Should You Tell Your Friend Their Partner Is Cheating?

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What would you do if you caught your friend’s partner cheating? 👀 In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t, we dive deep into one of the hardest moral questions out there — should you tell your friend the truth or stay out of their relationship drama?

I break down both sides: loyalty vs. boundaries, proof vs. drama, and how “doing the right thing” can sometimes backfire. We talk about trust, consequences, and what happens when honesty destroys friendships.

Whether you’ve been in this situation or fear you might be one day, this episode will make you think twice before getting involved in somebody else’s mess.

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:05):
You, you, and you.
You, you, you two.
Now, let's talk about it.
What up, what up, what up, whatup?
It's your boy, Big Slick, andwelcome to another episode of
Talk Your Shit.
Check it out.

(00:26):
We got another great episodetoday, but first, let me give a
shout out to all the listeners.
Whether you at home, at work, inyour car, all the truck drivers
on the road tuning in.
I appreciate you.
Look, we got another letter thatcame in.
Somebody emailed in to the Let'sTalk About It letter.

(00:47):
I'm gonna read it.
Then I'm gonna give you myhonest opinion on it.
Uncut, you already know how Ido.
I'm gonna talk my shit.
So, without further ado, let'sjump right up in this letter
real quick.
All right, should you tell afriend their partner is
cheating?
Uh, let's see how this goes.

(01:09):
I saw my best friend'sgirlfriend out with another man.
I have proof, but I know it willcause chaos.
Chaos.
Should I tell them or stay outof it?
It's a good question.
Should you tell or stay out ofit?
Look, so you out.
Let me let me see.

(01:29):
Let me paint this picture.
So you out, you chilling, orwhatever.
You see your homeboy'sgirlfriend out with another
dude, right?
And you say you got proof, soyou must be was out there taking
pictures of doing something.
You got your TMZ on out thismotherfucker.

(01:50):
You out here snapshotting shit.
But I'm I'm saying though, allright, let's get back to it.
Serious, it's serious.
So you out there takingpictures, right?
So you see it.
So now you like, should I gotell my best friend?
The key word in here is bestfriend, right?

(02:11):
If it's your best friend, whywouldn't you tell?
You should let them know.
Now I know the situation can goeither way, but you said your
best friend.
Now, come on, if it's your bestfriend, again, you should let
him know.
But you said this might causechaos.

(02:32):
So it's either if you feel thatway, that means your best friend
must be crazy over hisgirlfriend, go crazy over his
girlfriend, and he can't seeclear when it comes to her, and
he's in denial already.
So it must be some type of proofthat he done showed you already
that he's in some type of denialwith this girl, and she out here

(02:54):
doing something strange for apiece of change.
You know what I'm saying?
But he's acting crazy.
So, but again, if it's your bestfriend, fuck it, let the dude
know because the worst thingthat's gonna happen is this this
is the worst thing that canhappen.
Check this scenario.
So you out, you see her, yougetting your TMZ on.
She might have peeped you outthere, you know.

(03:17):
I'm saying she sees you seeingher, right?
And you don't tell.
So now when this shit blows up,because it will, and when it
blows up and it all comes out,what's she gonna say?
Oh, your boy saw me, but heain't tell you.
So, what type of boy he is?
Now it done backfired on you.

(03:39):
You know what I'm saying?
Now your best friend is gonnalook at you like you're crazy
and go, man, you knew aboutthis.
You know what's what's going on,and you ain't say nothing.
What if your friend mess aroundand marry this girl?
And it ain't his girlfriend, youall in the wedding and
everything, you the best man,you know what I'm saying?

(03:59):
But you already saw her rockingwith somebody else, and she's
still rocking with that person.
How can you live with yourselfdoing that, man?
You know that that's that'scrazy.
So the bottom line is you shouldtell your best friend.
If that's your best friend,regardless if his feelings are
gonna get hurt, if he's gonnacry, who cares?

(04:22):
He'll get over it, but nottelling them is probably the
worst thing you can do.
Now, my opinion, if it was me, Iwould tell my best friend.
But I know in differentsituations, shit work different,
you know.
I'm saying it just work, itmight play out different, you
know.
I'm saying, if this was a agirlfriend seeing um, you know,

(04:47):
another dude out with anothergirl, she goes tell a girlfriend
that might play out different.
You know, a girlfriend might belike, Oh, you lying, and you
know, whatever.
I don't know.
I don't know how that plays out,but I know the male point of
view, and that's what I'm givingyou.
You should tell your friend thathis girl is out here turning
tricks, man.

(05:08):
What the fuck is going on, bro?
Tell him, call him now.
What's the number?
You should have put the numberon the letter.
I'd have hollered at him andsaid, Yo, your girl on the
block, don't yo, what's going onhere, bro?
Listen, tell him, man, as soonas possible.
You already know what it is.
This was an easy letter for me.
This is this is in and out likea robbery.

(05:31):
It's big slick.
This has been another greatepisode of talk your shit.
Now, if you got a letter likethis one and other ones, write
in to the talk your shit letter.
How you do that?
You email me at talk your shitdaily at gmail.com.

(05:52):
That's talk your shit daily atgmail.com.
What I will do is pull youremail, read it on the show, give
you my honest, uncut,unfiltered, raw opinion, whether
you like it or not, becausethat's what I do.

(06:13):
I talk my shit again.
It's been another great episodeof talk your shit.
I'm big slick and I'm out.
Peace.