When I ask a lot of my couples what they fight about, they'll say, "stupid, little things, things that shouldn't make us this upset." Why is that? Why do couples end up fighting about things that don't seem like they're a big deal?
In this episode we talk about the beginning of a conversation, why it's incredibly important, and why a Harsh Startup can take us off the rails. Check it out to not only learn about Harsh Startups, but also what you can do about them so these "little things" don't become fights.
0:00 Why Do We Fight About Small, Stupid Things?
0:20 Overview
0:38 Why is This Important to Talk About?
2:50 Why is the Beginning so Important?
4:41 What is a Harsh Startup?
5:51 What is a Soft Startup?
7:54 Harsh Startup Example
8:45 Soft Startup Example
9:49 Practical Tips slide 1
11:20 Practical Tips slide 2
13:15 If You Need More Help...
14:03 Thanks for Listening!
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