Saint2Siren

Episode 10: Inside the NFL: Power, Taboo, and a Story That Still Haunts Me

In this episode, I tell a story I never thought I’d share — one that unfolded deep inside an NFL training camp, where dominance, secrecy, and sexuality collided in ways few could imagine.

What began as a private training camp session with a rookies evolved into something darker and more complex, drawing in veteran players and unearthing a taboo that still echo...

Episode 9: Cyber Stalking, Sexual Fluidity & the New Male Landscape

In this episode, I address cyber safety through a true and deeply unsettling story from my own life—how a man who stalked me online through FetLife was arrested for murder just five months later. It’s a stark reminder of why vigilance, boundaries, and digital awareness are essential in today’s world.

I also explore how dating apps like Feeld are reshaping sex...

Episode 8: My Most Horrific Client Session True Story (Germans)

It is with great reservation I bring you this story in all its detail. It is my most horrifically shocking client story; albeit not my MOST SHOCKING - that involves NFL players. If you want that one, please let me know in the comments.

I also share stories of my top surgeon backstory as I pull the veil back on what happens at the most wealthy &...

Podcast Episode 6: Charlie Sheen, Billionaire Clients & Caveat Emptor

In this episode, I share true stories from behind the curtain of high-profile client interactions — including a conversation with Charlie Sheen, encounters with billionaire clients, and a cautionary tale involving a cuckold dynamic that spiraled out of control.

These stories aren’t told for shock value alone. They serve as real-world lessons in power, fanta...

Episode 5: From Fantasy to Reality — Creating the Ultimate Hotwife

In this episode, I break down a real client request that went far beyond fantasy: a long-term submissive asked me to guide the transformation of his wife into a fully realized hotwife and dominant sexual presence — ultimately rendering his own role obsolete.

What was designed as a two-year psychological and relational strategy was completed in under a year. I walk thr...

Episode 4: Extortion, Exposure & Taking Back Control

In this episode, I answer the five W’s and one H—who, what, when, where, why, and how—of my transformation from “good girl” to a globally recognized figure in the world of financial domination.

I share the true story of being targeted by extortion: how a man attempted to expose and control me, and how I reclaimed my power by taking ownership of the narrative. This episode explo...

Episode 3 — Scores Strippers, Sopranos & Mafia

In this episode, I take you back to 1997—bartending in a hidden speakeasy in New Jersey as the The Sopranos filmed nearby, their cast and crew slipping in for late-night drinks. The air was thick with smoke, whispered mob ties, and the glamour of Scores strippers who arrived for an underground Smoker. I share how the lexicon of the mob, my father’s secret underworld connections, and...

Episode 2: Kinky Sex & Submissive Men

In this episode of Saint2Siren, Findom and Dominatrix sessions with The Violatrix, I pull back the curtain on the hidden desires of powerful men. From the allure of BBC fantasies to the psychology of tease and denial, cock-and-ball torture, worship, force play, and beyond — I break down the most-requested kinks and fetishes I encounter both online and in real life. This isn’t just about sex;...

Episode 1 (Premiere): Saint to Siren — How I Became a Dominatrix & Findom

Welcome to the premiere of Saint2Siren.

I’m Pamela Cappetta, known professionally as The Violatrix—author, mentor, and psychological strategist. In this opening episode, I share the true origin of my journey: how I moved from innocence to influence, and how power, seduction, and psychology became inseparably intertwined.

This is not a story about shock or sp...