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August 1, 2025 6 mins

In this episode, JM and Valerie uncover the hidden link between trauma, narcissistic abuse, and chronic clutter. Through the story of Abby and insights into trauma attachment, you'll learn why letting go feels so hard—and how to start healing your space and your mind. With science-backed tools and compassionate guidance, discover practical steps to declutter safely and reclaim your peace, one item at a time.


IN THIS EPISODE:

  • Why trauma and narcissistic abuse create emotional attachment to clutter

  • How clutter becomes a coping mechanism and safety signal

  • Science-backed steps to declutter without fear or guilt

  • Healing tools to break free from trauma through mindful decluttering


LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:


  • "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma



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