The Truth About Girth: What Women Really Want

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Do the sex?

Speaker 2 (00:03):
I'm Annette Benedetti , host of the podcast formerly
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And if you're new, welcome tomy podcast, where desire meets
disruption and pleasure becomespower.

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Now let's talk about sex Cheers.
Today's talk sex with Annettetopic is does girth matter?
The hard truth about size,satisfaction and insecurity.
Truth about size, satisfactionand insecurity.

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So let's once again talk aboutpenis size or, more specifically
, girth.
You know the thing guys worryabout way more than they admit,
the thing women rarely talkabout directly unless they're
bragging or complaining.
And the thing no one wants toadmit has emotional weight until
they're alone, anxious andconvinced.
It's the reason they're notenough.
Girth isn't just a stat on ameasuring tape.

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It's tied to shame, status, egoand sex appeal.
But does it actually matter?
Does more girth equal morepleasure?
Pleasure?
Today's guest is Dr Amy Perlman,a urologist, men's health
expert and nationally knownadvocate for body image, sexual
confidence and evidence-basedenhancement options.

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She's been featured oneverything from national medical
conferences to trending sexeducation panels and today she's
here to help us break down thetruth about girth, where the
pressure comes from.
And today she's here to help usbreak down the truth about
girth where the pressure comesfrom, how it affects men and
their partners, and what weshould actually be focusing on
if we want to have better sex.
But before we dive in, I wantto remind y'all that I'm over on

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OnlyFans and that is where I'mable to share my sex and
intimacy tips, how-tos,demonstrations and audio-guided
self-pleasure meditations, alldesigned to help you have more
pleasure, better sex.
Starting tonight, I'm also onSubstack doing the same.
You can find me there with myhandle at TalkSexWithAnette.
You can also scroll down to thenotes under this episode and

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find links to all the placesyou'll want to find me below, so
make sure to check them out.
But for now, I would love DrAmy to take a moment and tell us
more about who she is.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
Hi folks.
Annette, it's so good to bewith you here today.
I'm a board certified urologistand I specialize in quality of
life concerns that affecteveryday men and women,
specifically related to sexualhealth, hormone health and
genitourinary health.
I have the best job in theworld.
I mean, your job is pretty cool, but I have a wonderful job,

(03:17):
and I honestly don't know whymore people don't do what I do.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
I love that you say that, because I also love what I
do.
It feels good to help peoplehave a fulfilling, intimate life
and feel good about themselves,right, and our bodies,
especially our of all.
This conversation isn't justabout size.
It's about quality of life.

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It's going to distill the truthabout a lot of things I know
you're curious about, becauseyour questions all have gotten
through to me.
I've seen them and read themand by the end of this podcast
you're going to know what's true, what's not true but, even more
importantly, what to do if youare really on an unhappy,

(04:06):
unsatisfied with your body, andyou need help.
We're going to get you thathelp.
So stay to the end of thisepisode.
It's not just about size.
It's about self and image,sensation and the quiet
insecurities that affectpleasure more than any penis
ever could.
So let's talk about sex, let'stalk about size and let's get

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honest.
I'm ready.
Cheers here's to girth, here'sthe big question of the hour.
Is girth, the new six pack?

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Oh, that's a good question.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
I thought it was.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
And I think I want to preface this conversation.
You know a lot of people ask me, as a urologist does size
matter?
And if you ask, I think mosturologists, most urologists, are
going to say your size, you'rewithin normal limits, You're in
the big part of that nice bellshaped curve and don't worry

(05:05):
about it, and there aren't anysafe options.
And the reality is size andthis is my perspective size
matters to an extent and I thinkif we say size doesn't matter,
I think we're ignoring oursociety and what culture says,
and so I think we have toacknowledge that for many people

(05:25):
, size matters.
I wish that everyone couldaccept their bodies as they are.
I believe that body acceptanceis such a beautiful thing.
I also believe that if someonehas a concern about a part of
their body, including theirgenitals, and we have a safe
solution for them, I believethey deserve the conversation to

(05:47):
understand what those safeoptions are and that's what I
hope today's conversation isreally about is, if you have a
concern, this is what you can doabout it, right.
It's not just about telling aperson who's concerned about
their size go see a sextherapist.
Let's make sure you don't havebody dysmorphia.
It's very clear when I sit downwith patients and I talk to them

(06:08):
about their penile size atleast the patients that come to
see me.
They don't have body dysmorphia.
They know their penises arenormal.
They just want it to be biggerand they want to know about the
safe solution.
So, in some ways, to answeryour question, is a girthier
penis the next six pack?
Well, a lot of people want asix pack and a lot of people

(06:30):
want a girthier penis.
So in many ways I think theanswer is yes.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
Yeah, yeah.
It's interesting because I havepublished several videos on
penis size.
Usually, that conversationtends to lean towards length,
and the most common question Ihave gotten from men is well,
how does girth play into this,right?

(06:57):
How important is it?
So I'm going to ask you whatyour opinion is on length versus
girth.
Let's talk length versus girth.
You can say what you're goingto say, and then I'll, of course
, always add in my two cents.
It's the age-old question, itis.

(07:18):
Let's talk about it.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
No, you know, it's so variable and the reason why I
say that is in my clinicalpractice, the majority of men
who see me are coming in forgirth enhancement because that's
what I offer.
They see that on my website.
They see me do videos talkingabout girth enhancement, so
they're primarily not coming inwith length concerns.

(07:40):
However, for any guy that comesin to see me, including the
guys who come in for somethinglike erectile dysfunction, I do
bring up size, even for whatseems to be an unrelated issue,
and my goal is not to put thethought in the back of someone's
mind that they might not have alarge enough penis.
In fact, we're having this,this discussion, before I do an

(08:01):
exam.
I think that's really important, right, it's to kind of bring
up this discussion, not whileI'm examining the person to see
if they have any concerns abouttheir size, but I'll simply ask
my patients do you have anylength or girth concerns?
And most of the guys that I seesay they do have some length
concerns.
They just didn't know there wasanything they could do about it

(08:22):
, so they're not bringing it upin conversation.
So a lot of guys that I see areconcerned actually about length
and girth.
But then the question becomeswhat is more important when it
comes to sexual satisfaction?
And when you look at theresearch, the research would
suggest that a lot of women aresaying that girth is going to be

(08:46):
more important.
Right, and the way that I lookat it, from both my personal and
professional views here rightis that you need enough length
to be able to be in certainpositions and not to fall out of
the vagina.
Right.
But once you have enough lengthwhere you're not coming out,

(09:08):
right Then too much length.
Obviously you're hitting thecervix.
It can be uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
Some ladies like that shit.
I am not one of them, I know, Iknow.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
So I think the easy answer is it depends, but I
think both in length and girthyou need enough of each one for
the partner to feel it.
But if you think about it,you've done videos before on
teaching people how to fingerright.
I mean you could get a womanoff with my finger.
That is way smaller and shorterthan a penis.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
I do it all the time.

Speaker 1 (09:40):
I do it all the time, so technique also obviously
matters.
I do it all the time, sotechnique also obviously matters
.
I don't have any research toprove what I'm about to say, but
this is my gestalt is that witha smaller object whether it's a
finger, a penis, a toy whenyou're trying to use that

(10:01):
smaller object to pleasure awoman, you have to be more
precise.
So if you think about avibrator, right, if you're using
a bullet vibrator and you putit on the clitoris, it has to be
like on the exact spot for thatto feel good, Otherwise it just
feels like vibration anddoesn't feel arousing, Whereas
if you use a bigger vibratorlike, let's say, a magic wand

(10:21):
that has more coverage, youdon't have to be as precise with
that.
And I'm guessing this istotally from a non-scientific
perspective that with a largerobject in the vagina maybe a
larger penis compared to asmaller one maybe you don't have
to be as precise with thetechnique for the woman to feel
it.
I'd love to get your thoughtson that.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
So I think one thing because our sex education is not
pleasure based, people justdon't know how to have sex with
each other.
Now, for women, the bonus isgetting a guy off is relatively
easy.
He enters you, he enjoys thatfriction.

(11:03):
I'm not saying it's good sex, Imean maybe he thinks it is
because he comes, but thenshould she have more techniques
and know how to have this eroticexperience, he would be like oh
now that's really good sex,right, but with women we aren't
set up that simple, right.
You can't just stick a dick init.

(11:24):
Well, there are very few.
There are some women, but veryfew women that you can just
stick the cock in, thrust awayand she's going to have an
orgasm.
That percentage is minuscule,right, it is a process for us.
And because guys don't knowtechnique most, all of them I
mean they're learning, they'recatching up now know technique

(11:45):
most all of them, I mean they'relearning, they're catching up
now.
Pleasure education is new.
Yes, I think that probably whywe get size queens I am not one
of them, but there are thathaving and I'm going to say
girthier, because I still thinkthe number of women who really
get off and having their cervixpounded are pretty small.

(12:06):
There is the A spot, also up inour vaginal canal.
That can be really erotic thata smaller penis may not reach as
well.
But if you've got a girthy cockand it's short and it comes in,
it's going to hit your A spot.
The guy doesn't really have toknow what to do other than
thrust and hit it right, andwith a girthier cock or a

(12:30):
slightly longer cock then he'sgoing to be more likely to hit
it.
So, yes, I could see how abigger one might serve for that.
Now I have had a conversation onhere about the truth about
small penises and if you aresomeone who really knows how to
do sex beyond the thrustingright you can like, if you're

(12:52):
working with a micro penis andyou and I will definitely talk
about that you can use, you know, grinding the micro penis
against the clit as a way to gether to orgasm.
Again, you can use your fingersif she really wants to feel
full Lesbians, queer women likeme, do it all of the time.
So I think that is.

(13:14):
I think if you are small and ontop of it you don't have
pleasure education, you are notgoing to be as good of a lover
as someone with a big penis whocan at least just thrust away
and hit the spots.
I think that's fair to say,don't you?

Speaker 1 (13:30):
I think it's fair to say yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
Mm-hmm.
All right, this question hascome across my desk a lot.
What is the average girth?

Speaker 1 (13:42):
Okay, so the average girth and this is based on
research that is published whenyou look at the flaccid so
that's the non-erect penilecircumference the average is
going to be about 9.3centimeters and the average
erect circumference is about11.6 centimeters.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
Okay, all right.
Well, I hope, guys, thatanswers your question and means
something to you.
It doesn't really mean anythingto me.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
You know, and it's interesting because when guys
see me in the clinic I neverquote the average girth.
You know, because I can justlook at a penis of a patient
coming into my clinic and prettymuch all the guys who see me,
minus a couple of outliers, theyall have average size penises

(14:32):
and they know it right.
So we're not talking aboutsomeone who has a micropenis,
which is really less than 1% ofthe population of men, right?
These are the average dudeswalking down the street.
They know they have averagepenises, they just want it to be
bigger, they have veryrealistic expectations and they

(14:54):
just won't want a safe option.
And, honestly, it's funnybecause when they come to see me
, you would think they wouldknow exactly what their
measurements are.
I think the perception of likeguys who see someone like me.
They come in and I and they sayI'm exactly this when I'm
flaccid, I'm exactly this, youknow circumference when I'm hard
and this is exactly what I wantto be.

(15:15):
I want to be 5.5,.
You know inches when I'm erect.
That's not the conversation atall, believe it or not, it's.
I sit down with someone and Iask them what size do you think
you currently are?
And most of the guys, don'tknow, they'll estimate.
I'll have them walk over andthey'll look at these demos
right here which are differentgirths For my audio listeners.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
if you want to see the demos, you're going to need
to go to my YouTube channel atTalkSexWithAnette, otherwise we
will try to describe them to you.
Will you hold those up again,and are those sized out?
So these demos are just tubesthat are showing size and girth.
Oh, interesting.

(15:59):
I even look and go.
I prefer this one or that one.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Always here and it has all the different sizes.
So I literally just have themwalk over to a corner of my
office and I say point to whereyou think you are currently when
you're flaccid, and they'llkind of look around and what
they'll do is they'll grab one,They'll hold it in their hand
like they're holding their penisto see how it feels and how

(16:22):
their fingers touch or don'ttouch, and that's how they sort
of estimate what their baselinesize is.
And then I ask okay, where doyou think you want to be?
What are your girth goals?
And again, they're not saying Iwant to be exactly this amount.
A lot of guys say I'm notreally sure.
Or they'll look at my demos andsay, well, maybe around here.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
That's a fatty.
That's a fatty.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
Looks like a fatty to me, you know I have this one
right here, which is the largestone on my set.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
All right, that's big .
Seven inches that way, andthat's seven inches long or no
around circumference Okay.
Okay, by grip.
If I were to grip it, thatwould be like a yeah, your
fingers don't even come together.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah.
So a lot of people will look atthat and say, oh my God, that's
huge.
And I think again, a lot ofpeople would think that all the
guys that come in to see me in aclinic like mine would go would
say I think I'm the smallestone, but I want to be the
largest.
Those are not my patients.
My patients are the ones thatsay I think I'm around 3.5 or

(17:28):
four inches and I think I'd liketo get an additional inch right
.
It's very rare that I havesomeone say they want to be big
like this.
I have two patients, okay, thathave gotten a ton of girth
enhancement and we'll talk moreabout the details of girth
enhancement in a bit but theydidn't want to start from the
beginning being something likethis.

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But as they've gotten morefiller and as they realize how
amazing it feels during sex withtheir wives, they know their
penis does not look like itwould in the natural habitat.
Like you can tell, they've hadsome work done because their
girth is so large, but becauseit feels so good during sex,

(18:09):
they don't care and they justlike how it feels.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
Yes, Does it feel so good to them or to their wives
when you get girth enhancement,and we will talk about how that
happens.
Does that enhancement increasetheir pleasure as well as their
wives?

Speaker 1 (18:29):
That's a really good question and I wish more of my
patients brought their partnersin.
I've actually had some of mypatients bring their partners in
during the procedure and wejust all kind of shoot the shit
in the back room.
And you know what?
I love that, annette, because Ithink it really normalizes the
conversation.
Rather than someone coming inand they're very embarrassed or

(18:51):
ashamed about wanting to have abigger penis because you feel
like they're coming in from aplace of deficiency.
When they come in with theirpartners, it feels like they're
coming in from a place ofabundancy, where they have a
normal penis but they just wantit to be better for them and
their partner.
So I love when they come inwith their partners.

(19:11):
That would give me more of anopportunity for me to ask their
partners.
Right now I'm relying bysecondhand.
I'm asking my patients whattheir partners think For those
two guys that I was referencingthat have very large girth
enhancement, like I've increasedtheir penis by like two to
three inches in girth.
One of them I recently saw himfor follow-up and I said um, so

(19:34):
what is your wife saying?
And he's like well, we don'treally talk about it.
And I was like okay, well, doyou think she likes it?
And he said, well, she neverused to squirt when we were
having sex, and now she squirtsall the time.
And I'm like, okay, well, thatspeaks volumes you know, and
then another guy said that hiswife just her eyes roll to the

(19:56):
back of her head when they'rehaving sex.
So I would love to talk to thewomen directly and for my
patients who have male partners,I would love to talk to their
male partners to understand theexperience.
But right now I'm kind ofgetting secondhand from my
patients.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
Yeah, and I wonder if there's two aspects of
improving sex that I imaginethat after a girth enhancement
there are two things that add toincreased pleasure and you can
tell me if I'm on the righttrack.
Number one, perhaps feelingmore full feels really good to

(20:40):
the woman.
I know there are a lot of womenwho enjoy that full feeling.
Even when it's a woman to womanand you're fingering, like
adding fingers, and even fisting, feels really good to them.
The vagina can really expand.
But I also imagine seeing yourpartner feel really confident

(21:04):
while having sex with you is aturn on.
There's something about that.
The increased confidence issexy in a partner and there's no
way that can't play into itimproving sex overall.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Absolutely.
That plays a big role.
I mean, ultimately, our brainis our largest sex organ and the
way that we feel aboutourselves plays a huge role, and
I hear that routinely from mypatients.
You think about what happensfor a man.
One of the first things that hedoes when he wakes up from
sleeping he goes to use therestroom and probably on his way

(21:43):
to peeing in the toilet he seeshis penis in the mirror right,
and the way that he feels abouthis penis for many men will
dictate how he goes about therest of his day and how he holds
his head on top of his neckright.
And so I hear from my patientsthat because they feel more
confident in their bodies, itjust helps with the sexual

(22:06):
experience.
What is another common concernfor men because we think only
women have these insecurities,but men obviously and it's
obvious from your conversationson your podcast that men have a
lot of insecurities themselvesis a lot of men are concerned
about retraction, so once theirpenis is erect, they're fine
with that.
They say I'm a grower, not ashower.

(22:27):
But what they can be veryself-conscious about is when
they're first getting excited.
Or they get out of a showerright, or they're nervous or
it's cold, their penis isretracted and it looks very
small.
And so we've also foundalthough we haven't studied this
in a scientific way, we've justheard it from our patients is

(22:48):
that when you put filler in thepenis a lot of guys have said,
my penis doesn't retract as much, and so that also plays into
the self-confidence.

Speaker 2 (22:58):
Interesting.
I found it interesting that yousaid that the way a man feels
about his penis can affect howhe basically walks throughout
the day, and so I want mylisteners to take note that,
again, one of my arguments aboutwhy sex is so important for us

(23:20):
to be talking about openly isbecause it doesn't just affect
us in the sexual realm, which alot of us compartmentalize,
we're like, oh, this onlyhappens at night or whatever in
bed.
That it affects how we movethrough the world and how we
interact with other people,right, and our overall mental
health, and I think that you'respeaking to this here, right,

(23:44):
this is affecting how thisperson feels about themselves
and everything they do, from thetime they wake up and see
themselves in the mirror andforward which is also true, I
mean women we feel the same way,right, and with men, how much
does body dysmorphia play intotheir insecurity about their

(24:07):
dick size?

Speaker 1 (24:09):
In my clinical practice I actually don't see a
lot of men who have bodydysmorphia, and I think part of
it is because the guys that Isee in my clinic are coming in
for falafel, which is atemporary solution.
So I just see I have just guyscoming in who have very
realistic expectations.
Two guys stand out, though, inmy clinical practice that I

(24:32):
would be concerned have bodydysmorphia, and those two guys
were actually coming in becausethey wanted a permanent solution
for penile augmentation orpenile enlargement, and in
meeting with those guys theywere willing to take on more
risk than my other patients.
They both had already undergoneseveral procedures for penile

(24:53):
enlargement, both of them hadissues with their prior
procedures and both of themwanted to take on more risk to
get a larger penis penis, and soif I were to do a questionnaire
for body dysmorphia which Ididn't do in either of those
cases I have no doubt they wouldhave both screened in.
I feel like it's just you cantell when you're meeting with

(25:15):
them.
In my clinic, when someone comesin for a procedure, I'm sitting
down with them for like 90minutes before I actually do a
procedure on them, so while in alot of clinics they might give
a body dysmorphia questionnaire.
That might save them timebecause I can talk with patients
for literally 60 to 90 minutes.

(25:35):
I'm able to tease out by simpleconversation whether or not
they have expectations or realissues that I will not be able
to solve, that they might needto see a therapist.
For when you look at theresearch, there is some research
looking at body dysmorphia andhow common it is.
So in one study that looked atguys who were coming in, they
were seeking penile girthaugmentation, they found that

(25:59):
about 11 to 14% of these men metthe diagnostic criteria for
having body dysmorphia.
But I think it depends this ismy gestalt is.
I think it depends on theclinic that a healthcare
provider like me is running andthe types of procedures that
we're offering.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Right, right.
So what are conditions that mencould have that would keep you
from being able to, or willingto, treat them for girth?

Speaker 1 (26:31):
So I would say two come to mind.
One is if someone has, let'ssay, had erectile dysfunction
for several years and they'venoticed that they've lost length
and girth, so it's which is alittle bit different from
someone coming in who has had asmaller penis than they would
have liked their entire adultlife.

(26:51):
Right, there's a differencethere between restoring size
that may have been lost and justalways being a certain size in
their adult life.
So if someone has lost size andthey're coming in for girth
enhancement, I actually broughtin that discussion about penile
rehabilitation strategies to seeif we can use different devices

(27:11):
like a vacuum erection deviceor a penis pump, like traction
therapy.
The Restorex device is a reallygreat device for penile
lengthening, so I actually mighthave someone do restorative
therapies to see if they can getthe size back that they may
have lost before I put filler in.
And the reason why I bring upthat conversation is because

(27:32):
once I put filler in they may nolonger be a candidate for using
a vacuum erection device or apenis pump.
We don't have research thattells us what a penis pump will
do to filler and it's possiblethat it could get the filler to
move or go away sooner.
So I'll talk to patients aboutthose options and I might have

(27:55):
them use a penis pump for threemonths before I bring them back
for girth enhancement to see ifthey can restore size that may
have been lost.
So that's one population ofguys and I've had that happen
for a few patients where theywill try other strategies before
coming in have been lost.
So that's one population ofguys and I've had that happen
for a few patients where theywill try other strategies before
coming in.
Now, not that I can't do girthenhancement when they come in, I
just want to see.
Hey, you know, in some ways Itry to save my patients money,

(28:18):
right, I mean, I'm a badsalesperson.
The other scenario is ifsomeone has a buried penis where
they're overweight and theyhave a lot of fat on top of
their pubic bone that's buryinga lot of their penis, I can sit
someone back in my proceduralchair and I can really expose
their penis and I can put fillerin the penis and it can look

(28:38):
amazing when they're laying back.
But, annette, what happens whenI get them out of the chair and
they stand up?
The penis will retract and thatcan cause the filler to move.
So if someone has a veryretractile penis or they're
overweight and they're buryingtheir penis.
That's where we would have areally comprehensive discussion
on ways to lose weight, get inbetter shape before I put filler

(29:02):
in to optimize their outcomes.

Speaker 2 (29:04):
So let's talk about the filler.
You've been talking aboutfiller.
This is one treatment foradding girth, correct?
What is this treatment?

Speaker 1 (29:16):
to be clear for my listeners, yeah, so let's get
into the details of filler.
I am a urologist, as Imentioned.
As a urologist, most of ourtraining is in urinary tract
infections, prostate health,kidney health and urinary
symptoms.
It's actually the minority ofurologists who are actually

(29:40):
passionate when it comes tosexual health.
Okay, so that's a minority ofus to begin with, and most of us
, even those who are passionateabout sexual health, actually do
not get training in cosmeticprocedures for the penis.
So for much of my career and mytraining, I was having a
similar conversation as many ofmy colleagues do with patients.

(30:01):
When they would ask is thereany way to get a longer or
girthier penis, we would tellthem there are no safe options.
But, annette, that is no longerthe case.
More technology is nowavailable.
So about three years ago, when Istarted my practice in Miami
Florida my own practice with mytwin sister I reached out to two
of my colleagues who were doinggirth enhancement through a
company called Falafel Because,just like a lay person, they're

(30:26):
not just going to go to anyprovider and give them a few
thousand dollars and trust thatthey're going to do the right
thing.
It's actually the same thingfor healthcare providers.
I selectively reach out tocolleagues to ask them for
advice.
Because if you reach out tosomeone and they have, you know
they're injecting whatever theywant into the penis.
They're not going to give mereal advice on actually what to

(30:46):
do in my clinic.
So I'm always, for me as ahealthcare provider, reaching
out to people like Trust in theField who are not going to
oversell something.
So I reached out to two of mycolleagues who were doing girth
enhancement and I said Alex,jonathan, what do you think
about the Falafel procedure?
And they said we love it andyou should do it too.
So I reached out to the companyFalafel, because they're
training urologists like mearound the country to do this

(31:08):
procedure, because in that wehave no other way of learning
how to do it.
The only time really in mosturology practices where we have
exposure to men who haveundergone penile augmentation
procedures is when it goes bad.
We see the complications.
So we get this perception inour mind that all penile

(31:28):
augmentation is bad, because ifsomeone is happy, they're not
going to come to us and say howhappy they were with the
procedure they had doneelsewhere.
So we get a very skewed versionof what's actually happening in
this space.
So I learned how to do thisprocedure.
It's we have no FDA approvedproducts when it comes to filler
in the penis, so that's veryimportant.

(31:49):
We use products off label inthe penis that are approved for
certain facial indications.
So it's the same filler that wemight put in the lips or in the
nasolabial folds or in thecheeks.
So, annette, not all filler iscreated equal.
I'm injecting hyaluronic acid.
Hyaluronic acid is normallypresent in our body, so for our

(32:12):
bodies it's not like an abnormalmolecule, it's a hydrating
molecule, it's a sugar moleculeokay, that we already have.
And these are two differentblocks of hyaluronic acid
because they have differentconsistencies.
So the one here that I'msqueezing is a lot softer to
squeeze.
And then in my other hand thisis harder to squeeze the

(32:35):
consistency of the filler that Iput in the penis is a little
bit softer.
So when you're squeezing theside of the penis that has
filler in, you can feel liketissue there, but it just feels
like tissue on the side of thepenis.
It doesn't feel like I injectedconcrete or cement-like
material on the side of thepenis.
So the type of filler that youput in matters.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Right, and so the one that you were squeezing, that
was the softer one that you putin.
It looks like it would be thesame consistency of what it
would feel like if I weresqueezing any cock.
Yeah, it feels natural.
It looks like it feels natural,at least from what I can see
over video.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Yeah, and a lot of guys, when they come in because
I think a lot of guys arewondering what's the average
person that you see that comesinto a clinic Like, what are
they saying, estimating theirsize of their penis to be in
terms of girth, and a lot ofguys will point to a three and a
half inch circumference.
So that's what this one lookslike right here, and a lot of

(33:40):
guys are interested in gettingan additional inch, which would
be 4.5.
So you can just see thedifference here that even an
inch increase is a huge increasein size.
Okay, now, in terms of where weinject the filler, a penis in
its natural state doesn't havean actual space to accommodate

(34:02):
the filler.
We have to create that space,all right.
So it's important to understandthe anatomy of the penis for
this discussion.
When it comes to the technique,and if you just look at this
cylinder block right here on thetop of the penis is where you
have the neurovascular bundle,lots of nerves, lots of blood
vessels, okay, so we typicallydon't inject on the top part of

(34:25):
the penis, although sometimes Iwill inject on the top.
On the bottom part of the penisis the urethra, that's the tube
that men urinate out of.
So when you think about anatomy, where we're typically focusing
, the filler is actually on thesides of the penis.
Okay, which makes sense,because when you look down at a
penis, it just looks thickerwhen you're looking down, right,

(34:47):
so you get the sides there.
Now some people will ask willthat make my penis look flat if
you're only injecting the sides?
Well, the answer is no, andthat's for a couple of reasons.
One is if we go back to anatomyand we see that the urethra is
on the bottom, that urethraltissue is very vascular and when

(35:08):
a man gets a full erection, youcan see the outline of the
urethra on the bottom and sothat engorges and creates more
of a cylinder of the penis.
The other very key point here,which is specific for fallow
fill, is that we use the fallowsleeve.
We put a sleeve on which is asoft silicone sleeve.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Okay, it's not like a hard she is holding holding one
up for my listeners.
I just want you to know againif this is really interesting to
you or something you want toknow more about.
Please go to the YouTubechannel at TalkSexWithAnette
because you can see that what asleeve looks like she's holding
it up.
It's cylinder, you know, likeyou could put it over your dick.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
That's a great way of describing it.
So we fit the sleeve dependingon the length and girth to the
penis and we just put it overthe penis here once we put the
filler in.
Okay, and this helps roundeverything out, and so the guys
will wear this consistently forthree weeks after each injection

(36:12):
procedure.
It helps minimize bruising,helps minimize swelling, helps
round out the tissue or thefiller that we put in, and
because as soon as the guy walksout of my clinic, what happens
to the penis?
It expands, it retracts, itmoves right and that can move
the filler, and so what happensis the glands or the tip of the
penis will actually sit outsideof this ridge, right here on the

(36:36):
sleeve, and it helps minimizethe penis from retracting.
So the other key part aboutthis sleeve is it minimizes
retraction to help keep thefiller in place.
And that's why you know again,not like, as I mentioned, not
all filler is created equal andnot all filler procedures and
post procedures are createdequal.

(36:57):
One of the reasons why we havesuch great cosmetic outcomes
after our protocol is becausewe're putting a lot of time,
effort and resources into whathappens after you put the filler
in.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Right?
Well, I will say this that isone thing we've never gone over
on this podcast is sort of thefull procedure, what it looks
like, and then the aftercare,which is important, and I do
think there's a lot ofinformation out there about
fillers that make them soundscary, whether you're someone
getting them injected into yourface or your cock, and so that

(37:32):
makes sense.
You've got sort of that safetynet in place.
And also I'd like you to verifymy understanding with this kind
of filler is you can also, ifit's injected and the person
doesn't like it or wants less,you can go in and dissolve it,
correct?

Speaker 1 (37:52):
Yeah.
So the biggest concern that mypatients have when they see me
they don't want to regret theirdecision having seen me Because
again they're coming in.
They don't have a disease, theyhave a normal penis that they
want to enhance, and the lastthing they want to do is mess up
their normal penis.
That was a very electiveprocedure from the get-go, and

(38:17):
so what they like about thefalafel procedure and using
hyaluronic acid is that it iscompletely reversible.
And it's actually reallyinteresting because when I think
about all the differentprocedures that I offer as a
urologist, that all of mycolleagues offer as urologists,
I cannot think of anotherprocedure that is 100%

(38:39):
reversible.
Even you think about avasectomy, which is a very
common procedure that we do forsomeone who no longer wants to
have children.
I mean, true, you can reverse avasectomy, but it's not going
to be the same and you're notgoing to have the same outcomes
in terms of fertility potentialfor someone who never had a
vasectomy, whereas my patientslove that I can dissolve this

(39:01):
medication if I need to.
I've never had someone wantthat, but I can if I need to,
and that provides peace of mindfor patients.
There is no price you can puton peace of mind.

Speaker 2 (39:14):
Right and this gives me a great opportunity to
address a listener comment thatI did not publish.
One thing that has it's beensaid more than once, but usually
not very politely, so you don'tget published is what you know.
All of this conversation aboutpenis enhancement, so on and so

(39:39):
forth, I had a listener say well, you don't hear people talking
about doing that for women.
Look, guys, this is a procedurethat is in line with the
procedures we've been doing andI would call them gender
affirming procedures.
These are gender affirmingprocedures If we want to talk

(40:04):
about that we've been talkingabout with women for a long time
.
Breast enhancements those havebeen I mean, I don't know, I
grew up with those booming,although different than this
kind of procedure, but all oflike the things women are doing
with their faces, and now mentoo, although I would venture to
guess it started with women,and women do them more.

(40:26):
You know, putting filler intheir face, in their lips.
This is just an option for men,who are all so unhappy with
their physical appearance, andit happens to be the sexual
organ that makes them feel manlyor more like the more sexually

(40:48):
virile version of themselves,just like women sometimes want
bigger boobs, because it makesthem feel more feminine and sexy
in that way.
Now there's an option for men,and that is what I've addressed
here on the show.
There are options for peoplewho want to feel more like the

(41:11):
person that they believethemselves to be right, or want
to feel more confident in bed,and this is what the option
gives them.
So it is not always just aboutmen In our society, women are
doing this too, and we've talkedabout it a lot.
This is now us giving men theinformation and kind of the

(41:34):
affirmation that is look, ifyour sex life is being ruined by
this, whether it's because ofhow you feel about yourself,
it's your own stuff, or it'sbecause it's really affecting
your sex life and and you wantto have a better sex life,
there's an option for it.
I'm not pushing it here.

(41:55):
I'm just giving you options.
I'm learning about this alongwith you folks.
I'm not a urologist, you know.
I just know the things that arehurting people's sex life and
ability to have pleasure.
Yeah, so that's what we'retalking about here.
I would like to address arethere specific conditions, like

(42:19):
medical conditions, where girthenhancement is a solution?
But beyond sort of the ego andconfidence, do you use these
fillers for certain medicalconditions.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
That's a really good question.
First of all, I want to reallyI want to go back really quickly
.
I just I love how you justverbalize everything that you
just said.
I love how you spoke about thisbeing gender affirming care.
Like, as a men's healthspecialist, pretty much
everything that I do is genderaffirming care.
It helps men feel moremasculine in their bodies, and

(42:54):
not in a toxic way, but in a letme celebrate myself as a man
type of way, you know, and Ithink that's a really beautiful
thing for a lot of men, and mygoal is not to make every man
feel like he needs a biggerpenis, but obviously there are
men that are concerned, and sowe're just giving them the safe
option.
So I love that you said thatand can.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
I let me just chime in.
I have been in relationshipswith men who are insecure about
their penis size and sex withthem was miserable.
And I'm going to tell you why.
I was fine with the penis.
I probably wouldn't have evenlike considered the size.

(43:36):
I was fine with the penis.
I probably wouldn't have evenconsidered the size.
I was really into the person.
Their size was fine.
I hadn't noticed it, but what Istarted to notice was how much
they brought it up.
And then every time we had sex,if I didn't have an orgasm,
there was this like commentsabout size.
I had to do all of thisreassuring all the time and look

(43:58):
, I'm all about reassuring, butit made it so suddenly I felt
like, oh my God, even if Iwasn't in a place where I could
have an orgasm, I wanted to fakethe orgasm because I didn't
want to.
You know I don't want to spendtime after sex.
You know that.
You know, in this bad place Iwant it to be fun, I want sex to
be fun, and of course it wasn'tfun for them because they were

(44:19):
worried the whole time.
But it really like.
I look back at some people whoI was very like, at least one
who I was definitely in lovewith, and I ended up just
dreading sex with them becausethey were so insecure about
their dick size.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
You and I have both had that experience right when
we're with someone who feelsconfident about their body, they
are more fun to have sex withhands down, and I don't need a
research study to tell me that'sthe case.
We know from our personalexperience.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
Right, regardless of size, if you show up and you're
confident in bed, you could havea small penis.
But if you show up and you'rejust like really confident about
what you bring to the bed, thegal is probably not going to
notice nor care about the dicksize.
Even if she does notice it, shemight be like I don't care,
like this is good, right.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
Yeah.
Confidence is sexy.
Confidence is everything.
Confidence is so sexy and soarousing, like, I think, more
than anything else.
So, to answer your questionabout other medical conditions,
so there are actually a couplewhere filler can improve.
I see guys who come in withpremature ejaculation and so

(45:29):
they might orgasm even beforethey penetrate their partner or
within you know, 30 seconds or aminute of penetration.
And you might wonder well,wouldn't putting filler in?
That would then lead to morefriction and increased
sensitivity?
Wouldn't that make prematureejaculation worse?
And it's interesting because itdoesn't seem to do that.

(45:51):
We haven't studied this, but Iask all of my patients who are
coming in and we talk about this, you know, as part of this
comprehensive discussion beforeI do filler if they want to last
longer, and what I've seenacross the board is they're able
to last longer.
My guess is they're moreconfident, and so that
confidence allows them to havemore control over their body,

(46:15):
and I don't know how else toexplain it.
The other condition that I seeis delayed ejaculation, and
delayed ejaculation is one ofthe most complex conditions I
treat, in part because we don'thave a definition for it,
because a lot of young guyswould love to be able to last 30
minutes in bed.
But then you take a guy who's75 years old and lasting 30

(46:45):
minutes in bed is way too longbecause he doesn't have the
stamina or the energy to last 30minutes.
So the definition is highlyvariable depending on who the
person is and the stage of theirlife.
But for a lot of people, asthey get older, their genitals
become less sensitive.
We know that for women, youknow, a lot of us need more
stimulation, like a vibrator onthe clitoris to climax, and the

(47:07):
reality is a lot of men needthat as well.
We just and we haven't made itas socially acceptable for men
to bring in other products intothe bedroom to increase their
stimulation, like we have forwomen.
So as men get older, whatoftentimes happens to the penis?
It gets smaller, he loseslength, he loses girth.

(47:28):
It could be due to Peroni'sdisease or scar tissue that
forms in the penis.
It could be due to erectiledysfunction that the tissue
changes and the penis getssmaller.
And what happens to the femaleif we're talking about a
heterosexual relationship?
Well, look, if she's hadchildren, the tissue can become
more lax and the elephants inthe room that so few people you
know are talking about are like,if you can't feel your partner,

(47:50):
if the woman can't feel the manand the man can't feel the
woman, damn, it's going to behard to orgasm, right, you know,
and you don't want to say thatto your partner, like I don't
think anyone wants to say totheir partner hey babe, are you
in?
I can't really feel you.
But I don't know, I'm not goingto speak for you.
I've been in this scenariowhere, when a guy is losing an

(48:21):
erection, you can't really feelit.
Yeah, yeah, I think we've allbeen there, you know.
And so sometimes you just needto increase the friction, and
that's where, if you increasethe size of the penis and then
both people can feel it more, itdoesn't take a rocket scientist
to understand.
Both people are then going toenjoy it more.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Right, yep, there you go, guys.
The unsaid thing that a lot ofwomen don't say is is it in yet,
or is it still in?

Speaker 1 (48:43):
But the interesting thing and gosh, you know, even
as a sexual medicine specialistI've never had this conversation
at like a scientific meetingwith my colleagues.
But obviously there aredifferent positions that both
men and women like more thanothers because they feel it more
, and there are other positionswhere they just don't feel it as
much.

Speaker 2 (49:02):
What positions require girth?
Like, if you don't have thegirth, they aren't going to be
as fun.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
Oh gosh, that's a good question, you know, I don't
.
I don't know the answer to thatquestion.

Speaker 2 (49:18):
I was thinking that.
Oh, I know one like if you arelaying down like the spooning
laying down there behind you,you got to have some length and
and you got a little.
Have a little fatty going onthere, you know.

Speaker 1 (49:36):
The thing is it depends for men and women.
You know the positions thatfeel good for one may not feel
good for the other.
But I think the reasonobviously why certain positions
feel better is because,depending on the angle and the
body, you know, you just havemore friction on that more
sensitive area of the genitals.
Again, that's not rocketscience, but when do we actually
have those conversations withour partners of like, hey, in

(50:00):
this position, do you feelanything?
And it's not even like thequestion of like, does that feel
amazing or does that feel great?
It could be the difference oflike I don't know if you're in
versus that feels like neutral,like no one's talking about that
part of it.

Speaker 2 (50:18):
I mean, that's always awkward when, like I've
definitely have you ever hadthis happen, when you're having
sex with someone and you're likeyou know, you felt it like they
were really hard and then maybebecause, a penis will get
harder and softer throughout sex, and then they're still
pounding away or even speedingup and you're like, is it still

(50:39):
in there?
They're pounding away faster andthey seem frenzied, but I'm not
sure what's going on.
And I'm a small girly.
Here's the thing.
I know, I know it's not me.
My problem is quite theopposite.
Like I can't handle big.
So when I start to not feel it,I'm like are they just, have

(51:01):
they gone limp?
And they don't want to sayanything, so they're trying to
get it going again.
I do also know, and we do havea podcast on soft cocks, and
soft cocks can come and feelpleasure, but have you ever
experienced that?

Speaker 1 (51:19):
Oh yeah, 100% yeah.

Speaker 2 (51:21):
We never talk about that.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
It has to do with the size, it has to do with the
rigidity.
You know a lot of guys.
You know what I see in mypractice.
Obviously I see a ton oferectile dysfunction.
And so, guys, you know,especially as they get older,
they have like a limited periodof time where they know they can
maintain the erection.
So why are they going superfast?
Cause it's like if they losethe erection completely they're

(51:43):
out of the game.
And as they get older itbecomes more difficult to get
that erection back.
And if they know once they losethe erection they're not
getting it back Like they mayhave when they were 19 years old
, they're really trying to getthe job done right.
Even if they have, like apartially erect penis and yeah,
so that could be completelyseparate from the size of the

(52:05):
penis it's just not fully erect.
So whenever these guys arecoming in for penile enhancement
, we are absolutely addressingerectile function, because if I
make a penis bigger but he's notfully erect, I'm not really
optimizing his sexual health.
So we're definitely doing bothat once and I want that penis
erect as possible whenever he'shaving sex right, yeah, yeah, we

(52:28):
all, we all do, buddy, we alldo.
we want it as erect as possiblewhen you're having sex and the
good news for everything thatwe're talking about today is we
have solutions for everything,and my job, my goal as a
urologist, is not to createproblems where they don't exist,
right, you know, and so I'llbring up, oh, any concerns
regarding getting or maintainingerections, and if someone says

(52:49):
no, like we move on.
But oftentimes it opens up theconversation where they may not
have brought it up, becausemaybe it's not a problem all the
time, but maybe one in 10 timesit is a problem, but one in 10
times is still significant,right?
All it takes is one in 10 tohave a bad experience that will
dictate how he interacts withhis partner for the next 10

(53:10):
times they have sex, right?
So my job is, if someone wantsto talk about any of these
sexual health issues whetherit's getting erections,
maintaining erections, length,girth, sensation of orgasm,
ejaculation, volume of ejaculatelike, we tackle everything,
because now we actually havesolutions for every one of those
things.

Speaker 2 (53:29):
There's so much shame shame that keeps people from
asking for help or talking aboutor telling Like we were just
sitting here, kind of jokingabout how we've been in sexual
situations where someone'spounding away at us and we're
just like what is happening andof course, it's hard to say in
that moment to someone becausewe don't want to make them feel
ashamed.
So anything that can.

(53:52):
When it comes to your sexualhealth, I have to say and I'm
sure you'll back up it's soimportant that you are able to
talk to your provider aboutwhat's going on, and if shame is
keeping you from doing that, itcan keep you from finding out
you could have a condition thatis detrimental to your health

(54:12):
and dangerous for your health.
I have a whole podcast on likepenises being this sort of.
You know it can be an alarm forunderlying health conditions
that are severe and also we'vetalked about this in women.
So it's important that shame isnot keeping you from talking to

(54:33):
specialists, your partner andgetting the help you need.
So we're out of time, but Iwant you to give my listeners
just a quick, like the quick toptips.
If they're feeling insecureabout their penis and they want
some help, what are some thingsthey can start doing day
tomorrow to figure out what'sgoing to be the best solution

(54:56):
for themselves.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
One thing I do want to mention because we do
actually have data on this, andthis addresses one of your
earlier questions aboutself-confidence.
We did a survey of over 400 ofour falafel patients and like 70
, let's see 80% said that theirself-confidence and overall
wellbeing after filler wasbetter or much better than 80%

(55:20):
of men.
We know that from a surveystudy.
And then, in terms of howfiller has impacted partner
satisfaction during intimacy andagain this is asking the person
who had filler, not the partnerthemselves, is, let's see, over
70% said better or much better.
So we do.
It hasn't been published, butwe do have some survey data that

(55:42):
answers kind of both of thosequestions related to partner
satisfaction and self-confidence.
So, to answer this last question, I would tell patients or
people interested is one staycurious, go down the rabbit
holes online.
Oftentimes it's healthcareproviders when our patients come
in and they said okay, Iapologize.

(56:03):
I went on Dr Google and Ilooked this up.
I had a patient earlier todaythat said I had some
conversations with chat GPT andthat's how I ultimately found
you and I said I love that.
I love when my patients haveconversations with a chat GPT
because it gives them afoundation of knowledge from
which they can then come to myoffice and face-to-face, we can

(56:25):
have a very meaningfulconversation.
It means they know thequestions to ask.
When patients come in which israre in my current clinic and I
ask them are there any questions?
I can answer for you.
Annette, I worry about thepatients who say I don't have
any questions.
It means they don't understandwhat we're talking about,

(56:48):
because everyone should havequestions, because no one like
me is amazing at explainingeverything.
That eliminates all questions.
So I will ask my patients haveyou gone down a lot of rabbit
holes online?
Have you looked at Reddit,different forums, what questions
do you have?
It means they've done someresearch, especially when it

(57:09):
comes to penile augmentation.
I don't think any of thesepeople should ever show up to a
doctor's office not doing any oftheir research.
So I encourage that and,honestly, where else are they
going to learn about it?
It's not often in textbooks,it's not on TV shows, like it is
for women and cosmetic surgery.
So really, the big way forpeople to learn about this is

(57:32):
online, and I think that's okay.
We should encourage people tolearn from their peers.
With that being said, you gottatake that with a grain of salt,
you're gonna see the best andthe worst cases.
So you just have to understandthe spectrum of what people are
going to report online.
That's one thing.
Number two doctor shop.
A lot of healthcare providersget offended by patients calling

(57:55):
their offices and doctorshopping.
A lot of healthcare providersget offended by patients calling
their offices and doctorshopping.
I encourage it.
I have patients calling myoffice all the time to ask about
my accessibility, theprocedures I offer, the price.
That is transparency at itsfinest.
I want my patients, when theyschedule a visit, to know
exactly what they're going toget when they show up to my
clinic.
I don't want to waste theirtime.
I hope that all of my patients,when they schedule a visit, to

(58:15):
know exactly what they're goingto get when they show up to my
clinic.
I don't want to waste theirtime.
I hope that all of my patientsthat see me have found a
provider with whom they feelcomfortable talking about such a
taboo topic with.
I understand that, annette,that a lot of men may not feel
comfortable talking about thiswith a woman, and I take no
personal offense if he wouldprefer to speak about these

(58:36):
issues with a man, you know.
So that's why I do a lot ofstuff online, because I want
people to see how I talk, what Ilook like, what my message is.
So when they actually come andthey visit with me, they know
they've chosen the right personeven before they schedule that
visit Right.
And number three, I would say,is decide your risk aversity.

(58:57):
Okay, I am very risk averse.
So the way that I counsel mypatients on interventions, for
anything that I offer mypatients is not based on its
effectiveness.
It's not based on a treatment'sefficacy.
It is based on its safetyprofile.
If there is a very effectivetreatment but I can hurt my

(59:20):
patient, and especially if Ican't fix it, if the treatment
hurts them, I cannot offer themthat solution.
But if I offer a treatment likefalafel with the hyaluronic
acid, that is not going to be apermanent solution, it's not
going to last forever, but if Icannot hurt my patient and if it

(59:40):
has an incredible safetyprofile, then I am going to
offer that solution.
So I know for myself I am veryrisk averse and patients need to
understand that for themselvestoo is how much risk are they
willing to take for a particularprocedure, especially when it
comes to penile enhancement?

Speaker 2 (59:58):
Well, there you go, guys.
That's got you set up to go Godo your homework.
If this particular topic hasbeen on your mind, as I know it
has been for so many of mylisteners Now can you tell
everybody where they can findyou?

Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
Yes, so the best places to find me.
My clinical practice is calledPrime Institute.
We're located in the MiamiFlorida area, if you have a
bunch of people that fly in, soI'm very close, about 20 minutes
away from Miami InternationalAirport.
People can fly in and out thesame day if they decide.
So that's primeinstituteus, andyou can just submit an inquiry
online if you want to schedulean appointment, and then I have

(01:00:35):
a lot of content on my YouTubechannel and you can find me at
at doc, doc Amy urology.
Those are the two best places.

Speaker 2 (01:00:45):
Fantastic.
Thank you so much.
So, folks, everyone deserves tolove their bodies.
Everyone deserves to have apleasure-filled life with their
partner and feel good abouttheir role in that.
Now I want, like Dr Amy does,everybody to love their body as

(01:01:06):
it is.
But we know the reality in thissociety.
Sometimes it's a little bithard.
So if you are struggling, thereare options.
I hope that you know that nowand you can do your research and
then decide how you want tomove forward.
But the bottom line is pleasureis your birthright.
Loving yourself and self-loveis your birthright and you

(01:01:30):
deserve to have access towhatever care you need to claim
it.
So if you have questions for meor for the doctor, you know, go
to YouTube.
You can scroll down and leave acomment below.
I will do my best to get yourcomments or questions addressed.
You can email me at Annette atTalkSexWithAnnettecom.

(01:01:53):
You can scroll down to thecomment section below or the
description below.
You're going to find my speakpipe there.
You can send me a voicemail.
I am actually going to belaunching a regular series where
I just answer your questions inlittle shorty audios and videos
so that all of those questionsbecause I get so many of them, I

(01:02:14):
can get at least some of themanswered for you.
So go ahead, send me yourquestions.
I'm going to get you theanswers to the best of my
ability.
I'm looking forward to them.
So until next time, listeners.
I will see you in the lockerroom and thank you again, dr Amy
Cheers.

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