started to reshape,
(24:19):
restructure, purge and reshapeand restructure.
And everything started toreshape, restructure, purge and
reshape and restructure.
And I knew when I went torecovery my first time I went a
couple times but that's okay toan inpatient recovery facility.
I remember having a feeling Iwas like man, what about the
(24:39):
empath?
It just doesn't feel liketalking about this logically.
This is deeper than that.
So I had an epiphany.
I was like, if I'm truly tostart to restructure what humans
call heal, I had to look at itthat it was not who I was,
identify itself, but what I wasa multi-dimensional being being
human, game changer, gamechanger.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
So yeah, so because you don't have to identify with
all of that as readily.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
Yes, under understanding that we are, we
perceive, can feel, sense andknow a multitude of energy in
whatever form or formlessvariety.
That comes to Right.
So, and I love what you saidlike we should talk about that,
(25:26):
blair, when you were saying weshould talk about sitting with
discomfort we don't talk about.
We could, we could benefit fromtalking about that more.
We could benefit from sayinglet's break the box down, let's
talk about multidimensionality,let's talk about how we feel,
sense and know different thingsor what energy fields are.
Let's talk about that stuffBecause why Now we're creating
(25:48):
greater applied potential forhealthy change?
Speaker 1 (25:54):
yeah, I have two.
I have two other questions foryou.
I do want to touch on those andthen we can go back to the um,
what you just talked about.
Okay, I don't want to lose whatI have in my head.
So one question I have for youis I would like you to address
I'm going to write down notes,I'm going to I would like you to
address the role that music hasplayed in your life,
(26:14):
specifically from an energystandpoint of, like, what shifts
in your energy.
You participate in those thingsbecause I think the experiences
that you probably have had canbe applied to somebody else's
another form maybe not music,maybe art, maybe who knows what,
(26:35):
whatever, the library, bike,whatever.
So my first is because I knowyou love music and you have that
group that you do stuff with.
So tell us a little bit abouthow that came to your life and
what it's done for you.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
So the universe let's look at it through the realm of
possibility that the universereally isn't concerned with what
we do, what we create, what wegenerate.
What it does concern itselfwith is the intention behind it.
What it does concern itselfwith is what it doesn't, is not
(27:14):
whether or not we are aware ofit more omniscient, more fully
aware of what we're doing andwhy we're doing it, and there's
a cause and effect.
These are universal laws, andso whatever is created let's say
it this way whatever is createdout of frustration will
continue to generate frustration.
(27:34):
Whatever is created out of deepreverence will continue to
generate deep reference.
Whatever is so right we can sayit along the logic that this
absolutely makes sense jeremy'sgonna bake a cake for blair
going over to blair's house fora beautiful hot luck thing.
(27:55):
Jeremy, no, I'm gonna bake acake.
I come home, I'm here to buildthis content.
I'm throwing stuff in a pan.
I'm like and I've got to showup at the house, and now I'm
like that's it, that's all Ihave here.
You go, it looks like crap, I'mnot worthy.
And everybody in the everybodyin the vicinity is like oh, and
it's like an instanttransmutation of energy.
(28:17):
And everyone's like oh no, no,no, maybe I'll have a piece
later, and but but Jeremy comeshome and he's in a beautiful,
balanced state, energetically,all my slicing of my bananas go
into the pie.
Whatever we're doing,everything is made with love.
It's so beautiful, no matterwhat, even if it doesn't look
pretty, it's still made withlove.
(28:39):
And everyone's like oh, you'reso kind, you're so beautiful,
you did so, you tried, youcreated so.
Thank you so much.
And now they'll, they'll,they'll have a piece, no matter
what, even if, uh, even, nomatter what it looks like,
because it's out of love,because it was made with love
yeah and it generates love.
So to circle back around, inmusic it's the same thing if
(28:59):
we're listening to.
You know, I love all styles ofmusic, but I I've chosen.
It's really helped me on mypath to restructure by choosing
what kind of artists I listen to, because whatever artist that
artist was in the state of whenthey created it, that will
transfer that energy, willcontinue to vibrate out and and
(29:22):
there's a, there's a it'sbecause it was constructed and
structured through the intention, whether or not they knew it or
not.
So when we listen to aggressivemetal music I'm not trying to
pick on metal, it doesn't matter, because you can listen to
spiritual music too, and you, ifyou really listen to the
subtleties, you can go man this,they were really hurting.
And now what?
What happens when you listen tospiritual music in this man,
(29:44):
I'm hurting because that's avibrational match, because it's
going to say to everything inthe suffering or the, or the
unhealthy structure within youhey, this too needs to get
processed, this too needs to getreleased.
You see what we're saying.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
So music is, it's huge in that because it's
intention and it's frequenciesand that's what was created, or
structured well, I think what Ithink, the thing about music and
other I mean you could sayvisual arts is similar.
You see, anything is similar.
Like you said, food, right, itcan be, but for music seems like
(30:20):
it might be a little bitstronger, because we understand
the frequencies of music.
And it's it's funny that yousay that, because when I was
younger because I do love alldifferent kinds of music, okay,
but when I was younger andsomebody would ask me, what kind
of music do you like, theeasiest thing for me to say and
it's probably the same thing Iwould say now is I don't like
angry music.
That's it like if the lyricsare off or they're, they present
(30:44):
this negative vibe or the musicsounds very angry.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
I don't like it yes, aggression, dominance, you know
and and and.
For some and let's say this inall fairness, for some they go
through a spiritual awakening,they want to be a spiritual
warrior, but but that that'skind of a phase of an awakening
spiritually.
Yeah, but we also then couldget empowered.
(31:09):
So something that may, may helpyou get through something.
Yeah, I'm breaking up with her,yeah, I'm listening to this.
I can take back my power.
Listen to god singing my heartright now.
Yeah, angel numbers.
We know what that middle fingerlooks like and all you know.
Burn it down, go ahead, enjoyyour destiny.
This music makes me feelempowered.
(31:30):
That may help you to makemovement in your life.
But here's the thing thespiritual warrior can be
ignorant and attached to what wecall the fool archetype, which,
in its most ignorant state, isnot understanding what,
karmically, we're doing orcausing.
So that, what that, what thatlooks like, is that when we
empower ourselves at the expenseof another, it's not not very
(31:51):
healthy for us energetically,emotionally, mentally,
physically, all sorts on allsystems.
So so, though.
So though it may, absolutely.
There's a great deal of thecollective that's listening to
music about breakups and thingslike, and that that helps them
get through that, but thatdoesn't make us more conscious,
(32:13):
and that's the thing thatdoesn't make us more conscious.
And that's the thing thatdoesn't make us more conscious.
And that's the thing, and thatmight just upset some people.
What do you mean?
What are you talking about?
Well, you have to be honest andyou're choosing for yourself.
If you really want to becomemore conscious, which is to
understand the truer nature,cause and effect, purpose, part
of the design and everything,and seeing it from a beautiful,
(32:38):
loving, unified view, then youwill choose to be honest with
yourself and say, yes, this,actually there may be truth to
these words that this Me Too,jeremy, is saying.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Yeah, okay.
So the next question I have foryou is just as big, but I think
you have probably some wordsthat will really help.
All of us struggleunderstanding what we oftentimes
call the mind.
Okay, and my question for youis do you have any words of
(33:07):
enlightenment about how to dealwith the mind itself getting in
the way of this spiritual growth?
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Yes, Okay, yep, so we were just showing a vision of a
glass slipper.
Yes, okay, yep, so we were justshowing a vision of a glass
slipper.
I just saw, like in my heart,my mind and my, in my, I see a
glass slipper on a foot and, andyou know, glass is an insulator
.
Okay, so, as I'm workingthrough why, spirit showed me a
glass slipper, it's an insulator, right, so it kind of it stops
(33:37):
the flow of energy in thatregard.
So Cinderella wore a glassslipper, beautiful, opulent, how
beautiful, how wonderful.
But yet in this story thank youspirit, right now in that story
it really didn't kind of endwell for her.
She was kind of disconnected,she, she, she Cinderella was, I
believe, right, she's the onewith the gas glass okay, so
(33:58):
cinderella imagined herself asbeing more cherry would turn
into a, the pumpkin turn it.
Prince charming would come, orwhatever that was, and and still
with the being stepsister orwhatever the heck.
The story was right.
But she's insulated.
Through the beauty or feelinglike, I will have arrived in my
(34:22):
human experience, okay, where Ihope you understand, or speak,
jeremy's this is a language but,but but.
But.
In that cinderella there's soso many allegories in that.
She wanted opulence, she wanteda glass slipper.
Everything would have proved ifshe had that.
You're asking about the mind.
We acknowledge that it startswith our physical and beauty and
(34:45):
grace and embodiment in thephysical, material realm.
So if cinderella would havetaken off the damn, what say
that would love the, the doggoneglass slipper never needed it
in the first place, just wentbarefoot, breathed, listened to
the birds, listened to the trees, embodied her human, physical
(35:05):
experience with love.
That is the groundingconfluence of energy that starts
to adjust the systems, thatsays to the human being I'm
grateful to be here, and thatimproves our mental body.
Did you follow us on that?
Yes, it makes sense, doesn't it?
Speaker 1 (35:26):
Yes, so let me see if I can summarize and correct me
if I'm not saying it right.
Allow the mind to be what it isand experience life as it is,
even with the mind, but notattaching to it yes, and in the
body, in your grace and byembracing your human experience.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
now, we don't want to get too deep into earth, star
chakras, chakras and stuff likethat, but we don't have to
understand those things.
All we have to understand isthat for our human experience to
improve through the mental, theemotional and the energetic
states, it all happens throughthe body.
So if you're sitting therecreating resistance oh my God,
I'm not fit, I can't do a splitanymore, I can't get.
(36:09):
I tried yoga and it was like,like, whatever that is, there's
nothing to do with any of thatstuff your physical vessel will
improve.
The second that you say toacknowledge yourself I'm
grateful for my physical vessel.
I'm grateful for thephysicality, the life force, the
prana, the plants, the trees,the birds, nature, everything
(36:29):
starts to improve Because now itsays that this vessel, this
spirit, this consciousness, hasthe operating system and is
signing into it, is signing intoit, is accepting and loving and
embracing it, because then ourphysical system starts to
restructure in a beautiful way.
Now we're not talking aboutbeing able to, you know, like,
(36:50):
climb a mountain or do something, or than that your health will
improve.
Physical, yeah, yeah, but sowill the mental, because that's
just.
It's like these are like Venndiagrams, that kind of blanch
off or or or concentric circles,and it all starts with our
physicality, the body, andsaying that my connection to
earth is divine and I'm grateful.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, okay, so now we can shift into the discomfort.
That's.
It was a good leeway, becauseyou're talking about being in
the body to help align orrecalibrate the mind, which then
recalibrates other things, soit's like a ripple effect when
(37:34):
we're in discomfort.
What tactics maybe is the wordwould you suggest for people
listening?
Speaker 2 (37:51):
so speak to the cells of your body, we will say this,
communicate to them as if theyare intelligent, because they
are they that the elementsthemselves are the key keepers,
and what we mean by saying thatis earth, water, fire and air
that make up your physicalavatar and energetic in so many
(38:14):
other ways.
The elements are intelligent,they are the keepers of your
experience, what's known insanskrit language as
runanabandha, which means memory, and that could be pleasurable,
unpleasurable, pleasant orunpleasant, but it's memory
stored in in elements of thecells of the body.
So all imprints, impressions,not only through you.
(38:37):
Runa and abunda means memory ofthe mind, the intellect,
because that's a deal-making,deflecting crazy, crazy bugger,
and then our physical bodies,right, and our spirit.
That's runa and abunda.
Now, the reason we didn't sayemotion is because that's a
byproduct of the memory.
(38:58):
It just transmutes energy andmotion.
That's why we're not saying theemotional body, but when you're
so, speaking to the cells,saying I'm so grateful, thank
you so much.
Because Dr Emoto for you guysthat don't know, dr Emoto, from
the Japanese scientists whostudied consciousness of water,
has proven scientifically thatit restructures and reforms and
(39:22):
beautiful geometric structureswhen spoken to love, when spoken
with grace, when encouraged orspoken to.
So the elements are the same way, so we can physically start to
feel better, restructure our DNA.
Dr Joe Dispenza does this work,talks about how the blood work
and everything, and approves andso on and so forth, by speaking
and saying so, basically likeif you're God yes, which you are
(39:45):
right Part of the creator, partof Atman and Brahman, or the
soul and the collective soulthat you speak to, the cells of
your body, the blood, the tissue, the bones, the adrenal system,
nervous system, vaginal,everything, just the cells.
Your body, the blood, thetissue, the bones, the adrenal
system, nervous system, vaginal,everything, just the cells.
They don't have to be fancy.
And specifically to theelements, that you love it, that
you're so grateful for it, thatyou wish to be imbued with
(40:09):
divinity and healthy structuringand to let go and dissolve all
impurities, all unhealthystructures and just breathe and
start there.
It's communicating with body,which is intelligence and the
first line that creates yourreality, your physical vessel.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
Thanks for listening to this episode of Mystical and
Infamous Podcast with the HappyLion Center.
Send requests for topicdiscussions, questions and
comments to podcast athappylioncentercom.
That's podcast athappylioncentercom, Thank you.
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