In this episode of The So Hard Podcast, I’m sharing the exact process I used to help a couple on the brink of divorce completely turn things around—in just three weeks.
She was one of my very first clients over a decade ago. They’ve come back to me over the years when things got tough, but this time, she messaged me saying it was over. Divorce papers were coming. What happened next was a masterclass in how powerful it is to meet each other's needs, communicate clearly, and commit to doing the uncomfortable things that keep love alive.
Inside, I break down:
- What trust in a relationship actually means (hint: it’s not just about cheating).
- Why unmet needs cause people to shut down, fight, or stray.
- The exact weekly steps I gave them that brought them from “it’s over” to 50% happier in just two weeks.
- How receiving love can feel uncomfortable—and what to do when you hit that ceiling.
- Why the thing you avoid most is probably the very thing that will change everything.
Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will help you understand the inner mechanics of lasting connection—and how to shift your love life starting now.
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