114: Raising Kids with Fearless Sexuality | Teaching Sexual Wholeness Without Shame in a Porn-Filled World (with Taylor Chambers)

As a parent, one of the hardest questions you’ll ever face is this: How do I teach my kids about sex in a porn-filled world—without using fear, shame, or silence?

In this episode, I sit down with Taylor Chambers, a licensed marriage and family therapist and the founder of The Good and The Free, to talk about what it really means to raise porn-resilient kids and model fearless sexuality—not just for them, but for ourselves as men.

We explore what it looks like to move beyond fear-based parenting and into sexual wholeness, integrity, and self-leadership. Taylor shares his deeply human story of moving from religious shame and willpower-based recovery into an approach grounded in acceptance, integration, and emotional honesty—the same work that helped him build his Porn Resilient Summit and framework for helping families heal from shame and secrecy around sexuality.

In this episode, we dive deep into:

• How fear and shame around sexuality create disconnection and secrecy
• Why porn addiction recovery starts with your own sexual integration
• The psychology of how kids internalize sexual shame—and what to do instead
• The neuroscience of fear, desire, and emotional regulation
• How to talk with your kids about sex and pornography in ways that build trust, confidence, and self-respect
• The true meaning of integrity and why it’s impossible to be “whole” while rejecting parts of yourself
• How to raise kids who are resilient, not just “protected,” in a digital world
• Why fearless sexuality doesn’t mean indulgence—it means freedom from control, repression, and fear

You’ll learn how to reframe sexuality as a relationship rather than a problem to eliminate, and why healing your own sexual shame directly impacts your children’s freedom and confidence.

We talk about the inner work every man must do to align his psychology, spirituality, and masculinity—so you can live with the kind of integrity your kids can actually feel.

If you’ve ever felt torn between wanting to protect your kids and wanting to raise them to be strong, wise, and connected—you need this conversation.

Featuring: Taylor Chambers, LMFT — The Good and The Free

Taylor is a leading voice in porn addiction recovery, healthy sexuality, and shame-free living. He’s a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, creator of the Porn Resilient Model, and founder of The Good and The Free, where he teaches men, parents, and couples how to build sexual wholeness rooted in honesty, integrity, and freedom.

Follow Taylor at wearethegoodandthefree.com
or on Instagram @thegoodandthefree

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