It started as a kidney stoneâbut turned into a reckoning with repressed anger, grief, and emotional bypassing.
From caregiving burnout to friendship grief to buried rage â this is the story of how unprocessed emotion can quite literally become pain in the body.
Your body will always tell the truthâeven when your mind is trying to âstay positive.â Sometimes the breakdown comes when youâre trying to hold it all together. And sometimes the body has to scream in order for us to finally listen.
In this vulnerable solo episode of #RabbitHoleReflections, host Lisa Van Slyke shares what landed her in the ERâand how a kidney stone cracked open years of unacknowledged emotion. What followed was a confrontation with repressed grief, unconscious anger, and the pressure to keep functioning while quietly falling apart.
From relationship heartbreak to generational caregiving to silent burnout, Lisa gets real about the cost of not feeling your feelings.
Inside this episode:
đ§ The hidden cost of emotional bypassing and the pressure to always âreframeâ
 đ„ How repressed anger can manifest as jaw tension, fatigueâand even kidney stones
 đ When a friendship ends but the love doesnât
 đ The absurdity of being mad at someone who doesnât existâand what it reveals about grief
 đ”đ» Life as a caregiver to elderly parents with complex needs
 đŁïž Why talking about trauma doesnât mean youâve processed it
 𧏠What past guests Olivia, Linda, and Cari taught about healing through the body
 đ Making space for truth without needing to âfixâ it
If youâve ever felt like you should be okay by nowâbut your body is saying otherwiseâthis episode offers grace, perspective, and permission to pause and feel.
đ Key Insight:
 "The body knows what the heart wonât say. And if we donât sit with itâit will find another way to scream."
â Lisa Van Slyke
âš About the Host:
 Lisa Van Slyke is the author of Quieted Flames & Silent Sparks, the host of Rabbit Hole Reflections, and a sacred storyteller who believes healing happens when stories are shared. Through unfiltered, soul-shifting conversations, she invites you to face your pain, reclaim your voice, and riseâin your own time.
đČ Instagram: @TheLisaV + @RabbitHoleReflections
đ§ Email: rabbitholereflectionspodcast@gmail.com
đș YouTube: @RabbitHoleReflectionsPodcast
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đ New Episodes Every Thursday @ 7PM CT
âš Next Week on Rabbit Hole Reflections:
Cari, an energy healer who carried childhood trauma for over 30 yearsâuntil her body finally said no more. Her story is a stunning reminder of the healing power in feeling it all.
#RabbitHoleReflections #MindBodyConnection #RepressedAnger #EmotionalHealing #KidneyStoneStory #CaregiverBurnout #GriefSupport #SomaticHealing #HealingJourney #PodcastForWomen #TraumaRecovery #WomenWhoHeal #SoloEpisode #RabbitHolePodcast
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Together, we're creating a world where shared stories of resilience
light the way from darkness to strength.
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