Relationship Advice I Wish I Heard When I Was 21- Part 1

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into Relationship Advice I Wish I Heard When I Was 21 – Part 1—a heartfelt reflection on love, self-worth, and the spiritual lessons we carry through our most formative relationships. Whether you’re navigating a situationship, reflecting on your younger self, or just curious how to show up more authentically in your relationships, this one’s for you.

Show Notes:

• 00:30: Intro — Why I’m obsessed with talking about relationships and why this episode matters

• 02:45: My background: all-girls school, late bloomer, and being a tomboy with close male friendships

• 06:10: From Regency fantasies to real-life dating—how Jane Austen shaped my early views on love

• 09:40: Twin flames, societal programming, and building an unconventional relationship with Michael

• 14:22: First advice: Let go of what you think you know and create your own rules for love

• 18:05: Second advice: Don’t date potential—honor who someone is now

• 22:40: The truth about “bad boys” and how we project ideals instead of honoring reality

• 27:50: A real-life example: Navigating evolving needs and weekly date night changes

• 33:45: How anxiety, triggers, and communication led us to a more honest schedule flow

• 38:10: Third advice: Be authentic from the get-go—ditch the performance, be you

  
  

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Sending you lots of love!

—Estee