The Reset Yourself 22 Podcast (Episode 190) "SOMEDAY?"

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Please note this show contains adult language and themes and
is intended for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is advised.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Daily Beloved, we have gathered here today to get through
this thing called life.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
You are listening to the Reset Yourself, What Need You
Podcast with your host.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Jimmy dun Solid. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you,
thank you. Welcome to the one hundred and ninetieth Wow.
Just to feel away from two hundred, I still remember
ten episode ten Wow. Anyway, So hello everyone. I hope

(01:25):
you're all having a wonderful day. I've actually been a
little bit under the weather for the past few days.
I think I'm fighting something, but I'm winning. So mindset
is like the best thing. You're just like, it's not
gonna happen. Stay away saying so, I want to begin
by saying that in this weekly podcast, I focus on

(01:46):
sparking your inner confidence and igniting your belief in yourself.
I'm your host with my co host right here, and
I am always very thrilled to share my thoughts and
research with you as we go along on this journey together. Yes,
this is Henry. You can nurture a mindset, Yes you
can that ensures such power to empower you to reach

(02:12):
your fullest potential. It amazes me when I see people
do this, and it breaks my heart when I see
them not and they don't realize the power they have.
They leave control to everyone else and they take it
and they leave you without any power, not realizing that

(02:32):
to take this power, you just have to take it back.
It is yes, it is that simple. So I write
and record every episode to challenge your thinking and to
encourage you to reflect and inspire actionable steps towards our
personal growth. Whether you're facing a career transition, seeking to

(02:53):
overcome challenges, or simply striving for great fulfillment in life,
this podcast can be your go to resource for motivation
and practical insights. I actually have a handful of people
that I think it's fascinating because I mean, I thank you,
but i'd get to Melissa gets tired of my voice.

(03:15):
They go back and they write, take notes from different
ones and different topics, and if they hear a friend
that's going through a certain situation that a podcast happens
to relate to them, they will send them that podcast.
And I just think that's funny and thank you, And
you have no idea. How honored I feel by that,
but thank you. My inspiration to do this is to
show to teach people to focus more on what they

(03:40):
can accomplish, so that they can do the things they
need to do when they need to do them, so
that ultimately they get the things done when they want
to have them. It's that simple. You want something, go
for it. You have to have the right mindset. You
have to have a powerful mindset. It's not easy. You

(04:01):
have to have a driven mindset. That's why you wake
up in the morning and you'll say I need to
do this, this, this and that, and then by evening
it's just never happened. This also relates to like the
large goals in your life. My thing is, when you
want a big goal to happen, you really should write
it out. You should like really plan it out step
by step beginning. And this is my opinion. Actually, no,

(04:27):
I read a lot of people say this. Break your
big goals down to small, easy, doable steps. It makes
life easy. Okay, it makes your reaching your goal easy.
But this episode, this one whe ninety is dedicated to
you know what. This time I'm going to dedicate it
to you three right there, you. You were like a

(04:49):
month ago. You you yes, you right there. So to
all of you, my challenge. Tell me what you want
and I will show you how to get it. The
question is are you willing to do the work or
are you just gonna sit there, bitch and complain. So

(05:12):
the trap of some day again an another bad word.
It's funny a lot of people think cussing. Cussing is bad. Cussing.
That's not bad word. Cussing is empowering. It's as long
as it's used in the right place, not around children,
but someday. Fear, should have, could have, would have? Those

(05:37):
are the most powerful negative words out there. Uh, you
put some intention because it doesn't matter what you say.
A lot of people say, oh, don't just say that, right,
But if there's no intention behind it, it's just a word.
Words are only powerful when you put power behind that word.
So I can just say I hate apples. It's just

(05:59):
I actually I don't. I love apples, But it's just
it doesn't mean anything. But when you use the word
powerfully and you you only you, only the person saying
it really knows how they feel. So when you say
I can't I shouldn't, I couldn't, I wouldn't, or I'll
get it done someday that someday is so far away.

(06:22):
And the funny thing is you plan on it and
then you push it to someday, like hope. Hope is
a wonderful world word. I personally don't like it because
it's it's it's it's you've taken a great word that
has great meaning. But when you say that, you put
a distance between you and the final result. It's like,

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I hope I do this. I hope I accomplish this.
I know, just do it. Don't even think it. If
you if you sit there quietly and ponder your life,
you can actually probably hopefully, I think I can't pick
and choose three, four or five things that you woke
up one day and he said, this needs to be
done by anything of the day, This needs to be

(07:05):
done by the end of the month, this needs to
be done by the end of the year. And immediately,
without even thinking, you pulled out a piece of paper
and pen and you just started what needs to be
done to accomplish this goal, and it just it happened.
Now you sat there and you go, yeah, you know,
I hope to do this. I hope to get back
to school. I hope to get a degree. I hope
to get married, I hope to have kids. I hope

(07:27):
to buy it. Just don't even waste a four words,
and just do it for words for letters. So it's funny.
If you're driving, don't do this, but think about it.
Facing this illusion of some day, close your eyes, take
a slow, deep breath in if you can. If not,

(07:48):
just daydream and let it out. Okay, even if your
eyes are open, you can meditate with your eyes open,
picture your life right now, right here, not last year,

(08:13):
not next year, this exact moment today. Most of us
live as if life exists in some endless stream. One day, hopefully,
when the stars line up, it'll happen, as if the

(08:34):
calendar is infinite, as if tomorrow will always greet us.
Like a loyal friend. You assume tomorrow will always be here.
And with the illusion comes a dangerous promise of someday.

(08:55):
We whisper it to ourselves constantly. Someday I'll start the project.
Someday i'll tell them what I feel. Someday I'll get healthier,
Someday I'll get that promotion. Someday I'll get my finances
in order. Someday I'll take that trip. Someday I'll write
that book. Someday I'll learn that skill. Someday I'll finally

(09:16):
change my life. The bottom line is, here's the thing.
It hasn't happened yet. There's a reason. It's not a
negative thing. It could be a back burner. I have
you know how the whole have things in a back burner?
Well behind me, I have like six stoves with back burners,
all set on unwarm, okay, And I have lots of

(09:41):
ideas on there. And the thing is, there are some
that I just really can't get to because of actual
legit reasons. And it's funny because when they do line up,
they just get done. And then of course I take
the time to be very thankful and grateful and I'm
very pleased that I did it. Like here's a good one.
The other day. We have a very extremely large barn,

(10:04):
and the barn has two huge barn doors, real bar doors,
like bigger than me, and they're very difficult to open
and close, but they slide. They're on a track. The
front two doors work very well. The back dude two doors.
The track has always been falling and literally like half
of it is kind of okay, you gotta, but I'm

(10:26):
talking about a you know, fifteen foot tall door. The
other one is just wedged in the dirt, and the
you know, finally, you know, I looked a while ago
and the track, the wood hanging off. The bar is
completely hanging off. So it's it's you can't. And I
since we moved here, I have been sitting there going
I'm gonna figure this out someday, someday, someday. UH contacted

(10:51):
people here. The issue is I know of one person,
Irvin J. Miller Excavation, Construction, Septic. Now, the man is
a monster. Is he was the original owner of this
home and he sold it to us, and he lives

(11:12):
I would say right next door, but it's not right
next door, it's you know, next door, the next property.
And he is by far the most driven person that
I know in Kentucky, hands down, hands down. And here's
the magic of asking for service people to come help
you in your home if they show up. We needed

(11:36):
our trees trimmed, I needed plumbing, I needed some electrical work.
I could do quite a bit, but there's certain things
that because of safety I will not do and he
is the only person that shows up. The other ones
if you could even get them on the phone. It's amazing.
Not picking on people, but it's just fascinating because we're

(11:59):
you know, in etiquette, you make five phone you don't
need to make five phone calls. You have fifteen people
at your door, fighting like like with price and trying
to get the better price and offering you more things,
and very different here here it's I don't know if
it's lazy. I don't know if it's that. I think
it's that there's not a lot of them, so they're overworked,

(12:20):
like they don't have enough, they have too many jobs,
they're balancing a lot. That's all I can think of,
to be nice, that's all they could really think of.
But this barn door, I couldn't get anybody to come
help me with it because it's very heavy and it's
very tall. And finally, my daughter has an RV and

(12:40):
it came to I was just with the horse. I
was with Holly the other day and we were walking around.
I looked up at the barn door, and I looked
at our RV and I looked at the barn door,
and I looked at the RV, and I was like, hmm.
So in my mind I pictured everything out. I had
the entire diagram of how it has to happen, what
I need to do. So I actually opened forced open
both doors back to barn do the RV barely made

(13:01):
it inside because that's how tall it is. And I
just climbed up the RV and did all of my
work from on top of the RV and I was
able to fix the doors and they work perfectly. So
that was a someday that I had to plan out,
and it became yesterday, and it's a beautiful thing. Today
I went and just slid open the both doors, so

(13:23):
now you can see through both through the bar and
completely out to the ponds in the back, and it's
such a beautiful thing. So now the chickens are running
all over the place, and that makes me very happy.
So someday, as I said, I'll get healthier, Someday I'll
change my life. How far is someday for you? How
many some days do you have in your life? The

(13:46):
word itself is soft. It's comfortable someday, And that's why
to me, it's lethal. It's dangerous because it convinces you
that the most important things in your life came Wait,
but how far? How long should they that your dreams,
your goals, your responsibilities, everything you truly care about can

(14:08):
safely sit on the shelf until some undefined moment in
the future. I mean, yes, there are things that are
out of your control. I understand that I had that issue,
But there wasn't a day not kidding that, I went

(14:29):
to the barn and I looked at the doors, and
I thought, and I thought, and I planned and I
thought about it, and I guess was Holly that inspired me?
But here's the truth for many of us. Sadly, someday
may never come. I watch a lot of murder mystery,

(14:53):
and you know, they always a lot. In many cases
they talk to the family about the young people usually
that passed away, that were murdered whatever, and how you know,
their whole life. They were planning on doing X, Y
and z in'sterestaing you know, so and so it was
gonna be a nurse, this it was gonna be in
the military. This one wanted to be a cop, this
this one wanted to be a mom, and their life

(15:16):
was taken. I'm not saying you guys will get murdered.
But you don't know how long you have. You don't
know how far someday actually is. Don't count on someday.
We take it for granted because it does sound safe.
It's like a safety net. Just throw it in the
someday net. But there's no net. There's only now you

(15:40):
could plan for it. You could literally get a piece
of paper, put it on a wall somewhere. Your tasks
that need to get done, we do that. It here often.
You know different jobs. I have many jobs today. I'm
already thinking of two things that I'm putting a fan
in the garage, and I need to put some mulch
around Joyce's ac unit because the grass is growing. So

(16:01):
I made sure to get some padding. I made sure
to get some motes. I got the fan. The other
day I went to get the wire because someday will
be two day hopefully. How many projects never saw the
light of day for you think about it to the
point that you may have laying around your house. As
you walk through your house and you look through the clutter,
there's this piece over here, and that job over there,

(16:21):
and there's parts over here and parts over there, And
it gets to the point you even forget what they're from.
For I've done that. How many words that you've wanted
to share with someone special and they never got spoken.
How many opportunities passed while you waited for the perfect

(16:44):
time that just never arrived. Life does not wait. The
clock does not pause. I think you know for my time,
people out there that I like schedule like what time
they poop? Yes, I actually know people like this, and
they schedule their back, they schedule everything. And then the
day that they realize that they can't control time, that's

(17:06):
when they lose their mind. Because you can't control time.
Time is a guide, That's all it is. It's a guide.
The sun doesn't linger in the sky forever. And the
truth is, every day you differ action, every day you
rely on some day, you're trading a piece of your
life for an illusion like time. Time is an illusion.

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It doesn't exist. Now, don't panic. This isn't about guilt.
It's about clarity. It's about recognizing that your time is
precious and that the only way to create the life
you want is to start today, no matter how small
the steps. Imagine life is a staircase. Each action, each choice,

(17:53):
each forward step is a wrung a step. If you
wait for some day, you're standing on the bottom step forever,
staring up, hoping, wanting, wishing, brain thinking eventually, one day
I'll climb. But without action, the staircase doesn't get shorter.

(18:14):
Your climb is not going to get easier, Your goals
don't move closer. You simply stay where you are, watching
your potential slip away to someday. The first step towards
breaking free from the trap of some day is awareness.
Not tomorrow, not next week, today right now. What is

(18:37):
the one thing, even a small thing, that you can
do today that moves you closer to what matters most small?
Because it's funny most people when I talk to people,
when I do my coaching thing, people hit me with
these like gigantic journeys and ventures and I'm like, all right,
basic one, Oh I one day want to go to England?

(19:03):
All right, I went and travel to Europe. Cool. So
why aren't you going? Oh? Usually it's because I don't
either have money or I don't have time. Okay, all right,
who would you go with? I don't know. Okay, so
you said you don't have money, Yeah, I don't have money?
All right? How much is the trip. Oh, I don't know.
I think it's a lot. Okay, I'm not good, Okay,

(19:26):
but like what is a lot? Well? I don't really
know what airport would you fly out of? Oh? I
don't really know what airport? Okay? First class? You know, coach?
Like I said, who would you go with? I never
really thought of it. Where would you go? Oh? London, Heathrow?

(19:53):
What's that? That's the airport? Oh? Well, I don't know
what airline? Not sure? So you don't know how much.
You don't know what airport. You don't know what airline
and anything. You don't know when do you have an idea? Someday? Yeah, someday,

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and you don't know who would you go with?

Speaker 1 (20:17):
No?

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Not really okay? Once you land there someday, where would
you go?

Speaker 2 (20:23):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (20:24):
You know, sight see to where? Hmmm? Not really sure?
You know? Maybe that that that Eiffel Tower? That's wrong place? Oh?
The Pyramids? Wrong place?

Speaker 1 (20:38):
Well?

Speaker 3 (20:39):
What's in England? You tell me? I there's a there's
a program for you people that maybe want, maybe will
love to travel and don't have the money right now,
called Google Earth. You can either download it onto your
phone or your computer, or you could just go on
the website, and I personally, because I love history. I
have traveled to Greece, I have seen my I've been

(21:00):
to the Pyramids. I've actually seen the subway. I know,
you're like, what subway the restaurant if you go to
the pyramids. This is funny. So Google Earth and Google
Earth is not like regular Google Maps. Google Earth is
you can hit three D and it like does this.
It's beautiful. So it's funny because I went to the Pyramids.
So you come from above, it's like you're flying down

(21:21):
and you see the pyramids, the actual pyramids. You're like,
oh my god. And then you go like this and
you realize that the city, which obviously at some point
was millions of miles away, is now like right there,
and it is just this congested little metropolis. And one
of the closest things that I saw was a subway

(21:42):
or restaurant. So it's so I went to the website,
I went to the address, found the address for the subway,
went to the website, and I was able to like
see inside on that street. Because you have a little
guy some streets he could walk on and you could
actually like eat a sandwich and just look up the
window and see the permits. Wow. But anyway, if you

(22:07):
have plans on doing these things, maybe it's it's I
don't know, it's up to you, but maybe you should
find out, like what things cost, because when you do,
you start to put things into perspective, and to me,
you're creating an energy. Even something as simple as let's
talk about IRV and J again, IRV and J the
excavator construction amazing hard worker wants to you know, buy

(22:30):
more equipment, wants to grow as business. What vehicles do
you want? How much are they? In my opinion, I'm
old school. Print the pictures out, put them somewhere where
you see them, with the price underneath. Use new, insured,
not insured, borrowed, rented, new company, name of company. Put

(22:54):
it on T shirts, put it on mugs, get a logo.
That's what you want to do, because that's the only
way someday becomes today. You start creating that now. If
you start putting doubt into it, Oh, but you know
it won't ever happen. Oh I don't have support. No
I don't have the money. No I don't have this. You,

(23:15):
my friend, are your worst enemy. You have to begin
to break down this dream into the possibilities small. Remember
I said small stepping stones instead of saying, oh, but
that's going to cost one hundred thousand dollars. Okay, can
you start with five anywhere? Can you start saving with three?

(23:36):
With six? Can you rent for now and then save
the money to buy used and then save the money
to buy new. I'll only say this because I know
of many multi million dollar businesses that that's how they began.
They didn't begin walking in with billions of dollars. They
started with nothing, and they worked their way up. Because

(23:59):
time is fascinating. Before you know it, a year has
gone by, five years have gone by, ten years have
gone by. How close are you to your goals? Or
are you still sitting at home? Going someday. Someday is
seductive because it whispers comfort. But comfort is not growth.
Comfort is not life lived fully. Comfort is a cage

(24:23):
you build yourself while waiting for a day that may
never arrive. So today let's begin as I said, small steps,
real movement, actual movement. You've acknowledged that some day as
a trap. You've seen it for what it is a
word that lulls you into enaction, inaction while life passes by.

(24:47):
Everybody else is getting on their high horse and riding forward,
and you're sitting there going someday. Now comes the critical part.
Are you ready? As I said action, action sounds like
ass because you're gonna get off, get off your ass
and do something to call to action. Here's the secret.
Most people overlook big changes, big accomplishments, big dreams. They

(25:12):
aren't achieved all at once. They're built step by step,
inch by inch, minute by minute. The mountain doesn't move
to meet you, my friend. You climb it one careful,
persistent step at a time. And here's the secret. This

(25:34):
is a sign. Note. You're going to stumble, You're going
to fall a little bit, sometimes on your face. But that,
to me is what separates the adults from the boys
from the children, because the adults realize that as as
hard as you fall, as beat up as you get,

(25:58):
you're like, I want this now now even more, nobody's
gonna push me off my mountain. So that proves that
you really want it. Then you have the people, which
many of us have done this too. You have a dream,
you have a goal, you start working towards it. You
fumble once and you're like, it's not what I want.

(26:21):
It's not a bad thing. I don't see that as failure.
I see that as you going, you know what, I
thought I wanted this. There's many things, many, many, many
things that we think we want, and then all of
a sudden we wake up one day and we're like,
you know what, it's too much work. It's too much work.
You're not a failure. Trust me, you're not a failure.

(26:43):
That's just a way of saying, Okay, I'm not going
to dedicate time to this anymore. I need to start
dedicating time to that. I tried it. It was awesome,
it was badass, it was fun. But the more I
got into it, the more I realized, that's not what
I want. I used to Melissa and I used to
own a company called byob build your Own Brand, and

(27:06):
we started basically making T shirts and designs, and before
you know it, I was creating websites. We were creating
full concepts, helping people with their businesses from beginning to end.
From a lady that painted and made a lot of money,
a lot of money painting her artwork on seashells and
selling it by the seashore plumbers, carpenters, you know all

(27:27):
types of people. And one thing that I learned about
business owners. Many ninety nine percent of them are masters
of their trade. They don't know how to run a business.
For some people that is such a big issue. Just

(27:48):
because you're a plumber doesn't mean you could run a
plumbing business. Just because you're a carpenter. Just because you're
a doctor doesn't mean you could run a medical office.
You need nurses, you need a secretary. Secretaries like they
do everything in so many businesses. To me, secretaries are
like teachers or superheroes. They're the cement that holds businesses together.

(28:10):
You need somebody to pick up the phone. If you
are in construction and you are picking up the phone,
doing the website, designing the artwork, I can't say you can't,
but do what you do best. Don't be afraid to

(28:30):
challenge yourself and get others to do their tasks, to
do the marketing for you, to do the web design,
for you, to pick up the phone for you. You know, Oh,
but I don't have the money. Friends and family, there's
somebody in your life that would be more than happy
to pick up the phone for you until you can
hire someone. I mean every there's a podcast. I listen

(28:54):
to the Millionaire real Estate podcasts and it's all these
like Fortune five hundred and you know, amazing realtors, and
it's funny they all start off with I started by myself,
and you know the magic day you wake up and
you're like, I need to hire an assistant and it's like,
I can't do this. I'm selling homes. I'm the face.

(29:14):
I'm out there. I need somebody to pick up the phone.
I can't pick up the phone and do this because
now I lose numbers, I lose calls. And that's something
that we learned at Byob. We did that for quite
a few years, and it was amazing that I just
wanted to make t shirts and artwork and that was
my thing in websites. I didn't realize we spend so
much time. We had this awesome roundtable, the round table

(29:37):
and this beautiful location in Shelton, downtown Shelton, it was
like two thousand square field was such a great it
was a warehouse, and we spent more times in meetings
with clients helping them not revamp, but actually see their
business because they would come in with a logo and
I'm like all right, Well, first off, that logo is
not a logo. It's a picture. It's a cartoon. I'm

(29:58):
not kidding. This was a real story, an animal rescue
that just had like six dogs and all of these
colors and all and I'm like what is this and like, oh,
it's our it's our logo. And I'm like a logo,
what is a logo? You tell me what a logo is?
Like Donald's Burger King, you know, the logos. Logos are simple.

(30:20):
Logos are one to two colors, maybe three. You want
to keep it simple. It's easy to remember. I've had
so many people bring in full artwork of like all
these designs, and I'm like, you do realize that companies
get to the point the concept of logo is you
want to get to the point that you could get
rid of the word. So now all they see is

(30:41):
that design and it's that's you, that's you, that m
those golden arches are you. You just immediately know. And
Sedona I think it was Sedona because because of turquoise
is so big there in Arizona. They Donald's there the

(31:02):
golden arches. I don't know if it was temporary. They
did it in turquoise. Everybody lost their shit because it's like,
that's what's wrong. Is a sign broken, it's it's unheard
of because you've gotten them used to seeing something a spoon,
a shovel. You know, that's that's that person, that's that's marketing.
That's what you wanted your marketing to be, not seventeen

(31:25):
hundred words and a phrase and a mission stament. Oh
and LLC side note, you don't need LLC. Stop putting
LLC in your business names. It's it's given. That's something
that wants to whoever wants to actually go after you.
Trust me, just because they see LLC, they're not going

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to not to go after you. If you did something wrong,
they're gonna go after you. It's at that point that
the attorney goes, oh, they're a limited liability company, or
they're a corporation, or they're this or that. You don't
need to put that. That just takes up room. But
see how much I veered off passion for business. And

(32:07):
I have a new business coming up very soon and
I'm looking forward to it. And again I'm at this
step right now in my personal life, breaking this down
of what to do and how to do it and
when to do it. I'm not waiting for some day.
I'm taking the steps now. But like I said, here's
the secret. Most people overlook big changes, big accomplished, big accomplishments,

(32:31):
big dreams. As I said, they're not all achieved that once.
You got to take them step by step. And that's
why starting today, don't waste today. Today becomes Wednesday, then Friday.
Then a month has gone by and you're still sitting
on your ass wondering when someday, Even if it feels insignificant,

(32:54):
small steps are what accumulate into real, tangible results. They
are the building blocks of all of a life that
you can be very proud of. Think about it like this.
If you want to write a book someday doesn't help.
But writing actually I wrote two hundred words. You ready,

(33:17):
you're ready. But writing fifty words today, that's that's the
beginning of the concrete. That's the foundation. And then if
you keep writing fifty words or two hundred words every day,
soon you look up and realize you've written twenty thousand
words every So, okay, I have what did I say?

(33:41):
One hundred and this is episode one ninety, one hundred
and ninety. I'm not going to do the math now,
but I write between five thousand and six thousand words, no,
four thousand and just over five thousand words per episode.

(34:02):
Think about this, five thousand words that I sit and
write every week, and now since for some reason, since
they started doing the video, I do even more. But
five thousand words give or take times one hundred and
ninety episodes. Do you think I could have written a book?

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If you want to get in shape, someday won't get
you there ten push ups, not twenty push ups, one
hundred push ups, And especially my friends that have never
worked out a day in their life, and they think
that they're going to join the gym and love it
and lose the weight immediately. I have a lot of

(34:48):
people that I've worked with through hypnosis to lose weight,
and they're shocked when I tell them don't join a
gym yet They're like what nob No, get your mail?
How far is your mailbox from your door? And they're like, what,
how far is your mailbox? So how about I've had people,
there's this lady, I had her do this, Start from

(35:11):
your door, walk to your mailbox, and come back. And
of course, the next day she's like that was nothing good.
Now tomorrow, I want you to walk out your front step,
go around your house to your mailbox, and then go
right back again. And once you grab the mail, go
back around the house to your door. Do it a

(35:32):
few times. Then day three, walk to your mailbox, don't
grab your mail, walk back to the door, walk back
to your mailbox, grab your mail, come back. Sounds silly,
but it's not. Now you get to the point that
now you surpass the mailbox and you walk down to

(35:54):
the corner, and then you come back, and then you
walk around to the other streets and then you come back,
and then you walk around your block, and then you
come back, and then you try them all. If it's
raining or too cold, you go to a mall. Walk
around the mall. Here we have stores, you know, home Depot.
There are so many people that I've seen at home

(36:16):
Depot and Walmart, and then at walmart's too too many people.
But that just go there and just walk around. They're
not shopping. It's air conditioned, it's heated. There's there's you
can get something to drink, think about it, there's snacks.
You're safe. Just walk around. Start with ten push ups,

(36:36):
start with a ten minute walk, or even choose a
healthy meal today. Don't go cold turkey and like, I'm
not gonna eat anymore sweets, that's dumb. You gotta just
slow progress, those small, consistent actions compounding. Before you know it,
your body, your energy, your confidence begin to transform simply
you're ready. This is this is my master and hypnosis.

(36:59):
You're creating new habits instead of bad habits. The same
applies to relationships, career goals, personal growth, everything. Momentum is
created not by grand, gigantic gestures, but by the commitment
to start. Start. I was gonna say small, just start

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one foot in front of the other, one action today,
and then the next, and then the next. But you
create a consistency. Consistency is the key to all success,
if you want to be successful in a year, in
five years, and ten years. It's funny because I'll ask
people and people are like, I'm like, well, how much
money do you want to make? I want to make

(37:45):
and don't just give me. I don't make a million dollars. No,
how much money do you want to make? How much
money do you need to live? How much realistically not
to like buy shit, like stupid shit, I'm talking about
it to live? How much money do you need? Like,
right now, what are your bills? You'd be surprised. People
are like, I don't even know. How much is it
costing you to live? How much do you need to

(38:06):
make every day to just live comfortably? Comfortably? Now, on
top of that, once you got that number, how much
would you need to live a little bit better? Realistic?
A little bit better to have to be able to save,

(38:27):
not to be able to make money. I'm not going
to tell you to be money to buy sports cars
and stupid shit. No, to be able to put some
money and bank it? How much? Write it out? I'm serious.
And if you're with a partner, even better, because you'd
be surprised. People don't talk. I'm guilty of it. Melissa
is the brains here. She does all of that stuff.

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How much? What's the magic number? Because this helps you?
You're ready? Is you ready? This helps you with your
career goals? Because if your career goals was to make
little key chains and sell them at fares, and a
table at a fair costs three hundred dollars, your keychains

(39:10):
are twenty five cents and you're gonna make a profit.
Of a dollar if you sell them for like, you know,
let's say dollar twenty five and you're like, all right,
well how much am I gonna make? So what are
the chances of you ever being able to throw it
into that pot to help pay for that life you
want of luxury. It's actually simple math. And like I said,
this also applies to relationships, career goals, personal growth. But

(39:35):
here's the hard truth. Action requires something that is so
difficult for people, especially in meditation, honesty. You have to
be honest with yourself about what matters most in your life.
And if you have a wife, a husband, a partner,
anybody with them too, you gotta be real honest. You

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have to be no secrets, no secrets. You have to
be honest with yourself about what matters most to you
and share that with them. What do you really want?
Do you even know what they want? And then people

(40:17):
bust out with that famous word that I hate. Assume
You assume so and so wants this, You assume she's happy,
You assume he's happy. What are you willing to do
today to move toward that? Not tomorrow, not next week,
especially not someday, but today, And don't get stuck on perfection.

(40:38):
Oh that's the other devil word, waiting for the perfect plan,
the perfect moment, the perfect conditions that someday, masquerading as
perfect preparation, things are just gonna line up. The golden
goose is just gonna land at the front door and
just drop some gold eggs, and my life will be set.
It ain't gonna happen. Real action happens in the most

(41:01):
imperfect conditions. It happens with messy steps, awkward attempts, and
a ton of trial and error. But it happens in
every forward step, no matter how small, is a victory
over the inertia of waiting momentum. Here's another way to
think about it. Your life is a ledger of days.

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Every day you take action, it's a credit towards your dreams.
Every day you waste waiting for some day it becomes
a debit, get it credit, debit, black red, get it okay.
So and over time, the balance of your life is
shaped not by the big someday you hoped for, but

(41:42):
by the small, consistent steps you take today. Because every
day you move forward, you're building. Ever we're building. Every
day you take action, you build credit. Every day you
sit on your ass and you just worry and complain,
and you know, maybe who knows, I don't know. Someday
you're just debit, you're just losing. So today, choose a step.

(42:06):
Any step doesn't have to be perfect, it just has
to be real. A step you can take right now today.
Send that email, make that call, write that paragraph, move
your body, get off your ass, speak your truth, whatever
it is, do it today, because the accumulation of these

(42:28):
steps is what moves mountains. If you're going to stand
at the base of a mountain and just stare at
the top and go, someday, I'll make it up there.
Someday I'll make it up there. And as you're doing this,
people are walking by you. And then while they're up
there in the different areas, different landings, are looking down
and you're like, wellsid of a big they make it oh,

(42:48):
because they just kept going. You just sat here and
sang someday. It's like, what are you waiting for? Move
your body, speak your truth. The accumulation of these steps
is what gets you to where you want to go.

(43:10):
Then you have one of the most hated word because
it ruins people's lives. I see it I see it
ruin people's lives. Fear and excuses both things that are
honest bullshit. Fear wears many disguises. It pretends to be practicality.

(43:32):
It pretends to be your fear to keep you out
of trouble. Most of the time. Here's the problem. If
there was actual trouble, i'd understand it. There's not. Now
that you've seen the danger of some day and the
power of small talks, that's there's one more truth to face.
The reason most people stay stuck in someday isn't laziness.

(43:53):
It's fear. I'll wait until I'm ready. I'll start when
things are easier. I'll begin when I have more time,
more resources, more confidence. You make the resources, you find
the resources, and again, when that resource is out of

(44:14):
your control for whatever reason, you put it on the
back burner. You put it on the back burner for now.
But it's not out of sight, out of mind. That's
why I tell people print pictures. Put them on your
wall someplace that you walk by. If you have a
little bulletin boarder in your house by the kitchen, and
there's a vehicle you want to buy or a job
you want to try, or something. Put it there. You

(44:35):
have a business card? Is it hanging where you can
see it? Oh? This is a big one because I
was listening to another podcast, a business thing, a marketing
business thing, and the lady teaching works with small businesses,
and she was like, you'd be surprised how many people
come to her for advice. And she goes to their
Facebook and nowhere does it mention on their Facebook what

(44:56):
they do for a living. And then she goes to
him and they're like, well, that's not my page. No, no, no,
let me explain something to you. You. I don't care
if you are a plumber, a planter, a pauper, whatever
you do. If you're trying to make business and get
service or give service, you become a celebrity. Okay, your

(45:18):
t shirts, your mugs, your business cards need to be everywhere.
Every single person you know, every single person you know,
needs to know what you do. And here's the thing,
here's a little secret that I keep. Sharing yourself with
others is great, is great, But the best thing you
can do is have people promote you. Your wife, your husband, Uh,

(45:40):
you know, your best friends, they're the ones because people
will listen a lot of times people are jealous and
envious in anyway. So if you're telling people, hey, I'm
the best at what I do, people tend to be
jealous me like, I'm not gonna call him because he's
just too confident and I don't want him to succeed.
But if you have other people say hey, so and
so so is amazing, so and so is amazing, you

(46:01):
should try him. That's why I personally, every time I
go anywhere. If you go to my Google page, I
review ninety.

Speaker 4 (46:09):
Percent of the places I go to, I will why
because they deserve it. If not the restaurant, the server
I write reviews for, sir, I just wrote one for
We went to Shone'es Shonnes, which is just a buffet,
not a big deal.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
But we went to Shawnees and we met Elizabeth, an
eighteen year old girl who had more umph, more drive,
more hunger in her eyes. At eighteen, this girl, oh,
she's going for accounting. She's doing this now. She's the
manager of the store. She left. She worked as a waitress,
and she's decided that it's not enough. She wanted to
build her resume, so she came back and became a manager.

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At eighteen, and then she went out to tell me
all these other things that she's doing. I was like
sitting there, like, oh my god. Her father lives in
another state. Her mother is supportive, but just she's driven.
We talked forever and then of course, if you go
to Shawny's Glasgow, look at the reviews, you'll see mine

(47:10):
right there. I promote other people because I forward energy.
That's what you do. So if you have a Facebook,
if you know, and it's like, do people know what
you do? Like people assume that you know everybody's nobody
knows what the hell you do? You need to share it.
You need to, you know, get your friends and family,
give everybody you know business cards. You know, have five

(47:31):
business cards per family member and friend, and say, do
me a favor. Please put this somewhere, give this to someone,
share it on Facebook. You don't like to promote things
on face could you share it on Facebook for one
day and then you can take it off your page. Please?
And if if you have my services, please write a review.
I don't care. If it's good job, that's fine. Realistically

(47:57):
it's not good enough, but it's something. But every single
place I go to I write a review. I go
to coffee shop, I write a review. I go to library.
I wrote a review, my dentist, my doctor, my eye doctor.
I write a review because it's energy. I give, and
I always, I always, always, always get in return when
I give. But fear fuck fear. Fear at its core

(48:24):
is avoidance. It's the part of us that doesn't want
to confront uncertainty, challenge, or discomfort. And those fucking excuses, excuse,
my French, fucking excuses, they are fears, accomplices. Excuses sound reasonable, logical,
even noble. Yet all they do is quietly steal your days,

(48:45):
your months, your years. You find yourself doing nothing right,
take a moment and ask yourself what excuses are holding
you back? Right now? What excuses are holding you back?
Be honest? What fears are you telling yourself that are real?

(49:07):
Perhaps you fear failure, Perhaps you fear rejection, perhaps you
fear change itself, whatever it is, understand this. The longer
you cling to someday, the louder fear becomes. Because fear
feeds on delay, fear grows stronger in inactivity. Fear is
like cancer. Here's the paradox. Ready action kills fear. If

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you're afraid of something. You do something, you study it.
What are you afraid of? Why are you afraid of it?
Are you prepared for it? When you're prepared for something,
you stop fearing it because you are are. I used
to be terrified of spiders. I went yesterday with zucchini
covered with spiders and I just scra shook it off
and all right done. I would have never done that,

(49:55):
But now I know what kind of spiders are they are,
I know what they can and can't do. They're just
trying to eat. It's not perfect action, Simple and perfect
consistent action in your life is what you need. Every
small step you take, every time you choose today over
some day, fear shrinks more and more and confidence grows

(50:19):
more and more because momentum builds get it, life moves forward.
Fear holds you back, and excuses are just lies that
tell yourself to just justify being lazy, just being filled
with in action. Fear is just a shadow that disappears

(50:39):
when you move towards the light. You don't need permission,
you don't need perfect conditions. You only need the courage
to finally get off your ass and begin. So start small,
Start today. Start you're ready, start imperfectly, but start now.

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Every forward step you take, no matter how minor, chips
away at fear and silences hold on you. Every step
is a declaration I refuse to let some day rule
my life. The truth is uncomfortable, very liberating, liberating. Your
dreams will not wait, Your health will not wait, your

(51:23):
relationships will not wait. Your life will not wait. You're
getting older very quickly, and neither should you. Neither should you.
You're living without with urgency or without. Now that you
understand the trap of some day and have begun confronting
fear and excuses, it's time to take the lesson deeper.

(51:45):
Awareness alone isn't enough. Action alone isn't enough. You need
a positive, strong, driven, hungry mindset, a way of living
that refuses to let life slip by unnoticed, that refuses
to hand over your time to delay. Living with urgency

(52:09):
doesn't mean panic recklessness. I'm not saying lose your fucking mind.
It doesn't mean rushing every moment in anxiety. It means
being clearer, focus, deliberate, choosing today as a day that
matters every day. Every day today you do something towards
your goal tomorrow. Every day today you do something. I

(52:31):
don't care how stupid it is, something small towards your
biggest goal tomorrow. Ask yourself what matters most in your life,
Not in theory, not in some abstract some day, but
right now. Once you know, you act you start small, yes,
but start with intent. Every minute of every day becomes

(52:52):
a choice, a step towards what you want, or a
surrender to just someday. Consider the difference a life of
passive hope versus a life of intentional action. The person
who says I'll start someday drifts, months turn into years,

(53:13):
dreams remain unfulfilled, and opportunities vanish unnoticed. Ah, that's so sad.
The person who acts, even imperfectly, who begins now, builds momentum,
Confidence grows, clarity, emergencies goes one. Once distance become achievable,
progress compounds, life expands. Living with urgency doesn't mean you

(53:39):
have to do everything today, but it means it does
mean you must do something today. Something, something, even a small,
deliberate step, is better than nothing. Think of it like
tending a fire. You don't have to burn the whole
forest at once, But if you never spark a flame,
if you never add a single piece of care kindling.

(54:01):
The fire never comes alive. It is your responsibility to
spark it, defeed it, to protect it from being extinguished
by distraction, by delay, by the seductive lie of someday,
don't burn a forest. So look around your life. Where
are you waiting for some day? Where are you holding
back because conditions aren't perfect, because fear is whispering, because

(54:22):
excuses are convincing you to wait? Quick story back in
nineteen ninety three, I owned a record store in Connecticut
called Wax Attack Records. We sold vinyl, vinyl, yes records,
actual records. I was the first New York style record store,
real like hardcore that people from New York, New Jersey,

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Upstate New York, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Hampshire would come
down on the weekend to shop at my store. And
it was a small store. It was only a few
hundred square feet, but everything went straight up. I had
records everywhere. We had DJ booth and it was great.
I used to love that a lot of people would
come in, musicians that were always in the studio. Everybody's

(55:10):
in the studio, and then you'd have certain people because
I had a lot of vinyl from local artists that
they would come in themselves and like drop their records
and be like, this is my new record and all
this stuff. So I'd get a store filled with people
that would, out of jealousy and envy, criticize those records
and be like, yeah, they're not that good. The artwork
on it is stupid. This could be changed. That could

(55:32):
be changed, this could be better. That could be And
my thing was, he's on the wall, where is your record? Well,
you know I'm in the studio. Yeah, when is that
coming out? I used to get between fifty to one
hundred people on a Saturday to come shopping to my shop.

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Out of those, I'd say more than half were in
the studio, and I'd say two percent in the entire
time that I had that store actually did something. So yes,
maybe there are people out there that you don't like

(56:16):
their logo, you don't like there where they're running their business.
They could do this better, they can do that better.
They could be bigger, they could be smaller, they could
be cheaper, they could be more. But you're not doing shit.
Stop criticizing them. Use them as guidance, Learn from them,
learn from their strengths, learn from their weaknesses, and then
focus on your own task at hand instead of saying,

(56:40):
I'm in the studio. So as I said, look around
your life. Where are you waiting for some day? Where
are you holding back because conditions just aren't perfect? Because
fear is whispering, convincing you with excuses. Because living with
urgency isn't just a philosophy, It's a practice, a practice

(57:00):
of reclaiming your time, a practice of respecting your life,
a practice of refusing to hand over precious days to
the illusion of some day. What do you need to
become successful? Who do you need in your life to
become successful? What steps do you need to take today
to become successful? Pause, breathe and feel this truth settled in.

(57:27):
Today is yours, not yesterday, not tomorrow, and not not someday.
Today is yours, and what you do with today matters.
By now you've acknowledged the danger of some day, faced
your fears and excuses, and become living with urgency. Right,

(57:51):
But awareness alone isn't enough. Knowing it isn't enough. I know,
hold on, I know you're like, wait a minute, what, Yes,
Momentum fhades if it's not reinforced by habit so again,
So you get off your ass today you're inspired by
my podcast, You're like, Jimmy's right, I'm gonna take over
the world. And then tomorrow shit happens, and then Thursday happens,

(58:12):
and Friday it's already the fucking weekend. And then on
Monday morning, Yeah, what did he talk about on that podcast?
Here are some strategies that separate those who dream from
those who do. Are you a dreamer or are you
a doer? Start small, Start now. Big goals are intimidating.

(58:34):
Stop with the big goals. They breed, they create procrastination.
The trick is to break them into small, realistic, manageable steps.
Write one page, one paragraph, one sentence today, Make one call,
clean one corner of the barn, just one do something,

(58:56):
anything that moves that needle action com hounds as soon
the big goal is no longer mountain, but a series
of achievable small climbs. You cannot climb these. You can't
climb Mount Everest all at once. Nobody does. There's just plateaus,
set deadlines, even artificial ones. Your mind is wired to

(59:20):
respond to urgency without deadlines. Someday creeps back in. Set
clear timeline for tasks like literally write it on somewhere
in your house that you're always walking by. Let's see
your kitchen. Get a board, a dry erase board. I
love dry erase boards or push pin that's fine, but
you get a dry erase boort and today in the
morning you write, by the end of today, this needs
to be done. And if it doesn't, please don't kill yourself. Okay,

(59:44):
just tomorrow, tomorrow and then the next. But when you
continue to see it, it's easier to challenge yourself instead
of keeping everything here. This doesn't work good because other
things get in the way, and then this becomes crowded,
and then before you know what, the weekend is here
and you're like, ah shit, I was supposed to do X,
Y and Z. Give yourself a day, an hour, a week,

(01:00:07):
whatever it takes, and honor it like it's non negotiable. Okay,
track progress. You can't improve what you don't measure. Keep
a journal, a checklist, or a simple log of daily
steps on my phone. If you look at my phone
the first thing that I have, I will prove it
to you. A lot of people are like, no, you
don't know. I'm serious. Let's see. There you go. Is

(01:00:33):
that white piece of paper. There you go that there's
writing on it. Here's a list. There you go, there's
my tasks. There's my tasks, and I have it set
to do list, and I oh, I add I take off,
I add I take off. Somethings get pushed down, but
I see them daily. If you ask me what they
I'll take exactly what they are right now because they're

(01:00:55):
just they haunt me in a good way. But that's
the thing. Okay, that's just no pad. Go to your phone,
go to your apps, find a notepad and you just
put it on the front page of your phone. That's
what you should be looking Instead, it's going through scrolling
TikTok and what the hell is that? Remove distractions from

(01:01:15):
your life. Identifying the things and the people that keep
you in this someday mode. Who around you doesn't believe
in you, doesn't promote you. What social media do? You scroll?
Endless planning, without doing busy work that doesn't matter. Cut
them out of your life, even for short windows each day,
and redirect the energy towards meaningful action. Like my mother

(01:01:39):
always said, surround yourself with shitty people, you become a
shitty person. Surround yourself with confident people that every time
you around them, they inspire you. That's who you surround
yourself with, you will succeed. You will succeed. Hold yourself accountable,
Tell someone your goal, share your steps, speak your intention aloud.

(01:02:03):
Let God hear it. Accountability transforms vague desire into committed action.
If no one else is watching, wout yourself. Keep your
word to the person who matters most to you. Who
matters most to you it should be God, But God
made you so in this case, keep your word to you.

(01:02:27):
Embrace and perfection Someday thrives in the lie of perfection.
I can't start until I'm ready. I can't start until
the stars line up. I can't until I know enough
until I feel confident. Forget it. Imperfect action today beats
perfect planning tomorrow. Mistakes are proof of movement, not to failure.
Review and adjust daily. You can change your goals and dreams.

(01:02:51):
It's not a big deal. Every night. Reflect when right
before you lay in bed, instead of scrolling on your
fucking phone. What did I do today that brought me
closer to my goals? What slipped through the cracks? Where
did I fuck up? What did I do that I
shouldn't have. Who should I write a review for? Who

(01:03:11):
should I apologize to adjust tomorrow's plan accordingly. This continues
cycle of reflection and action, keeps you moving forward forward
and stops someday from sneaking back. Okay, breaking the cycle
the cycle of some day. It's not about dramatic changes overnight.

(01:03:33):
It's about steady, intentional, daily action. It's about creating a
life where your dreams are realized, not in vague promises,
but in concrete steps. Remember someday as a thief in
the night. It steals time, energy and potential. But with
consistent habits, clarity, and small, deliberate steps, you can reclaim

(01:03:55):
your life. You can turn possibility into reality, dreams into accomplishments,
and today the foundation of your future, the future that
you want. Like I said, dry erase board. How much
is a dry erase board? You can get one on Amazon.
Get a big one, don't get small, put it somewhere
and just right on it. Goals, dreams, everything. Hold yourself accountable.

(01:04:18):
If you find yourself at the end of the day
forgetting to do X, Y and Z, you're a human.
That's why people have secretaries. Now, if you don't have
a secretary. That's why you have a dry erase board
and a notepat on your phone. And then every day
when you get home at five o'clock or six o'clock,
whenever you walk right by that board and you're like, okay,

(01:04:38):
I need to do this. Okay, I'm gonna move this
to Tuesday. I'm gonna make sure this gets done. I
need to make some phone calls right now to hold
myself accountable. My friend, I guarantee you success. Pause, think, breathe,
feel the weight of what you've been holding back, and
now imagine the relief and the pride of beginning today,

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tomorrow and that next week, today the payoff will happen.
Not that you've learned to confront someday, face fear, build
urgency and create habits. But you take a moment to
imagine the life on the other side. Before you know it,
you've created these. These are habits. Now you close your
eyes and you can see you see it. Done that
job I need to do on Tuesday, it's I already

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see it. I see everything I need to do. Ah,
next week, I'm going to be doing this. I need
to travel. I already have my bag ready, I need
to say this this now, I'm going to be speaking
at this thing that's already done. It's done. A life
where someday no longer rules you, Where action replaces hesitation,
Where momentum carries you forward instead of leaving you stagnant.

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Where each day, no matter how small, moves you closer
to your goals or dreams, your purpose. How does it feel? Freedom, confidence, clarity, energy,
No longer haunted by regret for the things you didn't do,
no longer paralyzed by the weights of waiting excuses. Each

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day becomes a gift, a chance, a stepping stone, and
with every step your life accumulates, not in some day fantasies,
but in real, measurable progress. The emotional payoff of leaving
some day behind is so profound. It's the relief of
knowing you are living intentionally. It's the pride of realizing

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that your dreams are no longer just ideas, they are actions.
It's the joy of seeing the impact of your work,
your words, your effort. Living deliberately doesn't mean life becomes
easier ha ha hah. Challenges will still come, obstacles will
still appear, But your confidence, your resilience, your momentum, and

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your clarity makes those challenges a lot more manageable. They
become opportunities instead of great barriers. Here's the ultimate truth.
Cats have very sandy tongues. It's very weird. It sounds
like it feels like sampaper. But that's not the ultimate truth.
The ultimate truth is the person who acts today, not someday,

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doesn't just build a life. They build a legacy. They
influence others, create change, and leave behind proof that life
can be lived, lived fully, courageously and intentionally. So pause, breathe,

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and feel the potential in this moment, right now. Every
second wasted in some day is a second you could
have lived, learned, loved and achieved. Every second you act,
even imperfectly, is a second invested in the life you
truly want. Today. Choose action today, Choose clarity, today, choose

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progress because the payoff is not in some distant, undefined
some day. It's here, it's now, It's real, and it's
waiting for you to clean it. Start today. No grand
plans required, no perfect conditions needed, no guarantees of success necessary.

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One step when action that moves you towards what matters.
Most write it down, speak it aloud, and do it.
Then the next day, do it again and again, so
it becomes a habit. Each step becomes momentum, Menum becomes progress,
progress becomes achievement, and achievement becomes a life lived fully, deliberately,

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without regret. Then the next day, do it again, and
again and again. The only thing standing between you and
your dreams is you, the choice to stop waiting for
someday and begin today. Take a deep breath, feel the
weight of what I'm actually telling you, Allow it to

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ignite a fire inside of you. Today is today, Today
is your chance, Today is your life, and it all
starts with that one step. What do you see? Maybe
you're looking around overwhelmed. The house is messy, there's broken
stuff everywhere, there's so many loose ends. Maybe it's a

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job that never changed because you were waiting for the
right moment. Maybe it's relationships left unspoken, opportunities passed by,
dreams left unnoticed, untouched. Remember to me, I believe many
of us have chains with anchors that hold us back
to different things that we were supposed to accomplish. When

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you have enough of those holding you back, you're not
moving forward even subconsciously, the way the subconscious mind works.
It's not gonna let you be clear clear, because there's
just so much static of shit that should have, would have,
could have been done. Write them out on a board
big so you can see them, all the loose ends
that need to be done. This is the hidden cost

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of someday. It isn't dramatic, it isn't flashy. It creeps
in silently, day by day, moments by moment, until suddenly
you look around and realize ten years have gone by
and you're exactly where you were, maybe a little further,
but are you where you want it to be, where
you planned. Regret is not a moment. It's an accumulation,

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the sum of all days you waited for someday. And
the worst part, regret doesn't teach lessons. It only whispers
the truths you already knew but ignored. Because time is
the limit. Life is precious. Action matters, pause, reflect, feel
the weight of that reality. The cost of waiting is heavy,

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but the reward of acting is even heavier. And the
sooner you start, the sooner you live the life you've
been waiting for. But here's the key word. And I
had a whole podcast about this, this magic word. You're
ready because to me, this is the devil. Consistency is
the bridge between intention and reality. It's the invisible force

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that turned small, imperfect actions into massive, massive, tangible results.
It's what separates the dreamers from the doers. Think of
it like water on a stone. One drop seems insignificant,
but over time it carves valleys, shapes mountains and altars,

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complete landscapes. That's consistency. One small action, repeated every day,
compounds into the results that you never thought were possible.
Momentum is born from consistency. Every forward step builds energy,
Every action reinforces the next. The harder the climb feels,

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the stronger your momentum becomes. And here's the beauty. Momentum
makes action easier. When you start, each subsequent step feels natural,
the weight of someday loses its hold completely, and the
life you want begins to take shape. This is your life.

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It's not a rehearsal, it's not a test. It's not
a practice run anymore. Especially for us older guys or women.
Your time is ticking and the only way to win
back that someday has taken has been taken away by today,
by the end of today, some days past. The true

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cost of waiting. Let's let's cut the niceties. Waiting for
some day isn't harmless. It's slowly eroding everything you care about.
Your health, your relationships, your dreams, your life. You're pissing
it all away. Health doesn't wait. Your body ages, your
bones start to hurt, your energy wanes, your vitality fades.

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Every day you delay, you're creating shitty habits. It's harder
to make that change. Then you start making excuses, my favorite,
I'm too old moving toward better nutrition, fitness, or rest.
You're taking a loan from your future self, and the
debt is now pain, illness, and a ton of regret.

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Dreams don't wait. Ideas die, Opportunities vanish, ambitions fade. The
perfect time you've been waiting for will never just show up.
Waiting cost you growth, fulfillment, and the chance to leave
a mark on the world not gonna happen. Every day

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you hesitate is a day your potential just withers away.
So what does the perfect days look like. It's a
morning filled with purpose, It's afternoons spent building, creating, connecting.
It's evenings with reflection, celebration, and the quiet satisfaction of progress,

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not sitting on the couch watching TV tonight and going yeah,
I should have could it woulda didn't do this and
didn't do that? No, okay, so what you didn't do?
When are you gonna do it? That's it. Switch the energy.
Nothing negative comes out of here. You screw up, your
fuck up, you mess up, all right, So how do
you fix it? And then you put that out into

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the universe. It's confidence, it's clarity, it's energy, It's freedom
from the heavy chains of procrastination and regret. It's relate
Reclaiming control means realizing that action, not waiting, is your superpower. Momentum,
not hesitation, is your ally. And small, deliberate steps, remember

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those deliberate steps, not vague confused intentions, are your ticket
to the life that you've been dreaming of. My friends,
you have seen the trap of someday. You have faced
the fear you felt the cost of waiting and waiting
and waiting. You've imagined the life you could build. You've
seen others living on Facebook. Now it all comes down

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to the one thing, your choice. This is where excuses end.
Right now, This is where hesitation dies. This is where
action begins. No one else would do it for you,
No one else can live your life. Every second you
delay is stolen from you, your dreams, your relationships, your health,

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your purpose. But here's deliberating truth. The power to change it,
the power to reclaim it has always been yours. Today
is your battlefield. Today is your moment. Today is where
you win or lose time that you'll never get back.
Break it into steps. Take one goal, remember one goal,

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one task. Breaking into small, possible, realistic, actionable steps so
you can take tours today. Set a deadline, take action immediately,
do it. Don't wait, my god, don't overthink it, just act, Reflect,
and commit. At the end of the day, write down
what you've accomplished today. What did you do that was good?

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And what did you do that was stupid? Reflect on
the momentum it created. Remember even your mistakes, you need them,
don't ignore them. All the stupid shit you did today
you need that. That's a part of your lesson. So
you don't do it tomorrow. Commit to taking another step

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tomorrow and just repeat this daily. You will thank me
in about a few weeks. Every day, pick one someday
and take a step. Momentum compounds, fear diminishes, progress becomes inevitable.
My friends, I hope I made you think. I hope
I made you question your existence and to appreciate every tomorrow,

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every today, and to really be grateful for all of
the experiences of the past that have made you who
you are. Right now, keep this in mind. Choose action
over excuse, purpose over comfort, and the work that matters
over the destruct distractions that don't. My name is Jimmy

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Gonzalez and this was now your reset yourself twenty two podcasts.
Go forward and live your life to the fullest. Thank
you so much for listening, liking, and especially sharing, hopefully
sharing with others. Please share with others. It means a
lot to me. Many blessings to you all. Be well

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and prosper.

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