How to F*ck Him With Just Your Feet, Voice & Eyes

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You don’t need to touch his penis to turn him on.
 In fact… you don’t even need your hands.

In this how-to episode, I’m teaching you how to seduce and dominate a man using nothing but your feet, your voice, and your eyes.

We’re diving into the art of foot play—how to use your toes to tease, your arches to apply pressure, and your whole body to command his attention.
You’ll learn:

• How to give a beginner-friendly footjob (that doesn’t feel awkward)
• How to use your gaze to control the moment and keep him locked in
• The seductive power of verbal domination—and exactly what to say

This is your step-by-step guide to flipping the power dynamic, igniting his desire, and taking total control of his arousal—without ever taking your clothes off.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:19):
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(00:42):
Where desire meets disruptionand pleasure becomes power.
Now let's talk about sex Cheers.
Today's Talk Sex with Annettetopic is how to fuck him with
your feet, voice and eyes.
Did you know that nearly halfof all body part fetishes are
about feet?

(01:02):
That isn't a niche, that's aphenomenon.
And today we are turning thatdesire into power.
Because here's the truth youdon't need penetration to fuck
someone.
In this episode, I'm going toshow you how to seduce, tease
and utterly captivate a man or apenis owner using nothing but
your feet, your voice and youreyes.

(01:24):
This episode is for everyperson who's ever wanted to flip
the power dynamic and keep himcoming back for more.
We're diving into the art offootplay and worship, the
hypnotic power of voice-ledseduction, and why your gaze can
become an erotic leash hedoesn't want to escape.
And yes, foot fucking is on themenu.

(01:45):
I'll walk you through how to doit like a goddess.
But before we dive in, I wantto remind you that I'm over on
OnlyFans, where I am sharing mysex and intimacy how-tos, audio
guided self-pleasure meditationsand so much more all designed
to help you start experiencingmore pleasure and better sex.
Tonight you can find me therewith my handle at

(02:07):
TalkSexWithAnette.
You can also find me onSubstack, where I'm doing a
whole lot of the same by thesame handle at TalkSexWithAnette
.
And of course, you can scrolldown to the notes below this
episode and there you're goingto find links to everywhere you
might want to find me.
But for now, let's dive in andtalk about footplay Cheers.

(02:28):
So before we get to our how-to,let's talk about why feet drive
him wild.
Let's bust the myth that footfetishes are rare or weird.
They're actually the mostcommon sexual fetish tied to the
body by far.
A 2007 analysis of 5,000 plusfetish forums found that 47% of

(02:52):
all body part fetishes.
Foot-related porn searches rankin the top 20 globally and top
five for men over 35 in the US.
Why?
It's partly neurological.
The areas of the brain thatcontrol foot sensation and
genital arousal sit side by sidein the somatosensory cortex.

(03:14):
For some folks, those wires getcross-connected, and that means
foot touch equals eroticoverload.
But even beyond science, feetcarry symbol.
They're humbling to touch,sensual to worship and
incredibly intimate to play with, especially when paired with
eye contact, teasing talk orpower exchange.

(03:36):
So here's how to use your feetto fuck his brain.
Look, you don't need a footfetish to love foot play.
You just need curiosity andcontrol.
So here are some steps to makefoot play exciting for everyone,
regardless of whether or notthey have a fetish.
Step number one is let him look, prop your feet up, stretch

(03:58):
your legs, dangle your shoe offyour toe and say I catch you
looking at my feet a lot, want abetter view, watch his eyes.
Own the intention.
Step two is invite, touch, restyour foot on his thigh, drag
your toes along his chest orlips and say be gentle, they're

(04:22):
sensitive and I'm watching.
Step three is make him wait.
Don't give him access tooquickly.
Say if you want to touch them,you'll have to earn it.
You'll have to earn it.
Make the moment part of thetease.

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That's where the tension lives.
Step four is foot worship.
Guide him, let him kiss thearch, nibble the toe, massage
the ball of your foot.
Say softer, slower, show me howmuch you like this slower.
Show me how much you like this.
A great way to launch into thisis with a foot massage.
Step number five is your bonusmove.

(05:10):
It's a sensory tease.
Use your foot to trace alonghis inner thigh, his shaft, over
clothing, or press it to hislips, while keeping eye contact.
This isn't just touch, it'splay, it's anticipation.
You're not just giving himsomething to feel, you're giving
him something to remember.
Now let's talk foot fucking.
Yes, it's thing, and here's howyou're going to do it.

(05:31):
It's also called a foot job orarch play.
This is where pleasure meetsnovelty, and it's more intimate
than you might expect.
So to get started, prep thescene Use high slip lube
Silicone works best and coatyour feet and his cock.
Next is the position Sitopposite of him on a bed or

(05:54):
floor, legs extended, kneesslightly bent.
Flexibility really helps here,but putting pillows under your
hips can help support you aswell.
Next, you're going to use yourarches.
Press your soles togetheraround his shaft, use a gentle,
rocking motion and let your toesstroke the tip.
You can also alternate feetstroking with one, cupping with

(06:18):
the other, and you have two freehands, so use them.
You can caress his thighs, rubhis chest, guide his eyes to
yours.
You can also touch your ownbody, so he's watching you.
Touch yourself your nipples,your neck, your clit, while your
feet are on his cock.

(06:40):
Now that your feet are in play,try adding your voice.
Say things like feels good,doesn't it?
Or I love watching you likethis, or you're not allowed to
come yet.
If you want to be a little moredominant, keep it playful, not
performative.
The power here isn't in beingperfect, it's in being

(07:02):
intentional.
When he knows you're doing thisfor him because you enjoy
making him feel this kind ofpleasure, he'll crave it again
and again and again.
Next, let's talk voice and eyesSeduction without touch.
Touch is just one tool.
If you really want to lead himdeeper into pleasure, use your

(07:23):
voice and your eyes.
Here are some of my top voicetips Slow your pace, lower your
tone, let silences stretchbetween words and then give
simple, confident instructions.
Some examples are keep still,look at me, let me enjoy you.

(07:51):
Use your voice to describe whatyou're doing with your feet.
Use it to praise.
Use it to command.
Now let's talk about the eyes.
Eye contact creates intensity.
It says this moment is just us.
Use it when you tease him, useit when he moans.
Use it when you say you lovethis, don't you?

(08:15):
You're mine right now.
Let your gaze hold him whileyour feet work their magic.
Finally, let's bring it alltogether.
This episode is about power,attention and pleasure, not
penetration.
You can leave a man completelyblissed out using the slow
sensual press of your souls, thecontrolled rhythm of your voice

(08:37):
and the fierce intimacy of yourgaze.
And when you combine them, youdon't just arouse him, you
anchor his memory in a way thatfeels mysterious, addictive and
unforgettable.
So here's your intimacychallenge Tonight don't ride him
, don't blow him, don't eventake your panties off.

(08:58):
Just sit back bare your feetand tell him exactly what he's
going to do for you.
Use your feet to tease, useyour voice to control, use your
eyes to hold him in place,because when you learn to fuck
someone with your gaze, withyour words and with your toes,

(09:19):
you don't just give pleasure,you leave a mark.
Give it a try.
Tell me how it goes.
Comment below this video.
If you're on my YouTube channel,if you are listening on my
audio channel, head over to myYouTube channel at
TalkSexWithAnette and let meknow how it goes for you below
in the comment section.

(09:39):
If you are looking for acheerleader, a hype girl, an
intimacy coach, my books areopen and I would love to help
you on your own pleasure journey, either with yourself or
someone else.
And if you're interested inthat, you can find out more
about it on my website,talksexwithanettecom.
You can always email me atAnnette at TalkSexWithAnettecom,

(10:03):
or you can scroll down to thenotes section below and you're
going to find a link toSpeakPipe where you can send me
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comments, whatever, answered assoon as possible.
So get out there, bear yourtoes, go buy some sexy shoes.
I did this weekend and I have afeeling they're going to serve

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me well in the future.
So until next time I'll see youin the locker room.
Cheers.