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Want to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions?

You’ve been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you from your partner.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’ll show you 3 science-backed moves you can use tonight to control your arousal, boost her orgasms, and turn ordinary sex into th...

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Kinky couples are some of the most communicative, consent-savvy lovers out there—but that doesn’t mean their relationships are drama-free. Sometimes the same power dynamics that light you up in the bedroom can throw things off outside of it.

In this episode, I talk with Wendi L. Dumbroff, MA, LPC, a kink-affirming couples & sex therapist, about the struggles kinky couples don’t always see coming—like mismatched app...

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Is your intimacy starting to feel predictable? You’re not alone. Most couples fall into the same positions, the same rhythm, and the same script — and that’s when connection can start to feel routine instead of exciting.

In this episode, I’m revealing the #1 move that transforms ordinary intimacy into an unforgettable experience — the kind your partner can’t stop thinking about afterward. Backed by science an...

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What happens when kink becomes the key to healing religious shame?
 In this raw and redemptive episode I sit down with Lauren Elise Rogers, a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator who grew up in a high-control religion. Together, we unpack how purity culture distorts sexuality—and how kink can actually be a path to freedom, power, and deep healing.

Lauren shares her personal story of leaving behind religious indoct...

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Quickies don’t have to be rushed, sloppy, or forgettable. In fact, when you know what to do, a 10-minute quickie can be hotter, more intense, and more memorable than an all-night session.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down the science of why urgency and anticipation heighten arousal, the mistakes most people make that ruin quickies, and the exact step-by-step moves that will make any quickie fe...

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 What’s the “right” size to satisfy a woman? How often should you really be having sex—or masturbating? And is it weird if you’re into something like ball-busting? Today, I’m joined by certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein to tackle the most-searched, most-avoided questions men have about sex, performance, and pleasure. We’re breaking down the myths, the science, and the real answers you won’t get from late-night Go...

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Before you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer.
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she’s already turned on and fully invested when you get to the bedroom.

✅ The psychology & science of building anticipation
 ✅ Step-by-step moves that work without crossing her boundaries
 ✅ Common ...

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Looking for sex positions that actually feel good—not just the ones you see in magazines or corn?

In this episode , I’m joined by therapist, and author Suzannah Weiss to break down the truth about what makes a sex position great—for your body, your pleasure, and your real life.

Whether you're dealing with size mismatches, limited flexibility, queer pairings, or past discomfort in bed, this conve...

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Most people think the secret to the female orgasm is a technique.
 But the truth? The biggest mistake is a mindset.

In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason she’s not finishing—and it’s probably not what you think.
 You’ll learn:

• The real science behind female orgasm
• What turns her OFF (even when she loves you)
• How to use sound, breath, and feedback to get her deeply turned on
• 4 surprising ways to increase HER p...

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In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re diving into the surprising ways sex toys are revolutionizing sexual health—and why more medical professionals are finally taking pleasure seriously.

You’ll learn:

• Why vibrators are being recommended by doctors and therapists
• The science behind using pleasure tools to treat conditions like pelvic pain, low libido, and arousal disorders
• How integrating toys into your healt...

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Ever fantasized about a threesome—but worried it might get… complicated?
In this episode, I break down exactly how to plan a threesome without turning it into an emotional mess. From red and green flags when choosing a third to the real reasons you shouldn’t go there, we’re covering the stuff most people skip.

✅ Why your reason for having a threesome matters
 🚩 Signs the third might be a bad fit
 💬 The c...

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What happens when bad sex, emotional labor, and a complete lack of foreplay push you to swear off men altogether? In this spicy and unfiltered Pride Month episode, I’m joined by three of my closest queer friends to unpack a rising trend: women “coming out” after a string of terrible relationships with men.

We ask the big, controversial question: Can a man be so bad in bed that he turns you gay?
Spoiler: it’s not t...

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Most people treat hand jobs like a throwaway move—a lazy warmup or a teenage fallback. But done right? A hand job can be more intimate, dominant, and orgasmic than penetration or oral.

In honor of National Hand Job Day, I'm breaking down exactly how to use your hands to blow someone's mind—whether you're stroking a penis, massaging a vulva, or pleasuring a nonbinary partner. This is the Ultimate Hand Job...

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Ever wonder why she’s not as turned on—or as fast—as you are?
 You're not alone. And she's not broken.

In this episode, I’m joined by sociologist, intimacy coach, and TEDx speaker Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to unpack one of the most misunderstood issues in sex and relationships: the arousal gap.

We’ll break down:
 ✅ Why men often feel ready in seconds—and women don’t
 ✅ What’s really going on when she “se...

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Is body shame secretly killing your sex life?
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into one of the biggest (and most overlooked) blockers of desire and orgasm—body image anxiety.

If you're hiding under the covers, turning off the lights, or keeping your shirt on during sex… this episode is for you.

You’ll learn:
 🔥 Why self-consciousness about your body shuts down arousal and orgasm...

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Is sex addiction even real?

In this bold and much-needed episode, I’m joined by Dr. Sue Milstein and her co-host Charlie for a raw conversation that takes on the myths and misinformation around hypersexuality and so-called “sex addiction.”

We talk about:
 – Why “sex addiction” isn’t actually a clinical diagnosis
 – How pathologizing pleasure fuels shame and repression
 – The difference between compulsive beh...

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You don’t need to touch his penis to turn him on.
 In fact… you don’t even need your hands.

In this how-to episode, I’m teaching you how to seduce and dominate a man using nothing but your feet, your voice, and your eyes.

We’re diving into the art of foot play—how to use your toes to tease, your arches to apply pressure, and your whole body to command his attention.
You’ll learn:

• How to give a beginner-frien...

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What happens when a woman truly owns her sexuality?
The s*x gets better. The spark comes back. And trust us—he’ll feel it too.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Dr. Bonnie Comfort—psychologist, author, and expert in helping women ditch sexual shame and step into real, raw pleasure. We’re breaking down how to stop performing, start feeling, and completely transform your sex life—from ...

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Let’s talk about one of the most craved beginner kinks—spanking—and why most people are doing it completely wrong.

In this episode, I break down the art and psychology of erotic spanking: how to build anticipation, where to touch before you strike, and how to use your hand to sting, seduce, and satisfy. You’ll learn how to read her body’s response in real time, avoid common mistakes, and make it so good she’ll beg you ...