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August 26, 2025 50 mins

In this heart-opening episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey of love with acclaimed dating coaches and authors Orna and Matthew Walters. Drawing from their powerful book Getting It Right This Time, they reveal why lasting love begins within — and how self-awareness is the key to breaking free from the unconscious patterns that sabotage our relationships.

Whether you're single and searching, healing from heartbreak, or looking to deepen your current connection, Orna and Matthew offer profound insights on dating with intention, emotional growth, and building authentic, enduring partnerships. Their compassionate, no-nonsense approach will inspire you to look inward and embrace love with clarity and purpose.

Tune in for a rich conversation filled with wisdom, practical tools, and the kind of guidance that can truly change the way you love — for good.

Takeaways:

  • Love is an inside job, meaning that the key to finding lasting love starts with how you feel about yourself and your own emotional well-being.
  • Our unique approach to dating emphasizes the importance of understanding your past experiences and how they shape your beliefs about love.
  • Communication is crucial in relationships; mastering uncomfortable conversations can help you connect deeper with your partner and navigate challenges effectively.
  • It's never too late to find love; age or past experiences shouldn't define your capacity to create meaningful relationships.
  • Many people struggle with unrealistic expectations about love, influenced by media portrayals of romance, leading to disappointment in real-life dating.
  • Transforming your inner narrative about love can lead to healthier relationships, as personal growth impacts the dynamics of how you connect with others.

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