In this episode, the hosts are joined by Brenda Stevens for an in-depth discussion on narcissism, its various types, and how it manifests in relationships and society. Building on a previous conversation, the group explores the nuances of narcissistic personality disorder, the spectrum of narcissistic traits, and their impact on individuals and communities.
Key Topics Discussed:
- Pop culture references (Friends, Seinfeld) as an entry point.
- Recap of previous discussion on narcissism in family dynamics.
- Types of narcissists: covert (introverted), overt, malignant, cerebral, somatic.
- Deep dive into covert narcissists and their manipulative tactics.
- Nature vs. nurture: Is narcissism inherited or learned?
- Narcissism and criminal behavior, including the “dark triad.”
- Narcissism in society and politics, with references to public figures.
- The role of enablers (“flying monkeys”) in supporting narcissists.
- Why certain professions attract narcissistic personalities.
- Spiritual and cerebral narcissism.
- Practical advice for recognizing narcissistic behaviors.
- The importance of empathy and boundaries.
- Healing and self-care after narcissistic abuse.
Resources & Links:
- Brenda’s podcast: “Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist Ex and Me”
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