E21: FinDom (Financial Domination) - Kayden Dior

Summary

In this conversation, Matticus interviews Kayden Dior, an adult content creator, about his experiences in the industry and his recent travels to Berlin. They discuss topics such as the underground rave scene in Berlin, the challenges and differences between studio work and OnlyFans, Kayden's preferences as a verse top, and his open long-distance relationship. They also touch on personal stories, including a surprising encounter with a dominant partner and Kayden's experiences with DL (down-low) guys. Kayden shares his perspective on communication and boundaries in relationships and the importance of authenticity in attraction. Chad Remy discusses his experiences with Findom (financial domination) and the various requests he receives from fans. He explains that Findom can take different forms, such as humiliation, draining bank accounts, or engaging in alpha/sub dynamics. Chad emphasizes the importance of consent and negotiation in these interactions. He also shares his journey into content creation and OnlyFans, highlighting the need for intention and planning in building a successful platform. Chad discusses the challenges of balancing his personal and professional life, including navigating social media and family dynamics. He expresses his desire to promote acceptance and inclusivity within the LGBTQ+ community.

Keywords

adult content creation, Berlin, underground rave parties, studio work, OnlyFans, verse top, open relationship, DL guys, communication, boundaries, authenticity, Findom, financial domination, requests, kinks, content creation, OnlyFans, intention, planning, social media, family, acceptance, inclusivity

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

00:46 Experience in Berlin

04:05 Content Creation Process

06:49 Preferences in Sexual Roles

10:04 Encounters with Dominant Partners

11:55 Unexpected Situations

14:03 Relationship and Openness

19:04 Communication and Boundaries

21:06 Meeting the Partner

23:46 Body Count and Promoting Accounts

24:50 Exploring Findom and Unconventional Requests

30:56 The Journey into Content Creation and OnlyFans

34:51 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

49:41 Promoting Acceptance and Inclusivity

Sound Bites

"Everyone talked about how alive Berlin was in the summer. As a boy who absolutely loves techno, I had to go out and experience that."

"OnlyFans gives me a lot of opportunity to travel and meet new people. And I think when I do that, I have a lot more fun."

"I'm a verse top. I mainly top on camera. I love the concept of being verse. I definitely think it's so hot to bottom."

"There have been many requests that come through. I actually started getting into Findom a lot more recently. It's very fun one to get into and it's really like explorative, which I like."

"FINDOM stands for financial domination. Some people like to be put on display and have people make fun of them. Some people like you to just drain their bank account."

"I've really been giving it my all. Came out with a business plan, came out with a monthly report of what I'm trying to do, what I'm trying to achieve, came out with a campaign strategy for how I'm gonna build content out, how I'm gonna charge people, how I'm gonna get people engaged."