This week on Next Steps Forward, host Dr. Chris Meek welcomes Bill Eddy - licensed clinical social worker, attorney, and director of innovation at the High Conflict Institute - for a compelling look at the rise of adult bullying. Drawing from his book The New World of Adult Bullies, Eddy explains how high-conflict personalities are impacting workplaces, families, and online spaces like never before.
He breaks down the key traits of adult bullies, the difference between conflict and bullying, and why traditional conflict resolution often fails with these individuals. Listeners will learn practical tools - including Eddy's BIFF Method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) - to navigate toxic interactions, set boundaries, and protect their mental well-being. Whether you're dealing with a difficult coworker or curious about hidden patterns of manipulation, this episode offers empowering insight to help you take your next steps forward.
About Bill Eddy: William Eddy is a licensed social worker, attorney, and the director of innovation at the High Conflict Institute in San Diego, California. He earned his bachelor's degree in psychology from Case Western Reserve University, his Master of Social Work from San Diego State University and his juris doctorate from the University of San Diego School of Law. He has extensive expertise with conflict resolution and high-conflict personalities and his professional experience includes roles at Pepperdine University School of Law, National Judicial College, and various counseling and psychiatric institutions. Bill Eddy is also a prolific writer. His numerous books include Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life, The New World of Adult Bullies, It's All Your Fault, and Don't Alienate the Kids: Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High-Conflict Divorce. He is also the co-author of a four-book BIFF series "It's All Your Fault at Work: Managing Narcissists and Other High-Conflict People" and "Dating Radar: Why Your Brain Says Yes to 'The One' Who Will Make Your Life Hell."
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