Why is love so hard? And why do we fight so fiercely to stay connected, even when relationships feel overwhelming?
In this special guest-hosted episode of Shrinks On Tap, therapists Amy Begnal, LPC, CRC and Deborah Grodzicki, PhD, MS sit down for a warm, honest, and science-based conversation about why relationships matter, why they challenge us, and how understanding attachment theory, temperament, and the biology of connection can transform the way we love.
Together, they explore:
• Why humans are wired for connection
• Why couples fight so hard to stay together
• How attachment styles shape adult relationships
• The role of temperament, personality, and early caregiving
• Why hope, awareness, and willingness are the foundation of change
• What really makes love so difficult — and so worth it
Whether you’re single, partnered, or navigating the complexities of love, this episode helps normalize the struggle and illuminate the science behind our deepest emotional bonds.
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We’re holistic psychologists talking real life, real relationships, and real moments of growth — all around the metaphorical table with a warm drink in hand.
Listen, reflect, and join us for the next episode where we explore the green flags & red flags that predict long-term relationship success.
This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health, medical, or therapeutic advice. Listening does not establish a therapist–client relationship. If you are experiencing a mental health concern or crisis, please seek support from a licensed professional or contact your local crisis hotline or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
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