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March 7, 2025 62 mins

Healing Through Grief: Jason Tuttle's Journey of Love and Loss

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Jason Tuttle, a former stay-at-home parent who shares his deeply personal journey of grief and healing after the loss of his special needs son, Zachary. Jason discusses the challenges he faced as a father caring for two children with significant medical issues, how their unexpected loss impacted his life, and the creation of 'Letters to Zachary' as a way to express his emotions and support others.

The conversation touches on male grief, the importance of emotional expression, and the ways in which Jason has turned his pain into a legacy of love and understanding for others.

00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel

00:20 Meet Jason Tuttle: A Father's Journey

01:19 Becoming a Stay-at-Home Dad

02:39 Challenges of Raising Special Needs Children

07:30 Daily Life with Zachary

20:20 The Unexpected Loss

30:39 The Final Moments and Pronouncement

31:11 Breaking the News to Family

32:06 Processing the Immediate Aftermath

33:06 Grieving and Seeking Information

35:00 Returning Home and Family Support

38:58 Men and Grief: A Personal Perspective

43:38 The Birth of 'Letters to Zachary'

48:25 Expanding the Grief Community

53:35 Advice for Men Dealing with Loss

58:44 Faith and Moving Forward

01:00:20 Conclusion and Resources


Connect with Jason

Letters To Zachary -- https://letterstozachary.com/

Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/letterstozachary2022/

Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/134438966423994

LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-tuttle-4264112a7/

TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@letterstozachary2022


Resources

Letters to Zachary Coloring Book -- https://amzn.to/4iijmvU


Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:

Confused about where you are headed in life? Book a Clarity Call with Andy at https://theandygrant.com/talk

Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant

Personal Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!

Podcast Website | http://realmenfeel.org for all things podcast-related!

RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group

YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel


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