SWM 150 - Control, sex and marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
Last month, I watched a great video by Gary Thomas and his wife Lisa on how a controlling spirit can harm a marriage. It got me thinking: In Christian circles, we often struggle to define the difference between healthy leadership and damaging control—both in marriage and in our relationship with God.
Why is it that surrendering to God is seen as good, but demanding control from a spouse is harmful? The key, I believe, is consent and love. When surrender is freely given and motivated by love, it can bring freedom and joy. But when control is forced, it leads to resentment and broken trust.
In this post, I’m sharing some personal stories and lessons we’ve learned about navigating these tricky dynamics in marriage.
Links in this podcast episode:
- Gary Thomas - Substack - A controlling spirit can devestate a marriage
- SWM 108 - What does the Bible say about hell?
- Sexual Frequency - Why I don't worry anymore
- Becoming More Sexually Engaged Course - For Christian Wives
- Sexy Photos Course - For Christian Wives
- Becoming More Sexually Engaged Course - For Christian Wives
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