In this installment of Next Steps Forward, Dr. Chris Meek sits down with former Division I hockey champion Grace Shirley, who is twice a national title winner with the Wisconsin Badgers (2021 & 2023), to explore her journey beyond the rink. Grace shares how the thrill of victory and the pressures of elite sport shaped her path, how she discovered the importance of mental-wellness through her own experience, and why she's now focused on becoming a counselor and advocate for student-athlete mental health.
They'll talk about:
the moment she realized that being "just a hockey player" wasn't enough;
the transformative role of sports psychology and seeking support early;
balancing academic, athletic, and personal identity;
and her vision for what the next chapter looks like: helping others ask for help, redefine success, and embrace the person behind the athlete.
Whether you're a student-athlete, coach, parent or anyone trying to navigate high expectations and identity beyond a role, this episode offers candid insight, practical encouragement, and a reminder that your next step is as meaningful as your first win.
About Grace Shirley: Grace Shirley is a Canadian-born former collegiate ice hockey player turned mental-health advocate and counselor. Originally from Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, she played four seasons with the Wisconsin Badgers women's ice hockey program, helping the team capture NCAA national championships in 2021 and 2023, both alongside her older sister Sophie.
During her tenure at Wisconsin, Shirley earned Academic All-Big Ten honors three times, and also received Academic All-WCHA recognition. Despite her athletic and academic success, she candidly reflects on the internal pressures she faced as a student-athlete: "There was a lot of just pressure that I was putting on myself," she said, describing the toll that self-doubt took on her well-being.
In 2023–24, Shirley transferred to Providence College as a graduate student, where she played one season for the Friars and concurrently pursued a master's degree in counseling with the goal of becoming a licensed mental-health counselor. Her experience seeking support, working with a sports psychologist at Wisconsin and finding broader value in those resources beyond the rink, sparked a commitment to helping other student-athletes navigate the intersection of performance and mental-wellness.After graduating with her master's degree, she is poised to step into a career that bridges her athletic background and her passion for mental-health advocacy, striving to be the kind of mentor she once needed.
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