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June 16, 2025 7 mins

If you and your partner keep having the same argument over and over, you're not alone. Most of us were never taught how to communicate in a healthy, productive way—and it shows up in our relationships.In this video, I’ll share a metaphor I use with couples in therapy that helps explain why communication often breaks down, and how you can shift into a more collaborative, connected dynamic.We’ll explore:✔️ Why most couples feel unheard✔️ The “map” metaphor that changes everything✔️ A simple but powerful way to improve communication✔️ How to feel heard—without having to agreeIf you’ve ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or frustrated in your relationship, this video is for you.🧠 Watch, reflect, and let me know your thoughts in the comments.👍 Like and subscribe if you found this helpful—it really helps the channel grow.👉 Looking for more tools to improve your relationship? Check out the rest of the videos on the channel.My YouTube Channel

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