February hits, and suddenly, love is supposed to look like a rom-com. But what if your relationship feels… meh? Or worse, on the brink? Before you make a drastic move, let’s talk about 5 relationship strategies that actually work—none of which involve buying lingerie or scheduling weekly date nights.
In this episode, I break down: ✅ Why how you fight matters more than if you fight
✅ The power of “positive illusions” (and why they’re the secret sauce of happy couples)
✅ A counterintuitive mindset shift that strengthens connection instantly
✅ What to stop doing right now if you want real intimacy
✅ The small habit that could change everything
These aren’t the usual, recycled relationship tips. They’re backed by research, tested in real life, and might just save your sanity (and your relationship).
📌 Notable Timestamps:
00:02 – Why Valentine’s Day expectations are BS
05:45 – The biggest misconception about relationship success
12:30 – The one tweak that shifts your partner’s entire perception of you
18:50 – What I learned from my own near-breakup
27:20 – A relationship habit that makes or breaks long-term happiness
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