In today’s episode of Not Over, Just Different, I sit down with relationship expert Jonathan Aslay to explore the raw journey of heartbreak and healing. We dive into why it’s essential to fully feel emotions like grief, anger, and self-doubt after a breakup rather than pushing them aside. Jonathan shares how bypassing these feelings can hold us back from real growth. If you’ve experienced a painful ending, this episode offers a powerful path to true healing.
Jonathan opens up about his own story, revealing how he tried to skip past his grief by focusing on gratitude, only to later realize he hadn’t really processed his pain. We discuss “spiritual bypassing”—using positivity to avoid dealing with hurt—and how that can stall emotional recovery. Together, we offer practical steps to sit with these tough feelings so they don’t resurface down the line.
Join us as we talk about moving forward with self-compassion and intention. You’ll learn how to embrace heartbreak as a way to reconnect with your truest self and get clear on what you want in future relationships. This episode is a must for anyone ready to transform pain into strength and purpose in their love life.
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About Jonathan Aslay:
The focus of one of America’s Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE. After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation. He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love. Today, he is on a mission of encouraging both men and women to fully love themselves with a new book, “What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?”—packed with fun, engaging spiritual and personal growth practices—and his dynamic Mid-Life Love Mastery mentorship program, that inspires hundreds of people daily, around the world.
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