Can We Have It All

Episode Summary: 

In this episode, we dive into the concept of "having it all" and challenge the societal expectations that often dictate what success and fulfillment should look like—especially for Black women. 

I share my journey of redefining what it means to truly "have it all," exploring how our desires, beliefs, and personal definitions shape our paths to joy and pleasure.  

Whether you're a high-achieving, Type-A perfectionist or someone just beginning to question what fulfillment means for you, this episode will help you start rethinking and reclaiming your own narrative.  

Stay tuned until the end for a special sneak peek of *Owning Pleasure as a Black Woman XXX*!  

Key Takeaways:

1. Question the “Can’t Have It All” Myth: Natasha challenges listeners to ask why they’ve accepted limits placed by others and to take back control of defining their desires.  

2. Shift the Focus to You: "Having it all" isn’t about material success for everyone. Natasha shares how her priorities shifted from external markers of success to internal peace, balance, and connection.  

3. Uncover What You Truly Want: Through practices like journaling, meditation, and dance, Natasha found clarity on her desires and shares how you can, too.  

4. It’s Okay for Desires to Evolve: Your vision of “having it all” can—and should—change as you grow. Stay curious and flexible as you uncover new aspirations.  

5. Life Isn’t Either-Or: Why settle for just one flavor of ice cream when you can try them all? Natasha encourages embracing abundance in all its forms.  

Listen Now:

Ready to redefine your version of “having it all”? Start by journaling about what makes you feel alive, peaceful, and fulfilled. Share your thoughts and takeaways with Natasha on social media or leave a review to let her know how this episode resonated with you.

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Episode Transcript

(00:05):
Welcome to Owning Pleasure as aBlack Woman, where we celebrate
the joy in just being you.
I'm Natasha, your certified sex andintimacy coach and clinical sexologist.
Just call me your guideto unlocking pleasure.
With years of experience in helpingindividuals embrace pleasure
beyond sex, I'm here to empoweryou to rediscover the beauty of

(00:25):
pleasure in every aspect of life.
So settle in, relax, and getready to savor the wisdom and
insights we're about to drop.
This is your space to be present,learn, and enjoy the show.

(28:35):
Thank you for joining us on this episodeof Owning Pleasure as a Black Woman.
I hope you found today's conversationinspiring and empowering as you
continue on your journey to reclaimyour pleasure and well being.
Before we wrap up, don't forget tosubscribe, rate, and leave a review.
Your support helps us reach morelisteners, just like you, who are ready to
embrace a life of pleasure and self care.

(28:56):
And stick around, right after this,we've got a sneak peek of our next
episode, Owning Pleasure as a BlackWoman XXX on our Patreon page.
You won't want to miss it.
And until next time, rememberto prioritize your pleasure,
honor your desires, and continueshowing up for yourself.
Take care.
Okay, I have a crush on a sensualvampire, and it started last year.

(29:21):
Last year I went to a workshop aboutkink persona, because there's this
idea that maybe, you know, maybe I'm alittle bit kinkier than I think I am.
I'm very curious about it.
I like to read about it.
I like to watch it.
What would it be like to be a part of?
A part of it.
So I went to figure out whatmy kink persona would be.

(29:43):
It would be bratty, very, very bratty,spoiled, um, on the sub side and
haven't quite figured out my dom personabecause I, I think I would be a switch.
So the right person wouldget me as a submissive.
Everyone else can get me as adom because the love of power

(30:03):
and control is exciting for me.
But we'll have another episode onsubmissive and dominant because
though I say control, I, as a Dom,would not be the one in control.
Well, I went to this workshop.
Not only did I go on this workshop,but someone was in the hall
because there's loads of vendors.
There was a vendor that wasdoing micro dosing mushrooms.

(30:27):
They were like this littlecubes and you could try them.