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May 15, 2025 9 mins

Have you ever felt like you're pouring everything into your business but getting nothing in return? Today's story will resonate deeply with anyone who's experienced entrepreneurial burnout.

Meet Nina, a 34-year-old candle maker who started Wicken Flame with just $500 and a dream. Her initial success quickly gave way to the harsh realities of business ownership—shelves full of product, an empty bank account, and that devastating moment when she whispered to herself: "I think I'm done." The lost receipt she holds becomes more than just proof of a wasted purchase; it's the physical manifestation of her burnout and doubt.

What makes Nina's story powerful isn't just her struggle but her path to renewal. Through an unexpected conversation with her elderly neighbor June, she discovers she doesn't need permission to restart—she just needs a plan. We break down exactly how Nina turned things around: analyzing her finances without judgment, pausing activities that weren't converting, using authentic storytelling to rebuild customer connections, and implementing systems that prevented future chaos.

The statistics are sobering—43% of small business owners question whether they'll survive another year. Yet Nina's journey reminds us that survival doesn't require viral success or overnight millions. Her victory came in paying off debt, building a waitlist of customers who valued her work, and finding joy in her craft again. That lost receipt? It now hangs framed in her studio, a reminder that every setback contains wisdom if we're willing to see it.

What's your lost receipt moment? What almost made you quit? Share this episode with a fellow entrepreneur who might need their own mug of metaphorical tea today. Remember, it's okay to feel lost in business—it's just not okay to stay there.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello, hello world.
Welcome back to Not Just CandleTalk, where passion meets
profit and the hustle gets real.
I'm your host, and today'sepisode is unlike any other.
We're going to take you on ajourney, a story one that
mirrors so many entrepreneurialpaths, twists with hope, hunted

(00:25):
by doubt and wrapped in thequestion we've all asked
ourselves Is this really worthit?
This is the Lost Receipt.
Let's get into it.
Nina was 34, owner of WiccanFlame, a boutique candle
business tucked in the corner ofa Brooklyn co-op.

(00:47):
She started with a $500 taxrefund a dream and 12 YouTube
videos on how to pour soy waxwithout cracking the jar.
Her first launch, a hit, soldout in two days.
She cried in the kitchenpackaging orders with shipping

(01:09):
tape stuck to her elbow.
But now it's year three andshe's holding a faded receipt.
Once she can't rememberprinting a reminder of money
spent but no product, no return,a metaphor for the burnout that

(01:30):
was creeping in.
You ever felt like this Pouringmoney, time and faith into
something that no longer poursback?
This is where our fiction meetsyour fact.
Let's pause here, becauseNina's not alone.
According to a 2024 report byForbes, 43 percent of small

(01:54):
business owners say they've.
They're not sure if they're, ifthey will survive another 12
months.
Another 12 months.
Cash flow issues, marketingfatigue, poor systems and
personal burnout are the biggestcorporates.
Like Nina, you might be buyingtools you never use, launching

(02:18):
sales you can't fulfill, orhiring help before your systems
are ready, or hiring help beforeyour systems are ready.
It feels like progress, butit's chaos in disguise.
Nina sat at her studio floor,receipts spread like tarot cards
.
She whispered I think I'm done,not out loud, but in that voice

(02:46):
we only use in silence.
Her shelves were full, but herbank account was not.
She had 200 candles and noaudience.
No sales plan, no automation,just good vibes and burnout.
Then there came a knock at thedoor.
Her neighbor, her neighbor June, an 82-year-old herbalist, held

(03:10):
a steaming cup.
I made this for you.
You look like you're fightingghosts.
Nina smiled How'd you know?
June replied because I've lostmy receipts too.
Child, the world owes usnothing but peace.
That's always yours to takeback.

(03:31):
And just like that, nina didn'tquit, not because things got
easier, but because she realizedshe didn't need permission to
restart.
She just needed a plan.
So let's talk about that moment,the restart.
Here's what to do.
If your business feels likeNina.

(03:52):
Put your bank accountstatements.
Pull your bank accountstatements.
Identify where the leaks are.
Don't cry over wasted money.
Learn from it.
Number two pause anything thatisn't converting Things like

(04:17):
courses, ads, subscriptions.
Get lean and focus.
Number three Use storytelling.
Share your real story.
People connect with honesty.
You're not just selling aproduct, you're building trust.
Number four what do you domonthly, weekly and daily?

(04:42):
Automate where you canSystemize, where you can
Systemize where you can.
Six months later, nina's shopreopened Same candles, new
energy.
Every box includes ahandwritten note Thank you for
choosing peace too.

(05:02):
She didn't go viral.
She didn't become a millionaireovernight, but she paid off her
debt, she built a wait list andshe smiled more.
And that lost receipt is framedin her studio right now, a
reminder.

(05:23):
Every loss has a lesson.
Every receipt has a reason.
So what's your lost receipt?
What moment almost made youquit?
Let today be your June.
Let this story be your mug oftea.
Let not just candle talk.
Remind you it's okay to feellost.

(05:44):
It's not okay to stay there.
So if this story hits home,share it with a fellow
entrepreneur.
Ok, I just wanted to tell thisquick story because it's
important.
Like like episodes I've donebefore, of course, I always say

(06:10):
it's OK to to restart, it's OKto refocus, ok, it's OK to do
all those things that you needto do to keep yourself grounded
in your journey.
It's okay to do those things.
No one says you can't and youdon't need permission from

(06:31):
anyone for you to do the thingsthat you need to do for
self-improvement, business-wise,that you need to do for
self-improvement business-wise,because we all get lost in this

(06:51):
journey just a little bit.
It's always good to refocus andfind out what works, what
doesn't work, and because it'salways a learning journey, never
forget that You're not going tobe at peak at all times and
that's okay, but the thing isyou have to keep going.

(07:15):
I just wanted to tell this storybecause everybody has that lost
receipt and it's always good togo back and and try to reflect
on it, and sometimes you justneed that person, that one
person, to come into your lifeand uh and and a different

(07:38):
version or an eye-poppingversion of yourself.
So I just wanted to hit on thisstory and, like I said, if this
resonates with you as abusiness owner, please share it
with someone else, it withsomeone else and, as always,

(08:08):
until next time, keep the flamelit even when the wax runs low.
Thank you so much for listening.
See you next time.
Bye.
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