In this episode, we’re tackling a phrase that makes our skin crawl: “non-consensual BDSM.” Spoiler alert—it’s not a thing. If it’s non-consensual, it’s not BDSM... it’s abuse. Full stop.
Join us as we rant (with love), laugh through the frustration, and break down why this term is harmful, how predators use vague language to justify consent violations, and why explicit consent is the gold standard in kink.
We’ll also spill the tea on a recent social media argument with a so-called educator who insisted the term was fine because “other people use it.” Yikes.
This episode is a must-listen if you care about ethical kink, clear communication, and keeping our community safe.
Because in BDSM, consent isn’t optional—it’s the foundation.
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