November 3, 2025 • 23 mins
Episode 5: From Fantasy to Reality — Creating the Ultimate Hotwife
In this episode, I break down a real client request that went far beyond fantasy: a long-term submissive asked me to guide the transformation of his wife into a fully realized hotwife and dominant sexual presence — ultimately rendering his own role obsolete.
What was designed as a two-year psychological and relational strategy was completed in under a year. I walk through the planning, the power dynamics, the emotional recalibration, and the unexpected outcomes that followed — offering rare insight into how desire, influence, and long-term strategy intersect behind closed doors.
This episode is not about shock value, but about process, psychology, and consequence — and how carefully constructed fantasies can permanently alter real lives.
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(00:00):
The irony of this podcast is that my clients do call me
daddy. Welcome to my St. to Siren
podcast. Who am I?
My name is Pamela. I am professionally known as the
violatrix. I am a 20 year fendom.
(00:25):
What is a fendom? A fendom is someone who is
recruited by men, in my case particularly successful wealthy
men who run Fortune 500 companies, Fortune 100, Fortune
50 doctors, lawyers, surgeons, you name it, professional
(00:46):
athletes and they seek out my services where I dominate them
virtually over the phone. Sometimes phone with Cam, it's
called PSO. Phone sex operator is
specifically my title. I am a fandom PSO and these men
seek me out to relieve their stresses of their job, their
(01:07):
vanilla marriages, and they get to express their closeted kinks
which most of which are not acceptable in the USA and most
most parts of the world. Most of these kinks?
What are these kinks? These kinks can be anything from
tease and denial where they wantme to tease and deny them.
(01:28):
Maybe they have a giantess fetish where they want to be a
little tiny, almost miniature like plaything like a play toy
like a miniature action hero or a miniature man.
Like think of a little Lego man and then they want the woman to
be this giant glamazon, taller than them, stronger than them
(01:49):
type figure who's going to shrink them, hold them, feed
them, stomp on them. That's a whole different fetish
in and of itself. Stomping.
We can get to that. Later.
Interests can run from cuckolding, which is probably
the most popular fetish that's associated with domination or
being a fendom. Cuckolding is when a man wants
(02:13):
to serve a dominant woman in a sexual capacity and it involves
very specific kinks, fetishes, very specific duties which you
can Google. I'm not going to get into them
in here on here. And sometimes the man simply
wants to be submissive to a mistress, a goddess, a fendom,
(02:37):
or he wants to serve her and herbull.
What is a bull? Classic definition would be a
strong alpha, dominant black male.
But it could be any variation ofmale that is extremely dominant,
extremely well built, typically young, viral, strong, muscular,
(03:00):
many times intelligent, successful.
But for the most part, a bull denotes strong, alpha, dominant
with a big BBC big black cock ora big cock, a large cock and he
walks and behaves as if he has the biggest cock on the planet.
Another fetish kink that people are interested in that my
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clients are interested in is hotwife.
What is a hot wife? A hot wife is a man that is
married to a woman who is for the most part extremely
attractive. Now, she doesn't have to be
extremely attractive, but when you typically think of hot wife,
you typically think of a beautiful woman.
She typically goes to the gym. She, you know, drinks lattes and
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she does Pilates and she's well built.
She's beautiful, she's strong and she garners the attention of
many men. Many times her trainer at the
gym and then she sleeps with these men, thereby making her
husband not necessarily a cuck or a cuckold because it's a
(04:10):
little bit different. The cuckold wants to be
involved. He wants to be put in the corner
of the room to watch or he wantsto be in charge of cleanup
duties for the wife, the cuckoldricks and the bull.
But a hot wife is someone who's flaunting her beauty, flaunting
her style, flaunting her siren sexuality.
And the husband is constantly ina position where he gets to see
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other men flirting with Googlinghis wife, going crazy for his
wife, snapping their necks, turning their heads in public
when she walks by. And he enjoys that level of
attention that his wife gets. And then typically she will end
up sleeping with these men. Most of the time not in front of
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her husband. She will sleep with these men
devoid of her husband and then she will tell him about her
experiences as a hot wife. One of my favorites is extortion
blackmail. Extortion blackmail is when a
man likes the thrill and excitement of potentially being
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ruined. Now a financial domination is
different than regular domination.
I am not a dominatrix. I don't peg men.
I don't own a strap on. You'll never see me talking
about, you know, wanting men to lick my toes.
Many want to and many have a foot fetish and many do enjoy my
feet. I do have high arched feet,
which is a very big ask. That's a very big request in any
(05:42):
sort of domination. But as a fendom, I am typically
doing things, offering services that involve in draining the
men. You'll often hear wallet
draining, although I don't do wallet draining per SE.
That was an old thing that kind of went away many years ago.
I mean, some men still want it and you see men talking about it
(06:04):
on Twitter, but most of them areliars and bullshit.
But with extortion, blackmail, that is a fendom, that is a
financial domination fetish where these men want a woman to
treat them like shit, speak to them like shit, or sometimes
call them daddy and be my sugar daddy.
But they want you to do some Intel on them, do some research
(06:28):
or they'll even provide it for you.
Or maybe they'll send you a photo or you'll do a session of
them in a compromising position or a compromising outfit.
Then you tease them with exposing it on Twitter, on
social media, and then they begin paying you to not put it
up or if you've already put it up on socials, to take it down.
(06:49):
That's extortion, blackmail, andthere's a million different ways
it can be done. It is actually my favorite of
all fetishes. It's my favorite of all of the
services that ioffer. And if you're curious about
those, I'll just go into my big plug right now.
I'm at the violatrix.com. As you know, my podcast is St.
to #2 Siren on Spotify and Apple, and I'm the author of the
(07:13):
Ultimate Financial Domination Guide.
I'm not I'm taking male clients.I still do sessions, but for the
most part, I am teaching women how to do what I do and work
from home as a cyber fandom or submissive or whatever capacity.
I have women that have recently trained with me that are like
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certified witches that want to do which he thinks with their
clients. So women come to me to learn how
to do what I do and then offer similar services to what Ioffer.
So I'm pretty much doing consulting now for these women.
And you can book the consultation appointments at my
website or reach out to me on myInstagram, which is again at St.
(07:56):
#2 Siren podcast on Instagram. More fetishes I have actually
story that I wanted to share about one of my top favorite
clients. And this is kind of an
unbelievable story. But as you know, that's the
whole reason for my podcast is to tell these unbelievable
stories that I cannot share on censored platforms such as
(08:17):
TikTok. Instagram is a little more
liberal with what I can say, butstill not to the extent that I
want to give you the information, the real Ron Nitty
gritty that you're looking for. So here we go with my story
about my client and his mail order bride.
There is one quick thing I want to address before I tell you the
story of my client with the hot wife called Goldrick's and how I
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turned this very stern kind of Eastern European bitch, for the
lack of a better word. How I turned her into a hot
wife. I think there's a lot of
confusion on my social media that I am trying to exploit what
I do, become TikTok or Instagramfamous or show off my sexiness
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or whatever it is and that's notthe case.
I am doing this for a limited period of time to see how many
women I can reach and help. I had a very popular tech talk
that had roughly 15,000 followers for five years and it
was called at Trending Plastics where I talked about beauty,
aesthetics, plastic surgery, safety, knowledge, trends, do's
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and don'ts, travel and tourism, plastic surgery.
And it leaked to the public thatI was a fandom.
And very quickly my enormous loyal plastic surgery following
turned into loyal fandom following.
And then I garnered amassed thishuge cult following because I am
a real fandom and there are so many fakes and phonies out
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there. Young women, older women.
There's a black woman who is famous on TikTok for being a
fandom and she's full of shit. I can't remember her name right
now. She only teaches other black
women, she won't teach any otherethnicity.
And she is charging an arm and aleg and basically raping these
women financially for little to no information.
(10:12):
And then there was another girl,Claire or Blair, who was selling
a course for $500. I received many of her upset
customers who didn't learn a thing about the $500 course.
And these are single moms. These are college girls.
These are women that cannot afford to be spending $500.00
for bad product. So very quickly I amassed this
(10:33):
following and I deleted TrendingPlastics, which was its own
brand and it was doing its own thing and it was monetized and
it was really a fun project for me.
And I killed the whole thing in the snap of my fingers and turn
my whole brand into St. to Sirenpodcast YouTube channel where I
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teach women for free how to do what I do changed my social.
I changed my Instagram to at Saint to Siren podcast.
So I'm building this thing to see how many women I can reach
and help for free. Sure, I wrote the book because
you guys asked For more information on how to learn how
to do what I do. So I wrote this book.
I'm writing my second book, which is the more salacious tell
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all. This book is not meant for men.
It's simply for women. It's a tutorial how to get
yourself through the first few years of PSO work Cam girl OF
only fans phone sex operator. Anything that you want to do in
the adult industry that's cyber from home.
That's what this is. It's available in Barnes and
Noble Kindle download. It's available in Amazon.
(11:37):
But I want to be clear, I'm not trying to become famous, I'm not
trying to become the face of Finn Dom, and I'm not trying to
self promote. I'm a 53 year old wife and
mother who is trying to reach the women out there that are
asking for this information and they cannot get it from a
trusted, reliable source. So if you see my socials and you
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want to slide in my DMS to book an appointment or go to
theviolatrix.com to book an appointment, that's fine.
But don't see my socials and think it's an opportunity for me
to dominate. You stick a strap on in your
mouth or weigh up your ass untilyou bend over and get on your
knees for me. Because I'm not doing that.
Unless you're booking an appointment through the platform
for whom I work or through my website, I am not here to
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entertain the masses in what I do.
I am explaining it as an educational knowledge tool
because most people have literally no idea of what
financial domination is. They know what a Dom is.
They know what a dominatrix is. I am not a dominatrix.
I am a thin Dom financial dominatrix, cyber PSO phone sex
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operator and I don't wear a strap on, wear liquid leather.
I mean I do sometimes, but it's very different.
And I am bringing this educationto the masses who are hungry for
this information. So this and my YouTube channel
are all based and my book are all based.
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And this, my YouTube channel, mybook, and my podcast are all
based in education and helping the women who want the
information get it for free froma reliable, trusted source who's
been doing it successfully for almost 20 years.
So let me quickly tell you the story of my client who came to
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me. I can't give any information on
him because the information, just even general information on
him is so specific. It could out him.
But I will say that he was closer to my age at the time
that he became my client about five years ago.
So he was in his fourties. He married a much younger woman.
I call her a mail order bride because it was basically kind of
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a situation like that. I don't really know how they
met, but she was an Eastern European girl, very pretty, very
thin, big nose, kind of like I can't think of an actress to
describe, but she she had the makings of a really hot woman
and had the features of but she wanted to be a lot hotter than
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she was. So he came to me and said that
he really deep down was a cuck. He wanted to be in a cuckolding
marriage. He wanted his wife to become a
cuckoldricks, treat him like garbage, tell him she wanted to
be the goddess, the mistress, which is what my clients refer
to me as dominant goddess mistress.
He wanted her to have a holier than thou attitude and basically
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live like a queen and he would be at her beck and call and he
would basically no longer fuck her.
He would be rendered completely useless while she goes out and
dates other men and then comes home and tells him about it.
And if he's lucky and a good boy, he gets to sit in the
corner of the room or maybe the next room and listen or the
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corner of the room and participate.
They at least sit maybe in panties or maybe in chastity,
which is a cock locked device where you can't stroke your cock
or cum and be able to watch or have what's called cleanup
duties. And if you don't know what
cleanup duties are, you can Google those.
OK, so here's the story of my client.
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They came to me and wanted me toturn his Eastern European much
younger 20 something year old wife into a hot wife.
He began calling me and we wouldplay out role play fantasies of
me being his wife. Over time he began to explain to
me that he and his wife were having marital sexual problems,
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that he wasn't big enough and this this is often.
Is it the chicken or the egg? Is the man born a cuckold?
Is he born with a micro penis? A small Dick can't satisfy
women. Gets made fun of the first time
he pulls his Dick out when he's a teenager on a date or
whatever. First time he tries to have sex
he disrobes and women laugh at him.
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Is it the chicken or the egg? Was he born that way with a
small Dick and then just succumbs to it?
Or does he at some point realizethat he was just Born This Way
and this is who and what he was meant to be?
I can't really tell you. I've seen it both ways.
I call it the chicken or the eggtheory.
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I really don't know. In this case, they were trying
to have sexual relations and shewas getting increasingly
frustrated. It got to the point of
borderline verbal abuse that shewas so disgusted with him and
telling him that he could not satisfy her.
This increased in intensity overtime, so I suggested that they
begin watching porn together. He got some toys for her and he
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began putting on porn that had to do with like big strapping
men. Some, I don't think at that
point they were black men. BBC big black cock I don't think
started that way. It was just men that were
fucking the hell out of women and really pleasing them with
big Dicks, things that he couldn't do.
So he got an arsenal of toys andjust began having her watch it.
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And when they would have sexual relations, he was strictly
focused on pleasing her. So this went on for a period of
time and I advised him to just focus on her.
Now, she was extremely opposed. She, it wasn't even that she was
opposed. She had never even considered.
She didn't know what a cuck Aldrich's was.
She didn't know what a cuck was.She didn't know what a hot wife
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was. She had never been exposed to
any of these things. But she was increasingly getting
meaner and more disenchanted with him and the marriage.
I said to him, what are some things that she would like?
And he's like, what do you mean?And I said, well, does she like
shopping? He's like, yes.
I said, where does she like to shop?
He's like, of course, Rodeo Dr. Beverly Hills.
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I said, what kind of bags does she like?
And he mentioned a few designer names.
He said she loves shoes. I said she like cars.
Yes, she has this dream car. Does she want plastic surgery?
He said yes, she wants a rhinoplasty.
She wants a nose job. I said, OK, here's what we're
going to do. It's probably going to take me a
minimum of two years to do this with you, but here's what we're
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going to do. We're going to start with the
porn and we're going to start removing you from sex.
You're going to achieve, she's going to achieve orgasm through
things that you do videos, different stimuli that will turn
her on different toys, whatever apparatus, arsenal toys, things
that we need, things that you say to her.
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He will little by little wean you out of the situation, wean
you off of the situation. Get your tiny cock that doesn't
satisfy her, that angers her outof her face.
And so little by little, what wedid was he kept showing the porn
and she became more and more intrigued and turned on by this
concept. Now the porn is going from just
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strong strapping beefy Jim bro to big strong black guys.
And every time she behaved well and did what he wanted.
During the session, as he's trying, as I'm teaching him, to
get her to dominate him and speak down to him, start to
introduce little phrases. Have her speak to you like this.
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Have her say this. Every time she performed well.
He would buy her a shopping trip, a trip with her friends,
the shoes that she wanted. Then it came time to dangle the
car, and then later they know his job.
So at this point now, they've been doing this for probably six
months and it's going very well.She's less stressed, she's less
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mean to him now. He tells her that he ultimately
would like her to fuck another guy, and she of course freaks
out. She doesn't understand what this
is, why he's asking for this, and he's explaining to her.
I can't satisfy you. I worship the ground that you
walk on, want you to be a Princess.
I want you to be a queen. I want you to have everything
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that you want. So little by little, he's
grooming her basically by. Replying her with gifts and
money and all of these things. So he says to her, you want that
G wagon, whatever the hell car it was.
He says, here's what we're goingto do.
We're going to go on to OF and we're going to find some guys.
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And when you find one that you like, I'm going to make a deal
with him and I'm going to fly him here and we're going to put
him up at The Four Seasons. We're going to have cocktails
together and if you say the wordgo, as long as we're comfortable
and he passes all of these benchmarks, you're going to go
upstairs to a suite that we willsecure at The Four Seasons.
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He's going to make a deal with the guy, He's going to fly him
there, first class, business class.
He's going to pay him X amount of money.
They're going to negotiate termsof whether the guy can film or
not. And then his wife, after having
cocktails and getting to know each other, and if she's cozying
up to him and she's warmed up tohim, they will go upstairs to
this prepaid suite. And he will sit in the bar with
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his phone waiting for pictures, calls, videos of his wife
getting completely annihilated every way to Sunday by this big
strapping Alpha Daddy bowl. And that's exactly what
happened. So not only did he sit in the
bar, the guy came in, they met him, and he's immediately all
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over his wife. He's touching her under the
table, he's touching under the bar, they're at the table,
they're fondling each other under the table.
He's touching her, he's kissing her neck, he's pulling her hair
to the side. And little by little, the
husband, who by the way, was an extremely successful financial
guy, a brilliant businessman, owns a lot of different
companies and super good looking.
Like I don't know if you're picturing like how you picture
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this going down, but this guy was incredibly good looking and
he's getting pushed out of the scene.
They're drinking their cocktailsand finally she looks at her
husband and says I want to go upstairs with him.
He says fine. She goes upstairs.
He waits like an hour. He's texting her.
He's like are you OK? Is everything OK?
She starts sending him pictures and videos.
This guy has already fucked her like 3-4 times.
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She has she's being treated likeit's called a snow Bunny or a
snow Princess. She's being treated the guy I
believe was black and he's treating her as a snow Bunny,
this white little Princess, and he's just ruining this woman.
And I'll have to wait until the next episode to go into further
detail. But basically at this point she
comes downstairs to the bar and says not only do I want him to
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spend the night, but I think I want him to stay the whole
weekend. He ends up not only paying for
that night and the next night she never comes home.
She ends up staying with this guy for like 4 days in The Four
Seasons in a suite. He has to pay him a daily rate
plus per diem plus meals, and this guy is fucking his wife and
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able to use some of the content for his OF and this is a true
story. Eventually they ended up running
through so many OF guys that they had to make arrangements
with two or three of these guys.She ended up with the G wagon.
She ended up with the nose job, and there's an end to the story
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that may or may not surprise you, but I had forewarned him
that this could go wrong if he misstepped.
A few things he misstepped, and you'll have to wait for my next
episode to hear what ends up happening to this guy.
I'm still in touch with him. He's still a client, and you may
or may not be surprised to hear how this ultimately ended up for
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him.
The irony of this podcast is that my clients do call me
daddy. Welcome to my St. to Siren
podcast. Who am I?
My name is Pamela. I am professionally known as the
violatrix. I am a 20 year fendom.
(00:25):
What is a fendom? A fendom is someone who is
recruited by men, in my case particularly successful wealthy
men who run Fortune 500 companies, Fortune 100, Fortune
50 doctors, lawyers, surgeons, you name it, professional
(00:46):
athletes and they seek out my services where I dominate them
virtually over the phone. Sometimes phone with Cam, it's
called PSO. Phone sex operator is
specifically my title. I am a fandom PSO and these men
seek me out to relieve their stresses of their job, their
(01:07):
vanilla marriages, and they get to express their closeted kinks
which most of which are not acceptable in the USA and most
most parts of the world. Most of these kinks?
What are these kinks? These kinks can be anything from
tease and denial where they wantme to tease and deny them.
(01:28):
Maybe they have a giantess fetish where they want to be a
little tiny, almost miniature like plaything like a play toy
like a miniature action hero or a miniature man.
Like think of a little Lego man and then they want the woman to
be this giant glamazon, taller than them, stronger than them
(01:49):
type figure who's going to shrink them, hold them, feed
them, stomp on them. That's a whole different fetish
in and of itself. Stomping.
We can get to that. Later.
Interests can run from cuckolding, which is probably
the most popular fetish that's associated with domination or
being a fendom. Cuckolding is when a man wants
(02:13):
to serve a dominant woman in a sexual capacity and it involves
very specific kinks, fetishes, very specific duties which you
can Google. I'm not going to get into them
in here on here. And sometimes the man simply
wants to be submissive to a mistress, a goddess, a fendom,
(02:37):
or he wants to serve her and herbull.
What is a bull? Classic definition would be a
strong alpha, dominant black male.
But it could be any variation ofmale that is extremely dominant,
extremely well built, typically young, viral, strong, muscular,
(03:00):
many times intelligent, successful.
But for the most part, a bull denotes strong, alpha, dominant
with a big BBC big black cock ora big cock, a large cock and he
walks and behaves as if he has the biggest cock on the planet.
Another fetish kink that people are interested in that my
(03:23):
clients are interested in is hotwife.
What is a hot wife? A hot wife is a man that is
married to a woman who is for the most part extremely
attractive. Now, she doesn't have to be
extremely attractive, but when you typically think of hot wife,
you typically think of a beautiful woman.
She typically goes to the gym. She, you know, drinks lattes and
(03:46):
she does Pilates and she's well built.
She's beautiful, she's strong and she garners the attention of
many men. Many times her trainer at the
gym and then she sleeps with these men, thereby making her
husband not necessarily a cuck or a cuckold because it's a
(04:10):
little bit different. The cuckold wants to be
involved. He wants to be put in the corner
of the room to watch or he wantsto be in charge of cleanup
duties for the wife, the cuckoldricks and the bull.
But a hot wife is someone who's flaunting her beauty, flaunting
her style, flaunting her siren sexuality.
And the husband is constantly ina position where he gets to see
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other men flirting with Googlinghis wife, going crazy for his
wife, snapping their necks, turning their heads in public
when she walks by. And he enjoys that level of
attention that his wife gets. And then typically she will end
up sleeping with these men. Most of the time not in front of
(04:55):
her husband. She will sleep with these men
devoid of her husband and then she will tell him about her
experiences as a hot wife. One of my favorites is extortion
blackmail. Extortion blackmail is when a
man likes the thrill and excitement of potentially being
(05:16):
ruined. Now a financial domination is
different than regular domination.
I am not a dominatrix. I don't peg men.
I don't own a strap on. You'll never see me talking
about, you know, wanting men to lick my toes.
Many want to and many have a foot fetish and many do enjoy my
feet. I do have high arched feet,
which is a very big ask. That's a very big request in any
(05:42):
sort of domination. But as a fendom, I am typically
doing things, offering services that involve in draining the
men. You'll often hear wallet
draining, although I don't do wallet draining per SE.
That was an old thing that kind of went away many years ago.
I mean, some men still want it and you see men talking about it
(06:04):
on Twitter, but most of them areliars and bullshit.
But with extortion, blackmail, that is a fendom, that is a
financial domination fetish where these men want a woman to
treat them like shit, speak to them like shit, or sometimes
call them daddy and be my sugar daddy.
But they want you to do some Intel on them, do some research
(06:28):
or they'll even provide it for you.
Or maybe they'll send you a photo or you'll do a session of
them in a compromising position or a compromising outfit.
Then you tease them with exposing it on Twitter, on
social media, and then they begin paying you to not put it
up or if you've already put it up on socials, to take it down.
(06:49):
That's extortion, blackmail, andthere's a million different ways
it can be done. It is actually my favorite of
all fetishes. It's my favorite of all of the
services that ioffer. And if you're curious about
those, I'll just go into my big plug right now.
I'm at the violatrix.com. As you know, my podcast is St.
to #2 Siren on Spotify and Apple, and I'm the author of the
(07:13):
Ultimate Financial Domination Guide.
I'm not I'm taking male clients.I still do sessions, but for the
most part, I am teaching women how to do what I do and work
from home as a cyber fandom or submissive or whatever capacity.
I have women that have recently trained with me that are like
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certified witches that want to do which he thinks with their
clients. So women come to me to learn how
to do what I do and then offer similar services to what Ioffer.
So I'm pretty much doing consulting now for these women.
And you can book the consultation appointments at my
website or reach out to me on myInstagram, which is again at St.
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#2 Siren podcast on Instagram. More fetishes I have actually
story that I wanted to share about one of my top favorite
clients. And this is kind of an
unbelievable story. But as you know, that's the
whole reason for my podcast is to tell these unbelievable
stories that I cannot share on censored platforms such as
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TikTok. Instagram is a little more
liberal with what I can say, butstill not to the extent that I
want to give you the information, the real Ron Nitty
gritty that you're looking for. So here we go with my story
about my client and his mail order bride.
There is one quick thing I want to address before I tell you the
story of my client with the hot wife called Goldrick's and how I
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turned this very stern kind of Eastern European bitch, for the
lack of a better word. How I turned her into a hot
wife. I think there's a lot of
confusion on my social media that I am trying to exploit what
I do, become TikTok or Instagramfamous or show off my sexiness
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or whatever it is and that's notthe case.
I am doing this for a limited period of time to see how many
women I can reach and help. I had a very popular tech talk
that had roughly 15,000 followers for five years and it
was called at Trending Plastics where I talked about beauty,
aesthetics, plastic surgery, safety, knowledge, trends, do's
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and don'ts, travel and tourism, plastic surgery.
And it leaked to the public thatI was a fandom.
And very quickly my enormous loyal plastic surgery following
turned into loyal fandom following.
And then I garnered amassed thishuge cult following because I am
a real fandom and there are so many fakes and phonies out
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there. Young women, older women.
There's a black woman who is famous on TikTok for being a
fandom and she's full of shit. I can't remember her name right
now. She only teaches other black
women, she won't teach any otherethnicity.
And she is charging an arm and aleg and basically raping these
women financially for little to no information.
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And then there was another girl,Claire or Blair, who was selling
a course for $500. I received many of her upset
customers who didn't learn a thing about the $500 course.
And these are single moms. These are college girls.
These are women that cannot afford to be spending $500.00
for bad product. So very quickly I amassed this
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following and I deleted TrendingPlastics, which was its own
brand and it was doing its own thing and it was monetized and
it was really a fun project for me.
And I killed the whole thing in the snap of my fingers and turn
my whole brand into St. to Sirenpodcast YouTube channel where I
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teach women for free how to do what I do changed my social.
I changed my Instagram to at Saint to Siren podcast.
So I'm building this thing to see how many women I can reach
and help for free. Sure, I wrote the book because
you guys asked For more information on how to learn how
to do what I do. So I wrote this book.
I'm writing my second book, which is the more salacious tell
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all. This book is not meant for men.
It's simply for women. It's a tutorial how to get
yourself through the first few years of PSO work Cam girl OF
only fans phone sex operator. Anything that you want to do in
the adult industry that's cyber from home.
That's what this is. It's available in Barnes and
Noble Kindle download. It's available in Amazon.
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But I want to be clear, I'm not trying to become famous, I'm not
trying to become the face of Finn Dom, and I'm not trying to
self promote. I'm a 53 year old wife and
mother who is trying to reach the women out there that are
asking for this information and they cannot get it from a
trusted, reliable source. So if you see my socials and you
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want to slide in my DMS to book an appointment or go to
theviolatrix.com to book an appointment, that's fine.
But don't see my socials and think it's an opportunity for me
to dominate. You stick a strap on in your
mouth or weigh up your ass untilyou bend over and get on your
knees for me. Because I'm not doing that.
Unless you're booking an appointment through the platform
for whom I work or through my website, I am not here to
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entertain the masses in what I do.
I am explaining it as an educational knowledge tool
because most people have literally no idea of what
financial domination is. They know what a Dom is.
They know what a dominatrix is. I am not a dominatrix.
I am a thin Dom financial dominatrix, cyber PSO phone sex
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operator and I don't wear a strap on, wear liquid leather.
I mean I do sometimes, but it's very different.
And I am bringing this educationto the masses who are hungry for
this information. So this and my YouTube channel
are all based and my book are all based.
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And this, my YouTube channel, mybook, and my podcast are all
based in education and helping the women who want the
information get it for free froma reliable, trusted source who's
been doing it successfully for almost 20 years.
So let me quickly tell you the story of my client who came to
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me. I can't give any information on
him because the information, just even general information on
him is so specific. It could out him.
But I will say that he was closer to my age at the time
that he became my client about five years ago.
So he was in his fourties. He married a much younger woman.
I call her a mail order bride because it was basically kind of
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a situation like that. I don't really know how they
met, but she was an Eastern European girl, very pretty, very
thin, big nose, kind of like I can't think of an actress to
describe, but she she had the makings of a really hot woman
and had the features of but she wanted to be a lot hotter than
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she was. So he came to me and said that
he really deep down was a cuck. He wanted to be in a cuckolding
marriage. He wanted his wife to become a
cuckoldricks, treat him like garbage, tell him she wanted to
be the goddess, the mistress, which is what my clients refer
to me as dominant goddess mistress.
He wanted her to have a holier than thou attitude and basically
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live like a queen and he would be at her beck and call and he
would basically no longer fuck her.
He would be rendered completely useless while she goes out and
dates other men and then comes home and tells him about it.
And if he's lucky and a good boy, he gets to sit in the
corner of the room or maybe the next room and listen or the
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corner of the room and participate.
They at least sit maybe in panties or maybe in chastity,
which is a cock locked device where you can't stroke your cock
or cum and be able to watch or have what's called cleanup
duties. And if you don't know what
cleanup duties are, you can Google those.
OK, so here's the story of my client.
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They came to me and wanted me toturn his Eastern European much
younger 20 something year old wife into a hot wife.
He began calling me and we wouldplay out role play fantasies of
me being his wife. Over time he began to explain to
me that he and his wife were having marital sexual problems,
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that he wasn't big enough and this this is often.
Is it the chicken or the egg? Is the man born a cuckold?
Is he born with a micro penis? A small Dick can't satisfy
women. Gets made fun of the first time
he pulls his Dick out when he's a teenager on a date or
whatever. First time he tries to have sex
he disrobes and women laugh at him.
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Is it the chicken or the egg? Was he born that way with a
small Dick and then just succumbs to it?
Or does he at some point realizethat he was just Born This Way
and this is who and what he was meant to be?
I can't really tell you. I've seen it both ways.
I call it the chicken or the eggtheory.
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I really don't know. In this case, they were trying
to have sexual relations and shewas getting increasingly
frustrated. It got to the point of
borderline verbal abuse that shewas so disgusted with him and
telling him that he could not satisfy her.
This increased in intensity overtime, so I suggested that they
begin watching porn together. He got some toys for her and he
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began putting on porn that had to do with like big strapping
men. Some, I don't think at that
point they were black men. BBC big black cock I don't think
started that way. It was just men that were
fucking the hell out of women and really pleasing them with
big Dicks, things that he couldn't do.
So he got an arsenal of toys andjust began having her watch it.
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And when they would have sexual relations, he was strictly
focused on pleasing her. So this went on for a period of
time and I advised him to just focus on her.
Now, she was extremely opposed. She, it wasn't even that she was
opposed. She had never even considered.
She didn't know what a cuck Aldrich's was.
She didn't know what a cuck was.She didn't know what a hot wife
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was. She had never been exposed to
any of these things. But she was increasingly getting
meaner and more disenchanted with him and the marriage.
I said to him, what are some things that she would like?
And he's like, what do you mean?And I said, well, does she like
shopping? He's like, yes.
I said, where does she like to shop?
He's like, of course, Rodeo Dr. Beverly Hills.
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I said, what kind of bags does she like?
And he mentioned a few designer names.
He said she loves shoes. I said she like cars.
Yes, she has this dream car. Does she want plastic surgery?
He said yes, she wants a rhinoplasty.
She wants a nose job. I said, OK, here's what we're
going to do. It's probably going to take me a
minimum of two years to do this with you, but here's what we're
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going to do. We're going to start with the
porn and we're going to start removing you from sex.
You're going to achieve, she's going to achieve orgasm through
things that you do videos, different stimuli that will turn
her on different toys, whatever apparatus, arsenal toys, things
that we need, things that you say to her.
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He will little by little wean you out of the situation, wean
you off of the situation. Get your tiny cock that doesn't
satisfy her, that angers her outof her face.
And so little by little, what wedid was he kept showing the porn
and she became more and more intrigued and turned on by this
concept. Now the porn is going from just
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strong strapping beefy Jim bro to big strong black guys.
And every time she behaved well and did what he wanted.
During the session, as he's trying, as I'm teaching him, to
get her to dominate him and speak down to him, start to
introduce little phrases. Have her speak to you like this.
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Have her say this. Every time she performed well.
He would buy her a shopping trip, a trip with her friends,
the shoes that she wanted. Then it came time to dangle the
car, and then later they know his job.
So at this point now, they've been doing this for probably six
months and it's going very well.She's less stressed, she's less
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mean to him now. He tells her that he ultimately
would like her to fuck another guy, and she of course freaks
out. She doesn't understand what this
is, why he's asking for this, and he's explaining to her.
I can't satisfy you. I worship the ground that you
walk on, want you to be a Princess.
I want you to be a queen. I want you to have everything
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that you want. So little by little, he's
grooming her basically by. Replying her with gifts and
money and all of these things. So he says to her, you want that
G wagon, whatever the hell car it was.
He says, here's what we're goingto do.
We're going to go on to OF and we're going to find some guys.
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And when you find one that you like, I'm going to make a deal
with him and I'm going to fly him here and we're going to put
him up at The Four Seasons. We're going to have cocktails
together and if you say the wordgo, as long as we're comfortable
and he passes all of these benchmarks, you're going to go
upstairs to a suite that we willsecure at The Four Seasons.
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He's going to make a deal with the guy, He's going to fly him
there, first class, business class.
He's going to pay him X amount of money.
They're going to negotiate termsof whether the guy can film or
not. And then his wife, after having
cocktails and getting to know each other, and if she's cozying
up to him and she's warmed up tohim, they will go upstairs to
this prepaid suite. And he will sit in the bar with
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his phone waiting for pictures, calls, videos of his wife
getting completely annihilated every way to Sunday by this big
strapping Alpha Daddy bowl. And that's exactly what
happened. So not only did he sit in the
bar, the guy came in, they met him, and he's immediately all
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over his wife. He's touching her under the
table, he's touching under the bar, they're at the table,
they're fondling each other under the table.
He's touching her, he's kissing her neck, he's pulling her hair
to the side. And little by little, the
husband, who by the way, was an extremely successful financial
guy, a brilliant businessman, owns a lot of different
companies and super good looking.
Like I don't know if you're picturing like how you picture
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this going down, but this guy was incredibly good looking and
he's getting pushed out of the scene.
They're drinking their cocktailsand finally she looks at her
husband and says I want to go upstairs with him.
He says fine. She goes upstairs.
He waits like an hour. He's texting her.
He's like are you OK? Is everything OK?
She starts sending him pictures and videos.
This guy has already fucked her like 3-4 times.
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She has she's being treated likeit's called a snow Bunny or a
snow Princess. She's being treated the guy I
believe was black and he's treating her as a snow Bunny,
this white little Princess, and he's just ruining this woman.
And I'll have to wait until the next episode to go into further
detail. But basically at this point she
comes downstairs to the bar and says not only do I want him to
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spend the night, but I think I want him to stay the whole
weekend. He ends up not only paying for
that night and the next night she never comes home.
She ends up staying with this guy for like 4 days in The Four
Seasons in a suite. He has to pay him a daily rate
plus per diem plus meals, and this guy is fucking his wife and
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able to use some of the content for his OF and this is a true
story. Eventually they ended up running
through so many OF guys that they had to make arrangements
with two or three of these guys.She ended up with the G wagon.
She ended up with the nose job, and there's an end to the story
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that may or may not surprise you, but I had forewarned him
that this could go wrong if he misstepped.
A few things he misstepped, and you'll have to wait for my next
episode to hear what ends up happening to this guy.
I'm still in touch with him. He's still a client, and you may
or may not be surprised to hear how this ultimately ended up for
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him.
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