When burnout hit, former attorney Arlene Miller didn’t just slow down — she transformed her life. In this powerful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Arlene to talk about identity loss, stress recovery, and what it really takes to lead and live from the heart. Together, they explore how letting go of ego and embracing love can turn chaos into calm and fear into focus.
Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads — a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 2 million downloads and counting — continues its mission to spark honest, unfiltered conversations about mental health.
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Mental Health Quote
“You’re not your title, your past, or your burnout. You’re a human being learning to lead from love.” — Arlene Miller
Episode Description
What happens when your career becomes your identity — and then you realize it’s burning you out? For Arlene Miller, that moment of truth became the turning point toward healing. After more than three decades as an attorney, Arlene sold her law firm, traded the courtroom for compassion, and rebuilt her life as a Work-Life Harmony and Leadership Coach.
In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles dive deep into Arlene’s journey from doing it all to being enough. They talk about the real costs of perfectionism, why women in high-stress careers often ignore their own needs, and how to reconnect to purpose after burnout. Arlene shares her tools for self-regulation, mindfulness, and what she calls “negotiating from the heart” — a method that replaces control with connection.
Through laughter, honesty, and a few “been there” moments, this conversation reminds us that healing doesn’t mean giving up who you were; it means remembering who you are.
Whether you’re rebuilding after burnout, craving emotional peace, or learning to set boundaries with grace, Arlene’s story will inspire you to trade hustle for harmony — and choose your mental health every time.
Keywords: Arlene Miller, burnout recovery, emotional wellness, women’s mental health, work-life balance, self-compassion, executive presence, leadership coaching, mindfulness, anxiety relief, career burnout, emotional healing, boundaries, personal growth, resilience
Meet Our Guest — Arlene Miller
Arlene Cohen Miller is a Work-Life Harmony & Leadership Coach, retired attorney, and CEO of Jewel Consultancy. With over 30 years of legal experience and credentials as a Professional Certified Coach (ICF), Arlene helps women reclaim calm, confidence, and clarity in their personal and professional lives. A long-time yoga and meditation practitioner, she blends practical strategy with heart-centered wisdom to guide others from stress to serenity.
Website: https://jewelconsultancy.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/arlene.jewel/
X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/JewelCoachPCC
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jewelcoach2/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@arlenecmiller
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arlene-cohen-miller-54435b59/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jewelcoach2
Key Takeaways
- Burnout isn’t weakness — it’s a signal for change.
- You’re not your job title; you’re a person who deserves peace.
- Boundaries are love in action.
- Authentic leadership starts with self-awareness.
- We grow most when we learn to celebrate small wins.
Actionable Items
- Pause before saying “yes.” Ask: Does this ho
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