In this episode, JM shares compassionate, trauma-informed strategies to support someone who’s struggling with clutter. You’ll learn why clutter often represents safety or survival, how to communicate with empathy, and why consent is non-negotiable. From asking the right questions to celebrating small wins, this guide offers powerful tools to help your loved one reclaim their space—without losing their dignity or trust.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:
- How clutter connects to trauma and safety – Understand the emotional roots behind “stuff."
- What to say (and not say) when helping – Use empathy and curiosity, not pressure.
- Why consent is essential in decluttering – Respect boundaries to build trust.
- Simple ways to support without control – Celebrate small wins and offer gentle structure.
LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:
- "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma
- Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself
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