The Sex Position For Her Orgasm (Most Men Skip)

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Most men go straight for missionary, or cowgirl—and completely miss the one position that practically hands her an orgasm on a silver platter.

In this episode, I’m walking you through the best sex position you’re probably not using—and exactly why it works. We’re talking G-spot access, A-spot pressure, clit contact without a circus of props or acrobatics.

You’ll get:

• The science behind why this angle turns her on
• Step-by-step breakdown of how to set it up
• Tips for keeping her in that “right there—don’t stop” zone
• What to say when she’s on the edge (and how not to screw it up)

Whether you’re using a cock or a toy, this move delivers—and it just might become her new favorite. If you want to give her the kind of sex that makes her melt into the sheets and text her best friend about it, press play.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:19):
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Where desire meets disruptionand pleasure becomes power.
Now let's talk about sex Cheers.
Today's Talk Sex for the Nettopic is the best sex position
for her orgasm.

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You know what blows my mindwhen a woman tells me I didn't
know sex could feel that good.
And no, she's not talking aboutbondage or toys or some
marathon oral session.
She's talking about a singleposition, one position that
changes everything, the kindthat leaves her breathless and

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begging for more and wonderingwhy no one ever showed her this
before.
Today I am going to be breakingdown the one position most
people overlook or think isn'tthat important.
That is one of the mostorgasm-friendly moves out there.
It's not fancy, it's notcomplicated, but it hits the G

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spot, the A spot, keeps clickcontact going and builds way
more connection than the olddoggy, missionary cowgirl
routine If you want to give herthe kind of sex she'll be
thinking about tomorrow and thenext day and the next day and
texting her friends about behindyour back in a good way.

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Then keep listening, and I wantto remind you that I am over on
OnlyFans and there I am sharingmy sex and intimacy how-tos,
demonstrations and audio-guidedself-pleasure meditations and so
much more all designed to helpyou improve your sex and
intimacy life and pleasure.
Starting tonight, I'm also overon Supstack where I am sharing

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a lot of the same and so muchmore.
You can find me in both placeswith my handle at
TalkSexWithAnette and, of course, you can scroll down to the
notes section in the descriptionof this episode, and you're
going to find links to whereveryou want to find me below.
But for now, let's get ready todive into the one sex position

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that is going to give her all ofthe orgasms she's ever wanted.
Let's get ready to talk aboutsex Cheers.
So I want to start by talkingabout the science of why this
position works.
Let's get clinical for a second, but make it sexy.
According to research in theJournal of Sexual Medicine, 70%

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of women need both literalstimulation plus internal
stimulation to reach orgasm,especially intense orgasm.
Add to that the G-spot sitsabout 1.5 to 2 inches just
inside the front vaginal wall.
The A-spot is deeper, just pastthe cervix, along the same wall

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, and fast friction and heavythrusting, well, it actually
numbs those nerve endings overtime.
So to unlock her orgasmpotential, well, you need angled
, intentional, pressure-basedstrokes that stimulate those
zones without overwhelming them.

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Enter the modified pillow doggy,also known as deep angle rear
entry with clit access position.
That's a long name, so we'regoing to stick with modified
pillow doggy.
Let's get into how to do it.
Here's my step-by-step.
You can head over to myOnlyFans page for a

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demonstration and a more visualrepresentation of this position,
and it will be up in the nextweek or two for you.
But for now let's start with thesetup.
Lay her on her stomach with herchest low on the bed, hips
elevated, with a firm pillow ora couple of pillows under her
pelvis.

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Her knees should be slightlyapart, but her thighs mostly
together.
This tightens the channel andpresses her vaginal wall right
into your shaft or the toyyou're using, if you're using a
toy.
So why this matters?
It changes the angle, so yourpenis or toy strokes upward into

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her G-spot and A-spot area.
No jackhammer needed.
Step two enter slowly andanchor yourself, so you're going
to slide in slowly, with lotsof lube, of course.
Place one hand on her lowerback or reach forward to hold
her hand or wrist, depending onwhether you're going for a

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tender or dominant energy.
The other hand, it's free toreach around and stimulate her
clit.
This is your moment to own therhythm.
Step three is finding the sweetspot and then staying there.
Once you're in use.
Shallow upward strokes likeslow motion, grinding, not full

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pull out thrusts.
Think of it like giving her aG-spot massage from the inside.
Use your hips or your arm ifyou're using a toy, not your
entire body.
Here's a pro tip when shestarts to moan or push back,
don't speed up, even though Iknow you're going to want to

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stay at that pace and let herbuild.
Step four you're going to layerclitoral stimulation.
Use your fingers or a smallvibe to reach around and
stimulate her clit while youmove inside of her.
Better yet, have her touchherself while you're deep inside
her.
That combo of internal pressure, clit touch and feeling your

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control is the magic cocktail.
Step five, and one of the mostimportant steps, is pay
attention to the signs.
When her back arches, herthighs squeeze or she starts
grinding back into you.
You're there, lock in.
Give her permission to go overthe edge by staying consistent.

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Don't speed up.
We're staying consistent.
This is the moment people oftenrush, especially men and people
with penises, and I know you'reexcited too, but you gotta stay
consistent and not speed up.
Instead, say something likeright there, I've got you, and

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hold through the release.
So why does this position hitdifferent, even though it's very
close to traditional doggy?
This isn't just a position.
It's a rewiring how you thinkabout sex.
It's not about going harder,it's about going smarter.
It's about understanding herbody, taking control in a way

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that makes her surrender andgiving her a new reference point
for what deep pleasure feelslike.
And I am here to tell you thatdeep pleasure and orgasms that
come from deep pleasure,stimulation.
They are unforgettable and willdefinitely make you think again

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and again about the person whois part of making that happen
for you.
Look, most people, especiallymen, skip this move because it's
not flashy.
But that's exactly why it works.
It's intimate, it's slow burn,it lets her body talk and gives
you a front row seat to thefireworks.

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Here's my challenge to you forthis week Try this position,
Follow the steps, but here's therule you do all the adjusting,
don't make her work.
Let her be a pillow princess.
You lift her hips, you slowdown your rhythm, you find her
sound and move toward them, andwhen she orgasms, don't speed up

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.
Stay with her, let it ripple.
This is going to be as intenseand as satisfying for you as it
is for her, I promise.
Then, when you're done, comeback and thank me, or, better
yet, send this to your bestfriend to make sure they get it
right too, friend, to make surethey get it right too.

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If this episode got you hot,curious or ready to upgrade your
sex game, hit subscribe, leavea comment and send this to
someone who needs to up theirbedroom IQ.
And if you would like somepersonalized support in your own
pleasure journey, a wing woman,if you will, a cheerleader,
someone who's going to help youeither with your partner or
experience more pleasure in yourown body.

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My sex and intimacy coachingbooks are open.
You can book an appointmentwith me by reaching out to me at
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You can find out more about mycoaching services at
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.
Shoot me a comment, a thought,a question.

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Until next time, I'll see youin the locker room.

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Folks, cheers, ring loop.