Episode 4-The Myth-You're Supposed to Fake It...Right?

Did you grow up thinking faking orgasms was the norm? Did you have to lie about enjoying sex and you believed that was socially acceptable? Congratulations, I think you're like 90% of women! What if we no longer accepted faking it as a prerequisite for being sexually active? What if instead, we decided that we are never going to close the pleasure gap if the person on the other side of our faked orgasm is acting on bad information? Think how many legit and glorious orgasms could happen if we challenged this thought pattern!

You’ve seen it 1000 times.  I know the first time I can remember it was watching When Harry Met Sally (probably way too young) but all the same by 10 years old, a ways before I actually had any sex, I knew that it was understood that women faked having orgasms.  Not only did they fake them, but it was socially acceptable AND expected.

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