Sex-positive feminism failed us, now what?

Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being in love with flirting with ai, chapped lips, and crying in the shower.

Next, we dive into this week’s topic: sex-positive feminism

We’re talking: Rethinking sex positivity, reflecting on our sexual histories, critiques of sex-positive feminism, misconceptions about sex-positive feminism, the gaps between ideals and reality, slut shaming, the pressure to be more promiscuous, codes of how to act around men passed down by other women, prioritizing men’s pleasure, heterosexual norms, women’s desire, rebellion, Kim K, Sex Will Be Good Again by Katherine Angel, the popularity of profiting off of your body, hook up culture, Confidence feminism, the “hurtable” woman, the importance of preparing girls for womanhood, sex and relationship education, how sex-positive feminism impacts dating, the risks of being openly sex-positive, the shift to celibacy, women relearning themselves, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:11

What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:11 - 00:06:46

Defining sex-positive feminism + our history and initial thoughts on sex positivity 00:06:46 - 00:14:00

The problems with sex-positive feminism & men’s perception 00:14:00 - 00:23:29

the pressure to be more promiscuous, our pleasure, and not knowing what we really want as women 00:23:29 - 00:28:14

consent culture, heterosexual norms, women’s desire, and rebellion 00:28:14 - 00:40:43

How sex-positive feminism gained and lost popularity 00:40:43 - 00:51:09

Confidence feminism vs the hurtable woman and the unachievable woman 00:51:09 - 01:02:23

Criticisms of sex-positive feminism, conservative tiktok, the anti-porn movement, and the pressures to have kinky sex 01:02:23 - 01:15:22

Where do men play a role in sex-positive feminism, how sex-positive feminism impacts dating, and the risks of being openly sex-positive 01:15:22 - 01:22:11

The gaps in sex-positive feminism, the 4B movement, and where to go from here 01:22:11 - 01:40:21

Wrap-up: Is sexual liberation truly possible? And What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about sex-positive feminism 01:40:21 -01:54:19

Sources:https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/24/opinion/sex-positivity-feminism.htmlhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/feb/02/it-stopped-me-having-sex-for-a-year-why-generation-z-is-turning-its-back-on-sex-positive-feminismhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Idmegxtis8I&t=3s https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/feb/02/it-stopped-me-having-sex-for-a-year-why-generation-z-is-turning-its-back-on-sex-positive-feminismhttps://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/may/21/celibacy-hetrosexual-women-boysober-4b-sex-positive-feminismfollow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry

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