How to Please a Sensitive Clit. 5 Techniques that will Make Her Scream with Pleasure Instead of Pain

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 In this episode of Masturbation Monday, we’re tackling a topic that’s essential for anyone exploring clitoral pleasure: how to touch an over-sensitive clitoris. Direct stimulation can sometimes feel overwhelming, but there are plenty of indirect techniques that can create incredible pleasure without discomfort. From layering and orbiting to creative ways of engaging the surrounding areas, this episode offers practical tips to help you or your partner feel more comfortable and connected during intimate moments. Tune in to learn how to embrace gentle, effective touch and enhance your pleasure experience.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Do the sex.
Welcome to Masturbation Mondaywith me, annette Benedetti, your
host for Locker Room Talk andChats.
This is your invitation to joinme for coffee in bed and a
candid conversation about themasturbation practice I'm
developing to support my mental,physical and emotional health
and help manifest my dreams.

(00:20):
Masturbation Monday is a guideto self-pleasure, better sex and
using the power of the pussy toopen new doors to a better life
.
Today's Masturbation Mondaytopic is how to touch and
pleasure someone with a supersensitive clit.

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With a super sensitive clit,it's true.
There are women out there andpeople out there with clitorises
that are so, so sensitive thatwhen they are directly
stimulated, it causes pain ordiscomfort as opposed to
pleasure.
Now, for their partners,especially men, who have been

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told over and over again, inorder for a woman to orgasm at
least 80% of women they needsome clitoral stimulation, this
can be just frustrating.
It's like what do I do now?
In fact, some women willactually ask their partners not
to touch them, not to go down onthem, because it's so

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uncomfortable and painful forthem.
Well, not to worry.
Today I have five techniquesthat will help you pleasure your
partner if they happen to havea very sensitive clitoris and
perhaps even convince them thatgoing down on them and touching
them is something they are goingto absolutely love having you

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do from now on, while usingthese techniques.
Now I am going to talk youthrough these techniques here on
this podcast episode.
You can, of course, watch thison my YouTube channel at Talk
Sex with Annette, but if youwant to see demonstrations
detailed demonstrations of thesetechniques so you actually can

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see how to do them, you can goover to my OF site at the handle
.
There is the same as everywhereelse at Talk Sex with the Night
.
You can also scroll down and Iam dropping a link below that
will get you there and I will beputting up over probably the
next week or two, depending onwhen you listen to this.
I'm going to be breaking downthese demonstrations so you can

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see exactly what you need to doin order to assist your partner
should they have a clitoris thatis painful when touched.
So if you are someone with asuper sensitive clit or you are
someone with a partner who has asuper sensitive clit and you
want to know how to work withthis to maximize pleasure and

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maximize your opportunity forthe big O's, grab your coffee,
let's dive in Cheers.
The first technique you can useto help bring pleasure to
someone with a very sensitiveclit is called layering, and
layering is exactly what itsounds like.
It is placing layers betweenyour hand, your tongue whatever

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and the clitoris.
So a good example of how youcould do this is through panties
.
That thin material that isgoing to be laying over the top
of the clitoris is going tocreate enough of a barrier that
your partner is going to receiveindirect stimulation and get
that pleasure without feelinglike overstimulated or in pain.

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Another way to perform layeringis using the clitoral hood as
that layer of protection for theclitoris and using it to rub
the clitoris with.
It creates a beautiful wetlayer between your hand, your
tongue whatever you're using andthe clitoris, so that she can

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experience pleasure withoutbeing oversensitized, without
getting that sort of ouch ithurts feeling which will turn
her right off.
Now you can use lots ofdifferent things to layer,
whether you're using a sheet orunderwear or clothes, whatever.
It is lingerie.

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You could try all sorts ofdifferent materials to layer
between the clitoris and yourfinger, thumb, sex toy.
If you're using a toy, it'salso going to help by creating
enough of a barrier that she canfeel vibration through the
material.
Without the direct stimulationGuaranteed, she's most likely

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going to get to that bigclitoral bone.
The next technique forpleasuring someone with a super
sensitive clit is calledorbiting.
Now orbiting involves usingyour fingers, a tongue, a toy to
make a circular motion aroundthe clitoris, stimulating that
really yummy, sensitive areaaround the clitoris in a

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circular motion.
Now you are going to start widewith this motion when you first
approach the area and you canstimulate the pubic area, the
lips around it.
But you start in a wide circleand create sort of a rhythmic
pattern.
Then you're going to move incloser to the clitoris with that
rhythmic pattern until you'remaking tiny circles right around

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it.
This technique creates ateasing sensation.
It can not only indirectlystimulate the clitoris but it
can stimulate the mind,wondering how close you're going
to get when the next sweep isgoing to come around.
It also helps put her body intoa rhythm of pleasure.
So again, you take your fingers, your toy, your tongue and you

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just start creating a rhythmicsweeping motion around the
clitoris, starting outside,further away from the clitoris,
and then slowly making thatcircle smaller and smaller as
you work your way in.
And this is going to slowlybring her to, hopefully, that
big clitoral O.
The third technique you can useto stimulate someone who has a

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super sensitive clit a clit thatsometimes perceives pleasurable
stimulation as pain is cupping.
Now, cupping is a really cooltechnique because you can do
several different things with it.
You're basically going to turnyour hand into a cup and you're
going to put it over the vulva.
You can either lift that cup upwith enough of a curve in it

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that it does not touch the clitat all, or, depending on your
partner and you're going to wantto ask them for feedback you
can actually cup it so that yourhand is laying flat on the
clitoris, but it's not rubbingit, it's creating contact.
They'll be able to feel heatfrom your hand, but you're not
going to create friction there.

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And then you can grasp thelabia around the clitoris and
squeeze them and kind of pull onthem and rock them so they're
actually engulf.
The clitoris is receiving isthrough the skin of the labia.
Uh, so you will gently kind ofgrab that area, you can rock it,

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you can pull it, you can pinchit again.
You're going to be asking yourpartner for feedback on how this
feels for them.
But it is a yummy way for youto get your own enjoyment of
really feeling all of her inyour hands, while also providing
her with a lot of indirectstimulation.

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And this can even start to sortof excite and wake up the
G-spot if done correctly.
And when I say correctly I meanputting maybe your palm right
there at the opening of thevagina, and of course the G spot
is just right inside thatopening.
So if you're rocking againstthat area, it's going to start
waking up many different partsof her vagina, her vulva and, of

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course, her clit.
The next technique I'm going toshare with you that you can use
to help stimulate someone with asuper sensitive clit is a lot
like orbiting.
It is called the figure eight.
Again, you are creating apattern with your fingers, your
tongue, a toy, and it sweepsaround the clitoris.
Now you can actually use thison the clit for people who enjoy

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direct stimulation.
But in this case you're goingto move the figure eight pattern
that you're making with yourfinger or your tongue and as you
loop into the cross section ofyour figure eight, you are going
to maybe do that right underthe clitoris and sweep down
around her vulva, come back up.
Take the top of the figureeight up and over the clitoris,

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come back down around and underit and just continue that
rhythmic pattern.
One of the really hot thingsabout doing these techniques
that create pattern and a rhythmis the rhythmic part of it.
It really can move her into ameditative headspace if you're
able to keep it and beconsistent with it.
Of course, you're going to bewanting to ask her if she needs

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you to slow down or speed up ormove somewhere and much like
with aura bidding.
You can start by making thispattern big on her body and then
moving in closer and closer andnearer and near to wherever she
gets the most pleasure from itand the least pain from it.
So that's going to requirereally good communication.

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Now, the last technique I'mgoing to teach you for
pleasuring someone who has asuper sensitive clit is called
rolling.
Now, rolling actually isn'tmuch at all like it sounds in
the name.
It involves using a hand motion.
You're going to be using yourfingers for this.
That is very much like snappingyour fingers.
You're going to be using yourfingers for this.
That is very much like snappingyour fingers.
You're going to use the sameaction with your hand.

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That you do in snapping, butyou are going to put her labia
inner and outer labia betweenyour fingers, the hood of the
clit, even the clit covered bythe hood, and you're going to
make that same motion.
And you can do it in one placefor a while, or you can move it
around her clitoris and aroundher labia, her vulva area.

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You can use this on any of thesensitive skin down there and it
just creates a sort of adifferent sensation.
It's a great way to mix up thesensation so that she doesn't
burn out on one technique.
So, for instance, if you areorbiting for a long time, that
might become overstimulating.
You can move on to rolling, youcan move on to the figure eight

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, you can move on to cupping.
Mixing it up for people withsensitive clitorises is going to
be important.
So that's why I've shared fivetechniques for you.
Remember, if one doesn't work,try another.
If you have a partner who has avery sensitive clit, you're
going to want to sit down forsome play and experimentation

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time.
Run through these differenttechniques, see which ones they
enjoy, which ones excite themthe most, and again, if you
aren't really sure exactly howto perform them, I am going to
have video tutorials ready to gofor you so you'll be able to go
and see those video tutorialsand then try them at home.

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If you have any questions, feelfree to send me a question.
Drop a question below thisvideo on my YouTube channel and
I will get back to you.
You can email me at Annette atTalkSexWithAnnette.
If you go over to my Spicy siteand watch the videos there, you
can DM directly with me.
I also have the option to ask asex and intimacy coach a

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question, so you can get alittle one-on-one session with
me there and get some veryspecific information, if that's
what you're in need of right nowto bring that extra yummy oh to
your relationship.
If you are looking for anintimacy coach, don't forget you
can always reach out to me atAnnette at TalkSexWithAnnette,

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or check out my website,talksexwithannettecom, where you
can find all about my intimacycoaching services.
My books are open.
I hope this helps.
I'm looking forward to feedbackfrom you and until next time
I'll see you in the locker room.
Cheers.