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November 28, 2024 21 mins

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Episode 121: 
Break Free from Relationship Patterns: Tools for Deep Healing and Lasting Growth

 

In this episode, I dive into how resurfacing patterns in relationships are opportunities for growth and healing. 

 

I share my personal experiences and introduce a four-step process to break free from autopilot reactions: pausing to notice, separating the past from the present, getting curious, and making conscious choices. 

 

With practical advice and self-reflection tools, I guide listeners to navigate challenges, enhance self-awareness, and deepen their relationships. 

 

Join me as I explore how to shift from repetitive cycles to empowerment and fulfillment.

 

 

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Diversity

01:13 Personal Reflections and Challenges

03:03 Understanding and Breaking Patterns

06:25 The Four-Step Process for Change

08:06 Step One: Pause and Notice

11:05 Step Two: Separate Past from Present

14:54 Step Three: Get Curious

16:37 Step Four: Make a Conscious Choice

18:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

19:34 Podcast Outro and Additional Resources

 

This is Relationships Reimagined.

Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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