Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Every week, Ify Nwadiwe and Emily Louise will dive into Reddit's r/relationship_advice subreddit and take listeners on a journey through relationship's up and downs. Laugh along as they wade through the internet's mess so you don't have to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

October 7, 2025 56 mins

Friend of the pod BJ hops in with some advice for Jayne in Cleveland and we jump into some spicy questions on Reddit. Lots of weird behavior, catching the ick, and stressed out partners. It's like they say, "we are so back".


We're hopping into:

  • My (f26) ex-bf (m27) said he was gonna propose for the last 4 years. When I finally found the courage to break it off, he did. I don’t know if I should give it another chance?
  • My bf (27...
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We just got back from Atlanta and we're ramblin', tangentin', and taking pregnant ass pauses to think about the things that we asked this week.The emails are POPPIN', so we have to take the time to sit through em and chop it up with the mess hall.


We're hopping into:

  • Thoughts on the Age Gap
  • Nice words from Jayde
  • Shame around D/S relationships
  • First sex party tips


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on I...

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September 23, 2025 17 mins
Lil update for the Mess Hall while we're out and about!

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September 19, 2025 41 mins

While Ify washes his clothes for a big trip, they answer two emails from listeners and head to reddit to close things out! Come hang and laugh with your messy friends who will give it to you straight.


We're hopping into:

  • Age Gap Relationships
  • The Return of Jayde
  • I (F25) struggle to have sex with my husband (M28)


Thanks for listening!


Ify's Australia Shows: https://www.century.com.au/ify-nwadiwe-live/


Socials: @ou...

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September 8, 2025 78 mins

We're coming at y'all like from the Big Cut! That's Connecticut for all the folks who haven't adopted my weird slang for this New England treasure. We're in the harbor side cabin talking a whole buncha mess while Em's nephews and niece have fun downstairs!


We're hopping into:

  • An Email Requested Reddit Post
  • A hello from a long time listener
  • Someone's GF might secretly be unhoused
  • BF at all the jalapeño poppers
  • Husband didn't buy a...
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September 3, 2025 42 mins

Took us a while, but we're officially back! We are deep in our e-mail backlog and we are so happy to talk to everyone again! Someone even made Ify cry!!!


We're talkin' bout:

  • Dealing with a tough break up.
  • How to flirt.
  • Some words of praise.
  • Asking out a coworker.


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


Patreon: https://www....

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May 6, 2025 62 mins

We're back and so is my voice! We bust through some emails and have a deep chat about mental health and what's going on with our brains. A few updates and some questions about being a good friend to a new parent and transitioning into friends after dating.


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Our...

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April 22, 2025 33 mins
In our mad dash to prep for Neo we didn't get a chance to record an episode, so we're throwing it back with a bonus episode form Patreon around this time last year (4/17/24)! See you cuties next week!

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April 15, 2025 59 mins

We're back! After a quick aside to chat about tackling the big thoughts on the previous episode, we jump into some listener emails and get into some reddit threads. We're tackling body image issues, caring for our kink daddies, and talking about old people's outdated child care tricks. It's all fun and goofs this episode!


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @...

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April 3, 2025 86 mins

Very explosive episode this week! Wow! So much love from the mess hall and probably our messiest email yet! We talk about a lot of great topics like where you stand in queerness, loneliness, sex while parenting, and some fun updates from the mess hall. Then, we close it out with a silly Reddit thread. Lots to dig into this week!


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Em...

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March 25, 2025 58 mins

We're diving into more emails this week and we even throw in a bonus Reddit post! Lots of love in the mess hall community, some friends not digging partners, and diabolical miscommunication amongst swingers! Lots to dig into this week! Buckle up!


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationsh...

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March 11, 2025 52 mins

We're back home and we got tons of mess for you this week! We answer some follow up emails and jump into two reddit threads! I totally forgot what I said I would link in the notes, but will run back here to post it when I remember*


*Listen to it or am reminded by a listener


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


Patreon: https:...

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We're out at sea, but apparently the sea has internet! So buckle up for the live episode recorded in the Rolling Stone Lounge on the JoCo Cruise! We are joined by the wonderful Daphne Always to wade through the mess thrown at us this time. Buckle up for this wild ride with audience reactions to our reddit thread reads! It's super fun and we can't wait to do it again!


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, I...

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February 25, 2025 39 mins

It's been a while since y'all have gotten a sleepy episode from us, so you know we had to do it to you! Ify keeps Emily up late after his hockey game to jump into the mess with you all! We even threw in a reddit question for you! We kick off with an email with someone from the mess hall having words of advice for another listener who emailed in last week! Then, we tackle an email about course correcting gift giving from someone you...

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Hello everyone! Looks like another mailbag episode and this one is FUN! We have the pod's first trilogy along with some amazing questions that give insight into nervousness around new relationships and desiring independence, the return of the humiliation sub breaking boundaries in new and disappointing ways, and an almost thirty year old virgin! Huge intro where Ify overshares about his mental health and loves up on Em's work.


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February 10, 2025 102 mins

I mean, ending it at 50 would've been a neat number to leave it off on, but we couldn't do it. Not when we're needed more than ever probably. We knock out all the listener emails today and we even throw in a bonus ep! To skip past question 1 fast forward to 27:41!


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


Patreon: https://www.patreon...

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January 23, 2025 3 mins
Hello everyone! Just giving everyone a quick update on where we've been and what's happening! See you next week! We're back!

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December 10, 2024 77 mins

Hello Mess Hall! We're back from Philly and got a fresh new poddy cheesesteak for ya. Check Spotify or our socials to get in on the poll!


We're hopping in these threads:

  • Email: BDSM in the Bible Belt
  • My (29M) partner (29F) has recently started frequently making claims about me I feel are extreme. How do I navigate this?
  • Friendship gone sour: I (33F) have completely ghosted a close friend (35F) of a decade. Is there a better app...
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December 4, 2024 51 mins

This is totally on time y'all trust us! We're jumping into some listener mess today, so buckle up!


We're hopping in these email:

  • What it means to be polyam/ENM
  • Roommates to lovers
  • Goal based partners
  • Batting out of his league update


Thanks for listening!


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodc...

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November 19, 2024 79 mins

It's a mailbag episode! Thank you to all the anon listeners being vulnerable enough to share!


We're hopping in these topics:

  • Friend Batting Out of His League
  • Boundary Breaking Degradation Sub
  • Home For The Polydays
  • Woke White GF
  • Autoromantic Anon


Thanks for listening!


Socials: Krys T is @krys_t_ @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


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