In this episode, Valerie and JM unpack the hidden emotional weight behind guilt, nostalgia, and identity that keeps clutter in your life. Learn the psychology behind why letting go is hard—and the mindset shifts that make it easier. This episode covers simple, practical steps to declutter without guilt, from the One-Year Rule to photo-based memory keeping. If you're holding onto things out of obligation, this conversation will help you reclaim space, peace, and purpose—one small step at a time.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:
- Why decluttering feels emotionally heavy – Understand the guilt behind letting go.
- Common types of decluttering guilt – From gifts to memories, learn what holds you back.
- Mindset shifts that free you from clutter – Reframe regret and focus on what you gain.
- Easy, guilt-free decluttering steps – Start small, use the One-Year Rule, and keep memories without the mess.
LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:
- "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma
- Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself
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