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We all want love, joy, peace, and patience—but what if those things only come through the slow, messy process we keep trying to skip?
In this episode of Shifts and Giggles, Rafer breaks down why the fruit of the Spirit isn’t a checklist of Christian behavior—it’s evidence of spiritual growth. From the apple tree that takes seven years to bear fruit, to the real-life moments when patience runs thin and self-control gets tested, this episode shows how the Holy Spirit produces fruit in us when we stop rushing and start surrendering.
If you’ve ever felt “stuck” trying to be good, kind, or peaceful, this one’s for you. God’s not grading you—He’s growing you.
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