September 1, 2025 • 39 mins
Episode 2: Kinky Sex & Submissive Men
In this episode of Saint2Siren, Findom and Dominatrix sessions with The Violatrix, I pull back the curtain on the hidden desires of powerful men. From the allure of BBC fantasies to the psychology of tease and denial, cock-and-ball torture, worship, force play, and beyond — I break down the most-requested kinks and fetishes I encounter both online and in real life. This isn’t just about sex; it’s about psychology, control, and why men at the top often crave surrender behind closed doors.
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The irony of this podcast is that my clients do call me
daddy. Hi, I'm back with my next
episode, I am the Violatrix, andthis is my second episode for my
podcast series. If you saw one or if you didn't
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see one, go back and watch one and gives you the full
foundation of what is a fendom, who am I and what do I do?
And I thought that the natural progression of things would be
to slide into all the breakdown,all the breakdowns of fetishes
and kinks in which I specialize.And if you're if you're not, if
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you're a faint of heart, you probably want to tune out at
this point. So what is Finn doming?
Finn Doming is anything that falls under the umbrella of the
kink and fetish of a man that wants to be dominated or he
wants to submit to a more powerful woman, whom he
typically refers to as mistress or a goddess.
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And that's what my clients call me.
Sometimes they call me daddy, which I don't love, by the way.
And I know, I know there's like two or three of you, my top guys
that are like, she doesn't like being called daddy.
I prefer mistress or goddess. Now there, you know, now you
know, so I want to go into the breakdown of again, the
categories of these kinks, kink and fetish, the ones that are
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most requested. Of course, there's a million out
there that I've never heard of, and but these are the ones that
are most requested very quickly,You know, who does this apply
to? American men, European men.
And just so that you're clear onthis, this fin doming, femme
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doming dominatrix, this kink andfetish is, is not new and it was
born out of Europe. I mean, Europe is so much older
than the USA and they have much different views on sex and they
have just a more open, more liberal mind on these things.
Mindset on the king and fetish lifestyle.
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So like a lot of your big king and fetish websites will come
out of Netherlands, Amsterdam, you know, Germany.
Don't get me started on the Germans.
They are some of my craziest, most radical clients as far as
they're kings and fetishes. But understand that the USA is a
country that was built by, you know, religious Puritans, by,
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you know, pilgrims seeking religious freedom.
So we are still very backwards in the way we view sex and kink
and fetish and all of these things.
So my clients are typically yournext door neighbor, your boss,
your employee, the guy next doorand but they but my clients do
run globally. I really want to break into the
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Dubai market. I haven't yet.
I don't think they have access to the platform for which I
work. And if you want to see more
about me, you can definitely go to my website, the Violatrix,
the Violatrix trix.com. So let's talk about the kings
and finishes. The number one that men come to
me for is humiliation. And humiliation can involve
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anything from me calling them fat, lazy, stupid.
Specifically a lot of times deals with SPH small penis
humiliation. A lot of these guys, I don't
know if it's the chicken or the egg.
Were they Born This Way or did they find out they were this
way? I really am not sure.
I think it's either or but they have a micro penis or super
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small penis or they just they'reflaccid, they fail to get hard
and they want to be degraded andhumiliated for this.
Do I see them on Cam? Absolutely do.
Often they send me Dick pics of something that looks like a toe
100% and if a guy sends me an unsolicited micro penis Dick
pack, hell hath no fury like what I will unleash on him.
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But a lot of these guys with micro penises want to have their
their Dick graded, which of course I won't do for free.
So the humiliation. I have a billionaire client who
likes to be scolded in a way that his father demeaned him
because he didn't become a billionaire on his own.
He inherited his father's business and he liked me to make
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him cry. I have a brand new client who is
a retiree retired attorney and he has a force feed fetish.
He likes to be force fed. Now I typically don't take on
force feeding clients because there's an ethical moral
compromise for me. So I will ask them, give me your
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height, give me your weight and I'll quickly type it into
Google. I'll like type it into like a
BMI and I'm like you're 1 hammeraway from a heart attack.
I'm not doing it like I'm not having blood on my hands.
But I did allow this guy to slipthrough.
He's like 6-4 but he's £400. He got naked from me on camera.
I don't I don't know how he wipes himself like I don't know
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how. I don't know how he functions.
He had so much difficulty finding his penis during the
session because his wife wasn't there to lift up because she
doesn't know. But anyway, he wants to be
humiliated, called. He wants to be called my fat
piggy, my zaftig loser, my forcefeed sub, my he's just anything.
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And I, I struggle with this because I was not like a bully
in school. If you ask anybody that knew me
in middle school or high school,I was like the I'm like the
nicest person. So does it come naturally for me
to call this guy a fat ass loser?
No. And, and I often run out of
words and he has to tell me likeone of my clients is a gooner
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and he likes to be called like stroke by jerk junkie.
And these guys have to tell me like one of my first questions
is after I find out they're a fetish or Kang.
Like what do you like to be called?
Because the vocabulary is so tremendous and they have trigger
words. So OK, so tease and denial,
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humiliation, humiliation usuallygoes hand in hand with tease and
denial. And that will be me getting in
some sexy outfit on camera or just my voice and then going
into my character, the Violatrixand telling them what would you
do if I was standing in front ofyou with my silky black hair
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laying over your shoulders as I take my long skinny fingers and
my sharp red black nails, my rednails, and I squeeze them into
your cheek. I open your mouth, I spit into
it. I smack you across the face, I
tell you what a fucking loser you are and that you will never
get close to a woman like me, not in a million years.
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Are you fit to do anything shortof licking the bottom of my
shoes, you fucking loser. 0 Absolutely zero point to you
living. So this is the kind of thing
that they want and then they getlike super excited.
So if I'm on camera, I'm going to be moving seductively, I'm
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going to be speaking seductively, I'm going to be
teasing and taking down a strap or turning around and showing,
you know, a part of my body that's seductive, that sort of
thing. And if it's just on the phone, I
am an amazing wordsmith. So if they're into tease and
denial and that sort of thing onthe phone, I can definitely
paint a beautiful scenario. The force feeding.
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I haven't actually gotten to this with my client yet.
I'm trying to stave it off because he wants me to drizzle
greasy pizza over him, even metaphorically, even in a
fantasy scenario. He does want IRLI.
Don't know if I can do it. I don't know.
We're we're negotiating that right now, but he wants to be
force fed whole pizzas and all sorts of things and have them
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falling out of his mouth. Going back to the tease and
deny, I do have a client, a young guy in LA whose parents
are famous, so I can't say much more than that.
But he likes to be forced to drink milk, a lot of it.
And then I insult him and make him choke himself with a dildo
until he pukes it up. That's his.
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That's his tease and denial. So exposure let me get to
exposure because exposure is absolutely one of my favorite
fetishes. It used to be really popular and
now because of terms of service,there's a lot of platforms and
websites that simply don't allowit.
But exposure deals with exposure, blackmail, extortion.
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These are men that want you to walk that very fine line of
fully ruining their lives. Back in the early days of
platforms and websites that dealin fin doming, fem doming, we
used to have something called Teamviewer.
It's little known and lesser understood these days.
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Probably the only people that are going to know it would be in
in tech, but Teamviewer was a program you could download and
it would send you a code and youwould send it to the other
person. You both download it and then
you would take over their computer.
So you could literally and this was allowed on services until it
wasn't. But this is my favorite thing to
do. You could go in and drain their
bank account in real time with their permission.
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I used to have contracts I wouldmake them sign.
I remember I, I used to work in my guest room when I lived in
Hershey, PA and I had a whole room dedicated to it and I had
contracts and I had applications.
I used to make them fill out allsorts of immediately without
ever seeing their face, initial conversation, name, address,
date of birth, Social Security number, bank account number.
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My billionaire client in New York City, I have his address,
his bank accounts. I don't do anything with it, but
I do tease him with it from, I mean, I may have done something
once, but I do tease him with itfrom time to time.
But Teamviewer was amazing because you could drain them in
real time while they're watchingby taking over your computer.
And then you could go in and like start to compose a e-mail
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to their wife at the same time, not necessarily send it.
But these guys get off on the danger.
They want to be on that razor sharp edge of total ruin.
And this is important to understand when a guy comes to
you and says, I'm going to exposure, I'm into SPH small
penis humiliation, I'm into sissification.
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There's no two clients that are ever going to be alike.
So as a woman, if you're doing this or if you're following me
or listening to me for education, please understand
that if you go right out of the gates, assuming, oh, he's into
sissification, get on your kneesand suck this BBC.
Well, some sissies sissificationis the fetish of dressing up
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makeup, fur, pantyhose, stockings, lipstick, also
leather corsets, thong, pantyhose, anything silky.
It runs the gamut. Just picture the best way to
picture a Sissy is a guy that would love to get in, walk into
your go into your walk in closetwith you and play dress up.
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That's the best way and treat and he wants to be treated like
your bestie. He wants to be dressed up, taken
out for cocktails and flirt withmen.
That's their ultimate dream. But if you go into a
sissification session assuming all to all, all sissies are the
same, you will lose that client.Because there are sissies that
want to be like me, look like me, be my bestie, but their
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dream is to be peed on or just be close to me by me.
If you go into that saying get on your knees, suck this BBC.
Some of them are like, oh, absolutely not.
I am. I am completely alpha male.
I have guys in the military. I have professional athletes
that will put on a bra and panties, turn on the camera.
They'll be like, don't I look pretty And I'm like so feminine,
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so feminine and their, their muscles are just bulging out of
the, the bra strap and how, how they and I'm going to tell you
something. Some of these guys asses like
in, in the corset and the like the the garters.
You can't believe how good some of these guys asses are.
But anyway, it is, it is quite insane.
Like you'll see a big American like an eagle and then they've
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got like, you know, Oh, I can't get the my bra.
It's it's insane. But anyway, you never want to
assume that two clients are there's No 2 are alike and you
don't want to go into any fetishassuming.
This is why. If you're following me to learn,
you need to ask a series of questions qualifying what it is
that they like before you jump in.
Because if you take the fantasy in the wrong direction, you're
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going to lose the client. So blackmail, extortion, some of
my favorite, a lot of them want to be recorded by me and then I
put clips of it up on Twitter orI put clips of it up on
Instagram or something and I expose them and then they have
to pay me and beg me to take it down.
There's times I put clips up andthen I walked away.
I went to make dinner for the kids and I forgot.
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I left it up and I come back andthere's like, you know, $5000 in
my account because they just kept sending me money thinking
that I was holding out. I just forgot to take it down.
So I mean, I don't recommend that you do that.
But yeah, black hole, blackmail,extortion.
But if you're not really good atit, you shouldn't be messing
around with it because you couldruin someone's life.
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And if that's their ultimate goal, I would not suggest taking
that client because there are women.
I have many clients that will call me and say I was extorted
and ruined by a woman on the platform you work for.
And I'm like, well, shame on youbecause it says right here that
I'm phone with Cam. You should have verified that I
that the femdom, the Finn Dom iswho you who she says she is when
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you contact her. So you were dealing with some
guy hiding behind a camera, hiding behind a phone, and then
he took you, your video of you, you know, bending over and
fucking yourself with a dildo. And he's sending it to your
threatening to send it to your boss unless you pay him $20,000.
So that happens a lot. So if you're a client and you're
worried about, you know, playingin these fetishes, find someone
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who specializes in it. Find someone with feedback.
Cuckolding. Many of my clients are cucks.
Most of my clients are cucks. Cuckolding is actually a
Shakespearean term. Cuckolding was out of the idea
that back in old England, old European times, when the men
would go off to harvest or to war, and the wife was left on
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the homestead, on the farm she had, she took a lover, she took
the farm boy in. It's just like you see in like,
I think the beginning of like The Princess Bride and she takes
on this lover and then the husband comes back from war or
from harvest, and now he is sleeping in the barn and she's
got the young barn hand, the farm hand in her bed.
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And the husband now effectively becomes a cuck, A cuckold.
So it's taking a man that once was in a position of power and
demeaning him and demoting him to this position of relative
submission to the woman and sometimes to the woman's lover
that is a cuckold. That's what separates it out
from any other fetish is becauseit's typically dealing with a
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woman who can also be referred to as a hot wife.
A the the cuckoldress or the woman involved in cuckolding.
The man can be called a cuckoldress or a hot wife, and
that's the fetish. So again, don't ever assume that
two cocks are the same because you will often have a cock who
just wants to come to you and serve you.
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But sometimes they want to servea full couple and they want to
be forced to their knees and told get on your knees and suck
this Dick. And some, some of them, if you
say that, they'll be like, Oh myGod, no, that's absolutely not
what I wanted. So you have to qualify in the
beginning of the phone conversation, the BBC fetish
again, BNWO black New World Order, BNWO Black New World
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Order and BBC are two fetishes that are in the white man
category. Again, white men making up the
majority of any of these Kingston fetish, you know,
client base. That's where they just truly
believe that the black man is more masculine, alpha, superior.
He's the ultimate human specimen.
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He's the ultimate species of, ofmasculinity, endurance, stamina,
physical prowess, and of course,Dick prowess of, of the ultimate
cock. So that's the BBC fetish.
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And BNWO when they ask for blackNew World order, that's where
they want a phone call where they want you telling them that
their wife's going to get pregnant.
They're going to be a cock to a black guy who's going to get
their wife pregnant and they're going to be raising the black
babies. It's it's an absolute, it's a
popular fetish. So they want to talk about black
New World Order or they want to just worship BBC.
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And a lot of my clients are upset because I don't have BBC
Men at the ready to like, go on Cam with me and like, insult
them or, you know, that that makes me lesser of a fandom.
But that is a huge ask. And I am often able to patch
people in on calls, but for the most part, that's a really
specialty fetish encasement. I don't do any sort of
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encasement. That's where a guy wants to be
encased in something or tied up with like shrink wrap or duct
tape, and they want to be encased in something with just
maybe a blowhole, like for theirnose or their mouth.
And I don't specialize in, I don't do anything.
I mean, the site that I work forhas vacuuming fetish.
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Vacuuming has yawning, burping, I mean pretty much any bodily
function. I don't deal in any of that.
I never have. I do have a few clients that are
interested in being human furniture.
I have one, his name is human footstool and another's name
that is human ashtray. One wants to be, you know, have
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cigarettes put out on him, even if it's just an oh, I, I'm
putting out my very hot coal burning ash cigarette right on
your white flesh. Oh, look at it.
Burn smell, that sizzle. That's what his thing is.
Another guy that wants to be human footstool.
He wants me to put my feet up onhim.
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That's a really hard one to do because how many scenarios can
you talk about him being a humanfootstool?
But that I had a guy one time that had a death wish fetish.
He just wanted like he literallywas like Wiley Coyote.
He wanted to see how many different ways I could kill him.
And I, I literally was going through, I was going in my mind
back through like Roadrunner, Wiley Coyote scenarios.
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I'm like, I'm driving you in a car at 160 miles an hour off a
Cliff. I'm dropping an anvil on your
head. I'm putting dynamite in your ass
in your mouth and setting it on fire like I'm I'm dousing you
with gasoline. Here I go.
I like the match. There was nothing that I think
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the last one was some sort of like a pin board nailing him to
a cross and I just like that just got monotonous.
I wasn't into that. Excuse me, foot fetish and
stockings. That's so easy because all you
have to do, especially if it's aCam session, get a pair of
nylons and put those on and you're just you got your bare
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feet. When a guy has a foot fetish,
it's sometimes is the pedicure. It sometimes is.
Sometimes it's a long skinny foot.
Sometimes it's the fetish for a high arch.
It's always a fetish for a soft pad.
The padded part of the foot, like right underneath here,
that's a soft pad, high arch. Some are small feet, some are
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organized toes are the toes organized or they're not out of
sink and some are very long. Some have a fetish for a very
long foot. Some of a debt fans are for,
some have a fetish. For dancers feet, they're like
banged and bruised like a ballerina's feet, but the high
arch is pretty much across the board.
And then all you have to do is take off slowly, take off your
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heel, show them these beautiful pantyhose that I've bought.
Imagine me taking these pantyhose, putting your face
right next to my foot as I slidethe nylon over my toes, across
my soft pad, up going along my high arch, over my heel.
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Watch it going up my calves, my shapely calves, my ankle, all
the way up to my knee to my thigh.
Imagine me rubbing this up against your face.
Can you imagine the sensation ofthe nylons sends chills up your
spine. And that's.
And then depending on where theywant to go with the fetish or
how hard into it they are, sometimes I'll tell them I'm
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going to take off these pantyhose.
Excuse me, sometimes I will tellthem I'm going to take off these
pantyhose and I'm going to tie them around your neck and I'm
going to choke you. I'm going to take these
pantyhose off and I'm going to tie them in a Figure 8 around
your nuts and tug it so tight until your nuts turn purple.
You'd like that, wouldn't you? And that brings me to another
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fetish, which is CBT. Again, one of my favorite
fetishes, Cock and ball torture.This this is not that common but
it is absolutely a popular one. My favorite story was a guy that
called me. His wife was going to the
Hamptons to their house. He was in Manhattan.
His wife was going to the Hamptons for the weekend.
He booked me like 5 days in advance.
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Started alcohol on Friday night about 7:00.
He had a big thing of whiskey, like a big Tumblr glass of
whiskey. He had encyclopedias, medical
dictionaries. He had a homemade vice like like
the stockades, like in colonial times.
He had a vice to sweet to push his balls through and then drop
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encyclopedia after encyclopedia.So the whole session was how
many books could we stack up anddrop them from what height on
his nuts as they as they were pulled through the vice.
So I mean, you guys and you haveguys that you know, you tell
them go get a hair, go get a hair brush out of the bathroom,
your wife's hair brush. And I want you to whack your
nuts like 10 times with the hairbrush.
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There's guys that it's almost anart where you take pantyhose or
a hair scrunchie or something, or some sort of a rope and you
tie up their balls in like a Figure 8 and around their conk.
And then you tie it in a tight knot and you watch it turn
purple. They like that.
But again, this is there, I havededuced there are certain
ethnicities of men that have a high tolerance for that.
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Most men, you go near their nuts, they would scream.
But there are men that I have seen, they're nuts.
Sustained things I had when I was early on in my years of
doing this, I had a gentleman that contacted me from Canada.
He said I need you to bring 6 girlfriends to Canada.
I'm going to fly you first class.
Each one of you is going to get $10,000 more from me.
But I need you to all come with six inch platform stilettos and
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step on my nuts until they're decimated.
I was like, I was salivating at the opportunity and I called.
I was like, I don't have anybodythat first of all, no one knew
what I was. No one knew I was doing this.
But I was like, I have no one I can call.
I called my sister and I was like, hey, you know, And she's
like, I can't do that. I'm like, you do this to men for
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free. Are you kidding me?
So I couldn't find, I couldn't find 5 girls, let alone one
girl. So I lost that opportunity.
But men who are into conch and ball torture, the, the, the pain
threshold will absolutely lure you.
And again, like these guys will take like power tools, you know,
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they'll have all sorts of tools from the garage ready to, you
know, at the ready. CEI is a popular 1.
I don't like it because it dealsin body fluid.
It makes me sick. But CEI is come eating
instructions where they want to jerk off and then be told that
they have to eat their own semen.
They often want to jerk off in their hand or on the floor and
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then tell them to get on all fours and lap it up.
So that's come eating instructions and it involves
everything from taking control of them at the onset and
controlling them the whole way through until they ejaculate and
then forcing the cleanup in whatever is.
Sometimes it deals with doing itin a spoon.
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If they spill a drop, you torture them.
Sometimes it has to do with themdoing it in a cup and making
them drink it. I'm almost even getting sick
talking about this tease and denial.
We covered that and that can really be anything from acting
like the bully girl in high school.
A lot of guys when you do tease and denial, they literally want
to go back to their high school years when a cheerleader would
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tell a bunch of football players, take this kid in the
bathroom and give him a swirly. A lot of my clients want
swirlies. That's where someone takes you,
drags you into the bathroom by the back of your neck or your
hair and forces your face into the toilet and flushes the
toilet. Sometimes it's dirty toilet,
sometimes it's clean. But a lot of my clients with the
tease and denial and bullying and domination, they want
swirlies. Chastity is when someone tells
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you they want to be locked up, they don't mean in a cage.
They mean have their cock lockedup.
Amazon sells chastity devices. Chastity is where the
dominatrix, the femdom, the femdom puts the guy in a
chastity device. Again, you can get him on Amazon
and they run the gamut from totally concealed under clothing
to very obvious. And the typically the
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submissive, the one in chastity will send the keys.
He'll mail them to a mistresses or a goddess's PO Box and he
can't get hard ejaculate really do anything until you mail him
the keys back if he's a good boyor you're extorting him.
But often they oftentimes they keep the keys, but they are in a
chastity device. You make them go to work, send
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you a picture with a time stamp in front of something that shows
the day and time and then you make him wear it to work all
day. Sometimes send them to the
bathroom throughout the day and tell them they can take it off
or make fun of them or tell themto write something on their
Dick, an indelible marker. Make fun of them toward a sort
of thing, make fun of them sort of thing.
They all want to be made fun of.They all want to be demeaned.
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Hot wife we covered. Hot wife is basically a
cuckoldress or the wife that's sleeping with her gym, you know,
her coach at the gym or she's sleeping with the next door
neighbor and basically just demeaning the husband,
emasculating him in any way. Gooning is a more recent thing.
That's where these guys will just sit.
Picture the old cartoons like the Looney Tunes and picture
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something like swirling in frontof their head like a target.
That's all these guys do. They want to sit, they want to
stare at something and they wantto be almost hypnotized into
this state of drooling, gooning,stroking for days and hours and
weeks. And it's just, these are my
stroke bots. These are my jerk junkies.
And they typically have trigger words.
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All my clients want to be calledgood boy.
If they're a Sissy, they want tobe called good girl.
But the gooning ones that sometimes trips over into hypno,
which you're not really allowed to say anymore hypno because
there's terms of service. It deals with medical.
I'm sure some guys spend, you know, $10,000 on some phone sex
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operator or only Fans girl and then told his wife that he was
hypnotized into doing it. I can only imagine that's what
happened because we're not allowed to say it anymore.
Hypnotherapy. So but that gooning and
hypnotherapy the same thing. You're a good boy.
You're a dirty boy. You're a naughty boy.
Keep stroking. You're a fucking loser.
Keep stroking. Keep staring at my face.
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Keep staring at my feet. Good stroke bot.
Good jerk junkie. Keep going.
Stop. Start again.
That's gooning servitude. There's guys that have contacted
me for years. Can I come clean your pool?
Can I wear a French maid uniform?
Fuck no. I don't want you anywhere near
me, near my house, near my children now.
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And the idea that, and there aremistresses that have these guys,
you know, fixing their car, running their errands.
If you're a single woman and you're a lifestyle mistress, OK,
I get it. There's no way I would want
these guys. I mean, that they get off on the
idea of shining your shoes, giving you a pedicure, cooking
your meals that that holds no interest to me and, and
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servitude of that level. It's hard for me to play that
online because I can't, there's only so much I can play with it.
So I don't really deal in that. But there are lifestyle
mistresses that have these guys for that reason.
My answer is if you can't pay me, you're of no use to me.
Religious themes we talked aboutany time you hear a guy with a
southern accent, I don't mean tothrow you all into a box, but
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typically when you hear a guy with a southern draw, there's
going to be some religious themethat's going to run through that
conversation. And that's my jerking for Jesus
guy. That's the guy that you know,
wants to be spoken to, sung hymns and Amazing Grace while he
works himself into a louder and or, or wants to be spoken to in
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tongues, which yes, I had to do that once.
That was no easy feat. Role play is is a very common
one. These guys will come to you
before a session. They'll send you like a three
page script. I'm like, are you fucking
kidding me? Role play like.
And I used to in the early years, I had the maid's costume,
I had the cheerleader costume, Ihad the the dominator, like the
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guys that come to me with role play and ask me to dress up
something. There's just absolutely no way
anymore. I'm too lazy.
I'm too old for it. No, I'm not doing it.
But it typically involves, oh, Icame home and my wife, I found
my wife with this guy. This is your name.
You're Trisha and you're this many years old.
And, and they have actual like scripts drawn out of things that
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they want you to say to them. It's crazy.
And then another time it will bethat you're the girlfriend of
his best friend and the best friend leaves the room and then
you're hot for him. These are like the top role play
scenarios. So hot wife gooning.
Let me think of what else we have Encasement, tease and
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denial CBT. So ATMI touched on before, and I
will probably wrap this up on this one, I actually, you know
what I'm going to do. I'm going to tell you 3 very
quick stories about my most shocking clients.
I had a client years ago who wasa Sissy and he was one of the
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trainers for a professional football team and he was the guy
that received the professional football player.
I'm not telling you which team it is.
He received the professional football players like the
rookies on their first season. He would receive them several
weeks before the rest of the team showed up for training camp
and he was known to all of the players.
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Now, in this case, these playershappen to be black.
I think there were a few white guys sprinkled in, but in this
case, these were the young blacknew recruit football players.
And they would go over to my client's house and he would
answer the door in like a thong and like a pink bow.
And he'd be naked otherwise witha pink pedicure.
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And this is a big, burly guy with a big beer belly and a
hairy chest. And he would invite them in,
make them cocktails, They would sit down.
And then at some point when all the guys got there, he would end
up getting in the middle of the room on the floor and all of
these guys would take turn stuffing his mouth with their
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parts and then it would graduateto any of his parts.
So he was just getting, you know, just double teamed, double
DP, double penetrated. But these were actual football
players. And this wasn't just like a one
time thing. This was like handed down by
like the the seasoned players tothe new recruits.
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It was like an and, and he said sometimes they brought their
girlfriends. I was like, what are their
girlfriends look like? He's like tall, thin blonde.
I was like, what are the girlfriends doing?
He's like, sometimes they just watch, sometimes they make out
with each other. So anyway, that is absolutely a
true story. And why did he call me?
Because he wasn't allowed to have any fun or orgasm.
So he would call me the days following, sometimes multiple
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times to release himself to thisincredible fantasy of serving
the perfect black men athlete specimens.
I have another client who is hiswife is a is a cuckoldrick's and
she would often surprise him with things like the most wild
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of things. Like one time she took him to a
nail salon and everybody was leaving the nail salon and there
were like 3 or 4 Asian guys thatwere running this salon and they
closed up, they locked the doors, they pulled the blinds
and they took my client's name was Tommy.
They took Tommy to the back of of like the waxing room and they
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strapped him down and they waxedhim from head to toe.
They ripped every hair off of his body.
Then once they were done, they hopped up on the table and just
started having their way with him, all of them, and basically
did so until he was just decimated.
So that's that's a favorite. She also did this to Tommy with
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the landscapers. After they would be done
landscaping for hours in the yard, she'd have Tommy tied up
in the dog hat. Like there'd be like a dog
house. It'd be like the dead of summer,
like in the Midwest. Neither.
I can't say what town they were in or what city they were in,
but when the landscapers were done, she would stand on the
balcony, tell them, unleash my husband and then just have your
way with him. So they would they would do
that. And I think probably the story
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like I have clients that will goto like the glory holes and I
have clients that I have severalin the New York City area that
will go to a hotel and you know,I'll bring guys in off a grinder
to do various things to them. We'll arrange some sort of a
mistress to come over and do things at my whim.
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Forced intox is another one I forgot to mention I forced intox
is a popular 1. I don't think you're allowed
it's it violates terms of service on a lot of if if you go
to my YouTube I have a forced intox.
It was a poll a guy from Poland.He was a young like 20 something
year old Polish kid and he called me.
I happen to be recording the session.
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I have a second cell phone happyrecording it in the actual
session was caught live. I kid you not when I tell you he
called me again two years later and I happen to have my cell
phone right there and I started recording that.
Both sessions with this forced intox kid are on my YouTube
channel and you can see what forced intox is.
He just, you're just forcing himto take a drink, take a drink,
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take a drink and he's just sending you money as he gets
more and more drunk. You're insulting him, you're
demeaning him. But the last story I'm going to
tell you about, and this is thisis my most horrific story.
I mentioned earlier that certainstates, parts of the country,
parts of the world are more, youknow, you can almost define them
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by fetishes. In my particular case, Germany
has been the most wild of fetishes.
Had a German client come to me and he said online on my
platform, are you OK with ATM? Now ATM stands for ass to mouth.
In the old days of camming, it used to mean me using something
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to do ass to mouth, using a dildo to do ass to mouth.
Of course I don't do that. So nowadays it mostly in the
domination world, it's going to mean are you OK if I do ass to
mouth on camera for you? So in this case I was like,
yeah, I hadn't taken one in a long time, but it kind of died
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off this fetish. So I said OK, let's do it.
So I took the fetish, we plannedthe session.
I took this session and he callsme and he had the most white
blonde hair, the bluest of eyes.He was so perfect specimen
German like. He was just absolutely
beautiful, this sweet smile. And I was like, oh, this is
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going to be nice. He had this very Swedish IKEA
kitchen, Immaculate kitchen. And then he had a bunch of
dildos there. And I was like, OK, one of them
was suctioned on to the cabinets.
One of them was suctioned on themiddle of the table.
He doesn't say a word. He just starts grinning at me
like a serial killer. He strips down.
It was in great shape, by the way.
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He jumps up on top of the kitchen table and just squats
right on this very large dildo. It horrified me.
I can't imagine this thing goinginto my body, It was that big.
And he's just hopping up and down like it's an exercise
class. Like no big thing.
I'm like OK well I knew he had said ATM but maybe my archaic
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mind back when things were cleaner I don't know.
Well when he said ATM what he was actually asking me was when
it comes out it's going to look like a fudgesicle chocolate pop
and he hops off this thing and proceeds to show me how he's
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going to make it all clean for me and I was gagging and
vomiting. I'm on camera, I'm gagging and
vomiting and he is just smiling with this.
Remember the in the in like doctor in the like the Grinch
that the way the Grinch is smiling that same grin the last
time I ever saw it and I never want to see it again.
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He called me one more time for that fetish and he paid me
incredibly well. But I start, I pressed record on
Zoom and it alerted him and he never called me again.
I was so glad that he didn't. And that's probably my most
disgusting story. I have shocking ones, but that's
my most disgusting 1. So thank you for tuning in.
Hope you enjoyed this. In my next in my following
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podcast, I'm going to take real clients on air.
If you have any questions, writethem, let me know, reach out,
tell me what you want. More, more deep dive.
What do you have? What questions do you have?
My content is only as strong as the questions, so thank you for
joining.
The irony of this podcast is that my clients do call me
daddy. Hi, I'm back with my next
episode, I am the Violatrix, andthis is my second episode for my
podcast series. If you saw one or if you didn't
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see one, go back and watch one and gives you the full
foundation of what is a fendom, who am I and what do I do?
And I thought that the natural progression of things would be
to slide into all the breakdown,all the breakdowns of fetishes
and kinks in which I specialize.And if you're if you're not, if
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you're a faint of heart, you probably want to tune out at
this point. So what is Finn doming?
Finn Doming is anything that falls under the umbrella of the
kink and fetish of a man that wants to be dominated or he
wants to submit to a more powerful woman, whom he
typically refers to as mistress or a goddess.
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And that's what my clients call me.
Sometimes they call me daddy, which I don't love, by the way.
And I know, I know there's like two or three of you, my top guys
that are like, she doesn't like being called daddy.
I prefer mistress or goddess. Now there, you know, now you
know, so I want to go into the breakdown of again, the
categories of these kinks, kink and fetish, the ones that are
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most requested. Of course, there's a million out
there that I've never heard of, and but these are the ones that
are most requested very quickly,You know, who does this apply
to? American men, European men.
And just so that you're clear onthis, this fin doming, femme
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doming dominatrix, this kink andfetish is, is not new and it was
born out of Europe. I mean, Europe is so much older
than the USA and they have much different views on sex and they
have just a more open, more liberal mind on these things.
Mindset on the king and fetish lifestyle.
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So like a lot of your big king and fetish websites will come
out of Netherlands, Amsterdam, you know, Germany.
Don't get me started on the Germans.
They are some of my craziest, most radical clients as far as
they're kings and fetishes. But understand that the USA is a
country that was built by, you know, religious Puritans, by,
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you know, pilgrims seeking religious freedom.
So we are still very backwards in the way we view sex and kink
and fetish and all of these things.
So my clients are typically yournext door neighbor, your boss,
your employee, the guy next doorand but they but my clients do
run globally. I really want to break into the
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Dubai market. I haven't yet.
I don't think they have access to the platform for which I
work. And if you want to see more
about me, you can definitely go to my website, the Violatrix,
the Violatrix trix.com. So let's talk about the kings
and finishes. The number one that men come to
me for is humiliation. And humiliation can involve
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anything from me calling them fat, lazy, stupid.
Specifically a lot of times deals with SPH small penis
humiliation. A lot of these guys, I don't
know if it's the chicken or the egg.
Were they Born This Way or did they find out they were this
way? I really am not sure.
I think it's either or but they have a micro penis or super
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small penis or they just they'reflaccid, they fail to get hard
and they want to be degraded andhumiliated for this.
Do I see them on Cam? Absolutely do.
Often they send me Dick pics of something that looks like a toe
100% and if a guy sends me an unsolicited micro penis Dick
pack, hell hath no fury like what I will unleash on him.
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But a lot of these guys with micro penises want to have their
their Dick graded, which of course I won't do for free.
So the humiliation. I have a billionaire client who
likes to be scolded in a way that his father demeaned him
because he didn't become a billionaire on his own.
He inherited his father's business and he liked me to make
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him cry. I have a brand new client who is
a retiree retired attorney and he has a force feed fetish.
He likes to be force fed. Now I typically don't take on
force feeding clients because there's an ethical moral
compromise for me. So I will ask them, give me your
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height, give me your weight and I'll quickly type it into
Google. I'll like type it into like a
BMI and I'm like you're 1 hammeraway from a heart attack.
I'm not doing it like I'm not having blood on my hands.
But I did allow this guy to slipthrough.
He's like 6-4 but he's £400. He got naked from me on camera.
I don't I don't know how he wipes himself like I don't know
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how. I don't know how he functions.
He had so much difficulty finding his penis during the
session because his wife wasn't there to lift up because she
doesn't know. But anyway, he wants to be
humiliated, called. He wants to be called my fat
piggy, my zaftig loser, my forcefeed sub, my he's just anything.
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And I, I struggle with this because I was not like a bully
in school. If you ask anybody that knew me
in middle school or high school,I was like the I'm like the
nicest person. So does it come naturally for me
to call this guy a fat ass loser?
No. And, and I often run out of
words and he has to tell me likeone of my clients is a gooner
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and he likes to be called like stroke by jerk junkie.
And these guys have to tell me like one of my first questions
is after I find out they're a fetish or Kang.
Like what do you like to be called?
Because the vocabulary is so tremendous and they have trigger
words. So OK, so tease and denial,
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humiliation, humiliation usuallygoes hand in hand with tease and
denial. And that will be me getting in
some sexy outfit on camera or just my voice and then going
into my character, the Violatrixand telling them what would you
do if I was standing in front ofyou with my silky black hair
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laying over your shoulders as I take my long skinny fingers and
my sharp red black nails, my rednails, and I squeeze them into
your cheek. I open your mouth, I spit into
it. I smack you across the face, I
tell you what a fucking loser you are and that you will never
get close to a woman like me, not in a million years.
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Are you fit to do anything shortof licking the bottom of my
shoes, you fucking loser. 0 Absolutely zero point to you
living. So this is the kind of thing
that they want and then they getlike super excited.
So if I'm on camera, I'm going to be moving seductively, I'm
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going to be speaking seductively, I'm going to be
teasing and taking down a strap or turning around and showing,
you know, a part of my body that's seductive, that sort of
thing. And if it's just on the phone, I
am an amazing wordsmith. So if they're into tease and
denial and that sort of thing onthe phone, I can definitely
paint a beautiful scenario. The force feeding.
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I haven't actually gotten to this with my client yet.
I'm trying to stave it off because he wants me to drizzle
greasy pizza over him, even metaphorically, even in a
fantasy scenario. He does want IRLI.
Don't know if I can do it. I don't know.
We're we're negotiating that right now, but he wants to be
force fed whole pizzas and all sorts of things and have them
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falling out of his mouth. Going back to the tease and
deny, I do have a client, a young guy in LA whose parents
are famous, so I can't say much more than that.
But he likes to be forced to drink milk, a lot of it.
And then I insult him and make him choke himself with a dildo
until he pukes it up. That's his.
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That's his tease and denial. So exposure let me get to
exposure because exposure is absolutely one of my favorite
fetishes. It used to be really popular and
now because of terms of service,there's a lot of platforms and
websites that simply don't allowit.
But exposure deals with exposure, blackmail, extortion.
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These are men that want you to walk that very fine line of
fully ruining their lives. Back in the early days of
platforms and websites that dealin fin doming, fem doming, we
used to have something called Teamviewer.
It's little known and lesser understood these days.
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Probably the only people that are going to know it would be in
in tech, but Teamviewer was a program you could download and
it would send you a code and youwould send it to the other
person. You both download it and then
you would take over their computer.
So you could literally and this was allowed on services until it
wasn't. But this is my favorite thing to
do. You could go in and drain their
bank account in real time with their permission.
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I used to have contracts I wouldmake them sign.
I remember I, I used to work in my guest room when I lived in
Hershey, PA and I had a whole room dedicated to it and I had
contracts and I had applications.
I used to make them fill out allsorts of immediately without
ever seeing their face, initial conversation, name, address,
date of birth, Social Security number, bank account number.
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My billionaire client in New York City, I have his address,
his bank accounts. I don't do anything with it, but
I do tease him with it from, I mean, I may have done something
once, but I do tease him with itfrom time to time.
But Teamviewer was amazing because you could drain them in
real time while they're watchingby taking over your computer.
And then you could go in and like start to compose a e-mail
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to their wife at the same time, not necessarily send it.
But these guys get off on the danger.
They want to be on that razor sharp edge of total ruin.
And this is important to understand when a guy comes to
you and says, I'm going to exposure, I'm into SPH small
penis humiliation, I'm into sissification.
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There's no two clients that are ever going to be alike.
So as a woman, if you're doing this or if you're following me
or listening to me for education, please understand
that if you go right out of the gates, assuming, oh, he's into
sissification, get on your kneesand suck this BBC.
Well, some sissies sissificationis the fetish of dressing up
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makeup, fur, pantyhose, stockings, lipstick, also
leather corsets, thong, pantyhose, anything silky.
It runs the gamut. Just picture the best way to
picture a Sissy is a guy that would love to get in, walk into
your go into your walk in closetwith you and play dress up.
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That's the best way and treat and he wants to be treated like
your bestie. He wants to be dressed up, taken
out for cocktails and flirt withmen.
That's their ultimate dream. But if you go into a
sissification session assuming all to all, all sissies are the
same, you will lose that client.Because there are sissies that
want to be like me, look like me, be my bestie, but their
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dream is to be peed on or just be close to me by me.
If you go into that saying get on your knees, suck this BBC.
Some of them are like, oh, absolutely not.
I am. I am completely alpha male.
I have guys in the military. I have professional athletes
that will put on a bra and panties, turn on the camera.
They'll be like, don't I look pretty And I'm like so feminine,
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so feminine and their, their muscles are just bulging out of
the, the bra strap and how, how they and I'm going to tell you
something. Some of these guys asses like
in, in the corset and the like the the garters.
You can't believe how good some of these guys asses are.
But anyway, it is, it is quite insane.
Like you'll see a big American like an eagle and then they've
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got like, you know, Oh, I can't get the my bra.
It's it's insane. But anyway, you never want to
assume that two clients are there's No 2 are alike and you
don't want to go into any fetishassuming.
This is why. If you're following me to learn,
you need to ask a series of questions qualifying what it is
that they like before you jump in.
Because if you take the fantasy in the wrong direction, you're
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going to lose the client. So blackmail, extortion, some of
my favorite, a lot of them want to be recorded by me and then I
put clips of it up on Twitter orI put clips of it up on
Instagram or something and I expose them and then they have
to pay me and beg me to take it down.
There's times I put clips up andthen I walked away.
I went to make dinner for the kids and I forgot.
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I left it up and I come back andthere's like, you know, $5000 in
my account because they just kept sending me money thinking
that I was holding out. I just forgot to take it down.
So I mean, I don't recommend that you do that.
But yeah, black hole, blackmail,extortion.
But if you're not really good atit, you shouldn't be messing
around with it because you couldruin someone's life.
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And if that's their ultimate goal, I would not suggest taking
that client because there are women.
I have many clients that will call me and say I was extorted
and ruined by a woman on the platform you work for.
And I'm like, well, shame on youbecause it says right here that
I'm phone with Cam. You should have verified that I
that the femdom, the Finn Dom iswho you who she says she is when
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you contact her. So you were dealing with some
guy hiding behind a camera, hiding behind a phone, and then
he took you, your video of you, you know, bending over and
fucking yourself with a dildo. And he's sending it to your
threatening to send it to your boss unless you pay him $20,000.
So that happens a lot. So if you're a client and you're
worried about, you know, playingin these fetishes, find someone
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who specializes in it. Find someone with feedback.
Cuckolding. Many of my clients are cucks.
Most of my clients are cucks. Cuckolding is actually a
Shakespearean term. Cuckolding was out of the idea
that back in old England, old European times, when the men
would go off to harvest or to war, and the wife was left on
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the homestead, on the farm she had, she took a lover, she took
the farm boy in. It's just like you see in like,
I think the beginning of like The Princess Bride and she takes
on this lover and then the husband comes back from war or
from harvest, and now he is sleeping in the barn and she's
got the young barn hand, the farm hand in her bed.
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And the husband now effectively becomes a cuck, A cuckold.
So it's taking a man that once was in a position of power and
demeaning him and demoting him to this position of relative
submission to the woman and sometimes to the woman's lover
that is a cuckold. That's what separates it out
from any other fetish is becauseit's typically dealing with a
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woman who can also be referred to as a hot wife.
A the the cuckoldress or the woman involved in cuckolding.
The man can be called a cuckoldress or a hot wife, and
that's the fetish. So again, don't ever assume that
two cocks are the same because you will often have a cock who
just wants to come to you and serve you.
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But sometimes they want to servea full couple and they want to
be forced to their knees and told get on your knees and suck
this Dick. And some, some of them, if you
say that, they'll be like, Oh myGod, no, that's absolutely not
what I wanted. So you have to qualify in the
beginning of the phone conversation, the BBC fetish
again, BNWO black New World Order, BNWO Black New World
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Order and BBC are two fetishes that are in the white man
category. Again, white men making up the
majority of any of these Kingston fetish, you know,
client base. That's where they just truly
believe that the black man is more masculine, alpha, superior.
He's the ultimate human specimen.
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He's the ultimate species of, ofmasculinity, endurance, stamina,
physical prowess, and of course,Dick prowess of, of the ultimate
cock. So that's the BBC fetish.
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And BNWO when they ask for blackNew World order, that's where
they want a phone call where they want you telling them that
their wife's going to get pregnant.
They're going to be a cock to a black guy who's going to get
their wife pregnant and they're going to be raising the black
babies. It's it's an absolute, it's a
popular fetish. So they want to talk about black
New World Order or they want to just worship BBC.
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And a lot of my clients are upset because I don't have BBC
Men at the ready to like, go on Cam with me and like, insult
them or, you know, that that makes me lesser of a fandom.
But that is a huge ask. And I am often able to patch
people in on calls, but for the most part, that's a really
specialty fetish encasement. I don't do any sort of
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encasement. That's where a guy wants to be
encased in something or tied up with like shrink wrap or duct
tape, and they want to be encased in something with just
maybe a blowhole, like for theirnose or their mouth.
And I don't specialize in, I don't do anything.
I mean, the site that I work forhas vacuuming fetish.
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Vacuuming has yawning, burping, I mean pretty much any bodily
function. I don't deal in any of that.
I never have. I do have a few clients that are
interested in being human furniture.
I have one, his name is human footstool and another's name
that is human ashtray. One wants to be, you know, have
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cigarettes put out on him, even if it's just an oh, I, I'm
putting out my very hot coal burning ash cigarette right on
your white flesh. Oh, look at it.
Burn smell, that sizzle. That's what his thing is.
Another guy that wants to be human footstool.
He wants me to put my feet up onhim.
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That's a really hard one to do because how many scenarios can
you talk about him being a humanfootstool?
But that I had a guy one time that had a death wish fetish.
He just wanted like he literallywas like Wiley Coyote.
He wanted to see how many different ways I could kill him.
And I, I literally was going through, I was going in my mind
back through like Roadrunner, Wiley Coyote scenarios.
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I'm like, I'm driving you in a car at 160 miles an hour off a
Cliff. I'm dropping an anvil on your
head. I'm putting dynamite in your ass
in your mouth and setting it on fire like I'm I'm dousing you
with gasoline. Here I go.
I like the match. There was nothing that I think
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the last one was some sort of like a pin board nailing him to
a cross and I just like that just got monotonous.
I wasn't into that. Excuse me, foot fetish and
stockings. That's so easy because all you
have to do, especially if it's aCam session, get a pair of
nylons and put those on and you're just you got your bare
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feet. When a guy has a foot fetish,
it's sometimes is the pedicure. It sometimes is.
Sometimes it's a long skinny foot.
Sometimes it's the fetish for a high arch.
It's always a fetish for a soft pad.
The padded part of the foot, like right underneath here,
that's a soft pad, high arch. Some are small feet, some are
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organized toes are the toes organized or they're not out of
sink and some are very long. Some have a fetish for a very
long foot. Some of a debt fans are for,
some have a fetish. For dancers feet, they're like
banged and bruised like a ballerina's feet, but the high
arch is pretty much across the board.
And then all you have to do is take off slowly, take off your
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heel, show them these beautiful pantyhose that I've bought.
Imagine me taking these pantyhose, putting your face
right next to my foot as I slidethe nylon over my toes, across
my soft pad, up going along my high arch, over my heel.
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Watch it going up my calves, my shapely calves, my ankle, all
the way up to my knee to my thigh.
Imagine me rubbing this up against your face.
Can you imagine the sensation ofthe nylons sends chills up your
spine. And that's.
And then depending on where theywant to go with the fetish or
how hard into it they are, sometimes I'll tell them I'm
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going to take off these pantyhose.
Excuse me, sometimes I will tellthem I'm going to take off these
pantyhose and I'm going to tie them around your neck and I'm
going to choke you. I'm going to take these
pantyhose off and I'm going to tie them in a Figure 8 around
your nuts and tug it so tight until your nuts turn purple.
You'd like that, wouldn't you? And that brings me to another
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fetish, which is CBT. Again, one of my favorite
fetishes, Cock and ball torture.This this is not that common but
it is absolutely a popular one. My favorite story was a guy that
called me. His wife was going to the
Hamptons to their house. He was in Manhattan.
His wife was going to the Hamptons for the weekend.
He booked me like 5 days in advance.
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Started alcohol on Friday night about 7:00.
He had a big thing of whiskey, like a big Tumblr glass of
whiskey. He had encyclopedias, medical
dictionaries. He had a homemade vice like like
the stockades, like in colonial times.
He had a vice to sweet to push his balls through and then drop
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encyclopedia after encyclopedia.So the whole session was how
many books could we stack up anddrop them from what height on
his nuts as they as they were pulled through the vice.
So I mean, you guys and you haveguys that you know, you tell
them go get a hair, go get a hair brush out of the bathroom,
your wife's hair brush. And I want you to whack your
nuts like 10 times with the hairbrush.
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There's guys that it's almost anart where you take pantyhose or
a hair scrunchie or something, or some sort of a rope and you
tie up their balls in like a Figure 8 and around their conk.
And then you tie it in a tight knot and you watch it turn
purple. They like that.
But again, this is there, I havededuced there are certain
ethnicities of men that have a high tolerance for that.
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Most men, you go near their nuts, they would scream.
But there are men that I have seen, they're nuts.
Sustained things I had when I was early on in my years of
doing this, I had a gentleman that contacted me from Canada.
He said I need you to bring 6 girlfriends to Canada.
I'm going to fly you first class.
Each one of you is going to get $10,000 more from me.
But I need you to all come with six inch platform stilettos and
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step on my nuts until they're decimated.
I was like, I was salivating at the opportunity and I called.
I was like, I don't have anybodythat first of all, no one knew
what I was. No one knew I was doing this.
But I was like, I have no one I can call.
I called my sister and I was like, hey, you know, And she's
like, I can't do that. I'm like, you do this to men for
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free. Are you kidding me?
So I couldn't find, I couldn't find 5 girls, let alone one
girl. So I lost that opportunity.
But men who are into conch and ball torture, the, the, the pain
threshold will absolutely lure you.
And again, like these guys will take like power tools, you know,
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they'll have all sorts of tools from the garage ready to, you
know, at the ready. CEI is a popular 1.
I don't like it because it dealsin body fluid.
It makes me sick. But CEI is come eating
instructions where they want to jerk off and then be told that
they have to eat their own semen.
They often want to jerk off in their hand or on the floor and
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then tell them to get on all fours and lap it up.
So that's come eating instructions and it involves
everything from taking control of them at the onset and
controlling them the whole way through until they ejaculate and
then forcing the cleanup in whatever is.
Sometimes it deals with doing itin a spoon.
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If they spill a drop, you torture them.
Sometimes it has to do with themdoing it in a cup and making
them drink it. I'm almost even getting sick
talking about this tease and denial.
We covered that and that can really be anything from acting
like the bully girl in high school.
A lot of guys when you do tease and denial, they literally want
to go back to their high school years when a cheerleader would
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tell a bunch of football players, take this kid in the
bathroom and give him a swirly. A lot of my clients want
swirlies. That's where someone takes you,
drags you into the bathroom by the back of your neck or your
hair and forces your face into the toilet and flushes the
toilet. Sometimes it's dirty toilet,
sometimes it's clean. But a lot of my clients with the
tease and denial and bullying and domination, they want
swirlies. Chastity is when someone tells
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you they want to be locked up, they don't mean in a cage.
They mean have their cock lockedup.
Amazon sells chastity devices. Chastity is where the
dominatrix, the femdom, the femdom puts the guy in a
chastity device. Again, you can get him on Amazon
and they run the gamut from totally concealed under clothing
to very obvious. And the typically the
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submissive, the one in chastity will send the keys.
He'll mail them to a mistresses or a goddess's PO Box and he
can't get hard ejaculate really do anything until you mail him
the keys back if he's a good boyor you're extorting him.
But often they oftentimes they keep the keys, but they are in a
chastity device. You make them go to work, send
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you a picture with a time stamp in front of something that shows
the day and time and then you make him wear it to work all
day. Sometimes send them to the
bathroom throughout the day and tell them they can take it off
or make fun of them or tell themto write something on their
Dick, an indelible marker. Make fun of them toward a sort
of thing, make fun of them sort of thing.
They all want to be made fun of.They all want to be demeaned.
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Hot wife we covered. Hot wife is basically a
cuckoldress or the wife that's sleeping with her gym, you know,
her coach at the gym or she's sleeping with the next door
neighbor and basically just demeaning the husband,
emasculating him in any way. Gooning is a more recent thing.
That's where these guys will just sit.
Picture the old cartoons like the Looney Tunes and picture
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something like swirling in frontof their head like a target.
That's all these guys do. They want to sit, they want to
stare at something and they wantto be almost hypnotized into
this state of drooling, gooning,stroking for days and hours and
weeks. And it's just, these are my
stroke bots. These are my jerk junkies.
And they typically have trigger words.
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All my clients want to be calledgood boy.
If they're a Sissy, they want tobe called good girl.
But the gooning ones that sometimes trips over into hypno,
which you're not really allowed to say anymore hypno because
there's terms of service. It deals with medical.
I'm sure some guys spend, you know, $10,000 on some phone sex
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operator or only Fans girl and then told his wife that he was
hypnotized into doing it. I can only imagine that's what
happened because we're not allowed to say it anymore.
Hypnotherapy. So but that gooning and
hypnotherapy the same thing. You're a good boy.
You're a dirty boy. You're a naughty boy.
Keep stroking. You're a fucking loser.
Keep stroking. Keep staring at my face.
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Keep staring at my feet. Good stroke bot.
Good jerk junkie. Keep going.
Stop. Start again.
That's gooning servitude. There's guys that have contacted
me for years. Can I come clean your pool?
Can I wear a French maid uniform?
Fuck no. I don't want you anywhere near
me, near my house, near my children now.
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And the idea that, and there aremistresses that have these guys,
you know, fixing their car, running their errands.
If you're a single woman and you're a lifestyle mistress, OK,
I get it. There's no way I would want
these guys. I mean, that they get off on the
idea of shining your shoes, giving you a pedicure, cooking
your meals that that holds no interest to me and, and
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servitude of that level. It's hard for me to play that
online because I can't, there's only so much I can play with it.
So I don't really deal in that. But there are lifestyle
mistresses that have these guys for that reason.
My answer is if you can't pay me, you're of no use to me.
Religious themes we talked aboutany time you hear a guy with a
southern accent, I don't mean tothrow you all into a box, but
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typically when you hear a guy with a southern draw, there's
going to be some religious themethat's going to run through that
conversation. And that's my jerking for Jesus
guy. That's the guy that you know,
wants to be spoken to, sung hymns and Amazing Grace while he
works himself into a louder and or, or wants to be spoken to in
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tongues, which yes, I had to do that once.
That was no easy feat. Role play is is a very common
one. These guys will come to you
before a session. They'll send you like a three
page script. I'm like, are you fucking
kidding me? Role play like.
And I used to in the early years, I had the maid's costume,
I had the cheerleader costume, Ihad the the dominator, like the
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guys that come to me with role play and ask me to dress up
something. There's just absolutely no way
anymore. I'm too lazy.
I'm too old for it. No, I'm not doing it.
But it typically involves, oh, Icame home and my wife, I found
my wife with this guy. This is your name.
You're Trisha and you're this many years old.
And, and they have actual like scripts drawn out of things that
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they want you to say to them. It's crazy.
And then another time it will bethat you're the girlfriend of
his best friend and the best friend leaves the room and then
you're hot for him. These are like the top role play
scenarios. So hot wife gooning.
Let me think of what else we have Encasement, tease and
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denial CBT. So ATMI touched on before, and I
will probably wrap this up on this one, I actually, you know
what I'm going to do. I'm going to tell you 3 very
quick stories about my most shocking clients.
I had a client years ago who wasa Sissy and he was one of the
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trainers for a professional football team and he was the guy
that received the professional football player.
I'm not telling you which team it is.
He received the professional football players like the
rookies on their first season. He would receive them several
weeks before the rest of the team showed up for training camp
and he was known to all of the players.
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Now, in this case, these playershappen to be black.
I think there were a few white guys sprinkled in, but in this
case, these were the young blacknew recruit football players.
And they would go over to my client's house and he would
answer the door in like a thong and like a pink bow.
And he'd be naked otherwise witha pink pedicure.
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And this is a big, burly guy with a big beer belly and a
hairy chest. And he would invite them in,
make them cocktails, They would sit down.
And then at some point when all the guys got there, he would end
up getting in the middle of the room on the floor and all of
these guys would take turn stuffing his mouth with their
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parts and then it would graduateto any of his parts.
So he was just getting, you know, just double teamed, double
DP, double penetrated. But these were actual football
players. And this wasn't just like a one
time thing. This was like handed down by
like the the seasoned players tothe new recruits.
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It was like an and, and he said sometimes they brought their
girlfriends. I was like, what are their
girlfriends look like? He's like tall, thin blonde.
I was like, what are the girlfriends doing?
He's like, sometimes they just watch, sometimes they make out
with each other. So anyway, that is absolutely a
true story. And why did he call me?
Because he wasn't allowed to have any fun or orgasm.
So he would call me the days following, sometimes multiple
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times to release himself to thisincredible fantasy of serving
the perfect black men athlete specimens.
I have another client who is hiswife is a is a cuckoldrick's and
she would often surprise him with things like the most wild
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of things. Like one time she took him to a
nail salon and everybody was leaving the nail salon and there
were like 3 or 4 Asian guys thatwere running this salon and they
closed up, they locked the doors, they pulled the blinds
and they took my client's name was Tommy.
They took Tommy to the back of of like the waxing room and they
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strapped him down and they waxedhim from head to toe.
They ripped every hair off of his body.
Then once they were done, they hopped up on the table and just
started having their way with him, all of them, and basically
did so until he was just decimated.
So that's that's a favorite. She also did this to Tommy with
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the landscapers. After they would be done
landscaping for hours in the yard, she'd have Tommy tied up
in the dog hat. Like there'd be like a dog
house. It'd be like the dead of summer,
like in the Midwest. Neither.
I can't say what town they were in or what city they were in,
but when the landscapers were done, she would stand on the
balcony, tell them, unleash my husband and then just have your
way with him. So they would they would do
that. And I think probably the story
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like I have clients that will goto like the glory holes and I
have clients that I have severalin the New York City area that
will go to a hotel and you know,I'll bring guys in off a grinder
to do various things to them. We'll arrange some sort of a
mistress to come over and do things at my whim.
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Forced intox is another one I forgot to mention I forced intox
is a popular 1. I don't think you're allowed
it's it violates terms of service on a lot of if if you go
to my YouTube I have a forced intox.
It was a poll a guy from Poland.He was a young like 20 something
year old Polish kid and he called me.
I happen to be recording the session.
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I have a second cell phone happyrecording it in the actual
session was caught live. I kid you not when I tell you he
called me again two years later and I happen to have my cell
phone right there and I started recording that.
Both sessions with this forced intox kid are on my YouTube
channel and you can see what forced intox is.
He just, you're just forcing himto take a drink, take a drink,
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take a drink and he's just sending you money as he gets
more and more drunk. You're insulting him, you're
demeaning him. But the last story I'm going to
tell you about, and this is thisis my most horrific story.
I mentioned earlier that certainstates, parts of the country,
parts of the world are more, youknow, you can almost define them
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by fetishes. In my particular case, Germany
has been the most wild of fetishes.
Had a German client come to me and he said online on my
platform, are you OK with ATM? Now ATM stands for ass to mouth.
In the old days of camming, it used to mean me using something
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to do ass to mouth, using a dildo to do ass to mouth.
Of course I don't do that. So nowadays it mostly in the
domination world, it's going to mean are you OK if I do ass to
mouth on camera for you? So in this case I was like,
yeah, I hadn't taken one in a long time, but it kind of died
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off this fetish. So I said OK, let's do it.
So I took the fetish, we plannedthe session.
I took this session and he callsme and he had the most white
blonde hair, the bluest of eyes.He was so perfect specimen
German like. He was just absolutely
beautiful, this sweet smile. And I was like, oh, this is
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going to be nice. He had this very Swedish IKEA
kitchen, Immaculate kitchen. And then he had a bunch of
dildos there. And I was like, OK, one of them
was suctioned on to the cabinets.
One of them was suctioned on themiddle of the table.
He doesn't say a word. He just starts grinning at me
like a serial killer. He strips down.
It was in great shape, by the way.
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He jumps up on top of the kitchen table and just squats
right on this very large dildo. It horrified me.
I can't imagine this thing goinginto my body, It was that big.
And he's just hopping up and down like it's an exercise
class. Like no big thing.
I'm like OK well I knew he had said ATM but maybe my archaic
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mind back when things were cleaner I don't know.
Well when he said ATM what he was actually asking me was when
it comes out it's going to look like a fudgesicle chocolate pop
and he hops off this thing and proceeds to show me how he's
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going to make it all clean for me and I was gagging and
vomiting. I'm on camera, I'm gagging and
vomiting and he is just smiling with this.
Remember the in the in like doctor in the like the Grinch
that the way the Grinch is smiling that same grin the last
time I ever saw it and I never want to see it again.
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He called me one more time for that fetish and he paid me
incredibly well. But I start, I pressed record on
Zoom and it alerted him and he never called me again.
I was so glad that he didn't. And that's probably my most
disgusting story. I have shocking ones, but that's
my most disgusting 1. So thank you for tuning in.
Hope you enjoyed this. In my next in my following
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podcast, I'm going to take real clients on air.
If you have any questions, writethem, let me know, reach out,
tell me what you want. More, more deep dive.
What do you have? What questions do you have?
My content is only as strong as the questions, so thank you for
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