Thinking about attending your first play party? Curious but nervous? This episode is your ultimate beginner’s guide! We’re breaking down everything you need to know before you step into the room — from how parties are vetted, to first-timer etiquette, to common mistakes that can kill your vibe.
We’re also diving into the realities of consent, the role of alcohol, and how to handle your nerves if this world is brand new to you.
Whether you’re ready to RSVP or still lurking in curiosity — this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and ready to explore with confidence.
What we cover:
✅ How play parties really work today
✅ First-timer etiquette — what to do & what NOT to do
✅ Vetting processes & red flags to watch for
✅ How to manage nerves & set boundaries
✅ Consent & alcohol — the conversations you NEED to have
✅ Mistakes beginners make & how to avoid them
Tune in — because pleasure spaces need to be studied. 🎓✨
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