Mastering Emotional Avoidance with Dr. Michelle Maidenberg
In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, a New York-based therapist and author of 'Ace Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want.' They delve into a master class on emotional avoidance, discussing why people engage in it and how it can worsen emotional experiences.
Dr. Maidenberg introduces her ACE methodology — Acceptance, Compassion, and Empowerment — to help individuals connect with their core values and lead fulfilling lives. She also offers insights into men's unique struggles with emotional expression and practical strategies for managing intense emotions. Additionally, they explore EMDR therapy and the importance of setting sustainable goals.
00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel 2025
00:20 Introducing Dr. Michelle Maidenberg
01:14 Understanding Emotional Avoidance
04:21 The Impact of Emotional Avoidance
07:15 Connecting with Core Values
16:31 Men and Emotional Avoidance
22:25 Introduction to Managing Negative Emotions
22:44 Understanding Stuckness and Core Values
23:54 The ACE Method: Acceptance, Compassion, and Empowerment
25:22 Sustainability of Change and New Year's Resolutions
29:18 Exploring EMDR and Healing Trauma
34:12 Personal Journey and Professional Insights
40:46 Final Thoughts and Resources
Connect with Michelle
Dr. Michelle Maidenberg -- http://www.michellemaidenberg.com/
LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellemaidenberg/
Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/drmichellemaidenberg
Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/michellemaidenberg
Resources
ACE Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want, Michelle Maidenberg
Michelle's YouTube channel -- https://www.youtube.com/c/DrMichelleMaidenberg
Psychology Today Blog -- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/michelle-p-maidenberg-phd-mph-lcsw-r-cgp
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