Redefining Masculinity in the LGBTQ+ Sex Industry | Sexuality

Women in Podcasting Award Voting! Make sure to vote daily. I am in two categories: Educational Podcast and Wellness Podcast. Your support is greatly appreciated! In this bold and unfiltered episode of Please Me,  Eve welcomes adult content creator and advocate Koby Falks for a deep dive into sexuality, masculinity, and the evolution of the sex industry from stigma to self-empowerment. Koby shares his journey from growing up in rural Australia—where being gay meant being labeled weak—to confidently redefining what it means to be a man, both in and out of the bedroom. With candor and charisma, he opens up about body image, kink discovery, performance pressure, and how platforms like OnlyFans have given power back to creators in a way traditional studios never allowed. This episode explores everything from confidence and identity to erections (yes, really), the importance of being seen, and why authentic pleasure is a right—not a reward. If you’ve ever questioned the roles we play, the shame we carry, or the freedom that comes with owning your story, this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed. Highlights include: Why being gay doesn’t subtract from masculinity Breaking out of the porn industry’s cookie-cutter standards How Trimix injections work—and why they matter The shift from secrecy to sexual self-expression Kink, group scenes, and loving what used to feel off-limits How sex work became a path to confidence, not just cash Additional Resources: https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me!Website: pleaseme.online Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards:If you’re enjoying the show and feel it’s been helpful, I’d be honored if you could take a moment to vote for me as Best Educator in this year’s ASN Awards. Your support means so much to me! Vote here:  2025 TOP 8 FINALIST | 2025 ASN Awards I’d love to hear from you! Help me choose a question for my Please Me! Friday Series of episodes, where I answer listener-submitted questions. Send your questions and let me know what topics you'd like me to explore next! Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women: I’m excited to announce my new one-day event, Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women! Join me for a transformative day of self-care, empowerment, and growth. Get all the details here: Events - Please Me! Connect with Koby: Instagram @kobyfalks Twitter: KobyFalksXXX Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices