In this episode of Out of Session, therapist, Anna Kim, together with guest, Dr. Aaron Balick, critically examine the rise of online therapy platforms like BetterHelp, discussing the fundamental differences between traditional psychotherapy and tech-driven mental health services. They argue that while these platforms promise convenience and accessibility, they fundamentally misunderstand the complex, relational nature of therapy, which requires consistent boundaries, deep engagement, and the willingness to sit with discomfort.
The conversation delves into how technology platforms like BetterHelp have essentially commodified therapy, treating it like a consumer product that can be easily switched or customized. Both Kim and Balick highlight the problematic aspects of such platforms, including the ability to change therapists quickly, text messaging therapists, and the lack of consistent therapeutic boundaries, which can undermine the essential work of processing emotional experiences and developing interpersonal skills.
Beyond critiquing online therapy platforms, the discussion explores broader implications for mental health in the digital age, including the 'TikTok-ification' of mental health information and the challenge of translating deep therapeutic work into easily consumable content. They emphasize that true therapeutic growth requires time, commitment, and the willingness to engage in complex interpersonal relationships, which cannot be reduced to a subscription-based service or quick technological solution.
For more on this topic, check out the blogs that brought Aaron and Anna together:
Dr Aaron Balick - BetterHelp or BetterNot? Ensuring Mental Health Tech Innovation is Psychologically Sound.
Anna Kim, LCSW - On Better Help than BetterHelp
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