“What if I attract another narcissist?”
That fear? It’s sacred. It means you’re aware. Awake. No longer walking with blindfolds made of red flags.
But let’s shift the question.
Instead of “What if I attract another narcissist?”—
Ask, “What if I’ve changed so much that narcissists can’t hook me anymore?”
Because the truth is, we don’t attract what we want. We attract what we tolerate. And you, my wild one, no longer tolerate confusion masquerading as connection.
That version of you who fell for breadcrumbs?
She didn’t fail. She survived. And now you’re becoming someone new.
Try this: List three red flags you ignored before—and write down the new boundaries you’ll hold.
That’s not paranoia. That’s protection. That’s evolution.
Narcissists thrive in confusion. You now thrive in clarity.
You won’t repeat the cycle. Because you’ve interrupted it.
This time, you choose you.
And that… is magnetic to everything real.
Keep rising. You’re already gold.
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