Episode Summary:
In this episode of Owning Pleasure as a Black Woman, we dive into powerful insights from a recent Tracee Ellis Ross interview, exploring what it means to be a "choiceful woman."
I discuss three key themes from the interview that resonate deeply with high-achieving Black women: being intentional about your choices, grieving what isn't while celebrating what is, and turning relationship questions inward for deeper self-knowledge.
Tune in as I explore how to date with intention, maintain your standards, and prioritize pleasure without apology. If you're navigating relationships while staying true to yourself, you won't want to miss this one!
Key Takeaways:
- Being a Choiceful Woman: Learn how to own your voice, make intentional decisions, and approach relationships from a place of choosing rather than waiting to be chosen.
- Grieving What Isn't: Discover how to acknowledge grief over unmet expectations while simultaneously embracing gratitude for what you have created in your life.
- Turning Questions Inward: Understand the importance of knowing yourself deeply before seeking relationships, and how to use potential partner criteria to deepen self-knowledge.
Reflective Questions:
- What would your perfect day look like?
- What's something you've never said out loud?
- What are you most grateful for today?
Special Announcements:
- Episode 100 Coming Next Week! Send in your questions for a special Q&A episode to hello@chentilleandco.com
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Listen Now:
Ready to get inspired? Hit play to discover how to reclaim agency over your life and your decisions while prioritizing your pleasure, self-care, and rest!
Links Mentioned:
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