#5: Every Couple Should Have a Podcast

Welcome to week 5 of Pretty Funny! We're loving our weekly sit-downs to catch you guys up and form a deeper connection to each other - no matter how serious or unserious the conversation. Brynne is spilling some tea from her brand trip in Mexico, Mario is fired up about Elon Musk, and we ask each other the age old question - how would we cheat on each other? Enjoy!

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Episode Transcript

(00:02):
Oh, yeah, oh, oh, oh, oh, right next to all the expense of
electronics. What am I doing?
Actually? Why did I pour it like that?
I'm so sorry. I hate.
That was. Terrible.
I feel like at least it was every what I.
Said at least it was your laptop, not.

(00:23):
Like you got to go like this. You ever learned this?
You take the oils from your facejust like that.
Just like that. See, now it's going to subside.
I'm sorry. I feel like, oh, what is that?
Is that a cowbell? Ow.
Ow ow pinched my skin. Oh, I thought it was something I

(00:43):
did. Well, yeah.
And then we had all this documented proof that I did it
to you. You didn't mean to, but like
this opens. It just pinched.
Can you rattle it though? Come on in.
Come on. Get in here.
Supper is ready. Are you decent?
What happened? Did you just pull the muscle?
Shaking your. No how?
No, no, no. I have like a sharp shooting
pain in my armpit. Oh, it's probably a nerve.

(01:05):
Yeah, Do a little scratch and sniff.
How's it in there? Tell the audience.
Oh, it does have a hint of some garlickly onion.
That's probably my hands becauseI just ate French onion soup.
And mashed potatoes and I. Like wiped my fingers.
Try this hand. Let me see.

(01:27):
Oh, that's just straight deodorant.
That's good. Yeah, that's good.
Like if your arms. Harp it on with my like same
hand. Wait, what?
Yeah, like, look, I just feel like.
No, you don't. Yeah, No, you do not.
Yeah, like if this is my deodorant, I'll well, I use my
right hand for my left side, so I'll go like this.
And then I just. You just use one hand.
Yeah. You don't.

(01:48):
You don't cross it. Cross it.
I don't even think I could. Oh, yeah, I can.
Yeah. Oh, interesting.
I want to bring up something, but I don't want anyone to get
offended, especially you. I don't.
Well, it's personal. OK, that's.
OK, you, I'm going to see if youcan see where I'm going with
this. You use, I just realized you use

(02:10):
your right hand to do this arm and that arm.
Is there anything else you use your right arm for where you
could just easily use your left hand, but you just use your
right hand anyways? Are you talking about my boobs
right now? You're talking about how my
right boob is smaller than my left.
Just a little bit, just like youbring it up, you bring it up a
lot. I know I'm not a it's.
Just I know it's just a little smaller and I think it's because

(02:31):
you work out that arm more. You know what I mean?
You just try to use your left arm and you're like, ow, Oh my
God, you just like you literallywe caught it on field.
I don't. Know that was like a weird pinch
in my armpit that wasn't like a.You tried to use it.
Yeah, I also, if you've ever noticed the way I sit, I like
like I slant to the left a little bit.

(02:52):
Well, do you think a lot of that?
Sounds like drooping. Well, you got.
You have boobs. Yeah, you do.
You do I? Have you got some Grande mamachi
cheese? I got some world famous yetis
right here you. Do is this still the cold open?
I guess. I OK, we should probably roll
the intro. All right.
OK, roll it. Welcome back to the Pretty Funny

(03:28):
Podcast. I'm Bryn.
And I'm Mario, thank you so muchfor being here.
Thank you for being here. Right before we started, we were
talking about how I think I get it, not everybody should have a
podcast, OK, We do this because we can and we have a lot of fun
doing it. And what I was thinking is I
feel like every single couple should have a podcast or

(03:52):
something podcast adjacent. Yeah.
And I'm not even exaggerating. Like, doesn't mean you have to
post it doesn't mean you have tomake a whole channel or
whatever. But like this format over the
past. What is this, the 5th episode?
The 4th episode. The month, yeah.
Has, I feel like, elevated our relationship to a whole new
level? Well, yeah, I think that a good
way to put that would be that every couple should at least

(04:14):
role play a podcast because it kind of forces you to have
conversations. Yeah, it really, really does.
Like, whether you're good at communicating or not, it's
literally like you put your phone down and like, also
pretending cameras are there. So you're like, extremely
involved in the conversation. It kind of works, yeah.
It helps. Fake it till you make it.
Yeah, because every time before we record throughout the week,

(04:37):
we're like have a list of stuff that we want to talk about.
And I have things that I very much want to talk about.
You have things that you very much want to talk about, and
we're forced to talk about both of those things.
We're forced, dude. I can't be.
I. Can't.
I can't be Italian and have a podcast at the same time?
I can't. I talk with my hands so much and

(04:57):
like that. Maybe just don't do it like
that. Leave it in for our audible
listeners. I talk with my hands a lot.
If you haven't watched or if youhaven't seen, I talk with my
hands a lot and I just made a gesture, that sexual gesture.
Sexual nature. Remember when Elon dropped the
hard arm? Remember that?

(05:19):
What a fucking idiot. Am I right?
What a disgusting. Man, I'm so sick of all these
stupid ass billionaire dumb shits, you know what I mean?
Yeah. And like, I think the biggest
bitches on earth were the peoplethat went online and were like,
no, it's a Roman salute. It's a Roman salute.
Like since that's happened, by the way, I haven't been able to

(05:40):
raise my arm above my nipples out of fear.
They just spit all over you. So bad.
I'm so sorry. Some people pay good money for
that. Some people, not me, when I saw
the people, they're like, no, it's he's just putting his heart
out for everybody. Like what the what are you
talking about? There's certain words and names
and things that I avoid completely because I don't even

(06:04):
want to. I don't even want to risk it.
You know what I'm saying? And like throwing up that the
people that were defending him, right?
If we were at Medieval Times, which we talked about last
episode, they would be like the people that rooted for the king,
like you know what I'm talking about.
Yeah, they're also probably the same people that are out there
defending Kanye. Oh yeah, defending Kanye,

(06:27):
defending Trump, depending Elon.I'm just so sick of these people
defending absolute dumb shit. Idiots.
Does that make sense? There were the people in
medieval times like Kick. Your arm out of my.
I'm sorry. I just keep looking at my
screen. I talk in my hands.
I talk with my hands a lot. I talk with my hands a lot.
Might as well just giving this. Might as well just have a puppet
right here. Honestly, this could be the

(06:49):
whole show just like this. You see this right here.
We could just do that anyways. These people that stand up for
these billionaires, right? Yeah.
Are all these people whatever they're like?
No, The king loves us. No, we must.
We must pay our taxes and we must support the king.
I'm going to snitch on you. Like that's like literally those

(07:10):
people, you know what I mean? He was just beheading people for
fun. It wasn't nothing like you were
that person in that day and age.Does that make sense?
Just a circle back all I wanted to say.
We just our ADH high definition D just goes off the rails.
Like we'll have a really good topic and then we will just go
into a completely different direction.

(07:31):
You notice that between US and Ifeel like this podcast is an
exercise for us to work on that having well-rounded
conversations because what originally what was brought up
was couples should do this. Yeah.
Right. And that's like, I wanted it to
be such a positive thing. And then we just went on a rant

(07:52):
about. Because you started.
Talking about Oh my God, I know.I don't know why.
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I just, I just, Oh my God.
Back to the matter of hand, if you're in a relationship, you
should try to focus on spending time out of your day to really
connect with your person and listen to them.
Yeah, like how well do you actually know your partner?
You know what I mean? Because we have these
conversations and we've had these conversations since we

(08:15):
started dating. And that was really the, the
inspiration for doing this podcast in the 1st place is
because I feel like it's really cool if you're watching this, if
you're listening to this, and especially if you're in a
relationship, you're like, oh, these are some of the things
that we could talk about, you know?
Is that the ice cream fucking truck?
No, that's the ice cream fuckingtruck.

(08:36):
No, are you fucking kidding me right now?
I think my entire life I've actually experienced the ice
cream truck maybe 2-3 times. Did it?
Did the ice cream truck go into your neighborhood a lot?
Was it out there? I didn't see it out there, but
we definitely. Just, Oh my God, that was the
ice cream truck. I've always wanted to live in a
neighborhood that had an ice cream truck.

(08:57):
We would have one. Oh my God, I had.
One come to my to my to my cul-de-sac.
We're literally like a couple ofdogs in the dog park.
Like we really are. That's us.
That's our relationship. We're a couple of dogs just in
the dog park just chasing cars and like, you know what I mean,
Squirrel what that's that's our whole relationship.

(09:19):
Trying to bring it back again. OK, I, my, my, my thoughts with
this podcast is that people likeus, couples like us, people that
are like us that maybe aren't ina couple yet they're Mario
festing, you know, take a scrollthrough my videos, like I'm not
even joking. Like they can listen to this and
they can hear a very healthy, happy relationship and what that

(09:44):
sounds like. Because I feel like that's what
we have. And that's why I do my best to
share it as much as I can, because it's just magical,
whimsical, and amazing. Well, and going back to like
both of us being very ADHD and just jumping around between
topics a lot, doing it this way really does like solidify us
being able to have certain conversations.
And it does force you. I've said it like for both of

(10:04):
us, it forces each other to listen to what the other person
is saying and try to, like continue the conversation and
react to certain aspects of it and ask questions about certain
aspects of it. Yeah.
'Cause I tune you out every oncein a while.
Oh, I do same. I tune you out.
Oh, I know you do, because I'll say something accurately and
it's. Just this is what it's like
every single time I tune you out.
So I'll be like sitting on the couch.
I'm like laying in bed. And then you start talking to

(10:27):
me. And it's only when I'm focused
on something else. I'm building Legos, I'm watching
my programs. You don't ask me to pause,
nothing. You just walk up and you're
halfway through a conversation that you've been having from
upstairs because you think I canhear.
You, you know what I'm saying? Always, sometimes I'll like say
something to you and like there's just no response and
I'll just I and. Then you just keep going.

(10:49):
You just keep going. No, that's no, no, no, no, no,
no, no. That's.
It OK recently I keep saying after I say something and you
just literally like don't respond to me.
I'll just say that's my life story.
We're like, OK, and that's my life story.
That's sad. So I couldn't breathe and I was
wheezing and coughing a lot and Mario was asking if I was OK and

(11:11):
I ended up leaving and sprintingas fast as I could to the car.
And that's my life story. I can't multitask.
I don't. Know I can tell.
Have you not noticed that I've been doing that?
I'll say it like say I'm like, no, say I'm like, oh, I really
need to make sure I unpack my suitcase today and you just
don't even look at me. I'll be like, and that's my life

(11:32):
story. Yeah, but how?
OK, hold on, hold on. Stay.
Stick with me. Don't cancel me just yet.
Hold on. Because I brought.
This is what it's like when I'm tuning you out, right?
I'm high def. That's what I call it, high def.
I'm high definition. I'm focused, I'm laser focused.
I could be staring at a wall andliterally watching a Christopher

(11:52):
Nolan movie in my brain. And I don't think you understand
that because like, I'll be like staring at something or I'll be
like off in my no man's. Land Multitask.
Well, yeah. And then you'll be talking to me
and it's like you're interrupt. Like I'm in the middle of a
show. I'm in the.
I'm in the middle of a theater. And you're like the usher
walking with a flashlight. And you're like, hey, did you
know that I packed my suitcase? It's like.

(12:13):
No, if we're going to talk aboutthis for a second too, I would
also like to note that you do the same thing to me.
I will like literally tell you that I'm like filling out a form
or a document on my phone or doing something or responding to
a brand or responding to my management or like doing
something important on my phone.And you'll just start telling me
your entire next stand up bit orwhatever it might be.
Well, the difference is hold on,I'm not done.

(12:36):
And I'll still like look at you and I'll like literally be like,
OK, OK, OK. And then I'll say like, can you
just like literally like I just.The difference is I don't expect
you to hear me like I just gotta, I just gotta get.
It but I love you and I, I cherish you and I, what you have
to say matters to me. So I obviously I'm going to try
to pay attention, but it's also like sometimes maybe you could

(12:57):
take a hint that if I'm like deep scrolling through a
document on my phone, maybe not the best time to tell me.
How you think? No, I know.
Yeah. Yeah.
I just thought of like a when you said that, like it was like
a Family Guy cut away in my headof like all the different things
I like bring up to you on a daily basis, which is like,
listen to me. I think the idea, listen to me.

(13:19):
I know I'm a lot. I know I'm over the top.
I know I'm obnoxious. I know I'm passionate.
I got a lot of ideas and that's the key.
If you want to do social media right, if you want to be a
successful in anything, I believe in the three PS.
Have I ever told you about my three PS?
I know about your 1PP. Maybe my 2 PS my PP you know.

(13:41):
No, but like patience, passion and persistence.
I was just thinking about this in the shower.
Patience, passion and persistence.
OK. Because the key to social media
and the key to anything you wantto be successful in life, you
have to be patient. You have to put in the work with
no reward for a long period of time, like a long period of

(14:02):
time. People see us online and
whatever and they see this podcast, they see us scrolling.
And I get it, you're scrolling. You hear me laughing like a
hyena, right? And I'm just talking about my
girlfriend and they're like, this guy's got 6,000,000
followers and all he does is laugh like a dolphin and talk
about his girlfriend. You don't see like this six
years of posting every single day with no reward, with no one

(14:23):
watching for the longest time. And that's the persistence of
it. And you have to be passionate
about it because if you just want all the clout and the
popularity that comes with it, right, then you're never going
to make it because you have to be persistent and you have to be
patient for a long period of time.
Yeah, you gotta. Stick with it.
Yeah. And if you can't make and create

(14:44):
and perform for people for the amusement of your own self, and
that's something that you're passionate about, whatever it
is. And like a lot of people online,
a lot of people in showbiz baby nowadays.
I mean, you can like be an underwater basket Weaver.
You can paint, you can. You can do anything.
There's an audience for anything.
There's an audience for everything.
And if you're passionate, patient and persistent about it,

(15:07):
you, you can be successful in it, you know what I mean?
But if you start posting whatever, and that goes for
anything in life. If you start trying anything and
you're expecting to win the title on day one, you know what
I mean? Like that didn't go viral.
Oh, I didn't run a 5 minute mile.
Like whatever your goals are. Nowadays, like the trip I just
went on, which I would love to actually, which I would.
Love to be able to talk about. But even that trip like that is

(15:30):
a dream trip that I have been wanting to go on.
And I've been lucky enough to goon a lot of brand deals.
But like that one in particular really, really felt like, oh
shit, I made it. And I've been posting for six
years. That's something that I've been
working towards for six years. But something about this one
really solidified that for me, where I was like, wow, OK.
You inspire. Me, I did it like I fucking did

(15:51):
it. It was literally.
And I'm sure I'm going to continue to have those moments.
There's certain things that I'm like, like a glam bot.
I'm like, I would love to have that.
I would love to get invited to the Grammys or whatever.
I want to interview Pedro Pascalon the red carpet.
Like, please, no. I'm just saying like, I get it.
Like, you know, like we both have like really big goals.
And you inspire me. Ever since I met you.
That's you. Just you've shown me a whole

(16:13):
other way of living and what this life can be.
I'm being dead serious because like you go on that brand trip
and I'm at home waiting for you,you know, doing some
unconsensual long distance relationships, some LDR that I
did not sign up for. And I'm like, damn.
Like I want to get there to thatpoint where, you know, where
like people are so appreciative of me and what I do and what I
can showcase that they'll put mein a really cool spot so we

(16:35):
could show other people. And that's what your Mexico trip
is like. It is beautiful.
Something really cool. I won't say it because, but
we're about to do something really cool.
That's like one of those huge things where it's like, what do
you mean you want me to do that?Like what do you?
And even at like the lower level, I remember back when I
very first started posting, likethe first time I ever got over
10,000 views on a video. That was the biggest thing ever.
I was so appreciative. And you have to be appreciative

(16:57):
of whatever level you're at as if it's the biggest level that
you've ever cuz it is, it's, it's the highest you've ever
been, especially with this job, like it's, it's the best you've
ever done. And so you really have to sit
there and be appreciative for what you've done and be proud of
yourself every step along the way.
Yeah. Even for things that like you
maybe aren't as proud of, like Idon't know, I feel like to do

(17:18):
this job specifically like it does take a lot of self
intuition and a lot of reflecting.
Well, people want to know nowadays, rightly so, that
they're not following or they'renot supporting an asshole.
And I feel like that's a very reasonable thing.
But like, there's people like methat go online and they just
want to escape for a little bit and they just want to like

(17:40):
giggle, they just want to laugh.They just want to have fun.
They just want to whatever. And that's completely
understandable too. But like when celebrities or
influencers insert themselves into certain conversations,
right? And then they are like, OK, tell
us more than really, how do you feel about that?
And they're like, wait, what? Yeah, no, I was just, I was

(18:00):
virtue signaling and I just wanted to show that was part of
it. But like, I'm not going to do
any further research on it at all.
You know, like, and it's like, why do you expect me to?
Well, you literally shared your butthole on Only Fans.
So like, you're, you're obviously OK sharing pretty
uncomfortable things. So like, you know, people
wanting to know more. If you're sharing your
personality on the Internet to apoint where people do want to

(18:22):
look up to you for certain things other than just whatever
are you create, then you should be already sharing it enough to
where they should know that theyshare the same morals as you.
Yes, like they should already know.
Like I support this person because of who they are as a
person. I can tell that through their
personality. I don't need them to tell me
straight out who they are. I should be able to tell that

(18:44):
just from. People like they, they say the
comments section is the worst and it is.
And like, you can read the bad comments and you could be like,
Oh my God, those are terrible. And then read the good comments
and be like, Oh yeah, oh, that'swhat I'm talking about.
But they're both equally toxic. They really, really are.
And sometimes in the comments, people will blatantly lie just

(19:07):
to generate more engagement or people will say things about me
that I read and I know it's not true.
That's not how I feel. That's not who I am.
You know what I mean? And you have to be able to
ignore that. You have to be able to just move
past that. Because if you're constantly
addressing things that aren't true at all, like I'm in the
military so that makes me like afar right red pill conservative.

(19:31):
What patriarchy? Supporting traditional whatever
the fuck. That is one of the most
outlandish statements ever. OK, because I spent 10 years in
the military and people have completely polar opposite
political ideals. You know what I mean?
You're not supposed to talk about that sort of stuff at work
and everything, but like. You're saying for people to
assume that about you is extremely outlandish because the

(19:53):
military in its whole is a very diverse group of people, Yeah.
Huge, diverse group of people and some of the best people I've
ever met that I'm proud that I served with.
That said, I've met a lot of pieces of shit as well.
You know what I mean? Like the worst of the worst.
Yeah, and I think that goes withanything you do in life and any
occupation that you find yourself in.

(20:13):
There's going to be idiots, likethere's going to be assholes,
there's going to be psychopaths.There's going to like, that's
just everywhere in. For the majority of everybody
that I served with, they were all people that put themselves
aside to try to do something greater.
And for a lot of us, it was an escape.
I didn't really think I'd be successful going to college.

(20:34):
Right. And I, I didn't know what I was
going to do after high school. And so I just joined the
military. I wanted to get out of my house.
I want to get out of my town. I just needed a new fresh start.
And that's what I did. And like, it was a paycheck.
And, you know, like, I met a lotof people from the same walks of
life as me that come from like, you know, low incomes and crazy
different parts of this country that you would not believe the

(20:55):
stuff that people have gone through.
Right. Yeah.
And so it's just like, Long story short, I could give a fuck
less to everyone that's still serving.
You know, I love you. To everyone that I have served
with and that served, I love you.
I mean, what they're doing to the VA right the fuck now.
You should be fired up with the political climate that we're in
right now and with all the bullshit, like if you're a

(21:16):
veteran, you should be looking at what's going on and go, oh,
what the fuck is this shit? Like I'm not for it at all.
I do want to run it back a little bit to the comments.
Oh yeah. Talking about like negative
comments and positive comments and how they're both really
toxic. We talked about this when I was
in Mexico and I wanted to talk about it in Mexico, but I'm
happy that I didn't and I'm happy that I'm waiting.

(21:38):
Oh, yeah, I kind of talked you off that ledge.
Yeah. I was like, just save it for the
podcast. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I, you may or may not have noticed I've gained a lot of
weight in the past couple years,especially the past year.
And it's taken a, a mental toll on me a little bit as any big
weight change, any big body change does for somebody.

(21:59):
But especially being someone who's so perceived online, there
has been a lot of comments aboutpeople talking about my weight
and then going on a brand trip where I knew I was going to be
in bikinis, literally surroundedby gorgeous actual real life
models. It's very intimidating and it's
very anxiety inducing. And I was really nervous to go
on the trip and then I wanted totalk about it and I didn't know

(22:22):
if I wanted to kind of give likea middle finger and be like,
fuck you guys. Like I'm still here.
I'm still confident my weight like da da da.
Or if I wanted to open up a bigger conversation about it and
talk about my anxiety with it all and acknowledge the fact
also that the other girls on thetrip anytime I've been anxious
about my weight on a trip, no one else on the trip ever makes

(22:43):
me feel bad about my weight. They are the most supportive,
happy, healthy, loving girls. Like they literally.
And I've talked to a lot of different and other influencers
on trips like this and said likeI've gained a lot of weight, I'm
very insecure with my body rightnow, yadda yadda yadda what have
you. And every single time, Oh my

(23:03):
God, no, you look amazing. You look beautiful.
What are you talking about? You look so healthy.
Like I wish I had your curves. Like, never a backhanded
compliment either. Always extremely healthy,
extremely nice, extremely important.
But at the end of the day, I'm really happy I didn't talk about
it because it didn't take away from my trip at all.
Like it was already taking away from the trip in my own brain,
in my own mentality. It was already causing me that

(23:25):
anxiety and in that way it was taking away from an amazing
experience. Yeah, cuz you FaceTime me and we
were talking and you're like, Ohyeah, I'm in the middle of
recording a video and you're telling me what you were talking
about. And I was like, I get all of
your insecurities and everything.
And this is kind of the stuff that you have to be like
conscious about. If you're like someone that has

(23:46):
a lot of followers that post this online.
It's like you posting a video amidst being on like the most
beautiful branch trip ever that like millions and millions of
women would give their left nut to be a part of like, and you
just talking about how insecure you are on it.
Whatever the majority of common sense rational people would be

(24:07):
like, oh, OK, well, that's a very rational feeling that
somebody would have like on vacation, whether you're on a
vacation to Hawaii or Disneylandor a water park or whatever,
like people get insecure their bodies, you know, like a
rational normal human being watching that video would be
like, Oh yeah, no, like you are beautiful.
And you know, that's a that's a real feeling.
And thank you for opening up about that.

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But I had to cautiously remind you because of the reach that we
have, that there's a lot of idiots in this world that would
literally just comment endlesslyand relentlessly like, you're
really complaining because they're on that branch right
now. You're like, literally.
Just straight up continuing to call me.
Or yeah, they just like, oh, finally she noticed.

(24:49):
Like literally, oh, we got through to her.
We broke her down. Like, yeah, it's unfair.
Honestly. It really, really is.
When you post something, when you say something, when you
stand for something, when you doanything, you're going to reach
a clump of people that are idiots.
And if you give them any semblance of something like a
bump, set spike up for them to grab something out of context or

(25:12):
to point out one little thing out of the one minute video that
you have to just destroy you. That's what they live for.
That's what they spend their entire lives online to do.
Like these haters but but they're good engagement, so
thank you. I'll get comments sometimes of
people being very like proud of me for not having gotten any
work done or for showing off my body or whatever, like, oh,
representing their body type andlike showing a realistic looking

(25:35):
person. Which yes, I agree, there is a
huge space needed for that, especially with the fact that
like Ozempic and everything is in right now and a lot of people
are really wanting to be skinnier.
And so I understand that our representation is needed to be
even Comments like that always have like they always make me
laugh a little bit because I'm like, I'm not making a
statement. Yeah, it's kind of.
I get those too because they're like.

(25:55):
Showing my body, I'm just showing my natural face and my
body. I'm not trying to be like, Oh
fuck, are you like I looks like I'm, I'm being a real
representation like which then again, I'm saying that, but
literally that's like what I wanted to do when I was in
Mexico. Because when you get told that
enough, then you start to reallyfeel it and you're like, oh, I
am kind of making a statement just in the way that I look.

(26:17):
Yeah, I don't think people realize how much of A diss it is
when like I make a post or you make a post and then people are
like, you're like especially like on my page.
Like I get it too because it's like the dad bod in like the
chubby hubby in like little plussize, like boyfriend.
And like I literally frame myself as the helpless, hopeless
romantic online, which I was. And I want someone that's out of

(26:40):
my league. So like, we do look like an
optical illusion when we're together.
And I'm like the Nick Miller, hopeless, helpless archetype,
you know what I'm saying? Like, And so people, people
will, what I'm getting at like for the both of us is like when
you make a post or post a picture or a video and you're
just being yourself or you're just showing yourself off in a
swimsuit or a suit or whatever. And people are like, you are now

(27:01):
my spokesman. You are so brave for you just
literally existing because I look at myself as being very
ugly or unattractive and we lookalike.
So I just wanted to say that we applaud you and you're
courageous. Like we have this same body and
I hate mine so much but thank you for being so.

(27:21):
Brave for being so brave. And it's like like you think
you're, I think they, I think itsounds like a compliment, you
know what I mean? Or maybe it's like self
assurance. I don't know.
Well, and there is like AI was touching on this a little bit.
There is like a much bigger needfor like normal looking people.

(27:42):
But then again, like what I'm talking like in the beauty space
specifically and with like girl influencers and the type of
girls like me who go on trips like these and who are who are
representing that kind of stuff,there obviously does need to be
a huge array of representation and there's not always that.
On one end of the spectrum, there's gonna be a very
conventionally attractive by thebook that was written by the

(28:04):
patriarchy. This is what a woman should look
like, right? It's.
Gonna be a lot of them because the way that society is set up
still nowadays, whether we want it to be that way or not, the
way that it's set up, those types of people are still the
most conventionally attractive. Well, it's set up for women to
be constantly, endlessly sexualized.
And men encourage that. They're like, oh, like, fuck,

(28:27):
yeah. Like, look at this sexy, sexy
woman. I like seeing sexy woman.
Sexy, sexy, sexy. Like, they go.
Men love going about their days and being like, sexy lady, sexy
woman. She looks so good.
Like, men love that shit, right?And at the same time, when
they're with a woman, they're like, whoa, don't be sexual.
Like endlessly, relentlessly sexualized and then expected not

(28:51):
to be sexy. Yeah, like, yeah, it's society.
The second I am the one that wants to be sexy, and the second
that I'm the one acknowledging that I look sexy and want to put
myself out there, then it's icky.
Because men like the idea of control and power over.
Well, no, I like, I like. I like you too.
I'm. Not saying you.
I'm saying when it comes to the patriarchy, women put themselves
out there and they're like, I amsexy.

(29:12):
I'm going to accept my sexualityand I'm going to flaunt it and
I'm going to be a sexy woman andmay take control of that if
they're not doing it exactly in the and in the way a man wants.
Men are often turned off by that.
So she's being confident in a way with herself that isn't
equivalent to what I like, so I'm going to bash on it.
That's a dude's brain. Yeah, a lot of men want to see a

(29:33):
woman in a sexual way. How do I know this?
I'm not a pick me, I'm a dude trying to do better.
I feel like people nowadays needto be awarded the time to grow
and learn, you know what I mean?Yes, and they should do that on
their own, which is. Oh yeah, 100% as.

(29:56):
Opposed to what you were saying,but I think that like we also
need to then look at the fact ofthe matter, which is where they
learned that from in the first place.
Yeah. People should be able to form
their own opinions, but they should be able to educate
themselves in a correct way. What we're referring to is
people that don't do that. And then they're posting online,

(30:17):
they have podcasts, they have platforms, they make movies,
they're politicians, they're whatever the fuck.
And they never did that with themselves.
And then they confidently, proudly and loudly state their
opinions to the world on platforms much like this, right?
And it's loud, it's wrong. And people are like, I have that

(30:37):
opinion too. And because we have the same
opinion, that must mean that it's right.
Does that make sense? Yeah, you're validating me
because I'm hearing the wrong thoughts in my head come out of
your stupid mouth. Well, and in that same breath,
whether you think it's right or wrong, you should give your
spell yourself space. No matter what side you're on
with any conversation ever, you should give yourself the space

(30:58):
to at least listen to what the other side is saying.
Yeah. And again, no matter what side
you're on entirely, and I'm not saying you have to give it any
any second thought, you don't have to try to validate it in
your own brain the other topics and the other points that other
people are. Bringing up.
But you should give yourself thespace to at least hear it.

(31:20):
Hear it and then make your decision.
And if your decision immediatelyis like fuck no, fuck that,
immediately not. And here's why I think that.
And you can have substantial reasoning to back up why you
don't agree with that. That's fine.
You have to be willing and able to have these conversations,
these blunt, horrible, horrific fights, even if that's what it
gets to, you have to be preparedfor that.

(31:42):
Like, I don't I everyone has family members in front, or
maybe not everybody, but I feel like a lot of people have a lot
of family and friends that have horrible morals and a lot of
people are pieces of shit. And a lot of people just
immediately are like, oh, like that's what you believe, right?
I'm going to cut you off. Yeah.
Now I'm all for that. I'm 100% all for that.

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If there was like 50 conversations that took place
before that, cool. If you've made yourself loud and
proud and known and they're still like, no, and you've made
a boundary, cool, that's great. But if you meet somebody, right,
and they have a different outlook than you and you don't
take advantage of that opportunity to like explain your
views, and hopefully it has somesort of resignation in their

(32:26):
brain to where they might change, then you're not helping
anything. You're not growing anything.
I'm all for cutting off people. I've cut off so many people in
my fucking life. And I know, I know the lost
causes and the helpless people and the people you're not going
to reach. And I cut them off.
I don't give a fuck. Like, fuck them.
I don't need them in my life. Yeah, right.
But if you meet somebody new, whether you're at work, whether
you're out and about, friends, mutual friends, family, friends,

(32:49):
whatever family, maybe there wassomething that you could have
said there. There might have been something
you could have said or did to that person to make them maybe
think a little bit differently. Am I wrong?
No, I think the only, The only exception to that because I do
fully agree with you and I feel like everyone should be able to

(33:10):
have conversations with people if presented to understand.
Yeah, if presented the opportunity.
But also, I do fully understand people not wanting to have a
conversation with someone because it is a lot of times I
feel like with the conversationsthat we're talking about, very
tricky conversations, very deep conversations, ones that kind of
need a lot of a time, a lot of time and attention to them.

(33:31):
And if you're not in the headspace for that, if you can't
really handle being able to havethat conversation and it's not
the time for you and it's not a conversation that you can
personally handle, then I also understand shutting yourself off
from hearing those people. Yeah, 100%.
But if you have the opportunity to have an open mind and speak

(33:51):
with an open mind and possibly change a mind or like learn a
new perspective, I feel like themost attractive quality in a
human being is an open mind. I have almost kind of an example
of this on the brand trip that Iwas on, obviously not going to
name any names, but we were going around the table playing
never have I ever before lunch one of the days and one of the

(34:12):
girls is never have I ever was never have I ever thought about
cheating on my significant other.
I've never thought about cheating on my partner.
And like 2 of the OR it was either thought about it or have
done it. And like 2 of the other girls
were like, oh, of course, like all the time.
And then they were joking about how they've cheated before on

(34:33):
previous partners. And I was just sitting there and
I was like. Oh, like loudly and proudly.
Yeah, And I was like, that's a conversation I wouldn't even
want to have because there's no way you would ever change my
morals on that in that moment. I'm like, I'm not going to have
a conversation where I changed their mind.
I don't want to hear them out either.
That's like an excuse. Time and place too.
Time and place. Yeah, exactly like location.

(34:54):
And it wasn't affecting anybody else at the table.
It wasn't hurting anybody immediately.
It wasn't like. Yeah, sometimes you're just
like, oh, that person's like an idiot.
Yeah. So I'm saying there's times
that, you know, you disagree with people, but you're just,
it's not the time or place. But like, also, like if that was
a one-on-one conversation, then obviously, yeah, it would have
been a conversation. If you had to cheat on me, how

(35:15):
would you do it? How would you do it?
If I had to cheat on you, how would I do it?
Or if you were going to cheat onme, how would you do it?
I haven't really given that any thought ever.
Let's figure it out how we're going to cheat on each other.
Let's do it. How would I?
How would I cheat on you? Honestly?
First off, too much energy. Like there's no way I could

(35:37):
cheat on you. I'm just gonna tell you this
right now. There's no way I could.
What do you mean too much energy?
Just too exhausting. Just too much.
Oh, it takes too much energy. Too much.
Oh yeah. It's just too exhausting
mentally tolling. I don't.
I was literally, that was immediate.
My first immediate thought was that like, you'd be in on it
somehow. Oh.
No, no, no, no, no, like. I so I wouldn't have to hide it
from you. No, no, no, no, no.
I'm like, I just, I couldn't do it.
I just, it's just too exhausting.
I can't even imagine. No, that's why I've never given

(35:59):
a plot or a scheme as to how I would.
Cheat on you? Can you imagine talking to two
people? Three people at the same time.
You're also a terrible liar and I know way too much about your
every move, so I would find out within.
Oh yeah, you know, I was literally, you would literally
know I was cheating probably within 1/2.
Before you even did it. Yeah, like.
Yeah, because we spend every waking moment together.
Yeah. And even when we're apart, I

(36:21):
don't, I hate like I'm such a bad texter.
I know that's like such a thing.You are like terrible fucking
hate texting. I'll send voice notes.
I love phone calls. I love FaceTime.
I will send a text if I have to send a text if I'm doing
something like and we've had long textual conversations.
Yeah, but sexual. Textual conversations.
Yeah, but it's when we're not doing anything.
Like I'll be on a plane and you'll be hanging out in bed and

(36:42):
it's like essentially a phone call.
I'll text you throughout the dayand like update you on your day
because I enjoy doing that because I like being on my
phone. But I also don't really expect
you to respond for hours becauseI know you're not on your phone
very much. It would be an Ocean's 11 heist
for me to cheat on you for sure.Like it would take a lot of
thought, planning. I'd have to completely change my
lifestyle to what it is right now.

(37:03):
I'd. Have to, I would still find out.
And you still would. I just, that's why I'm saying I
don't have the energy for this. Yeah, I don't want to do this.
I don't have like, if I really even had the thought that I was
going to cheat on you, I'd just break up with you immediately.
All that said, how the fuck would we do it though?
I don't know. Well, I'm also trying to think
of. If you have a better chance of
cheating on me than I do, I was.Going to say I feel like I would
just because you are so ADHD that you don't really know

(37:26):
what's going on a lot. Of this year, like every time I
watch a mystery movie or like a murder movie, I'm like, oh,
that's why I would have fucked up like I forgot that like I
already forgot that long time I.Can't come up with a good
example right now, but I've likedone not bad things, but like
I'll like do something around the house entirely like while
we're hanging out together and you'll have no idea.
I go to my nothing box when I'm thinking about shit.

(37:46):
I'm thinking about shit. I'm like locked in.
I'm locked in and I'm thinking so hard about whatever it is.
I'm trying to think of how I would cheat on you if I had to.
You'd be like, what are you thinking about?
And I'm like I. Don't want to fuck another
person? No, but how would you like
obviously? How do people even get what I'm

(38:06):
saying? How do?
People get away with cheating. Like honestly.
The thought of trying to fuckingget somebody in the 1st place is
like already too exhausting. Like already too much.
I don't want to have to fucking text.
I don't even want to be. With this sounds so fucked up
and especially if you scroll through my videos and you've
been watching me for a long time.
But like deep deep down, I didn't know if I really wanted a

(38:27):
relationship. Yeah, I really was just I was I
was throwing videos up. If you've been watching me, you
know if you haven't you then youdon't know.
But I I just threw up videos fora long time just manifesting
Mario festing the best relationship that could possibly
happen right and in my brain. I didn't think that it could
happen. And at that point I was like, I

(38:47):
don't even think I could have this many followers or be doing
what I'm doing anyways. So like, fuck it.
Like fake it till you make it. Might as well just throw it out
there. And then it did happen and it
does come to fruition. And now I'm like living the life
and I'm like, Oh my God, this isfucking amazing.
You know what I mean? Yeah, you were very comfortable
with yourself and being single. Yeah, I feel like that's a major
key before you get into a relationship.

(39:08):
I. Wasn't.
Yeah, you were like, I can tell you were trying to lock me down.
Yeah, but but that's also why I then dealt with a lot of anxiety
and a lot of mental issues throughout like the first year
of our. Mind you were getting so anxious
about everything. That I will also blame that on
my birth control fully because the second I stopped birth

(39:29):
control, half of my anxiety, well actually like 3/4 of my
anxiety disappeared on my brain and kind of turned into anger a
little bit, which isn't cute, but.
I yeah, you went from cutie. No, you went from cutie patootie
to TZ meanie. I remember having this kind of
you got off birth control and I was like, you used to be so
cutie patootie, and now you're kind.
Of like, because I was so anxious to ever say anything

(39:50):
wrong or do anything wrong or ever have you mad at me and
like. Which is so stupid.
No, I know, but it's and like obviously I still don't want you
to ever be mad at me or to have disagreements or anything but
like with normal life that happens but like.
I am no longer anxious of havingthose conversations or sticking
up for myself if that's what I feel like I need to do or being
like hey it kind of bothers me when this happens.

(40:10):
How would you cheat on me? I'm.
Still trying to figure out a great way to do that, but I
definitely have turned more to mean rather than just.
Yeah, you're just more which is fine, which is fine.
Don't use that sound clip. How would you cheat on me?
I I like dead ass like I feel. Like, well, my first thought is
I have to figure out whether it would be with a boy or a girl.

(40:32):
Yeah, see, and you even have more options.
I just have. Girls, I could get away with it
with a dude. That'd be the best way.
Actually, we just cracked the code.
Because you wouldn't suspect. But you wouldn't suspect.
You wouldn't care if I cheated on you?
Well I would but like with a guyI had I it would be a more.
We've had this conversation. Conversation of like, are you
OK? What do you want to talk?
About you should be just as mad.What the fuck are you talking

(40:52):
about? That's actually insane.
If you're already bisexual, but like if you right now, current
day were to hook up with a guy, my immediate concern wouldn't be
about whether or not if you cheated on me.
It would be more so about like, what is your sexuality?
Are you gay? Like, are you straight?
Like what does that mean? No, I would.
I could not, could not disagree more.

(41:13):
You cheat on me with a guy, girl, Chupacabra, I don't.
You cheat on me with a guy, a girl, Sam Squatch, a fucking
farm animal. I don't know.
You cheat on me with anything, we're done.
I don't even care. I don't.
But that's. The difference between me and
you though? I've established so I cheat on
you with a dude and you're goingto be like, but why did you're

(41:34):
going to become my I? Would eventually get very mad at
you for cheating on me with a guy, but I think more what I'm
saying is the shock of you fucking another man would be at
the very forefront of my brain. That would be immediately where
my head goes rather than like Ohmy God this motherfucker cheated
on me. I'm just saying that's the least
conspicuous way I could do it because I'm not bisexual.

(41:57):
I'm sorry I forgot to address this.
So many people watched the firstfew episodes where we talked
about me being bisexual. At this point a lot of people in
my life have have congratulated me on being bisexual, which is
kind of good to know that like alot of people in my life aren't
bigoted assholes. You.
Know I would hope not. Because like everybody.

(42:19):
Mean how they feel about me, your girlfriend.
Yeah, no, it's 100%. But I'm just saying like the
only reason I would do a dude would be it's the least
conspicuous thing. I'm not bisexual.
It'd be the least conspicuous way to get to get around it.
That'd be the quickest way I could do it.
OK, but like. You doing it, you you could go.
You can go either way. And I cannot believe you

(42:40):
wouldn't. You wouldn't be mad.
You wouldn't be mad. That's crazy.
I never said I wouldn't be mad. You, you said you'd be more
shocked and then eventually you would get angry.
Oh. I It would be shocking anger.
It should just be anger and done.
You're telling me that if you fucked a man, you wouldn't
expect me to be a little shockedby it?
Well, no, I just would expect you to be like, well, Congrats

(43:01):
and then that's it and we're done.
Yeah, well, I have always said that if you cheat on someone,
you're getting cut immediately. Like you're literally out of my
life entirely. Yeah, that's why you understand
how like when you were like, no,at first I would like want to
do. I didn't figure out what the
heck. Yeah, OK.
I guess I didn't word that. Probably I would break up with
you. You would have cheated on me.
I would still take that as cheating.
I would still want about it. You'd still want that piping

(43:23):
hunt. Too.
I would be a little confused andshocked you'd be like to say the
least. That would suck because you, I
know you and you'd want that like that.
It would also make me fully crash out because my last
relationship she cheated on me with a guy and a lot of the
times during our relationship I would ask her if she because she
was also bisexual and I would belike, do you miss men?

(43:44):
Are you sure that you're OK withme?
Am I enough for you as a woman? So like, if you were to go and
do that with a man, I think I would literally just like go
into hiding for the rest of my life.
So she cheats on you with a man and you're like, Oh yeah, you're
dead to me. I cheat on you with a man and
you're like, talk to me. I knew she was bisexual.

(44:05):
OK. I think in a way it would make
me feel less guilty if I like started a whole other
relationship while in the relationship with you rather
than like hooking up with someone for like a one night
stand. Like if I were to cheat on you,
I'd almost want it to be like a full blown like starting a whole
other relationship because if itwas a one night stand I would
feel really guilty. But like if I'm starting a whole

(44:27):
new relationship with someone I have fully like invested in that
and I have fully like said goodbye to this relationship in
my head entirely. So like I wouldn't feel as
guilty because I'm already a terrible person.
I've like made that decision. But like if I were to do it as
like a one off one night stand type thing, then I have to live
with the guilt and continue my relationship with you.

(44:47):
Well until you found out or if Iwanted to break up with you or
whatever the fuck. But like, that would eat me
alive more so than me just fullyaccepting that I'm a fucking
cheater. Yeah.
Isn't it crazy how immediately, within like 10 seconds of the
conversation, you just learn howcheating is just always stupid?
Yeah. It's like, never a good thing.
Like, it's like no matter how you do it, it's just like you

(45:09):
live guilty for the rest of yourlife knowing what you did and
knowing that your life's fake oryou just ruin multiple people's
lives. Yeah.
And just do irreversible damage forever.
Yeah. It's crazy.
Cheaters are the worst. How would you cheat on me?
How would I cheat on you? First off, I would not be able

(45:30):
to start a whole new family relationship.
I just know that I just I would slip up.
Something would slip through thecracks.
You'd see something. I think I would if I really
tried to start a family without you start a start a relationship
without you, I'd I'd fail, I'd fail, I'd fail, I'd fail.

(45:50):
I really considered it and I'd fail just because there's,
there's there's so many lies to keep track of.
You know what I mean? I learned early on it's just
better to be like embarrassinglyover the top truthful than to
lie. Yeah, because it's more
entertaining and people enjoy itmore.
First off, nobody likes the dude.
That's like, every story I tell about myself is like, I'm the

(46:13):
winner, I'm the hero. You immediately are like, fuck
you, fuck you, fuck you. I hate you.
You're the worst, OK, You know what I mean?
Nothing bad ever happens to you.You hook up with somebody every
time you go out, you're the coolest.
You're the bee's knees. Like, literally.
But like what I found is like, oh, let me just tell you how
much of a train wreck last nightwas when we went out and people

(46:35):
are like, oh, this is way funnier.
Oh, I want to listen to this immediately.
It's like being truthful always wins.
It always wins because real recognize real people know
genuine, organic, realistic people.
Well, and even if it's going to make someone like have a
reaction, it's still better to have that reaction than to have
them question what actually happened.
Because so lost, but I'm sure anyone listening and hearing

(46:58):
didn't. So I'm not going to ask you to
reiterate. No, like I'd rather tell you
straight up like what the vibes were with people, even if it
makes you a little uncomfortable, rather than lying
about it entirely. You should win an Oscar.
Why? If you're able to, like, cheat
on somebody in today's day and age and have a whole other
family, No, not you. Well, no, of course you deserve
that. What do you mean?

(47:18):
No, not you. Yes, you do.
An award? Do you deserve all the awards
for being a sexy siren, sorceress, gorgeous Gucci
goddess, delicious, delectable. What was I saying?
Oh God, did that hurt. Someone deserves it.
Yeah, I'm. Sorry.
Oh, that hurts. My deserves.
You see, they're fate. You deserve an award if you can

(47:38):
lie. You deserve an award, that's
exactly what. A terrible liar if you if.
You are a really good liar. And in today's day and age with
social media, with cameras and eyes everywhere, with people
able to reach anybody at all times of everywhere, if you're
able to pull that off, you act like, honestly, I'm impressed.
I'm not even mad. Like honestly, yeah, if you went

(47:59):
off and started a whole their family with somebody else, I
would be impressed. I would be impressed.
I take back everything that I said up to this point.
I'll be impressed. If I started a family with
someone I would have to be, I would notice that I was
pregnant. That's what I mean.
I would be impressed. I would be impressed if you were
able to squeeze out a couple of kids with no detect.
Because like, think about it. Imagine you start putting on
like a lot of weight. Right.

(48:20):
The yellow baby bump. Am I going to say shit?
And if I do, I'm like, hey, like.
You would say shit about my boobs growing I'll be like and
about me not drinking alcohol. Honestly the more I think about
it, probably it would just go undetected because your boobs
would get bigger and I wouldn't question anything you.
Would notice because I would stop hitting my vape.

(48:41):
Oh, you couldn't. You could probably vape with a
baby. No, Mario.
No. What's in your lungs?
Mario No, The nicotine affects your whole lot.
Your blood it. Affects your blood.
I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding, baby.
Comes out just like fucking fiendin just trying to RIP a
bink, you know what I mean? Do not Can you imagine the do

(49:04):
not vape while you're pregnant? Can you imagine baby coming out
being addicted to a vape? I don't vape right?
She does she. Used to until like a month ago.
I stopped. I got out.
No, it's been a multiple months.I got out of the military and I
quit vaping. It's been like 2 months.
I haven't vaped at all. I get it.
When you're vaping and you wake up and you need that breath of
fresh air, I'm just swatting. I wake up in the morning.

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When I was vaping, this is you every morning you're like, where
is it? You're throwing blankets all
over the place. Just I could start my day now.
Like you need that. Like it's like you can't breathe
until you hit it. You know what I mean?
That's what it's like, you know what I'm saying?
Can you imagine a baby getting nine months of that daily dose

(49:47):
of that nicotine and then comingout just like, yo, can we get
some 5 Millivan milligrams of some jewel pods?
Like what the fuck, mom? Like, you know, like for real?
Yeah, it wouldn't suck a nip. I'm.
Oh, oh, this. Is not a conversation I wanted
to start on I'm just saying likebaby would wouldn't even care
about the nipple. You know what I mean it would
just be all about no tits no boobs, no nips, just jewel.

(50:12):
You know what I mean? What do you mean?
Oh God, that's you do it. You do it to yourself every
single day. Get.
Me pregnant. That's how I get you to quit
nicotine and alcohol is to get you pregnant.
No, no, no, because I just saw something look this up.
Google it. Apparently apparently,
apparently before I get Bryn pregnant, whenever that may be,

(50:35):
I need to be super soldier, right?
I need to have like peak physical body so that my baby
gravy comes out like a bunch of Michael Phelps and it's like an
elite baby. No, look this up like there's a
there's a thing where you do. I don't know what to Google.
In shape before getting pregnant?

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Yes, Look at this, look at this,look at this.
It's important to get as healthyand fit as possible before you
start trying for a baby. Factors that can make it harder
to conceive a baby are older age, unhealthy weight, smoking,
some medicines, and chemical exposure.
Keep your testicles cool to helpmake sure you have plenty of
healthy sperm. So we're going to lower the AC

(51:18):
around the house. I'm going to lose about 60 lbs,
right? I know we had a really. 60.
We had a real body positive talk.
You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
And I know that you should not feel yourself.
That's why I barely even touchedon it, because I know who you
are. And you're the most beautiful
woman I've ever seen in my entire life.

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Like I say it every single fucking day.
I would also. Like, no, because it's science.
It's science science. I saw it on a me saying science
means I saw it on a TikTok. And I think dudes are supposed
to get ripped now and look really, really, you know, good
and sexy and like, be in shape and healthy and always not just
looks aesthetically, although I want to do that, you know what I

(52:00):
mean? We want to just be healthy in
general. God, but I do kind of toxically
want to look like Rambo. That really did.
I remember watching like Rambo and Terminator and every Marvel
movie and there's always that shirtless part of it where every
young man watches and goes like that.
I want to look like that so bad.Like I swear to God, I know I.
Also want to be in shape for like, selfish reasons, for

(52:21):
aesthetic purposes, for whateverthe fuck.
But I also do want to be in shape before I get pregnant
because I know I'm gonna obviously put on weight.
When you're pregnant, when I get.
Pregnant and I also know that like postpartum emotions and
postpartum mental state is goingto be a little rough.
And if I feel like shit about mybody, I don't want to add that

(52:41):
on to I'm going to regardless because I just birthed a whole
human. Like I know that already I'm
going to feel icky about my body, but like I want to try to
but it's prevent that as much aspossible.
I agree. I'm just saying, like, again,
this is a whole conversation when it comes to like your own
personal preferences and your own mental health concerning
your weight and like the toxicity behind that and.
Yeah, no, I fell for it. That's what I'm saying.

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Like from an early age, I remember watching every single
movie and just being like, Oh myGod, like, I want to look like
that, You know what I mean? Like, just like I want to be in
shape, I want to be ripped and whatever.
And like as a kid, you do not understand that that's, do you
just fart, You just farted. You just let a little little
out. You should jar that up.

(53:24):
Sell it online. I don't smell anything.
I'm a woman. Nothing but butterfly wings and
flower petals coming out that ass, am I right?
Yeah. What?

(53:45):
And my hemorrhoids. What was I saying?
From a young age, you wanted to look like.
Ram. No, I fell for it.
No, like I legitimately fell forit.
I remember the mostly Sylvester Stallone, believe it or not.
Because if we watch Rocky, we watch Rambo, a lot of Arnold
Schwarzenegger, the Predator, the fucking Predator.

(54:06):
Did you ever watch that? Get to the chopper.
Oh, you want? To look like.
Want to look like Arnold? Did you?
Did you what? I literally my entire childhood,
I wanted to look, I wanted to dosound like this.
Like I remember watching the Terminator in Arnold.
He's butt naked in the parking lot and I was like, I wanna look
like that. You know what I mean?

(54:27):
I wanted to. Look like my.
Mom, you also know my mom is like the most.
It woman, your mom is David Goggins.
My mom is. Like, no, your mom's like,
actually David Goggins. She looks amazing but she scares
me with just how motivated she is to keep her body healthy.
She literally runs like 5 miles a day right?
She has ran over 5 miles a day, every single day for the past

(54:51):
two years. She just went to Scotland.
I thought it was Ireland, Scotland.
Where put him in Scotland. She did a thing where they were
walking, I think like over 10 miles every day.
It was 100 miles within. Yeah, it's a week for yeah, it's
a week for 100 miles through Scotland.
Yeah, and she's still on top of that was like, I need to make
sure I get my five mile run in every day though, so I don't

(55:12):
lose my streak. Her mom's staying with us.
First time I ever really, reallymet her and got to talk to her,
and she's asking me what the best running trails are.
Yeah, I said a treadmill. I was like a treadmill works
pretty good for me. And like, no, I want to run
outside. I was like, well, there's a
running track at the gym I go to, too.
No, I want to run outside. I can't help you.

(55:34):
OK, There's two things I do outside.
All right, Watch Dogs at the dogpark and play pickleball.
That's it. And smoke that good delicious
ganja reefer weed late at night.Those baby Jays.
No, but the fact she's been doing that for over 2 years, she
has a streak going for over 2. Years.
Yeah, that's what. I mean, and she works out on top

(55:56):
of that and eats healthy and it's like.
Yeah, you know when someone's like 2 put together, it's almost
like go fuck yours. Don't say that about.
My does your mom. Oh, my God.
No, no, no, no, no. I'm so sorry.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
No. No, no, no, no.
No, no, like no, no no no no no no no.
Everyone Stop, stop, stop. Camera 1, camera one over here.

(56:22):
Cue cards up. OK, I am so sorry for saying go
fuck yourself. You may have noticed I stopped
myself halfway through. I love your daughter very much
and we are complimenting you on how athletically gifted you are
and how healthy your lifestyle is.
Please do not disown me and do not disapprove of me and your

(56:44):
daughter. Sincerely, respectfully,
happily, loudly and proudly Mario.
She also, on top of just being physically active and stuff like
her house is the cleanest, most organized place you've ever
seen. She's the most type A person.
She is the And then I look and Ilook at myself and I'm like, how
did you raise me? I get it because I know my dad,

(57:05):
but like looking at I'm like, how did I come out of you?
How do I live the life? We were just talking about how I
can't live without my vape. The only way I would stop vaping
or drinking alcohol is if I get pregnant, which is so.
Terrible. And the only way that I would
get in shape is if you were going to get pregnant.
Yeah. So pregnancy hinges on us, kind
of, but. I'm saying the fact that I need

(57:26):
that to do it and she's just motivated by her.
She also works so literally every aspect when you think of a
person that has their shit together, it is my mother.
When you go to somebody's house and it feels like you're in a
lobby because everything's so clean.
Yeah, You know what I mean? Yeah, Fuck yeah.
I hate going to houses. And it's like everything's like

(57:46):
perfect, you know what I mean? That's like, it's a lobby, it's
a museum. I feel like I have to get like
walked to where I'm. I have to ask where to sit if I
have to ask where to fucking sit, You know what I mean?
Like I said, is this a good spot?
Like is this good? Then I'm not comfortable in your
house. I'm not having a good.
You gotta have the most beautiful, delicious, amazing
game night party, you know, likedinner.

(58:06):
We're gonna watch the season finale together.
Whatever. And this refers to a lot of
people in my life and I go to your house and it's like no
dust, you know what I mean? Thing one and thing 2 didn't
make a mess, You know what I'm saying?
Like the Cat in the Hat wasn't here.
I I'm not enjoying myself. I feel uncomfortable, I don't
feel good. No, what's crazy too is we've
had all the furniture in my mom's house since like 2002.

(58:30):
Like it literally looks brand spanking new.
I don't get how she well I I sayI don't get how she does it.
No, I know because at least likeonce a week she would have been
going around the house dusting the floorboards.
The floorboards. Why don't you just get like a
swifter? Do you like it with a Swiffer?
No, I was hands and knees with paper towel and then spray
cleaning the floorboards. It wasn't once a week, it was

(58:50):
like once a month. Parents, you want your daughters
to grow up to be princesses? Put them to work.
I mean, look at her, Cinderella.Look at that.
I mean they just had her scrubbing floors.
She's not like an evil stepmom. No, she's not.
We're making her sound so bad. And we're supposed to like Prop.
Her up? No no no, I don't think we're
making her sound bad at all. She would notice though, like if
I accidentally messed up a pieceof furniture or like anything in

(59:12):
the house in any way, like if I got a speck of paint on the
carpet. I don't mean like a smear, I
mean like a spec. She would notice it within a
week and be like, how did that get there?
And then she would like, clean it, deep clean it and get it to
look perfect. Oh yeah.
She brought up when we were having dinner at her house.
I got a water stain on the tableone time when I was younger and
she. Literally a water stain.

(59:33):
Yeah, do you not remember her talking about this?
Oh yeah. She brought it up when we were
having dinner at her house, and she was like, Oh yeah, do you
see the water stain? The friend?
And I'm like, Mom, it's been 20 years and you're still holding
that against? Me, we love you.
We I love you so much. I really do respect like you are
a huge inspiration to me when itcomes to when it comes to
certain aspects of my life that I want to improve.

(59:53):
I literally am just like what would say.
No, I need to go before. Listen, Bryn's mother, future
mother-in-law, when I want to get your daughter pregnant, I'm
going to need to go on some jogswith you, OK?
So you can train me to get. You can train me to get your
daughter pregnant. No, because I need to lose

(01:00:16):
weight. I need to lose weight because
according to Google is I need to.
So me and your mother can run 5 miles a day together, right?
And we can lose weight and she can train me And then at a
certain point I'm going to be like, I'm going to get a high 5,
you know what I mean? We're going to be like, I'm
about to go get your daughter sopregnant and then we'll get you
pregnant and then she'll have played a role in that, you know

(01:00:37):
what I mean? Because then me and your I feel
bad for all the things I said about your mom.
So I feel like this is a good way to make up for it as I
don't. Think so.
Run with your mom no lose weightto get you pregnant.
Well, maybe that, but not the aspect of her helping you get me
pregnant. Not like just get in shape to
get you pregnant. I know what I'm doing.

(01:00:57):
Oh, I take care of your daughter.
Let me do Mario. I feel like if you know.
I get me pregnant right now. If it was in the spirit of
pregnancy, you let me do whatever.
I guarantee it. Oh yeah, Really.
Yeah. OK, I need to go running with
your mom, like immediately. You want to have a baby?

(01:01:18):
It's kind of fire, obviously. When I there was a couple girls
on the brand trip that I was just on and like hearing them
talk about motherhood, I was like I held a baby.
I know you sent it to me immediately.
I. Held a baby.
It was so cute. It was interesting.
She held a baby and then proceeded to drink 4 margaritas
and then spent 7 hours going. I held a baby.

(01:01:39):
Did you see the picture of me holding the baby?
I held a baby. Did you see the picture that I
sent you 12 times of me holding the baby?
I'm not necessarily ready for that.
Yet we just went to the movie theater and saw Death of a
Unicorn. Good movie.
Very good. I love going to the to the
movies, to the theater. I always have.
I always will. If I could go like once a week,
I would. I usually I try to go to the
theater at least once a month. Yeah.

(01:02:01):
Like I try to like just to just to see anything, just to see
something. I just love the experience of
going to the theater. Big, extra buttery, buttery
bucket of popcorn. I always get my little bread
vines. Oh, and those little toasted
coconut cookies that I got last time were some fighting good.
There, Yeah. With the which ones?
Oh, the coconut ones. With the coconut it is.
Yeah. We went to the movies.

(01:02:22):
Death of a Unicorn. Death of a Unicorn.
So much better than I thought itwould be.
No, that's what you got to go with.
Low expectations and a 24. A 24.
You know what I mean? Yeah, If I ever made a movie,
ATV show, whatever, I want a 24.OK, A 24 has just been cooking.
They've just been cooking. Let's hold on.
They know what the. Hold on, look at this, look at
this roster a 24 movies. Hereditary.

(01:02:47):
Midsummer moonlight, Everything Everywhere all at once.
Minari Ex Machina, hereditary uncut gems, Lady bird Midsummer
past lives like the the the witch, the lighthouse.
Like a 24 just puts out bangers.Like if a 24 talked to me, I
wouldn't saw that in the theater.
Like I've seen every I've seen most of not every single one.
I've seen a lot of a 24 in the Igo in with low expectations,

(01:03:11):
right? And like the death of a Unicorn.
I went in baked. Oh yeah.
Took an Eddie. I wasn't Took an Eddie, Betty,
Betty Bell. And then I hit my Benjamin
button a couple times that pregame beforehand.
It's fun as fuck, but it was it was good.
You were. It was well done.
We didn't know really what it was about going into it, but

(01:03:31):
obviously we knew it was an adult film.
It was a 24. It was called Death of a
Unicorn. So.
Obviously rated R as fuck. Like graph, like the Have you
seen the boys? Yeah, You know, like the if
you've seen the boys on Amazon, like that level of graphic, very
graphic, very. And out of nowhere, it's like
death of a Unicorn, but then youdon't see it.
But so midway through the movie,while something was happening,

(01:03:55):
something very graphic was happening on the screen.
It was kind of like the incline into the climax of the movie.
It was getting very intense. We hear this little kid chirp up
from across the theater. I didn't like that.
I don't like these unicorns. Like, Oh yeah.
And then we see them get up and start walking out of theater.

(01:04:16):
I turned to Mario and I was like, did you?
There's a fucking kinder. Keep in mind I'm throwing
punches at the like, I'm very flinchy.
I'm scared. I'm like the most jumpy person
ever. I'm like, I'm watching this
movie. I love watching scary movies.
I hate scary movies. I'll watch all of them.
I hate scary movies. I will watch them all because it
literally feels like an adrenaline rush.
I love it. Like I just I can't take my eyes

(01:04:36):
away from the screen. I'll put myself through it.
I'm super scared and it amped meup watching a scary.
Movie, but it was a scary it was.
Scary. It was scary, scary movie.
It was a solid and it was unexpected because we didn't
know what we were getting ourselves into.
And we're like oh fuck. The fact that there was a child,
it's not. Theatre, it's dead silent.
Something very dramatic just happened and we hear clear as

(01:04:58):
day. I didn't like that.
And then we hear like commotion,like people moving, and we're
like, what the. Like I don't like.
These unicorns. And then they left.
Yeah. Why would?
You bring a child. Well, no, no, no, I OK, but it's
like it's death of a Unicorn. I get the Unicorn.
The death is the first word I. Just I feel like death.
I don't know. I feel like they were just a

(01:05:18):
family that maybe goes to. I'm trying to come up with best
case scenario, assuming the bestfor these people going full Ted
Lasso. They go to the movies all the
time. They're looking for something to
watch. They bring their little kid.
It's something to do as a family.
And they saw Unicorn and they'relike Unicorn little kid.
I'm taking them parents don't take your kids to death and I
don't want to. I love going to any movie with

(01:05:39):
the lowest expectations. I'm a slut for trailers, teaser
trailers. I I go on YouTube like once a
day and just type in new trailers.
I love you Go. See Mickey 17 soon.
I know I want to go see 117. I'm excited.
I want to go see. I'm trying to think of what else
I want, Mickey. 17 Give us movierecommendations.
Please do this is like the only time I like drink really is like

(01:05:59):
on the podcast now. Yeah, kind.
Of nice. We'll probably drink because
after this we're going to go outthe First Friday art.
Walk. Oh yeah, this was all this.
What's so cool about doing a podcast, or at least for us is
like, I don't know what time of day it is, but imagine, imagine
it's the weekend, right? Imagine it's the weekend or it's
like a Friday and it's evening time.

(01:06:21):
And you record a podcast with your significant other drinking
beer and then you post it. And then afterwards you just go
out for like a fun night, you know what I mean?
We love. Our lives, I think it's cool
because like we're in the spare bedroom of our place and we
built all this. I feel like you can just do
whatever you want to do. If there's any little tidbit of

(01:06:44):
information I give you guys, this podcast episode is whatever
you want to do, just do it. There's like a bunch of people
within reason, but like a bunch of people wanted us to start a
podcast. So we started a podcast and I
have so much fun doing it. Like this is like literally a
blast. Like, it's so much fucking fun.
And so like, why wouldn't we do it?
And yeah, we like, spend a little extra time doing it.

(01:07:04):
And it's like a lot of work in this all together.
And like behind the scenes, it'snuts.
But like getting this up for everybody to watch and you guys
enjoying it. It's so fun.
It's so fun, but if you guys weren't even listening or tuning
in, I swear to God, like I have so much fun just doing this with
you. The act of doing it, the whole
process of it. Yeah, we would still do it.
Yeah, fuck yeah, we would like Oh my God, yeah.

(01:07:27):
But anyways. This was great.
This was. I feel like this was a good one.
I feel like this was really good.
Yeah. You guys let us know.
Excited for next week? I'm really excited.
Like one, we obviously talk a lot more than that, but I do
really look forward to our little weekly sit downs.
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, you wanna go take a shot?

(01:07:48):
Yeah, we're gonna go take a shotand then we're going to 1st
Friday in the Arts District of Las Vegas and we're going to get
turned. We love you guys so much.
Thank you so much for watching. Make sure to follow us on
everything, comment what you'd like us to talk about, answer
some of the questions that we posed this episode.
And we love you guys and thank you so much for watching.
This is episode what, 55 episode5.

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If you guys want to know how long this podcast was, it was 3
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