Ever told your story on stage and walked away with applause… but no real engagement?
No follow-ups.
No “that changed me.”
Just a few polite head nods and a “you’re so brave.” 😬
➛➛➛ Here’s the truth: storytelling alone isn’t enough.
Not if you want to lead, connect, and inspire action.
In this episode — Part 2 of The Speaker’s Code — I’m sharing how to stop dumping your diary onstage and start using your story as the powerful, strategic tool it was meant to be.
You’ll learn:
- Why “just tell your story” is actually dangerous advice
- The 3 elements every story needs to land and lead (yes, every one)
- How to make your message the point — not your pain
- What separates stories that move people from stories that just… impress them
- How to map out your own signature story (without overthinking it)
Because your story isn’t meant to be entertainment or emotional exposure.
It’s meant to lead.
To teach.
To move.
And if you’re ready to stop performing and start communicating with power — this episode is your roadmap.
🎁 Want extra support? Grab my FREE guide:
“10 Mistakes That Kill Your Vocal Presence” at
speaklikeitmatters.com/vocal
Let’s turn your story into strategy — and your voice into something people trust (and remember). 🎤
Listen to Part 1 of the Speaker Code Series HERE
Check out my comprehensive speaking program here: https://www.speaklikeitmatters.com/speaker-accelerator
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or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/csillamuscan/
Send me an email at: csilla@csillamuscan.com
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