April 17, 2024 • 31 mins
Part 1: The next move is up to you. Let's begin this three part series. This is easier said than done most times. Why? If you are not doing anything the "next" will never be. Our lives depend on us. Make a solid decision and stand on it. Never doubt it. Believe in it. We have to be of value to our own self first. Then spread that love and value amongst people. The one thing that's still needed in the broken world is love. So now. What's your next move?
Part 2: Who has your back? Who is your support? Does it matter to you? Let us know below in the comments.
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Yo Q what up?
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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?
Welcome
to not
just music
where we keep it real
and honest
and honest always
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Again
your
your mental
is you're going to treat yourself
and how you should treat yourself
but you gotta remember how you
treat yourself is it
the case of
that you're going into it with the right mentality
or you're not going into it with the right mentality
like me like I give you an example
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I go
I go make sense of things
that I do so let me just let's
go for example right so
I'm putting in
work okay
you putting in work to go
either relax
have fun
or you're putting in work to
fuel a business or
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you're putting in
to eat or you're putting in
to take care of home there's
different levels of what you're doing with
what if you're trying to do all of those
I'm a single man
that's another thing
but see this is another thing see
I'm going to be honest with you
business and I want a family too
I'm business and I want you know
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what I'm saying you're in a bigger position
though than you give yourself
so for example
for example
you buy yourself
in a sense
you have kids but I'm going to tell you
being having a spouse
don't mean you save money
I don't know
it ain't even
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it ain't even about
it ain't even about save
no this is crucial what I'm about to say though
when it comes to a spouse bro
it ain't even about saving money
it's about having that mental
stability that
genuine care that support from
a person to me
it's about money but it's not
that's not the first thing in my mind
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I'm going to be honest with you
I'm going to be honest I'm just giving you
this is what I'm saying you been married before
I've been in a relationship
have you been married before
so you can't speak on something you don't know yet
but listen
I'm telling you what I would look
in just even in a relationship
what I want from a woman
I get your idea and your mentality
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of it but what your
ideal situation
is is going to be altered
in a lot of ways
why you say that? just because
you don't know who you're going to be with
you can't
go into a relationship with an ideal
but if you never even had
but look if you never even
had the slightest thing in support
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and a woman gives you just that
you're going to feel like
that's the world like oh my god
I've never had a woman support me like
this wow
money is not even going to be on my mind
at that point because
a woman might not
even bought me food in my life or whatever
except my momma and she does it
this is what kind of man I am and that's going to
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touch me that's going to I'm going to really be
like oh my god and I've been around
women that done things
that no woman has ever done and
they're like wow I just did that
they shot like you taking
this to heart I'm like damn like it's big
you know what I'm saying like I ain't
never had the slightest little things
man you know what I'm saying to somebody say
thank you for doing that for me
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let me ask you a question
do you feel
do you feel
you feel the reward of it right
right you just say it
let me give you a big example
of this right
most cases
is
for me
and we speaking of support right
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just as I say speaking of support nothing
nothing to value right
support is only
a thing of
confidence
right for you
meaning it gives you a sense
of secureness right
to me
but she still
but she still can hold it down if I
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fall though like she's gonna be there as a
support
instead of like I told
you I had people looking at me like
what are you gonna do what are you gonna do
what are you gonna do Q I hope
this work I hope this work instead of
we got this we in
this you know what I'm saying you fall
I'm here for you you know what I'm saying
you got this like who
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gonna be my cheerleader I don't I ain't have no cheerleader
I ain't never had no
cheerleader that's what I'm saying like
the little is staying bro
and I think I don't feel the reason why I'm
saying the the part of support
the older I get I'm not
looking for it
let me say that but you had it though right
it's not the case I had it
it's not let me let me
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let me give you this you talking from
a mindset of a man that's been married
and been with a woman over a decade
you know what I'm saying but you're still
speaking but I'm telling you what you're doing
you're trying to tell me
is it I don't know the case of it
this ain't an argument bro
I'm not arguing bro I'm not arguing
I'm just speaking what I know
I'm just speaking what I know I listen to what you're saying
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I just want to get one point across
to you the way that
you feel about a woman
and what you expect from
a woman you're not supposed to
go into a relationship looking
or expecting anything
the reason being if you're
coming in looking and expecting
you're going to get totally the opposite of what
you're looking for so let's
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be honest right you gotta
and this is you go you go to the
old Q Q was just going out smashing
chicks down left and right right
true story I ain't thinking nothing
about friendships I ain't thinking about nothing about
being serious I ain't thinking about nothing but
you're building a rapport with your own
self I'm what hold on hold on
I'm what you're building a
rapport to your own
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hit me out
hit me out so you're going to
look at women a certain
way so like how you
say you see a chick
dressed a certain way that
mentality is okay well
she might be easy to get to
or easy accessible just because
the way she dressed right like you
said chicks posting pics on
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Instagram and you know they got
their butt out or whatever
and sometimes in real life none of these
chicks even dress like that listen I
study women I got a degree in women
studying now you see why I'm going let me finish
let me finish go ahead
cause I know cause look they be on
most of them that I smashed was on
the same game that I was on hence
they just wanted to smash hence
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the reason why I say
let me give you an example like this right
say if you went into
a relationship you
didn't have two kids yeah
it was just you yeah
you didn't have to worry about
paying out for kids it was just
like I say it's just you right
yeah so this is the thing
that there's going to be a thing
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going on and I got an understandable baby
mama by the way which is okay
that's a beautiful thing yeah yeah I don't have to
deal with that you know in the beginning it was
wild but now it's at a
great place so let me say this there's
one supporter I don't care
if she don't support business
she's not a supporter in that but it's the case
she support yeah don't give me
no headache
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but that
just hit me out
hit me out see
God don't give us blessings
the way we feel they should come
honestly you think I'm sleeping on my blessings
I'm not sleeping on your blessings
you're not sleeping on your blessings
you're sleeping on yourself
I'm still going to come down and back to this
I was going to eventually get back to it
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but let me cut the chase a little bit
the way you think is
totally fine
you're in endangerment
mentality is like okay I'm
not going to make this bad decision
because of this I'm not going to make
this bad decision because of that I'm not going to make
this bad decision because of this right?
so let me give you an example
like I
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told you I hadn't been on a trip
me and my lady had not
been on a trip in two years
considerably it
was really just because
it was time to buckle down
it was time to work it was time to get the money
up it was time to get all that stuff going
it was time to do stuff like that right?
that's what I
have support in
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and what?
hear what I just said
she didn't ask to go on vacation?
it ain't no ask to go on vacation
it ain't bring up nothing about vacation
it was about let's get this money up
support is support let's work
and now you get where I'm going with this
see the thing is the part where
your business comes in
is where is your business that's why it's called
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your business it's a business it's an independent
business it's owned by Q
Q is the only one who can touch it make it move
make it cry make it
growl make it fool he is the
only one the person that's
behind you they're just behind you
for whatever they can help you with though
they can help you with but don't look for
them to be like oh
here's some extra money for your business
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to go do it don't look at it like that
I'm looking at it the wrong way
I got you now
I'm going to be honest your baby mama
that's a blessing
but nah but
it might be ugly moments
it may be crazy moments
but in a sensible manner
that you can still come around
and they know
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that's Q's son that's Q's daughter
you know that
it's nothing to the case of
you showed up to the basketball games
you're a dad it ain't like a situation
where there's this situation where can't nobody
ever come around I know some dudes like
literally bro no but I was threatened though
like you know her sisters was threatening me
at the basketball game and that's again everybody ain't going to feel the same
yeah but she didn't
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have a problem with it me being there
my baby mama but the sister had
a problem with me you know what I'm saying
the whole family still got
issues you know some family members got
issues with me you know what I'm saying
you know and this goes
into the support you know what I'm saying
and like I asked her
and this another
thing too I was like you know I got a movie
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out you going to support it
and she was like
and you tell me if this is wrong she
was like I
don't want to watch something that I'm involved with
because it's going to make me go back in that time
I respect you telling your story
I don't have a problem with you putting your story
out but I just can't watch
it because it's going to take me back
now am I selfish and this is a question
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for you am I selfish for being like
wow so you ain't going to support my movie
or should I understand her point of
view like she gave me to go
like okay it's cool
you put the movie out
so in a sense she's supporting
that supporting the move for me putting it
out but she's not supporting it
by purchasing or watching it
because she's in it
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it's sound
you know what I'm saying yeah
yeah and this goes into
what we talking about support she has
a very
hmm
and it's not
bad it's not bad
I'm going to tell you why
nobody wants to look bad
let's start there she don't
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want to look bad on
the account to what you say
if she feels she wants it to be
let me look at it let me make
sense of it did I do that
yeah if it take me back to that moment
and that time and it
but to me in a sense
if she gave you a green
light that was support
because you think about it bro
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that whole movie was
a sense of you really putting
your heart out
there right and this is
this is another situation
to think about this right
knowing that you have a movie now
this is how you should move
and this is giving you a small insight
I just got this in my head like this
the way you move
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with this situation now is
you have a movie under your belt
you need to find and brand
an LLC to whatever you going
to brand it to
what you need to do now is
you need to find people
who are
grantable
situations where they can be like
oh we have
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a $5000 budget we
can give you to shoot your
next movie
but they won't believe it
until again
come up and get you a company
if it's hold on make it go ahead and make
that an LLC I got a script too
and the script is crazy so the thing
is what you go for you don't need a script
what you go for now is you tell them
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that you're a production company
movie production company
you're into creating
movies basically your movie production company
your movie
production company you did
your first movie such and such
hold on, hold on
so basically you're explaining
what the movie was, who it was
under, how you did it the first
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time and you're looking to
shoot a second movie
you understand the situation
of that it takes money, it takes time
but I want it to be better than the first
you want to improve
and not only
just by improving it will be a big
help for to receive these
grants from who this person is
so I can promote it, promotion
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to whatever you need it for
the biggest thing is though
to make sure that you have
an LLC and the
reason why I was telling you the reason why I got
LLC's for Not Just Music
Podcast is because the case of
moving forward I want to be able to do
things
what we're doing now is the setup
this is the build
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this is the building, this is what we're
doing, this all of this, this is the building
it was going to take this
in a sense but it
wasn't going to just take just this, it was going to take
the mentality too so even
if we only had one camera, if we were just working with one
phone, we sitting in front of one phone and we
recording, we putting these podcasts
together at the end of the day
so you're saying the LLC's don't come in on this part
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it comes in on the business part
business, if you're
going to consider yourself to say this is
this is a business
this is something, the reason why I'm telling
you this is because if you get
cut on your name
you're going to get
everything that you have taken
from you
Quincy Murdoch is going to get
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every dollar
every account stripped
if you come up
on the wrong side of something, business wise
so is that why they suing
Diddy and Not Bad Boy?
do they sue, how do they sue
when a civil suit happens
against a person, they can
just sue a person instead of a brand
see
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the thing is, Diddy was operating
things outside of his brand
so anything he was doing, but what if it was within
the business and he could sue them
if it's receivable, paperwork
worthy, yeah he's good
he did a lot of what you call
those, the
what's the forms you signed
1099 forms
you promised not to say
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anything or have any discussion
so
let's say it like this
this is simplified
anything that you do under
an LLC is under the
LLC, anything you do
not under the LLC
is not under the LLC
so if Diddy just telling
people, look come through to the house
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come kick it with me, just come kick it
with me, and it didn't come with a contract
sign this
to say this, like how Drake
said he put together a sex contract
because in case of somebody has sex with him they gotta sign
this contract before that
but what if it was a promise for a
movie or a Grammy or something
and you had to do this
to get the
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free beat
like if the wine
okay, I'm not
but like if you was like
you were working with a female
and you was like no you gotta do this sexual
favor for me to get this beat, I give it to you
for free
does that go under the business?
that goes under the situation
of you made it personal
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so anything, cause see I'm gonna tell you why
you can do stuff
that be like okay you gonna do this for my
business but you gotta remember
what you say to a person
is always gonna mess you up
no this is always something somebody
said to a person, well
he said he made a sexual
a sexual advance at me
while he was walking down the hall
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yeah you at work but again
certain things you can't, certain lines
you can't cross to consider
yourself that this is a business
like an LLC license like I said
it literally is not a thing of saying that it's
protecting your soul cause you still
can get every dollar took from you with
having an LLC
that's why I'm talking to you
about it to see what's within the limits
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of the LLC
it makes you liable, it's a liability
license so how about
about the movie
okay if I got an LLC
for the movie right
but I
made somebody feel comfortable with character
in the movie, they can sue me
instead of the LLC
like the company right
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basically like so this is what you do
take a
take the route of contracting
but I ain't worrying about that though
that's why I told you
take the route of contracting, if you contract stuff
contracts put
people in a position where they
have to
look, you gotta do this, you have to do this
you have to do this and you have to do this
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all of this is under that LLC
yes, as long as you have a logo
saying that this under
this is under the laws of
this is under the like it will be for Not Just Music
this is under the laws of Not Just Music Podcast
LLC
and we like I send that form out to people
before they come on the show
it makes it
liable in a sense of via
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the contracted situation for
Not Just Music Podcast
so if it comes back, it goes back to Not Just Music Podcast
it don't come back on me
because the case of is for the business rights
what the rights of the business are
that's what you gotta go by the laws of that business
if you ain't going by the laws of that business and whatever that
contract meant, it ain't got nothing to do with it
so once you start saying
that's a lot of info man, that's deep
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you know what I'm saying, cause bro
you can classify, you can try to classify
under something and it's not even under that
that's why I was like
that's why I think a lot of people get jammed up too man
cause they don't know
all the time
I'm gonna tell you another situation where people can mess
themselves up with that too, like you just said
word of mouth
that screw people up, I'm gonna tell you why
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I'm gonna say why word of mouth hurts
text messages, receipts
word of mouth is like one of the worst
she say he say
if it ain't promotion
word of mouth, outside of
promotional word of mouth
that's a bunch of
you can get yourself in some mess, Diddy's in some mess
just let's say that
Trump is in some mess
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run in your mouth, you can't put it on
your mouth, and once it
comes out your mouth, that's your problem
cause people can really sue you
for stuff that comes out your mouth
that's it
if Diddy had that bad
situation bro, and the crazy
part is, it ain't just one person
everybody that has
probably touched Diddy's
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listen though, all this came out
all this stuff
all these allegations really started hitting
the room when he
settled that lawsuit so quickly with Cassie
cause people bought him money
which people, which
you know what I'm saying, which shows me that
like maybe a lot of people see a payday
they do, even if it wasn't
like I said, it might have been
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and I ain't trying to down
no victim I'm sorry, but a person might
have loved it in that moment
like I've had cases where
I've had relationships with
girls where
see I'ma put my stuff, I don't need them coming after me like
Diddy, but
we both knew
all of us knew what it was
everything that we did
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like
you know, like
yo, you good, you need it
I'm good, you know, we both good
we understand, but the problem
comes is when you years down the line
try to play a victim
like aw, he made me
do this, I didn't want to do it
but nah, you knew you was
getting something from this, I was getting something from this
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you know what I'm saying, like and that's
what, it's crazy man
that's why, like you say them contracts man
again, if you dealing with people
and that's why I say like the past
will haunt you if you
did something that you wasn't
supposed to do with somebody
it will come back on you man
like, I mean you gotta look at what Diddy was doing
this man has literally been giving things away
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gave everybody all they masters
gave everybody this, it's like he was
making safe room for
just in case something go down
I already gave it, look, y'all got y'all masters
ain't got nothing to do with that no more
y'all got y'all masters, y'all can go live y'all life
y'all got y'all music, you can go live your life
look, Cassidy, this money
I already know what we
what I did with you, yeah, money hushed you up
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so I'm gonna give you all this money
and then like you said, everybody saw this golden opportunity
to act
and that's what the solace is
really just act on
the situation of, but she was of age
right, she was of age, this whole situation
and like, okay
shouldn't it be a standard on that though
like, do you feel that way?
I mean, cause she wasn't
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entitled, I don't care like
bro, that's
like me working with you right
and you saying I gotta do this
and do that, we have that
choice, I'm not gonna be like bro I ain't
doing, I'm gonna say I'm not doing it
I'm not sticking around, I thought
it's just a mindset
that I thought people would have
if you don't feel comfortable doing something
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you're not gonna do it, like Lil Rod
his whole, like that situation
like why you didn't just leave the room
bro?
you know what I'm saying, like why you didn't
just leave the room, like
if I know right from wrong, like why
don't these other people know
and like, and you're participating
in this, she said he had her
looking for the guys with the big
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you know, this and that, so you're
participating in this
you knowing what's going on
and you're doing it over and over and over
so you obviously didn't have that much
fear or regret in you
to keep doing it over and over and over
a lot of them people
Diddy ain't even like, from what I heard, ain't even
a violent person man
Diddy ain't no, if Diddy was a
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violent person, if Diddy was a violent
person, we would have been known Diddy was a violent
person by now, I mean
I think it's really just the case of
Diddy had a lot of wants and fantasies
and things of that nature and it's a certain
lifestyle that he could live
and some people felt like they could probably
capitalize on it and they didn't
but at the same time, look at
what caused all of this
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but now you wanna cry rape, you wanna cry
abuse and this and that
you wanna cry
rape, you wanna cry abuse
you know what I'm saying
that's where the issue comes in
but again
man, some of these people
don't have the opportunities and
the star struckness
that they're looking for in life
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so they just try to make what Diddy got
going on, oh we can just mess up
what he got, it's easy to mess up
Diddy, Diddy ain't
he got plenty of money to play with
he got plenty of money to throw away but again
and going into support
where are all these people that was partying with Diddy
why they ain't speaking up
why ain't none of these people saying nothing about
Diddy, how good of a man
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he was and what he did good
that's what I'm trying to understand
why can't
people talk about Diddy
and that's one thing
and I know we've been talking about Black
and we gonna keep it real
we love to see
one of ours
we jump on them when they're down
we jump on a Black person
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we jump on them when they're down
that's what our race do
kick em hard too
yeah and look I don't see
nobody going harder on Diddy
than the Black community
I don't see no White people really
out here going hard on Diddy like
Black people are
we tearing them up
but these were the main ones in Poppin Bottles Ayy
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in Miami you know what I'm saying
Miami done left, went back to the
baby daddy
that's what we Black folks do
you know what I'm saying
where the support at though
and that's the part where I told you
look at how fast all his support
went out of the door
look at all these people that had deals with him
jumping ship
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he ain't dealing with Diddy no more
he ain't putting no money in his pocket
he got no money going on man
that's another thing too
they think you got it going on
but what you going through
they don't know the sacrifices you made for it
but then that'll stop them
from supporting you too by the looks of it
Diddy's a billionaire
then you read stuff like
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he owns a hundred million on the mansion
everybody dealing with something bruh
that shouldn't stop you from
supporting because somebody had
support
support man
this is the thing I was saying too
like you just said
this goes back to that
the first part we were basically talking about
you know
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support, you have to get out here
and hit every spot
until you find a spot
that is willing to
accept you, that's the biggest thing
that's basically
my biggest thing
you have to go where you feel that love
you went all the way to Lagos
a lot of people don't get to go to Lagos
a lot of people don't get to go
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to these
I mean just pick a country
Australia, people don't get to go to Hawaii
people don't get to go to
Jamaica
like you went around
these are no little
small things, these are big things
these things don't have
a lot of people don't do this
that's an opportunity
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for one
you think about it, again
you go to Lagos
a lot of people don't get to go there
one, two
there's a land of opportunity there
so you ain't just get to go there
you got to go there and do multiple things
shot a video, music video
yeah I could do that here in America
but I had the opportunity
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to do it in a different country
so it's a different
but the support though here
going back to support
they'll look at that and they'll get jealous of it
instead of embracing it
like our people are just
all he did there
he think he better, too many people
instead of supporting it, too many people
you know what I told you, the whole situation
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even when we first met
the whole situation of me and what I had
in Africa with them people, boy it was very big
and it's still probably very big
I got to the point where
the giving
was becoming more substantial
and being such a giving person
was starting to run its course
so again
that's basically what I'm saying to you still though
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the love, where the love is
that's where you pour
the most of yourself into
where the love is, if the love is there
you pour yourself into that
don't pour yourself into the cups that's already full
we're in a situation now
in America, we're full, there's too many people here
there's too many people, there's too many people to like
bro, they hit me up, what's out
be jumping just from people that I
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met then
and still think about you
and you all the way across the world
and I can't even get a call from a person I went to school with
my whole life and he lived right down the street
from me
and somebody from all the way across the world
is thinking about little old Quincy Murdock
thinking about me, like I said
like I started out by saying it's the small things for me
that mean so much to me
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you know what I'm saying, some people
will never get it, some people will never get that support
though
the smallest support
goes a long way, again like I said
and then again, like I said, being in the right
place, that's definitely
going to be a
motivational thing, I'm not like
the biggest motivational person
to speak to sometimes
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because I'm going to give a sense of
tough love in a sense somewhere in it
because in the case of, that's what got me
to my position
of want and
wanting more and taking advantage
of these situations that we do have
where we can get ourselves out there
but you're a great person though
and that's why I'm saying
if we had a whole lot of yous in the world
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the world would run differently, the world would be a better place
you're right, you're right
people that actually want to see you succeed
want to see you do better
that's what we need
because it's the opposite, people don't want that
that's why you think I told you
don't worry about the supporters
the supporters will come
I guarantee you, put out
about 4 more movies
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supporters will come, put out about 6 more movies
there's going to be some more supporters coming
and I can do it bro
when you ready, when you ready to do it
it's not the case of
don't look at every situation
as like, need the money
just know that you have it
we have the tools man
and I'm working, I have income
we got to have the right mentality
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we done did it one time
we done did it once
like I said, like we said I went to Africa
if I went to Africa one time
why would I doubt myself
like I can't do it again
or go somewhere else
if you did it one time, you can do it again
what's going on, it's your boy Duann
from Not Just Music Podcast
make sure you stay tuned for next week's episode
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alright, peace
Yo Q what up?
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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?
Welcome
to not
just music
where we keep it real
and honest
and honest always
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Again
your
your mental
is you're going to treat yourself
and how you should treat yourself
but you gotta remember how you
treat yourself is it
the case of
that you're going into it with the right mentality
or you're not going into it with the right mentality
like me like I give you an example
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I go
I go make sense of things
that I do so let me just let's
go for example right so
I'm putting in
work okay
you putting in work to go
either relax
have fun
or you're putting in work to
fuel a business or
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you're putting in
to eat or you're putting in
to take care of home there's
different levels of what you're doing with
what if you're trying to do all of those
I'm a single man
that's another thing
but see this is another thing see
I'm going to be honest with you
business and I want a family too
I'm business and I want you know
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what I'm saying you're in a bigger position
though than you give yourself
so for example
for example
you buy yourself
in a sense
you have kids but I'm going to tell you
being having a spouse
don't mean you save money
I don't know
it ain't even
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it ain't even about
it ain't even about save
no this is crucial what I'm about to say though
when it comes to a spouse bro
it ain't even about saving money
it's about having that mental
stability that
genuine care that support from
a person to me
it's about money but it's not
that's not the first thing in my mind
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I'm going to be honest with you
I'm going to be honest I'm just giving you
this is what I'm saying you been married before
I've been in a relationship
have you been married before
so you can't speak on something you don't know yet
but listen
I'm telling you what I would look
in just even in a relationship
what I want from a woman
I get your idea and your mentality
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of it but what your
ideal situation
is is going to be altered
in a lot of ways
why you say that? just because
you don't know who you're going to be with
you can't
go into a relationship with an ideal
but if you never even had
but look if you never even
had the slightest thing in support
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and a woman gives you just that
you're going to feel like
that's the world like oh my god
I've never had a woman support me like
this wow
money is not even going to be on my mind
at that point because
a woman might not
even bought me food in my life or whatever
except my momma and she does it
this is what kind of man I am and that's going to
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touch me that's going to I'm going to really be
like oh my god and I've been around
women that done things
that no woman has ever done and
they're like wow I just did that
they shot like you taking
this to heart I'm like damn like it's big
you know what I'm saying like I ain't
never had the slightest little things
man you know what I'm saying to somebody say
thank you for doing that for me
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let me ask you a question
do you feel
do you feel
you feel the reward of it right
right you just say it
let me give you a big example
of this right
most cases
is
for me
and we speaking of support right
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just as I say speaking of support nothing
nothing to value right
support is only
a thing of
confidence
right for you
meaning it gives you a sense
of secureness right
to me
but she still
but she still can hold it down if I
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fall though like she's gonna be there as a
support
instead of like I told
you I had people looking at me like
what are you gonna do what are you gonna do
what are you gonna do Q I hope
this work I hope this work instead of
we got this we in
this you know what I'm saying you fall
I'm here for you you know what I'm saying
you got this like who
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gonna be my cheerleader I don't I ain't have no cheerleader
I ain't never had no
cheerleader that's what I'm saying like
the little is staying bro
and I think I don't feel the reason why I'm
saying the the part of support
the older I get I'm not
looking for it
let me say that but you had it though right
it's not the case I had it
it's not let me let me
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let me give you this you talking from
a mindset of a man that's been married
and been with a woman over a decade
you know what I'm saying but you're still
speaking but I'm telling you what you're doing
you're trying to tell me
is it I don't know the case of it
this ain't an argument bro
I'm not arguing bro I'm not arguing
I'm just speaking what I know
I'm just speaking what I know I listen to what you're saying
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I just want to get one point across
to you the way that
you feel about a woman
and what you expect from
a woman you're not supposed to
go into a relationship looking
or expecting anything
the reason being if you're
coming in looking and expecting
you're going to get totally the opposite of what
you're looking for so let's
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be honest right you gotta
and this is you go you go to the
old Q Q was just going out smashing
chicks down left and right right
true story I ain't thinking nothing
about friendships I ain't thinking about nothing about
being serious I ain't thinking about nothing but
you're building a rapport with your own
self I'm what hold on hold on
I'm what you're building a
rapport to your own
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hit me out
hit me out so you're going to
look at women a certain
way so like how you
say you see a chick
dressed a certain way that
mentality is okay well
she might be easy to get to
or easy accessible just because
the way she dressed right like you
said chicks posting pics on
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Instagram and you know they got
their butt out or whatever
and sometimes in real life none of these
chicks even dress like that listen I
study women I got a degree in women
studying now you see why I'm going let me finish
let me finish go ahead
cause I know cause look they be on
most of them that I smashed was on
the same game that I was on hence
they just wanted to smash hence
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the reason why I say
let me give you an example like this right
say if you went into
a relationship you
didn't have two kids yeah
it was just you yeah
you didn't have to worry about
paying out for kids it was just
like I say it's just you right
yeah so this is the thing
that there's going to be a thing
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going on and I got an understandable baby
mama by the way which is okay
that's a beautiful thing yeah yeah I don't have to
deal with that you know in the beginning it was
wild but now it's at a
great place so let me say this there's
one supporter I don't care
if she don't support business
she's not a supporter in that but it's the case
she support yeah don't give me
no headache
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but that
just hit me out
hit me out see
God don't give us blessings
the way we feel they should come
honestly you think I'm sleeping on my blessings
I'm not sleeping on your blessings
you're not sleeping on your blessings
you're sleeping on yourself
I'm still going to come down and back to this
I was going to eventually get back to it
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but let me cut the chase a little bit
the way you think is
totally fine
you're in endangerment
mentality is like okay I'm
not going to make this bad decision
because of this I'm not going to make
this bad decision because of that I'm not going to make
this bad decision because of this right?
so let me give you an example
like I
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told you I hadn't been on a trip
me and my lady had not
been on a trip in two years
considerably it
was really just because
it was time to buckle down
it was time to work it was time to get the money
up it was time to get all that stuff going
it was time to do stuff like that right?
that's what I
have support in
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and what?
hear what I just said
she didn't ask to go on vacation?
it ain't no ask to go on vacation
it ain't bring up nothing about vacation
it was about let's get this money up
support is support let's work
and now you get where I'm going with this
see the thing is the part where
your business comes in
is where is your business that's why it's called
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your business it's a business it's an independent
business it's owned by Q
Q is the only one who can touch it make it move
make it cry make it
growl make it fool he is the
only one the person that's
behind you they're just behind you
for whatever they can help you with though
they can help you with but don't look for
them to be like oh
here's some extra money for your business
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to go do it don't look at it like that
I'm looking at it the wrong way
I got you now
I'm going to be honest your baby mama
that's a blessing
but nah but
it might be ugly moments
it may be crazy moments
but in a sensible manner
that you can still come around
and they know
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that's Q's son that's Q's daughter
you know that
it's nothing to the case of
you showed up to the basketball games
you're a dad it ain't like a situation
where there's this situation where can't nobody
ever come around I know some dudes like
literally bro no but I was threatened though
like you know her sisters was threatening me
at the basketball game and that's again everybody ain't going to feel the same
yeah but she didn't
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have a problem with it me being there
my baby mama but the sister had
a problem with me you know what I'm saying
the whole family still got
issues you know some family members got
issues with me you know what I'm saying
you know and this goes
into the support you know what I'm saying
and like I asked her
and this another
thing too I was like you know I got a movie
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out you going to support it
and she was like
and you tell me if this is wrong she
was like I
don't want to watch something that I'm involved with
because it's going to make me go back in that time
I respect you telling your story
I don't have a problem with you putting your story
out but I just can't watch
it because it's going to take me back
now am I selfish and this is a question
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for you am I selfish for being like
wow so you ain't going to support my movie
or should I understand her point of
view like she gave me to go
like okay it's cool
you put the movie out
so in a sense she's supporting
that supporting the move for me putting it
out but she's not supporting it
by purchasing or watching it
because she's in it
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it's sound
you know what I'm saying yeah
yeah and this goes into
what we talking about support she has
a very
hmm
and it's not
bad it's not bad
I'm going to tell you why
nobody wants to look bad
let's start there she don't
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want to look bad on
the account to what you say
if she feels she wants it to be
let me look at it let me make
sense of it did I do that
yeah if it take me back to that moment
and that time and it
but to me in a sense
if she gave you a green
light that was support
because you think about it bro
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that whole movie was
a sense of you really putting
your heart out
there right and this is
this is another situation
to think about this right
knowing that you have a movie now
this is how you should move
and this is giving you a small insight
I just got this in my head like this
the way you move
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with this situation now is
you have a movie under your belt
you need to find and brand
an LLC to whatever you going
to brand it to
what you need to do now is
you need to find people
who are
grantable
situations where they can be like
oh we have
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a $5000 budget we
can give you to shoot your
next movie
but they won't believe it
until again
come up and get you a company
if it's hold on make it go ahead and make
that an LLC I got a script too
and the script is crazy so the thing
is what you go for you don't need a script
what you go for now is you tell them
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that you're a production company
movie production company
you're into creating
movies basically your movie production company
your movie
production company you did
your first movie such and such
hold on, hold on
so basically you're explaining
what the movie was, who it was
under, how you did it the first
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time and you're looking to
shoot a second movie
you understand the situation
of that it takes money, it takes time
but I want it to be better than the first
you want to improve
and not only
just by improving it will be a big
help for to receive these
grants from who this person is
so I can promote it, promotion
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to whatever you need it for
the biggest thing is though
to make sure that you have
an LLC and the
reason why I was telling you the reason why I got
LLC's for Not Just Music
Podcast is because the case of
moving forward I want to be able to do
things
what we're doing now is the setup
this is the build
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this is the building, this is what we're
doing, this all of this, this is the building
it was going to take this
in a sense but it
wasn't going to just take just this, it was going to take
the mentality too so even
if we only had one camera, if we were just working with one
phone, we sitting in front of one phone and we
recording, we putting these podcasts
together at the end of the day
so you're saying the LLC's don't come in on this part
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it comes in on the business part
business, if you're
going to consider yourself to say this is
this is a business
this is something, the reason why I'm telling
you this is because if you get
cut on your name
you're going to get
everything that you have taken
from you
Quincy Murdoch is going to get
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every dollar
every account stripped
if you come up
on the wrong side of something, business wise
so is that why they suing
Diddy and Not Bad Boy?
do they sue, how do they sue
when a civil suit happens
against a person, they can
just sue a person instead of a brand
see
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the thing is, Diddy was operating
things outside of his brand
so anything he was doing, but what if it was within
the business and he could sue them
if it's receivable, paperwork
worthy, yeah he's good
he did a lot of what you call
those, the
what's the forms you signed
1099 forms
you promised not to say
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anything or have any discussion
so
let's say it like this
this is simplified
anything that you do under
an LLC is under the
LLC, anything you do
not under the LLC
is not under the LLC
so if Diddy just telling
people, look come through to the house
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come kick it with me, just come kick it
with me, and it didn't come with a contract
sign this
to say this, like how Drake
said he put together a sex contract
because in case of somebody has sex with him they gotta sign
this contract before that
but what if it was a promise for a
movie or a Grammy or something
and you had to do this
to get the
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free beat
like if the wine
okay, I'm not
but like if you was like
you were working with a female
and you was like no you gotta do this sexual
favor for me to get this beat, I give it to you
for free
does that go under the business?
that goes under the situation
of you made it personal
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so anything, cause see I'm gonna tell you why
you can do stuff
that be like okay you gonna do this for my
business but you gotta remember
what you say to a person
is always gonna mess you up
no this is always something somebody
said to a person, well
he said he made a sexual
a sexual advance at me
while he was walking down the hall
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yeah you at work but again
certain things you can't, certain lines
you can't cross to consider
yourself that this is a business
like an LLC license like I said
it literally is not a thing of saying that it's
protecting your soul cause you still
can get every dollar took from you with
having an LLC
that's why I'm talking to you
about it to see what's within the limits
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of the LLC
it makes you liable, it's a liability
license so how about
about the movie
okay if I got an LLC
for the movie right
but I
made somebody feel comfortable with character
in the movie, they can sue me
instead of the LLC
like the company right
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basically like so this is what you do
take a
take the route of contracting
but I ain't worrying about that though
that's why I told you
take the route of contracting, if you contract stuff
contracts put
people in a position where they
have to
look, you gotta do this, you have to do this
you have to do this and you have to do this
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all of this is under that LLC
yes, as long as you have a logo
saying that this under
this is under the laws of
this is under the like it will be for Not Just Music
this is under the laws of Not Just Music Podcast
LLC
and we like I send that form out to people
before they come on the show
it makes it
liable in a sense of via
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the contracted situation for
Not Just Music Podcast
so if it comes back, it goes back to Not Just Music Podcast
it don't come back on me
because the case of is for the business rights
what the rights of the business are
that's what you gotta go by the laws of that business
if you ain't going by the laws of that business and whatever that
contract meant, it ain't got nothing to do with it
so once you start saying
that's a lot of info man, that's deep
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you know what I'm saying, cause bro
you can classify, you can try to classify
under something and it's not even under that
that's why I was like
that's why I think a lot of people get jammed up too man
cause they don't know
all the time
I'm gonna tell you another situation where people can mess
themselves up with that too, like you just said
word of mouth
that screw people up, I'm gonna tell you why
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I'm gonna say why word of mouth hurts
text messages, receipts
word of mouth is like one of the worst
she say he say
if it ain't promotion
word of mouth, outside of
promotional word of mouth
that's a bunch of
you can get yourself in some mess, Diddy's in some mess
just let's say that
Trump is in some mess
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run in your mouth, you can't put it on
your mouth, and once it
comes out your mouth, that's your problem
cause people can really sue you
for stuff that comes out your mouth
that's it
if Diddy had that bad
situation bro, and the crazy
part is, it ain't just one person
everybody that has
probably touched Diddy's
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listen though, all this came out
all this stuff
all these allegations really started hitting
the room when he
settled that lawsuit so quickly with Cassie
cause people bought him money
which people, which
you know what I'm saying, which shows me that
like maybe a lot of people see a payday
they do, even if it wasn't
like I said, it might have been
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and I ain't trying to down
no victim I'm sorry, but a person might
have loved it in that moment
like I've had cases where
I've had relationships with
girls where
see I'ma put my stuff, I don't need them coming after me like
Diddy, but
we both knew
all of us knew what it was
everything that we did
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like
you know, like
yo, you good, you need it
I'm good, you know, we both good
we understand, but the problem
comes is when you years down the line
try to play a victim
like aw, he made me
do this, I didn't want to do it
but nah, you knew you was
getting something from this, I was getting something from this
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you know what I'm saying, like and that's
what, it's crazy man
that's why, like you say them contracts man
again, if you dealing with people
and that's why I say like the past
will haunt you if you
did something that you wasn't
supposed to do with somebody
it will come back on you man
like, I mean you gotta look at what Diddy was doing
this man has literally been giving things away
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gave everybody all they masters
gave everybody this, it's like he was
making safe room for
just in case something go down
I already gave it, look, y'all got y'all masters
ain't got nothing to do with that no more
y'all got y'all masters, y'all can go live y'all life
y'all got y'all music, you can go live your life
look, Cassidy, this money
I already know what we
what I did with you, yeah, money hushed you up
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so I'm gonna give you all this money
and then like you said, everybody saw this golden opportunity
to act
and that's what the solace is
really just act on
the situation of, but she was of age
right, she was of age, this whole situation
and like, okay
shouldn't it be a standard on that though
like, do you feel that way?
I mean, cause she wasn't
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entitled, I don't care like
bro, that's
like me working with you right
and you saying I gotta do this
and do that, we have that
choice, I'm not gonna be like bro I ain't
doing, I'm gonna say I'm not doing it
I'm not sticking around, I thought
it's just a mindset
that I thought people would have
if you don't feel comfortable doing something
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you're not gonna do it, like Lil Rod
his whole, like that situation
like why you didn't just leave the room
bro?
you know what I'm saying, like why you didn't
just leave the room, like
if I know right from wrong, like why
don't these other people know
and like, and you're participating
in this, she said he had her
looking for the guys with the big
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you know, this and that, so you're
participating in this
you knowing what's going on
and you're doing it over and over and over
so you obviously didn't have that much
fear or regret in you
to keep doing it over and over and over
a lot of them people
Diddy ain't even like, from what I heard, ain't even
a violent person man
Diddy ain't no, if Diddy was a
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violent person, if Diddy was a violent
person, we would have been known Diddy was a violent
person by now, I mean
I think it's really just the case of
Diddy had a lot of wants and fantasies
and things of that nature and it's a certain
lifestyle that he could live
and some people felt like they could probably
capitalize on it and they didn't
but at the same time, look at
what caused all of this
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but now you wanna cry rape, you wanna cry
abuse and this and that
you wanna cry
rape, you wanna cry abuse
you know what I'm saying
that's where the issue comes in
but again
man, some of these people
don't have the opportunities and
the star struckness
that they're looking for in life
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so they just try to make what Diddy got
going on, oh we can just mess up
what he got, it's easy to mess up
Diddy, Diddy ain't
he got plenty of money to play with
he got plenty of money to throw away but again
and going into support
where are all these people that was partying with Diddy
why they ain't speaking up
why ain't none of these people saying nothing about
Diddy, how good of a man
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he was and what he did good
that's what I'm trying to understand
why can't
people talk about Diddy
and that's one thing
and I know we've been talking about Black
and we gonna keep it real
we love to see
one of ours
we jump on them when they're down
we jump on a Black person
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we jump on them when they're down
that's what our race do
kick em hard too
yeah and look I don't see
nobody going harder on Diddy
than the Black community
I don't see no White people really
out here going hard on Diddy like
Black people are
we tearing them up
but these were the main ones in Poppin Bottles Ayy
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in Miami you know what I'm saying
Miami done left, went back to the
baby daddy
that's what we Black folks do
you know what I'm saying
where the support at though
and that's the part where I told you
look at how fast all his support
went out of the door
look at all these people that had deals with him
jumping ship
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he ain't dealing with Diddy no more
he ain't putting no money in his pocket
he got no money going on man
that's another thing too
they think you got it going on
but what you going through
they don't know the sacrifices you made for it
but then that'll stop them
from supporting you too by the looks of it
Diddy's a billionaire
then you read stuff like
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he owns a hundred million on the mansion
everybody dealing with something bruh
that shouldn't stop you from
supporting because somebody had
support
support man
this is the thing I was saying too
like you just said
this goes back to that
the first part we were basically talking about
you know
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support, you have to get out here
and hit every spot
until you find a spot
that is willing to
accept you, that's the biggest thing
that's basically
my biggest thing
you have to go where you feel that love
you went all the way to Lagos
a lot of people don't get to go to Lagos
a lot of people don't get to go
(26:54):
to these
I mean just pick a country
Australia, people don't get to go to Hawaii
people don't get to go to
Jamaica
like you went around
these are no little
small things, these are big things
these things don't have
a lot of people don't do this
that's an opportunity
(27:16):
for one
you think about it, again
you go to Lagos
a lot of people don't get to go there
one, two
there's a land of opportunity there
so you ain't just get to go there
you got to go there and do multiple things
shot a video, music video
yeah I could do that here in America
but I had the opportunity
(27:38):
to do it in a different country
so it's a different
but the support though here
going back to support
they'll look at that and they'll get jealous of it
instead of embracing it
like our people are just
all he did there
he think he better, too many people
instead of supporting it, too many people
you know what I told you, the whole situation
(28:00):
even when we first met
the whole situation of me and what I had
in Africa with them people, boy it was very big
and it's still probably very big
I got to the point where
the giving
was becoming more substantial
and being such a giving person
was starting to run its course
so again
that's basically what I'm saying to you still though
(28:22):
the love, where the love is
that's where you pour
the most of yourself into
where the love is, if the love is there
you pour yourself into that
don't pour yourself into the cups that's already full
we're in a situation now
in America, we're full, there's too many people here
there's too many people, there's too many people to like
bro, they hit me up, what's out
be jumping just from people that I
(28:44):
met then
and still think about you
and you all the way across the world
and I can't even get a call from a person I went to school with
my whole life and he lived right down the street
from me
and somebody from all the way across the world
is thinking about little old Quincy Murdock
thinking about me, like I said
like I started out by saying it's the small things for me
that mean so much to me
(29:06):
you know what I'm saying, some people
will never get it, some people will never get that support
though
the smallest support
goes a long way, again like I said
and then again, like I said, being in the right
place, that's definitely
going to be a
motivational thing, I'm not like
the biggest motivational person
to speak to sometimes
(29:28):
because I'm going to give a sense of
tough love in a sense somewhere in it
because in the case of, that's what got me
to my position
of want and
wanting more and taking advantage
of these situations that we do have
where we can get ourselves out there
but you're a great person though
and that's why I'm saying
if we had a whole lot of yous in the world
(29:50):
the world would run differently, the world would be a better place
you're right, you're right
people that actually want to see you succeed
want to see you do better
that's what we need
because it's the opposite, people don't want that
that's why you think I told you
don't worry about the supporters
the supporters will come
I guarantee you, put out
about 4 more movies
(30:12):
supporters will come, put out about 6 more movies
there's going to be some more supporters coming
and I can do it bro
when you ready, when you ready to do it
it's not the case of
don't look at every situation
as like, need the money
just know that you have it
we have the tools man
and I'm working, I have income
we got to have the right mentality
(30:34):
we done did it one time
we done did it once
like I said, like we said I went to Africa
if I went to Africa one time
why would I doubt myself
like I can't do it again
or go somewhere else
if you did it one time, you can do it again
what's going on, it's your boy Duann
from Not Just Music Podcast
make sure you stay tuned for next week's episode
(30:56):
alright, peace
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