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In this episode, Justina Victoria calls out toxic dating advice that blames men for attracting “low quality women.” She breaks down why this kind of messaging is not only harmful, but completely misses the point. Attraction isn’t about fault — it’s about familiarity, nervous system wiring, and the unconscious patterns formed in childhood. Justina dives into how trauma, invalidated needs, and a lack of attunement growing up shape our adult relationships, motivation, and self-worth. This episode is a deep reminder that healing doesn’t come from shame — it comes from understanding the why behind our patterns, and reclaiming our power through compassion and nervous system repair.

Topics Covered:
The problem with labeling people as “low quality”

Why attraction is based on familiarity, not fault

How childhood programming shapes adult relationships

The role of subconscious patterns in dating

Why “discipline issues” are often trauma responses

The nervous system’s impact on motivation and achievement

The importance of attunement and co-regulation in early life

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