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April 10, 2025 101 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: are bops misunderstood?

We’re talking: Bop lore, being perceived as a slut, sharing bop lore with your partner, the madonna-whore complex, broken bitches, pimp mentality, internalizing slut shaming, slut shaming dress codes, nude epidemics, our slut lore, the slut walk, the sex positivity era, 2014 feminism, sex positive feminism, sex positivity gone too far, the bop house, sophie rain, what is bops don’t wanna be saved?, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵 

Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1UNV74US5veal9JASb_FOZsxrKkHLhOXVTlQBtsuIRYc/edit?usp=sharing 


Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:02

What is a Bop? 00:02:02 - 00:09:43

Bop Lore 00:09:43 - 00:22:16

Sex Positivity vs Slut Shaming 00:22:16 - 00:58:39

She don’t wanna be saved 00:58:39 - 01:09:00

Revenge of the Bop: the bop house, coming of age and turning hurt to hustle 01:09:00 - 01:25:54

What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:25:54 - 01:41:27

Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 

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the s0 wet s0 dry team: 

Autumn (host, editor) 

instagram: @autumnkaira 

twitter: @autumnkaira 

tiktok: @autumnkaira 

Fiji (host, editor) 

instagram: @s0wet 

twitter: @s0wet 

tiktok: @fijithesiren 

youtube: @s0wet 

Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)

instagram: @xlaomedia 

email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com 

A.I.R. (Music Producer) 

instagram: @airgoincrazy

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